NewStats: 3,261,590 , 8,174,442 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 05:48 PM m2t6g

This is one of the most frequently asked questions when it comes to relationship and dating. When you look around the society, it seems that those boys we normally tag as players and irresponsible have better lucks in attracting a responsible woman than their counter parts who seems responsible and good behaved.

It seems that the more heart break a woman gets from a player, the more persistent she becomes to remain in his life.

https://loveonet.com/10-reasons-women-easily-fall-for-bad-boys/

With my loud..
Women believe lies and packaging...
Just manage rent one fine apart with some monthly income'' see anyhow u want bad girls will not let u go..
*A bad guy don't judge because he just want to collect his share..
A lady is more free with a bad guy than the a good guy..
Good guys hardly let things go..
Majority of bad guys are jovial and funny..
Bad guys are good in bed especially eating of the honey pot
Good guys are strict, and women don't like strict life but wayo life...
And lastly even girls hate simps...

Personally as a guy, you can't be my friend if you don't have one of this vices

Smoke

Drink

Or

Womanize


Men without vices are very strict, boring and sometimes wicked


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iammo:
Personally as a guy, you can't be my friend if you don't have one of this vices

Smoke

Drink

Or

Womanize



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Which one of these vices are you guilty of?

IconicR:
Which one of these vices are you guilty of?

Drinking..

I rarely smoke... Perhaps once a year if I am with a smoker friend and due to presure

I don't womanize, what's under my Girlfriend's skirt is what is under other ladies so why waste my time chasing what I have at home

iammo:


Drinking..

I rarely smoke... Perhaps once a year if I am with a smoker friend and due to presure

I don't womanize, what's under my Girlfriend's skirt is what is under other ladies so why waste my time chasing what I have at home

But going by your name your religion does not permit you to drink


I don't believe your last paragraph because I've read your comments that contradicts it

IconicR:
But going by your name your religion does not permit you to drink


I don't believe your last paragraph because I've read your comments that contradicts it

Muslims drink... there are lots of bars in Arab Muslim countries, public drinking is only frowned on and a crime

If you drink you can't pray in a mosque for 48 hours

It's in man's nature to stray from time to time just for Sex nothing intimate


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iammo:
Personally as a guy, you can't be my friend if you don't have one of this vices

Smoke

Drink

Or

Womanize



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Any why would someone that doesn't have any of those vices want to be your friend?

Bluezy13:


Any why would someone that doesn't have any of those vices want to be your friend?

Go and ask them not me... I stated my preference, state yours

iammo:


Go and ask them not me... I stated my preference, state yours

You stated it on a public forum.
Use your head.

Bluezy13:


You stated it on a public forum.
Use your head.

Use your own head as well, abi is it empty?!

State your own preference in friendship
Or did I hold your hands from typing

iammo:


Muslims drink... there are lots of bars in Arab Muslim countries, public drinking is only frowned on and a crime

If you drink you can't pray in a mosque for 48 hours

It's in man's nature to stray from time to time just for Sex nothing intimate


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Your second paragraph isn't true because I use to hear my cousins say a Muslim can't take alcohol because his/her prayers won't be accepted for seventy days. So going by your statement you are only implying that your prayers are valid but not in a mosque and I'm only seeing this from you for the first time

You can stray and get hooked, it's better you don't stray.

iammo:


Use your own head as well, abi is it empty?!

State your own preference in friendship
Or did I hold your hands from typing

You see...
I told you to use your head.

IconicR:
Your second paragraph isn't true because I use to hear my cousins say a Muslim can't take alcohol because his/her prayers won't be accepted for seventy days. So going by your statement you are only implying that your prayers are valid but not in a mosque and I'm only seeing this from you for the first time

You can stray and get hooked, it's better you don't stray.

Salat kind of prayer of 5 times a day is what am talking for the 48 hours.

The issue with Islam is many Hadith exist written by different Islamic scholar given different teachings and rulings, so your cousin is equally right on his 70 days

But standardly after 48 hours all alcohol should have left your blood stream and you can observe the solat

However simple prayers can be said at anytime even when drunk

iammo:


Salat kind of prayer of 5 times a day is what am talking for the 48 hours.

