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BrighterSyde: 5:03pm On Dec 11, 2023
Fountainofyouth:
Op is funny,

If your wife is cheating, she will never ever talk about the man she's cheating with all the time, you won't even know he exists, so stop with the unnecessary assumption.

As always. That natural tendency in females to females without much deeper thinking. And the message they exchanged where the man says she should come so they make babies coupled with the reply doesn’t mean anything right?

She’s cheating already albeit emotionally but she believes she’s doing nothing wrong hence her freedom in talking about him to her husband.

The question is will something not happen if they continue or are left alone? Stop this soft spot for women when they are obviously wrong.

Maybe when you get married one day and your husband invites a woman over and she gives that reply you will think nothing of it. I pity you.

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nairayouthcom(m): 5:05pm On Dec 11, 2023
Zonefree:
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Someone told your beloved wife to come so they can make babies together and you still need someone to help you decode what that means undecided

I pity you in advance. Accept my sympathy.



I Dey tell u
Na this opps head full not his wife hands this time around
nairayouthcom(m): 5:08pm On Dec 11, 2023
mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only

Hope u screenshot and keep as evidence number 1-100 sha?
amadiama(m): 5:08pm On Dec 11, 2023
Fountainofyouth:



Most of you don't even work to know how work environment is, when someone is close to a man, or trying to over joke, you people say alot of rubbish

And yes women defending women. And so far, she said she can't, so what exactly is the stress?


A mature responsible woman would and should know her boundaries!!!... Please stop trying to defend her..so wat about the exchange of pix..selfie..it's only a matter of time she cheats if she hasn't already..
Xkale1996(m): 5:11pm On Dec 11, 2023
mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only
you well so

That's why Muslim men make

Hardly u go see der wife dey go work or comot anyhow


Guy ur wife is a bitch

Always talking about him nawa o

If na me na ur papa house u go Sit down
CrossRhodes: 5:12pm On Dec 11, 2023
Fountainofyouth:
Op is funny,

If your wife is cheating, she will never ever talk about the man she's cheating with all the time, you won't even know he exists, so stop with the unnecessary assumption.
Not true...

This exact scenario played out in our office.
The woman was always telling her husband about her new HOD(navy officer), she started lying about after work duties and weekend ish at the office.

Summary, they started fucking and when the whole thing blow, it was nasty with all the chats and all, the husband was able to get from her phone.
It was grace of God the officer was not dismissed.

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amadiama(m): 5:12pm On Dec 11, 2023
Fountainofyouth:



Most of you don't even work to know how work environment is, when someone is close to a man, or trying to over joke, you people say alot of rubbish

And yes women defending women. And so far, she said she can't, so what exactly is the stress?

I even blame the woman not d colleague cos if she had carried herself properly the guy wouldn't have d guts to say such..as a married woman you should set boundaries...to even buttress my point she didn't even rebuke d guy or remind him she's married instead she said his hands are full..can imagine!!!...

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Xkale1996(m): 5:14pm On Dec 11, 2023
mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only
chairman na ash u marry o

Omo once a Muslim lady is married


She will stop communicating with any man except her blood brother


Omo u have to wake up

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phenylalanine(m): 5:17pm On Dec 11, 2023
mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only
While we were growing up my Dad used to say a boy and a girl are not supposed to be friends, talkless of a married woman and a colleague, am sorry but this type of thing is common in the SW. Becareful how you handle it, make your stand known no matter what let her stay off the guy, what rubbish

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Akanoaaa(m): 5:18pm On Dec 11, 2023
If there is any child or children btw you and her, go and do DNA.

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DestinyNigga: 5:20pm On Dec 11, 2023
mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only

Pursue the idiot out of ur house before she carry HIV give u. I wonder what some women are looking for. They will see good man and be looking for wetin wey no dey look them.

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phenylalanine(m): 5:21pm On Dec 11, 2023
Daniel7543:
I tire for the op. I no understand the kind of men wey dey dis generation. E wife dey chat dirty with her colleague nd E dey here dey ask jamb question. if na me I for don go her papa house go collect back the bride price nd then kick her out of my house.
Collect bride price after you don knack and una don even get kids, u go return the girl the way she be wen u marry her o
amadiama(m): 5:26pm On Dec 11, 2023
virginchaser:
So many writers here are not in touch with reality. Several times i had long distance female friends that i haven't seen before but we exchanges dirty write up.
Not with a married woman...it's only a matter of time the deed will be done..
DrAda(f): 5:35pm On Dec 11, 2023
Akalia:
In my experience with women, when a woman sends selfie to a guy on request she is really into that guy.

It is even possible that they both make errotic video/audio calls on WhatsApp and thereafter she deletes the record at her end.

Without sugar coating my thoughts, that married woman has likely had sex with that fellow or she intends to in the future if opportunity presents itself.

The only restraint keeping her is lthe lack of jusfiable opportunity.

