| firstratedcitiz(m): 2:55pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Ahm:
So I was out this evening to buy something at Area 2 shopping complex in Abuja. As I entered my car and about to turn and go home, a young lady driving a big SUV car stopped by my side lower her window and she greeted me, when I answered she asked whether I can help her out, so I was like ok go on, thinking maybe she's lost and asking for directions, but to my utmost surprise she asked me to please give her some cash to buy fuel because she's running out of fuel and she has no money to buy fuel and she needs to go to Apo.
I just shook my head and told her sorry and I zoomed off. I don't know if any of you ever had this experience here in Abuja too?
Even if you weren't in a position to assist her financially, or simply not willing to assist, you should have politely told her so before "zooming" off in such rude manner.
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| Emma1Oj(m): 2:55pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
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| lusid: 2:56pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
grafixdon:
This's old format, if you're living around, ikoyi, lekki or vi, you'd have experienced this.
you get any ikoyi wey I fit shag?
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| motionarena: 2:56pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Ahm:
So I was out this evening to buy something at Area 2 shopping complex in Abuja. As I entered my car and about to turn and go home, a young lady driving a big SUV car stopped by my side lower her window and she greeted me, when I answered she asked whether I can help her out, so I was like ok go on, thinking maybe she's lost and asking for directions, but to my utmost surprise she asked me to please give her some cash to buy fuel because she's running out of fuel and she has no money to buy fuel and she needs to go to Apo.
I just shook my head and told her sorry and I zoomed off. I don't know if any of you ever had this experience here in Abuja too?
You missed out.
Might have been a test, u would have been rewarded handsomely if u had helped
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| blackgold2018(m): 2:57pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
JOGICE:
Certainly we’ve all got various views on things like this as humans.
THE FACT IS;
Human understanding is centered on life experiences & knowledge gained by association.
As in!
That idiot of Op thought he made a sensible decision.
Not knowing he displayed stupidity.
Ok even if you don’t want to help or probably not in position to help. Respond to her politely.
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| emmylight4u: 2:57pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
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That is not new in Abuja anyway...most of them use SUVs...beautiful ladies and at times women with children claiming she's taking them to school and fuel is a out to finish...
Abuja get plenty fake people now Lagos.
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| Kobicove(m): 2:58pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
newnigerdelta00:
Help na help you stingy you stingy nothing like scam here.if you can't help just shut up....
Piss off!!!
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| Hassanmaye(m): 2:58pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Ahm:
So I was out this evening to buy something at Area 2 shopping complex in Abuja. As I entered my car and about to turn and go home, a young lady driving a big SUV car stopped by my side lower her window and she greeted me, when I answered she asked whether I can help her out, so I was like ok go on, thinking maybe she's lost and asking for directions, but to my utmost surprise she asked me to please give her some cash to buy fuel because she's running out of fuel and she has no money to buy fuel and she needs to go to Apo.
I just shook my head and told her sorry and I zoomed off. I don't know if any of you ever had this experience here in Abuja too?
Hahahaha so you mean it's packaging?? Alot of Abuja girls are Hungry girls
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| Slynation(m): 2:58pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Watinhapen:
A woman driving a big SUV doesn’t have fuel in the car, doesn’t have cash, and also doesn’t have money in her bank ? Is that not questionable. A lot of people are saying you would’ve helped her just because she’s a female. A lot of scams and atrocities are going on in Nigeria. If you lose guard, you will be the victim instead of the good samaritan most people are claiming to be here.
The only sensible comment here...like, you can imagine!! She doesn't have husband?? Boyfriend or one of those Alhaji bankrolling her she can ask for such herculean favour...😂 And people get mind dey say OP for buy her fuel, someone that is driving a bigger car than the OP from the way he explained the big SUV...
Anybody that doesn't have money for fuel should sell his or her car, the country is already hard, do not make it harder for others.
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| blackgold2018(m): 2:59pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
DyingFetus:
You did a good job
Women nowadays are not to be trusted
But you could've told her to park her car someplace and you'd give her a ride to wherever she's going
mugu. Small child giving advice.
