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I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?

I DONT THINK SO

15k monthly, for what!

osmosis101:
I DONT THINK SO

How?

Skyview01:
15k monthly, for what!

For my children upkeep

15k monthly?
For children, not child?
In this economy?
You are the problem in the marriage not ur wife.
You either increase the money or hustle more

You never talk why you dey run 😊

Calmed down and take a carefree look at this image

I think this is what she finally wanted your fate to be that's her reason for the second coming.

Follow your instincts and act wisely.




Na joke ooooooo in (Gordon's voice) 🤣🤣

Handsomejok:



For my children upkeep

That is too small na. With inflation rates 15k would not amount to anything.

How much for your wife for taking care of the children?

You need to double your hustle!

Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?

I think d devil wants to destroy your life, your marriage. And you also know you have taken very seriously wrong decisions before which at the time you thought was right.. I think this is another wrong decision. REBUKE those evil dreams, they will stop. The devil is playing píng pong with u. Don't become game for him

Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?

is the 15k for eba? .

Skyview01:
15k monthly, for what!

For what?

Congratulations! Oga, please, increase the upkeep money.

Every single day, there is always a an wailing about marriage/wife


What do men really enjoy from marriage these days, can someone just mention five things a man will benefit from marrying a woman in this present day and time

If I was your child , I'd wipe you oraimo cord for this rubbish you write

Try your possible best to stay in your children's life after the divorce... Atleast once a week

I can see ur wife is really going through alot.

Are u sure u are taking care of ur family?

What in the hell is wrong with you?why forcing him staying in a marriage he's fed up with?

being:


I think d devil wants to destroy your life, your marriage. And you also know you have taken very seriously wrong decisions before which at the time you thought was right.. I think this is another wrong decision. REBUKE those evil dreams, they will stop. The devil is playing píng pong with u. Don't become game for him

ahnie:
What in the hell is wrong with you?why forcing him staying in a marriage he's fed up with?

don't mind Nigerians. It's either she is the problem or he is the problem, either way he's fed up of the marriage.

Ok

Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?

15k for which economy? Abi nobi Nigeria you dey?

His comment really pissed me off, person wey dey de marriage say he don taya,you dey force ham to still dey a loveless marriage...if dem begin kill themselves now this same hypocrite go dey blame them say why dem nor leave.
The same way they confused late osinachi and led her to her grave

falcon01:
don't mind Nigerians. It's either she is the problem or he is the problem, either way he's fed up of the marriage.

15k monthly for how many kids?is he by any chance sane at all?

15k is a way too small
Them no dey force person to remain for marriage again, make had I know no come. you both can co-parent but be in the lives of your kids, if you don't want.....at the end.

Go for dna bro. The 15k fit still later reduce to 10k or 5k

15 every month is very poor. Divorce is a bad option if you care about your children

slimjohn2k5:
15k monthly?
For children, not child?
In this economy?
You are the problem in the marriage not ur wife.
You either increase the money or hustle more

Yes for 3 children aside from the 15k I will also be paying their rent, school fees for 2 children one is my stepdaughter plus Nepa bills I don't think that 15k is small

Handsomejok:



Yes for 3 children aside from the 15k I will also be paying their rent, school fees for 2 children one is my stepdaughter plus Nepa bills I don't think that 15k is small

You would have clarify it in your main post. But still, if you have more, you can make it bigger than the 15K because things are expensive now.

Although, I know you are trying to make it tight to ensure she doesn't have extra to spend on herself.

Handsomejok:


For my children upkeep

You're MADDD!

Handsomejok:



Yes for 3 children aside from the 15k I will also be paying their rent, school fees for 2 children one is my stepdaughter plus Nepa bills I don't think that 15k is small

bros u try, in my own case i collect my children, and I have been the one taking good care of them bços my x wife vow to mk my life miserable but now I have move on and I and my 2 children we have great peace

Good one....No one has the right to make anyone's life miserable....

kevwemike:
bros u try, in my own case i collect my children, and I have been the one taking good care of them bços my x wife vow to mk my life miserable but now I have move on and I and my 2 children we have great peace

Handsomejok:



Yes for 3 children aside from the 15k I will also be paying their rent, school fees for 2 children one is my stepdaughter plus Nepa bills I don't think that 15k is small

15k for 2 kids is insufficient a month. Even if you stock the house with foodstuffs, there is no where 50k will be sufficient.


You expect this woman to feed each child with #250 daily ( morning, afternoon and night)

You said one of the children is not yours so her mom should fend for her.


Don't expose these children to life of destitute.