I agree but it's all circumstantial. All he can do with the information that he has at the moment is to talk it out
NnaNna4(m): 5:43pm On Dec 11, 2023
Wait o..how did she know his hands are full?
Looking4massage: 5:48pm On Dec 11, 2023
mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only
that chat and cheat are 1 and 2. Use your brain
Blackfire(m): 5:56pm On Dec 11, 2023
mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only



The guy is funking your wife raw... and when it slips she puts it back in...

Nude pictures and love emojis are constantly been sent...


I will advise you to feign ignorant gather your evidences , but know this your wife is gone

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Ladiesdream: 5:57pm On Dec 11, 2023
NnaNna4:
Wait o..how did she know his hands are full?
what does his hands are full mean?
Uptheante(m): 6:00pm On Dec 11, 2023
Myhusband:
let's make babies, no I can't your hands are tight



it is the confidence for me, that dude have obviously off your woman pant before not once, not twice. dude prepare money down for DNA test and prepared for the outcome


a married lady having friendship with a male colleague is an act of disloyalty, worse part of it, having romantic and naughty chats with him



I'm sure you're not the only one banging that meat in between her legs presently
You're right bro.
If that her office colleague simply convince her that his hands are not full, she will gladly off pants for him
Myhusband(m): 6:03pm On Dec 11, 2023
Uptheante:

You're right bro.
If that her office colleague simply convince her that his hands are not full, she will gladly off pants for him



they had sex before bro, she had fúck the dude when his hands wasn't full

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YourGFsnatcher: 6:11pm On Dec 11, 2023
mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only

The handwriting is clear. Someone is spreading ya wife

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YourGFsnatcher: 6:13pm On Dec 11, 2023
DrAda:
I believe she is not. She may be emotionally invested but then again, some count that as cheating. Just tell her your reservations.

Why do whorez always each other?

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YourGFsnatcher: 6:13pm On Dec 11, 2023
Fountainofyouth:
Op is funny,

If your wife is cheating, she will never ever talk about the man she's cheating with all the time, you won't even know he exists, so stop with the unnecessary assumption.

Bulshit! All of you are pro cheats

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zagorakis(m): 6:18pm On Dec 11, 2023
Fountainofyouth:
Op is funny,

If your wife is cheating, she will never ever talk about the man she's cheating with all the time, you won't even know he exists, so stop with the unnecessary assumption.

Men never in your life take advice about relationships from a woman.

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Uptheante(m): 6:18pm On Dec 11, 2023
Myhusband:




they had sex before bro, she had fúck the dude when his hands wasn't full
Correct.
And they had probably made babies from the earlier fück when his hands were not full.
So, he's inviting her to make babies like they did before, but she thinks his hands are full now, but if his hands are free, she won't hesitate to fúck him & make babies like they did before.
The husband has to carry out a secret DNA test on her kids (if they have any), so as to know how many are his & how many belong to the office colleague or other random men fucking his wife...
To me, irrespective of the result of the DNA test, he should divorce her so that she can be free to make babies with her office colleague

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Mhizzard(m): 6:43pm On Dec 11, 2023
guywitzerogal:
well i like ur comment but i just wan to ask something is it possible to till work in the same place with him knowing fully well the have feelings for each other?
she would get ride of the lustful feelings she has for him.why would she let the feelings behold her when she has husband not even boyfriend that they are still not yet legal married.
xtervaganza(m): 6:47pm On Dec 11, 2023
mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only
you don't need any form of advise. You need to give her a swollen mouth and send the wh0ré out of your house.


Mohbad death is still unsolved. If you allow one oloriburuku LovePeddler to kill you she will rotate on a dick the next day

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DND069: 6:57pm On Dec 11, 2023
Fountainofyouth:



A very stupid assumption

Men and women say a lot of things to those they are close with either male or female jokingly, that doesn't mean they've had sex.

How would you feel if a married woman tells your husband this?

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AliEzeOlu: 7:36pm On Dec 11, 2023
mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only


Op, I have just one question for you.

Are you a SIMPle man?
mayor2013: 8:30pm On Dec 11, 2023
Fountainofyouth:
Op nairaland stupid boys wey still dey chop "mummy thank you" will spoil your marriage saying trash and insulting your wife, do not listen to them, go to your wife who is there with you and settle this issue amicably.

Are u a slow poke. U sound so unintelligent. Look at you justifying why she should have those dirty chats with a foolish colleague. Gosh!!! This your myopic reasoning questions your background

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Pzpropertylimit(m): 8:32pm On Dec 11, 2023
If u die today she will begin to fuxk after 90 days of mourning, why not give urself a rest and avoid her phone . Na u e de pain now. U can't monitor a woman !

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eepeepook: 8:36pm On Dec 11, 2023
She finds him attractive and is enjoying his attention. Guy, enter gym and follow a glow up routine. Anything else your hand.

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