Ok let’s assume you are an adult. You obviously have the brain of a child. Foolish narrative
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| Galaticos444: 3:00pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
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Sincerely speaking I had the same experience yesterday.a lady driving a land cruiser stopped and needed my attention, when I got closer I saw her carrying a baby on her lap,I actually thought she was lost and she needed direction but was surprise when she said I should help her with some cash and I gave her wot I had on me not cos of her but cos of d baby
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| blackgold2018(m): 3:02pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Joeyfizzo:
I wud have helped her if I had the cash even if it was a male. U never know tommorrow. A guy was stranded yesterday ...his car overheated and his battery ran low ....he had a Jumper and was begging commuters for assistance to connect his jumper to thier battery so he cud power his car....nobody stopped....he waved at me for help stretching out his jumper ....I stopped n assisted. It was a success ...nobody died! Learn to lend a helping hand folks
may God bless you.
I have ignored people looking for before, not until my battery got me stranded too.
Since that day I render help to people that needs battery to start their car.
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| bionixs: 3:03pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Uchenna10:
So why re u telling us here,wen u couldn't help
Abi o!
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| chaloskyx: 3:03pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
if thats the case she has no business driving such vehicle and should have taken the bus😅
Mjshexy:
The car may not be hers and was really out of fuel, if you had the means you could have just helped, no amount is too small when rendering a helping hand. Times are hard, a closed mouth will only die silently
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| blackgold2018(m): 3:03pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
HarunaWest:
Someone driving a big jeep I am sure the latest model has no one on her that can genuinely help her instead na erby she turn to. In a 'Shopping Mall'. Think am Oga, Open yah head.
No I won’t think it.
People can need help unexpectedly..
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| AnanseK(m): 3:04pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
HarunaWest:
She has no fuel buh she drove to Area 2 shopping mall, am sure she put on A.C and she now get fuel, still lower the glass dey ask for money?. I won't trust such person though, make e no be say them wan trail person. Next time you go to that shopping mall, watch out if you will see her again. The things happening in Abuja nowadays one need to be careful.
You obviously don’t live in Abuja. Area 2 shopping center is not a mall and not a complex. It is a glorified village market where the early settlers buy their dry fish and okra. Of course there are few patent medicine stores and some tailor shops to mend your torn clothing.
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| chaloskyx: 3:04pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
the reward wont her givingbher phn nos and a one night stand no be abj runs geh in the end it would even cost you more😅🤣🤣
motionarena:
You missed out.
Might have been a test, u would have been rewarded handsomely if u had helped
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| WebSurfer(m): 3:07pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Ahm:
So I was out this evening to buy something at Area 2 shopping complex in Abuja. As I entered my car and about to turn and go home, a young lady driving a big SUV car stopped by my side lower her window and she greeted me, when I answered she asked whether I can help her out, so I was like ok go on, thinking maybe she's lost and asking for directions, but to my utmost surprise she asked me to please give her some cash to buy fuel because she's running out of fuel and she has no money to buy fuel and she needs to go to Apo.
I just shook my head and told her sorry and I zoomed off. I don't know if any of you ever had this experience here in Abuja too?
this is how most of you miss your blessings.
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| FireUpNow(m): 3:10pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
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U should ha e helped the young lady no matter how small maybe tell her come with you to filling station then fill her suv tank with th little you can afford. We all need help one way or the other. Show little kindness, you know that song?
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| nairalanda1(m): 3:13pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Ahm:
So I was out this evening to buy something at Area 2 shopping complex in Abuja. As I entered my car and about to turn and go home, a young lady driving a big SUV car stopped by my side lower her window and she greeted me, when I answered she asked whether I can help her out, so I was like ok go on, thinking maybe she's lost and asking for directions, but to my utmost surprise she asked me to please give her some cash to buy fuel because she's running out of fuel and she has no money to buy fuel and she needs to go to Apo.
I just shook my head and told her sorry and I zoomed off. I don't know if any of you ever had this experience here in Abuja too?
