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As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

If you ask me eh marrying marrying a girl is not about the age but the level of intelligence, spirituality and morals
In the 90s I would have said 18years to 25years girls are good to go. But this 21st century my brother don't marry that age bracket. But if you must do then make sure the lady is well brought up from a good family and also that she has a mind of her own thereby she will not be influenced by pair pressure from all those marine children on IG and tiktok.

madone:
If you ask me eh marrying marrying girl is not about the age but the level of intelligence, spirituality and morals
In the 90s I would have said 18years to 25years girls are good to go. But this 21st century my brother don't marry an that age bracket. But if you must do then make sure the lady is well brought up from a good family and also that she has a mind of her own thereby she will not be influenced by pair pressure from all this marine children on IG and tiktok.

You’ve said it all. There’s nothing to add!

spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

Personally, I wouldn't mind hitting it off with someone younger but if I'm 35, I doubt i will consider anyone below 21 at all for something serious......... And if she's well mannered, you will get this fulfilment of being adored and building someone up. This depends on the kind of person you are anyways.

Why so young?? What do you both have in common?
25 Nd above is fine...
But mental capacity matters.. who you marries irrespective of her age, will be the one to handle you, your family, and also your household... So no use your hand carry tictoc customer put for house

Brb

TimT:
Why so young?? What do you both have in common?
25 Nd above is fine...
But mental capacity matters.. who you marries irrespective of her age, will be the one to handle you, your family, and also your household... So no use your hand carry tictoc customer put for house

she's very beautiful and caring

spyroet:
she's very beautiful and caring

Nothing like beautiful and caring o...
Beauty will fade away oo...
How can she handle pressure?..
Is she the complaining type??
Check well o...

You will have chicken pox.....


Now ask yourself what are the pros and cons of marrying yourself.

Can you keep up with the sexual needs of that young woman At 35 most Nigerian men already have high blood pressure, weak erection, diabetes, pot belle etc . If she cheats inside the marriage you will still complain. Marriage is not sustained by youth too. So i can never understand men’s obsession with younger women

Like what have been said earlier, don't think of settling for any bellow 25. I just married early this year and I was at this junction too trying to make decisions but unfortunately all the girls bellow 25 I met were drama none was marriable or let me say they were not even ready in action and characters still enjoying their prime. I later reconnected with an old lover of mine whose now is my wife and the rest are now history. I am enjoying my home and she is very understanding and quiet to my liking. My brother please check the maturity of the lady and not just only beauty ,because what keep home is understanding and Love .

I'm still regrating it.
But once in a while you may meet one that is very mature, most of them have nothing to bring to the table except STI's.

One of the greatest mistake I made in my life is the woman I marry, pls my brother calm down do alot of test on the woman, I mean hard test, pretend as if u are broke for several months see her reactions, as am telling u now I live alone 😭😭😭 with my 2 boys 5 and 7years old taking care of them all alone no help from anyone, sometimes even to go Hussle is hard bços to live them alone at home na war and now school go soon resume, house rent is there too, but I still believe God will provide. Pls brother marry a woman that have head oooooooooooooooooooooo, no go make mistake for ur life. God bless you.

In this modern generation, an 18 to 24 or even 25 and 26 years old girls are still in their hoe phases, only an idiot would venture into such investment

I married my longtime girlfriend of almost 13 year's when she is already in her 30s

Box34:
Like what have been said earlier, don't think of settling for any bellow 25. I just married early this year and I was at this junction too trying to make decisions but unfortunately all the girls bellow 25 I met were drama none was marriable or let me say they were not even ready in action and characters still enjoying their prime. I later reconnected with an old lover of mine whose now is my wife and the rest are now history. I am enjoying my home and she is very understanding and quiet to my liking. My brother please check the maturity of the lady and not just only beauty ,because what keep home is understanding and Love .

na man u be

Even people wer never marry before dey give marriage advice . People wer even their relationship never last reach 2 years dey give advice

Anyone u choose learn to please yourself as in respect yourself. Am married but sure I know my lady is attractive but she knows I like her enough to not mind losing her. Even while applying body lotion she tease me on how careful I treat myself. Quite a lot of us won't enjoy life because we give others our power. If they Bleep madam 🤣 it will hurt me but still it her decision, I have choice of mine too. We need to stop valuing things above it true value. People can't stop being themselves set boundaries and overlook other stuff. If cheating is a deal breaker please try not do am too. I wash clothes too, I cook 🍳, I let her initiate sex too and control my urge. Prepare yourself for quality friendship, get rid of toxic ones quick to avoid creating excuses within yourself. See we are not our partner parents nothing like hoe phase, inexperienced makes people think much can be achieved with little time.

No pros and cons. Just have money and influence. the late Alaafin of Oyo and his young wives

Just know she will be dependent on you cos she's still very young. If she is well raised and you are responsible, it will work.

But if you want to live like the devil outside your motive for a younger wife is sexual gratification and an ego stroke, sorry in advance!

If you are marrying a woman in her prime you better be a top notch individual yourself.

Their eyes never tear, their pussy get low mileage too and the engine never knock.

Immature

spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

pro: you can easily find a virgin at that age range 18 to 22 and see will be very royal to you and love you with all her anus.

You can easily install sense on them and they can be corrected from their wrong doing.

Feminist movement group ( from evening newspapers) haven't corrupt them yet and this is the best time to catch them young

From 24 and above run ohh! Their yansh dey like borehole
Sexing the above age group is like putting your pipe on sewage channels

Where is Jennyclay?

There's a nairalander looking for a wife o!

I use God name beg you, leave those young girls alone, look for one 28 to 32 matured lady with low mileage.
Low mileage very important oooo. If you're lucky you might see one that is direct Belgium.
Above is for Nigerian girls staying and living in Nigeria.

Anything above 28 is good for me even 31.

They will show you shege

Successful marriage is not determined by age, religion, tribe, financial status, bedroom skills etc...just pray you marry a virtuous woman who will give you happiness and peace of mind.

A 35 year old man wanting to marry a lady who is between 18 to 22 years old, person whey still dey her exploratory stage, na im uncle wan tie down with marriage............

KingLennon:
Even people wer never marry before dey give marriage advice . People wer even their relationship never last reach 2 years dey give advice

Na the Nigerian reality wey dey always surprise me so.

Pros: as you grow your wife will not easily 'ourgrow you'

Cons: most young lady of 22 are still in hoe face

madone:
If you ask me eh marrying marrying a girl is not about the age but the level of intelligence, spirituality and morals
In the 90s I would have said 18years to 25years girls are good to go. But this 21st century my brother don't marry that age bracket. But if you must do then make sure the lady is well brought up from a good family and also that she has a mind of her own thereby she will not be influenced by pair pressure from all those marine children on IG and tiktok.

Word

No pros or cons, if she misbehaves, kick her out.