NewStats: 3,262,179 , 8,176,352 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 June 2025 at 08:09 AM 1x4j5t

I think you need to tell us HOW you know the past lover was at fault.

If you can't then you wasted the education your parents or guardians gave you

Saintmary:



You want to put her to shame because of the behavior of a past lover?


When it's obvious the lover is at fault


I hope you realize your mental deprivation before it's too late

Fountainofyouth:



But poor men are marrying every weekend, are they marrying stones?

Fountainofyouth, I'm very sure you can't marry someone in the bracket of those you call poor.

I think before any man gets married, he should have had a source for steady income and if this is not the case, then I pity his frustration 😃

SpecialAdviser:

Your dad change religion because of a woman? It should be the other way.

Seriously it should be other way round
Women do not have religion of their own but of their husbands

Let’s say comfortable, not broke
Don’t go and carry another man’s daughter into suffering

And yes, it’s much much much harder to marry when rich, especially if you have no ulterior motive ( like marrying a girl that jilted you, or the prettiest girl, or a rich or connected man’s daughter etc)

Plight21:
Uhmmm!

A man should gets a stable income first.
Imagine finding it hard to eat one meal perday to feed yourself ?
How about when you get a wife and other things to settle?

Sometimes, Marriage do open doors when the partners have vision, they're committed and focus.

Nevertheless, a man should have something coming in for him no matter how small it might be.

Simple and clear truth 🤝🤝

IamKizzbrown10:


FOR ME AM NOT EVEN INTERESTED IN MARRYING GIRLS BETWEEN THE AGE OF 20 TO 28 OR 30 THIS CATEGORY OF GIRLS ARE AFTER MONEY AND MATERIAL THINGS NOT LOVE, THOUGH AM 25 I WANT TO MARRY WOMAN FROM 33 UPWARD

so u luv older women who would be petting u like a baby i think say na only me dey dis category

IamKizzbrown10:


i disagree with you don't mention every woman, because girls on their early twenty don't even care about love all the want is money to live like their fav so don't be decieve

Y'all should stop saying "all girls". How many girls out there do you know . Everyone gets what they want. If you want a partner that will be with you no matter what situation you are, You will definitely get it... So stop attacking anyone who lay out their opinion, you all have the Right too your opinion. And everyone opinion is respected. Stop being rude. You guys here, think any girl that comment here is going through some shit. Y'all should stop that mentality Ok!

Yankee101:
Let’s say comfortable, not broke
Don’t go and carry another man’s daughter into suffering.

Exactly some girls are doing well before getting married, all for them to get married too the guy that's not doing so well, and they end up being totally miserable. No parents wants that for their daughter.. It's all parents happiness for their daughter to have a peaceful marriage. So they should stop saying girls are marrying guys that are rich or whatever. It's not necessarily too be rich. But just be a little good on your own. That's all..

And yes, it’s much much much harder to marry when rich, especially if you have no ulterior motive ( like marrying a girl that jilted you, or the prettiest girl, or a rich or connected man’s daughter etc)

SpecialAdviser:
Lol. What about you?

U guess na

SyrusdeHansome:


U guess na

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SpecialAdviser:

Hmmmm. You are a Christian now. Congratulations. Hope your mum also ed

My mom use 2b childrens' pastor in winners chapel sef. Thanks all the same.

fineboynl:
If a man doesn't marry when he is broke. Marriage become difficult when he is rich. Especially getting the right one without money influence or family interference.

Ask any successful rich guys they will it the simple fact about getting the right one since everyone is drawn to success.

No be lie o
Thats the more reason i am trying to settle down with this present lady i am involved with
Because if the future is what i imagine
I go just find one small fine girl as baby mama and sign contracts with her

It's hell when you are poor.


Difficult is better.

bonnyhope:


There was form 6
But not ss3 as it is presently called

We had 2 year A levels after form 5 for those who wanted to proceed to the University with direct entry.
The first year was Lower six and the second year was known as Upper six.
.

There are two way of the coin, when you have money and you cant find the right one to marry, and when you don't have money and you get the right one to marry, and you don't have that money to spend or take care of the one you love.. so the journey of love is so complicated..

Fountainofyouth:



Be like say only nairaland guys live inside caves

There are poor graduates marrying themselves every weekend, and pepper sellers marrying bricklayers too, why do you guys like to go with a narrative simply to castigate women? Na only rich people dey marry?

Don't mind them with their silly narratives. People get married everyday. Love still exists.
Find your match, know your level and you'll not suffer

Theweekend:
so u luv older women who would be petting u like a baby i think say na only me dey dis category

lol i love older woman

Little21:

Y'all should stop saying "all girls". How many girls out there do you know . Everyone gets what they want. If you want a partner that will be with you no matter what situation you are, You will definitely get it... So stop attacking anyone who lay out their opinion, you all have the Right too your opinion. And everyone opinion is respected. Stop being rude. You guys here, think any girl that comment here is going through some shit. Y'all should stop that mentality Ok!

If you're an exception, we could hit the ground running.

Evolutionlove:


Your first paragraph🤣

God Abeg Sir🙏

Lol.

It's bitter truth.

Hunger no good fit body ooo

izonborn098:
You are the one fooling urself... This bitch is fighting depression so becareful with her....

She is really fighting depression, and it appears she was just dashed a new phone😁😂😀😂😂😁

delpee:


We had 2 year A levels after form 5 for those who wanted to proceed to the University with direct entry.
The first year was Lower six and the second year was known as Upper six.
.

Ok

That's 2 categories of class 6

fineboynl:
If a man doesn't marry when he is broke. Marriage become difficult when he is rich. Especially getting the right one without money influence or family interference.

