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The eldest got married to one of the two sisters almost 5 years ago, now my immediate elder brother who was married before he divorced, wants to go on and marry the younger sister to our elder brother's wife. I've been against the decision since yesterday but my brother is telling me that there's absolutely nothing I can do about his decision.

My other siblings are also insisting that it doesn't matter so I'm the only one on my side. So here's me asking if it's okay for them to get married or I'm overreacting (like a friend said) to the matter?

DaveHarry:
The eldest got married to one of the two sisters almost 5 years ago, now my immediate elder brother who was married before he divorced, wants to go on and marry the younger sister to our elder brother's wife. I've been against the decision since yesterday but my brother is telling me that there's absolutely nothing I can do about his decision. My other siblings are also insisting that it doesn't matter so I'm the only one on my side. So here's me asking if it's okay for them to get married or I'm overreacting (like a friend said) to the matter?

Why do you not want your elder brother to marry the girl?

E be like say OP eye dey the girl body

They married who they love, go and marry who you love

Big breast would fall, big yansh would look disgusting, tight pussy would enlarge

Only true love is worth the while

Not cool to me

There is no medical nor traditional taboo in marrying from same family. I individually will same marriage as this will strengthen the bond within the two families. Most marriages crumble because in-laws poke into the daughters marriages, afterall if the family fall na their wahala. In this case if you cause trouble you will know that one of your daughters will suffer too.

This is how marriage was designed in the olden days as people marry for family bond. Not the 21st century where boobs and large bum-bum is the indicator of partners

Just give them your consent and move on once the family of the girl accepts

Cousins can... but brothers... aww!!! Abeg I no fit...

For the sake of peace! It’s not advisable!

Nothing wrong.

If twins can do it see nothing wrong

Is that the only family available?

It's okay... I've seen men marry 2 sister sef

I'm not cool with that

It's not bad, just that it breeds unnecessary competition!
If your brother is rich and goes to Dubai for a family vacation, wife drives big car while you and your wife can't afford any, do you think your wife won't be envious of what her sister enjoys and she has none to show off
Especially when your wife is the elder that sends your bro's wife on an errand when they were younger!

Why are you against other people's happiness

Did you have anything with the lady in question?

Ask YOURSELF first.

MS247:
They married who they love, go and marry who you love

Big breast would fall, big yansh would look disgusting, tight pussy would enlarge

Only true love is worth the while

really

If that family is a good family why not?
Nothing wrong with it.


It's when they are like the kardashians that you go in believing your own will be different, na lie o.

illicit:
Why are you against other people's happiness

Did you have anything with the lady in question?

he wan Bleep the girl na

garriAndsugar:
E be like say OP eye dey the girl body

Or deh
Is this a sensible response?

DaveHarry:
The eldest got married to one of the two sisters almost 5 years ago, now my immediate elder brother who was married before he divorced, wants to go on and marry the younger sister to our elder brother's wife. I've been against the decision since yesterday but my brother is telling me that there's absolutely nothing I can do about his decision.

My other siblings are also insisting that it doesn't matter so I'm the only one on my side. So here's me asking if it's okay for them to get married or I'm overreacting (like a friend said) to the matter?

2 brothers of a family can marry 2 sisters of another family.

twins do this sometimes

Future4:
I've always wanted to ask this question. I don't think it is sha

It will be a ratio of 2:1. I don't trust asaba women. Even d wife of my other brother, I complained wen dey wanted to get married, now they are seeing what she's doing to him, yet they are still in of another son marrying from there. Abi dis women sef dey use jazz for Dem, I no know. I don't trust female private school teachers.

fayomim:


he wan Bleep the girl na

Abi o


🥴

fayomim:


he wan Bleep the girl na

You think I'm that irresponsible?

Itsnotokay.com

Normally, it shouldn't be right but, you can apply the gen Z advice... do whatever makes you happy!

What's tha business?

Ask any traditional person around you. Your parents, uncles, etc. If it's against your culture. If it is or not, why are you so against it?

It is not like if this turns out to a bad decision, it will directly affect you. You've stated your mind, said you're against it.
Next move? Man up and let them do what they want, it's their life, choice and they're adults to know the difference between a bad/good decision.

There's nothing wrong with it

Lolz.. spoil the family..
Ę fę ba ębi ję ni?