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Hello Nrldr,

What was your experience trying to date or propose to deeper life or choosen ladies..

Those that ended up marrying from these denomination, how did it go with the marriage committee and the ladies attitude prior or beforehand.

Kindly share your experiences

😂 😂 😂 Very funny.

You have good and bad irrespective of churches.

This is it. Human being will always be human being irrespective of the domination or their belief. Never neglect to vet your woman too before marriage and don't be carried away by this church of a thing. I do tell my brother as the lady he's planning to marry attends one of the church. 'Don't marry any girl all because she attends this particular church'. The red flag in her is just like every other Nigerian ladies and does that in anyway affects her spirituality?

Red flag knows no denomination sir ...

But the fact remains that most girls of certain denominations tend to have very similar mindsets that are in my opinion very archaic ...

SkewKimora:
Hello Nrldr,

What was your experience trying to date or propose to deeper life or choosen ladies..

Those that ended up marrying from these denomination, how did it go with the marriage committee and the ladies attitude prior or beforehand.

Kindly share your experiences

Simple n direct questions n some people don get it twisted already.
I haven't but I know those who has so my simple advise from you is to take a specific jotter or a diary with you each time you are meeting the marriage committee and take note of all advise and instructions.
2. Try to show how spiritual you are also but in doing this avoid complicating things or disagreeing with their way of doing things. That you don't like their system doesn't mean everything part of it is bad.
3. Compliment the good things you see and ask relevant questions.
4. With the lady always let her know how important the opinions of the both of you are in the marriage n not just about the pastors because you are going to start a home together, the pastors not included
5. You too get close to God and the word of God so that you will not be tempted. Let her, her family n everyone else around her see you as a child of God.
6. Plz if you are not a child of God leave them alone make you no pretend to marry church girl n come shock yourself o, not all church girls are bornagain o

I once wasted a year plus waiting for this C.A.C girl to accept my proposal cos outwardly,the babe looked decent and well-bred:no piercing,hair-fixing and indecent dressing,e.t.c.
I fantasized about having such a godly young lady for a wifey...I anticipated her moans on the first night..she rejected all my gifts to her and used every of our meetings to tell me how much jesus loves me.Until...
One of friends asked to allow him use my room for a quickie.Normal thing as a bachelor then.I gave him key with one hour time-scale.Agreed.After one hour wey i no see my guy call na so i show for my door o,knock.As the door open,na sister Blessing i jam inside dey adjust skirt o.She for like make ground open swallow am that moment but ground betray am.Good gals plus bad boys na 5&6 o.

Na wa o!

thesilentman:
I once wasted a year plus waiting for this C.A.C girl to accept my proposal cos outwardly,the babe looked decent and well-bred:no piercing,hair-fixing and indecent dressing,e.t.c.
I fantasized about having such a godly young lady for a wifey...I anticipated her moans on the first night..she rejected all my gifts to her and used every of our meetings to tell me how much jesus loves me.Until...
One of friends asked to allow him use my room for a quickie.Normal thing as a bachelor then.I gave him key with one hour time-scale.Agreed.After one hour wey i no see my guy call na so i show for my door o,knock.As the door open,na sister Blessing i jam inside dey adjust skirt o.She for like make ground open swallow am that moment but ground betray am.Good gals plus bad boys na 5&6 o.

That last line is golden. I don't know why girls that are usually decent love to entangle themselves with bad boys. Some even get used as a punching bag but they would still stay put. The entanglement dey amaze me.

dbestuncle:


Simple n direct questions n some people don get it twisted already.
I haven't but I know those who has so my simple advise from you is to take a specific jotter or a diary with you each time you are meeting the marriage committee and take note of all advise and instructions.
2. Try to show how spiritual you are also but in doing this avoid complicating things or disagreeing with their way of doing things. That you don't like their system doesn't mean everything part of it is bad.
3. Compliment the good things you see and ask relevant questions.
4. With the lady always let her know how important the opinions of the both of you are in the marriage n not just about the pastors because you are going to start a home together, the pastors not included
5. You too get close to God and the word of God so that you will not be tempted. Let her, her family n everyone else around her see you as a child of God.
6. Plz if you are not a child of God leave them alone make you no pretend to marry church girl n come shock yourself o, not all church girls are bornagain o

Thanks bunch

thesilentman:
. Good gals plus bad boys na 5&6 o.

It's the Spices Bro !

Who can confirm here if the ladies from this church have this doctrinal believe that until they see you with them getting married in a dream they won't marry you.

I am a lady and this is a weird belief.

Hmmm

They are all human beings

See them as normal girls don't be deceived by the attires

I am sure if they are with people of aligned values and from the same denomination, they should have a good marriage/relationship they both deemed as such.

SkewKimora:
Who can confirm here if the ladies from this church have this doctrinal believe that until they see you with them getting married in a dream they won't marry you.

I am a lady and this is a weird belief.

Deeper life doesn't teach su chnbelidfs concerning marriage

Magnoliaa:
I am sure if they are with people of aligned values and from the same denomination, they should have a good marriage/relationship they both deemed as such.

It is an assumption

thesilentman:
I once wasted a year plus waiting for this C.A.C girl to accept my proposal cos outwardly,the babe looked decent and well-bred:no piercing,hair-fixing and indecent dressing,e.t.c.
I fantasized about having such a godly young lady for a wifey...I anticipated her moans on the first night..she rejected all my gifts to her and used every of our meetings to tell me how much jesus loves me.Until...
One of friends asked to allow him use my room for a quickie.Normal thing as a bachelor then.I gave him key with one hour time-scale.Agreed.After one hour wey i no see my guy call na so i show for my door o,knock.As the door open,na sister Blessing i jam inside dey adjust skirt o.She for like make ground open swallow am that moment but ground betray am.Good gals plus bad boys na 5&6 o.

What is the difference between you both
You were both lieing to yaselves

baralatie:

It is an assumption

We have had stories! How is this an assumption?

thesilentman:
I once wasted a year plus waiting for this C.A.C girl to accept my proposal cos outwardly,the babe looked decent and well-bred:no piercing,hair-fixing and indecent dressing,e.t.c.
I fantasized about having such a godly young lady for a wifey...I anticipated her moans on the first night..she rejected all my gifts to her and used every of our meetings to tell me how much jesus loves me.Until...
One of friends asked to allow him use my room for a quickie.Normal thing as a bachelor then.I gave him key with one hour time-scale.Agreed.After one hour wey i no see my guy call na so i show for my door o,knock.As the door open,na sister Blessing i jam inside dey adjust skirt o.She for like make ground open swallow am that moment but ground betray am.Good gals plus bad boys na 5&6 o.

Are you for real or you made this up

LalastiklaIa:

Are you for real or you made this up

like seriously,though that experience taught me to know better with women.

thesilentman:

like seriously,though that experience taught me to know better with women.

trust no woman

Na woman make adam disobey God o