Ask any successful rich guys they will it the simple fact about getting the right one since everyone is drawn to success.

Hmm.. When we were growing, this motivational speakers or pastors so to say asked us to show who we intended marrying our vision even if all is not working yet. I did that and am regretting it.

When you have your money as a man, go for a successful woman in Asia. Simple as ABC.

mrrandomguy:
Feminism and socialism go hand in hand. Just like in the 10s and 20s of 1900, we now see a resurgence of socialism in the form of woke-ism.

The goal is to destroy family, because family is a strong unit. Humans can be very strong IF they have the of a healthy family. Take that away and you can easily manipulate and control them.

That's why governments gladly help women to become totally privileged and for men to be broken down and brainwashed. It will hurt humanity, the country and the government economically, but I guess they either ignore that or have some plan for after the big crash.

Feminism (whether Nigerian feminism or Somalian feminism) is all about pulling men down, making men miserable, and breaking men in any way and every way possible. Don't ever believe the definition they give it in any dictionary. The earlier you know this the better.

Men should man up and put women where they belong. Stop encouraging women to become firefighters. In case you don't know, the moment they start doing these risky jobs and succeeding, that is the end of your happiness as men. That is when you will know that men are "scum".

The reason why feminism has become this successful is due to men like you and me ignorantly encouraging women to take over your responsibilities. Men should be alive to their responsibilities and build up their fellow men.

Very true. The level injustice done to men in the name of women empowerment is alarming. I'm in tech and I can tell you the number of funds, programs, internships, grants accessible to only women is unbelievable. Yet there is no single program exclusive to men.
When they say inclusiveness, they just mean strong men should lower their standard and weak women should be handed undeserved advantage. But if it happens that a woman is stronger, everyone shouts " woman power" , "go girl". But " go boy" is misogyny and should be crushed.
The hypocrisy thrown to our faces is so so sickening. And the sad truth is the powers pushing for this weakening of men is from highest level of society.

You literally can't raise fund if you don't demonstrate enough that your organization is all for woman empowerment (men subjugation).

YoungLionken:
Absolutely correct!!

Love's very hard to find/get as a rich man than as a poor man, because most Nigerian women already bagged PhD in pretence and manipulation. Only a naive boy would fall for such gimmick as love..

I would advise that you marry that lady that stayed/struggled with you when you had nothing, than to pitch a new romantic tent with another one, who only came after the storms are over...

What if she cheated on you along the line?

mrrandomguy:
Feminism and socialism go hand in hand. Just like in the 10s and 20s of 1900, we now see a resurgence of socialism in the form of woke-ism.

The goal is to destroy family, because family is a strong unit. Humans can be very strong IF they have the of a healthy family. Take that away and you can easily manipulate and control them.

That's why governments gladly help women to become totally privileged and for men to be broken down and brainwashed. It will hurt humanity, the country and the government economically, but I guess they either ignore that or have some plan for after the big crash.

Feminism (whether Nigerian feminism or Somalian feminism) is all about pulling men down, making men miserable, and breaking men in any way and every way possible. Don't ever believe the definition they give it in any dictionary. The earlier you know this the better.

Men should man up and put women where they belong. Stop encouraging women to become firefighters. In case you don't know, the moment they start doing these risky jobs and succeeding, that is the end of your happiness as men. That is when you will know that men are "scum".

The reason why feminism has become this successful is due to men like you and me ignorantly encouraging women to take over your responsibilities. Men should be alive to their responsibilities and build up their fellow men.

fineboynl:
If a man doesn't marry when he is broke. Marriage become difficult when he is rich. Especially getting the right one without money influence or family interference.

Ask any successful rich guys they will it the simple fact about getting the right one since everyone is drawn to success.

Marriage remains a mystery. It doesn't follow any pattern or rules. Even broke people do get it wrong, pray you don't fall into the hands of a troublesome woman

Wealth corrupts people who are already bad but humbled by poverty and also those who acquired it through unjust means.

I was telling someone the other day that if I have Bill Gates kind of wealth today, I will be more humble and disciplined than I already am, no lifestyle changes may be noticed by people.

If every Nigerian bride decides to follow money and won't let you differentiate between mechanic and mad people, then a little disguise will suffice.

However, I will not give out my daughter to a man of limited resources. You are either comfortable or I will need to see your long term plan on how to become comfortable.

justli:


Very true. The level injustice done to men in the name of women empowerment is alarming. I'm in tech and I can tell you the number of funds, programs, internships, grants accessible to only women is unbelievable. Yet there is no single program exclusive to men.
When they say inclusiveness, they just mean strong men should lower their standard and weak women should be handed undeserved advantage. But if it happens that a woman is stronger, everyone shouts " woman power" , "go girl". But " go boy" is misogyny and should be crushed.
The hypocrisy thrown to our faces is so so sickening. And the sad truth is the powers pushing for this weakening of men is from highest level of society.

You literally can't raise fund if you don't demonstrate enough that your organization is all for woman empowerment (men subjugation).

God bless you sir for saying this... I have been observing this issues, when women calls for equality, I just laugh

Dshocker:


Like, they informed you that they were poor, i don't understand?

Why not ask the person I replied who first called them poor men?

ExudeLoveToAll:


Very wrong assertion, life doesn't work like this.

Meeting a food spouse has nothing to do with been good or bad. Life can happen wether you are good or not.

Yet men tell women all the time that if they're unmarried at 30+, it's their bad character that caused it.

Even a broke poor woman shouldn't be getting married.

Op is preaching irresponsibility.