The issue with Islam is many Hadith exist written by different Islamic scholar given different teachings and rulings, so your cousin is equally right on his 70 days

But standardly after 48 hours all alcohol should have left your blood stream and you can observe the solat

However simple prayers can be said at anytime even when drunk

Your last paragraph is confusing, what do you mean by simple prayers
Are there any other prayers aside the five times daily prayers?
If you are from the north or having lived in the north you'll understand my views

Consumption of alcohol by Muslims is totally prohibited in the north and as such invalidates all types of prayers till after 70days

IconicR:
Your last paragraph is confusing, what do you mean by simple prayers
Are there any other prayers aside the five times daily prayers?
If you are from the north or having lived in the north you'll understand my views

Consumption of alcohol by Muslims is totally prohibited in the north and as such invalidates all types of prayers till after 70days

Solar is the kind of prayer offered five times mostly in mosques

Dua is a kind of prayers you recite anywhere , you can recite Dua for different purposes

Alcohol doesn't stop your Dua

iammo:



Solar is the kind of prayer offered five times mostly in mosques

Dua is a kind of prayers you recite anywhere , you can recite Dua for different purposes

Alcohol doesn't stop your Dua

Okay it's clearer now.

Women like popular guys

Go watch Power series and you'll know why..

Most good guys are simps and women despise simps, infact everybody despise simps even simps despise simps.

Because they love lies.

Personally as a guy, you can't be my friend if you don't have one of this vices

Smoke

Drink

Or

Womanize


Men without vices are very strict, boring and sometimes wicked

THESE ARE WORDS OF A FOOLISH PERSON, CALLING BAD GOOD AND GOOD BAD. HAVE YOU ASKED YOURSELF IF GOD APPROVES THESE NONSENSE YOU MENTIONED. THESE ARE DEVIL'S WEAPON TO DEAL WITH YOU. HUMAN KNOWLEDGE WILL FAIL YOU.

blessingnenye:
This is one of the most frequently asked questions when it comes to relationship and dating. When you look around the society, it seems that those boys we normally tag as players and irresponsible have better lucks in attracting a responsible woman than their counter parts who seems responsible and good behaved.

It seems that the more heart break a woman gets from a player, the more persistent she becomes to remain in his life.

https://loveonet.com/10-reasons-women-easily-fall-for-bad-boys/

You're right.
My girlfriend knows I'm a player, yet she allows me to Bleep her anytime I like.
Women love bad boys and give the good ones tough time

I guess you are talking about private prostitutes exchanging money for sex from boyfriends, no sane woman will have romantic outside marry with any man, good or bad, bad people attract bad people , good attract good

What's your definition of a bad guy ?

How many politicians are good guys for example?

Responsible men rarely tell lies. They like to present things the way they are. Unfortunately, women don't like to hear the truth. Some of them have high tastes that are not even realistic. But when they see someone who claims to possess all their quests, that's the right guy for them.
Meanwhile, this kind of attitude is not limited to women. It also happens in labour market and in business. If you can tell the recruiter what he wants to hear, there's possibility that you will get the job.
In business, for example, if someone asks you how long will it take to get something done, when you tell them the truth, it doesn't get down well with them. You see them rushing to someone who promised to perform 'miracle' within a day. It's after they have gotten their fingers burnt that they realized their mistakes.
Even in making investment decisions, how can someone fall for a promise of 50% returns within 1-4 weeks?
So, it's not just about women alone. Truth is always bitter. However, it may be bitter but it's always to our benefits if we can swallow it.

Because good guys are simps

another question

It is hardwired in them to fall for the bad boy even if they know he is no good for them but when nature hold you, you go fear autopilot...

A bad boy give them drama and a woman without drama is like a big dick with erectile dysfunction. They crave the adventure, the rollercoaster, the unpredictability, the machismo, they are even ready to put up with being smacked around like a rag doll once in a while, they always have a ready excuse for the bad boy as to why he beat her up. They are usually invested in the allure of bad boys untill they begin to approach the wall say around 28, with a stretched out 🐈, a couple of abortions and a plethora of mental and psychological problems, then they find a simp who has been trying to land a hot babe all his life but face rejection after rejection becasue he is too short or too something... Then like a narcissist, they tailor thier attitude and character to align with his desires until after a couple of kids and marriage then boom, he is not meeting up to thier expectations, his sex life is poor, he works too much, then they rekindle old flings with thier ex who lives far away, send him a couple of nudes just to activate the he goat in him, he finds a way to come to town, she keeps the kids with the simp and goes to get her guts pushed in by the bad boy... She comes back home to the simp who believes he is doing what a man should do and taking care of his family without the slightest clue that he is only playing a game society has put before him and generations before him... If you have a good woman hold her tight and treat her right becasue it's a jungle out here.

That's how bannies have been wired by the most high...

I see more women falling for bad boys, I see more hearts being broken, I see marriage ending in Nigeria by next year.

This I have seen.

iammo:




Personally as a guy, you can't be my friend if you don't have one of this vices

Smoke

Drink

Or

Womanize


Men without vices are very strict, boring and sometimes wicked


.

I don't do the above.
I'm very strict and wicked.