Had it once in 2016 and again in 2018. Both times had to decline
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| Moblux(m): 3:14pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Ahm:
So I was out this evening to buy something at Area 2 shopping complex in Abuja. As I entered my car and about to turn and go home, a young lady driving a big SUV car stopped by my side lower her window and she greeted me, when I answered she asked whether I can help her out, so I was like ok go on, thinking maybe she's lost and asking for directions, but to my utmost surprise she asked me to please give her some cash to buy fuel because she's running out of fuel and she has no money to buy fuel and she needs to go to Apo.
I just shook my head and told her sorry and I zoomed off. I don't know if any of you ever had this experience here in Abuja too?
A black SUV. She is a corporate beggar. I have encountered her while driving out of Biobak Kitchen in Area 11 sometimes early this year
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| ZaddyJ: 3:16pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Joeyfizzo:
I wud have helped her if I had the cash even if it was a male. U never know tommorrow. A guy was stranded yesterday ...his car overheated and his battery ran low ....he had a Jumper and was begging commuters for assistance to connect his jumper to thier battery so he cud power his car....nobody stopped....he waved at me for help stretching out his jumper ....I stopped n assisted. It was a success ...nobody died! Learn to lend a helping hand folks
Bros I ve the same spirit of helping people like you . But if Abuja girl show u ones you go see woman dey avoid dem .
I add an experience with a lady who used me to drop her off to go meet a man that threatening her in my car and after I did that day . Till I left Abuja this didn't pick my calls no more . Ladies hem get mind o for Abuja.
Why you think sey @verydarkman no get woman even as him fine reach . Abuja woman go teach you lesson
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| bong4(m): 3:17pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
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| mclloyd22(m): 3:17pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
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‘Please I do not have’ won’t take anything away from you boss. Zooming off from her was an act of rudeness. Let us have a world of ordinary people living life the way God wants.
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| ZaddyJ: 3:18pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
WebSurfer:
this is how most of you miss your blessings.
Which miss blessing ? No na mr blessing. Abuja ladies never show u before
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| Berankis: 3:21pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
SUPERPACK:
If I am the one I will just tell her to follow me to a filling station, then buy for her as little as I can afford. She might genuinely need help and stranded. Makes me the song, Another day in Paradise" by Phil Collins.
Lovely!
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| Dbarrzx: 3:22pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
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OP is the weird person in this story...where is humanity....do it as per your financial muscle and leave her to her conscience
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| Berankis: 3:23pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Dexy4yah:
And you call it a weird encounter? When you refused helping someone in need of help.
We are gradually turning to animals in this country...
Well I understand where he is coming from. It's strange when someone who obviously drives in a better and bigger car than yours suddenly asks you for paltry help as fuel. I do not blame the Op at all.
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| Quebec91(m): 3:24pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Dexy4yah:
And you call it a weird encounter? When you refused helping someone in need of help.
We are gradually turning to animals in this country...
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| Boldideas: 3:26pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Ahm:
So I was out this evening to buy something at Area 2 shopping complex in Abuja. As I entered my car and about to turn and go home, a young lady driving a big SUV car stopped by my side lower her window and she greeted me, when I answered she asked whether I can help her out, so I was like ok go on, thinking maybe she's lost and asking for directions, but to my utmost surprise she asked me to please give her some cash to buy fuel because she's running out of fuel and she has no money to buy fuel and she needs to go to Apo.
I just shook my head and told her sorry and I zoomed off. I don't know if any of you ever had this experience here in Abuja too?
You did the right thing. But on the other hand she may just be looking for someone who is generous to be her friend, she may be rich and all she does is give and give with nobody saying take.... Whatever... Do as the spirit leads!
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| Ahm(m): 3:27pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
HarunaWest:
She has no fuel buh she drove to Area 2 shopping mall, am sure she put on A.C and she now get fuel, still lower the glass dey ask for money?. I won't trust such person though, make e no be say them wan trail person. Next time you go to that shopping mall, watch out if you will see her again. The things happening in Abuja nowadays one need to be careful.
Exactly why I had doubts on her, people are dangerous and also not trustworthy too
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| Ahm(m): 3:28pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Berankis:
Well I understand where he is coming from. It's strange when someone who obviously drives in a better and bigger car than yours suddenly asks you for paltry help as fuel. I do not blame the Op at all.
Please help me tell her since she be human being
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