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The Word “Marriage Is Just For Once” Is A Scam Don't Fall For It? (15799 Views)

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phemmyfour: 12:20pm On Aug 19, 2023
Ruuchiinaa:
What tribe/state in Nigeria have the highest bride price?




Igbo (Imo State)
Re: The Word “Marriage Is Just For Once” Is A Scam Don't Fall For It? by Nobody: 1:10pm On Aug 19, 2023
wrongman665:
and his wife sidon at home nothing concern am. Marriage only favour women, no one would decieve me to go into it.

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Ruuchiinaa: 3:26pm On Aug 19, 2023
Thanks

phemmyfour:
Igbo (Imo State)
Epinigirls: 7:57pm On Aug 19, 2023
IPDGP:


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ai9090: 9:09pm On Aug 19, 2023
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Gerrard59(m): 2:49pm On Aug 20, 2023
Jman06:
Nonsense and marriage!!!


Until the day anybody would give me one tangible benefit of marriage to a man, I'll continue to see that institution as a scam against the menfolk.

Many men getting married these days are doing that just to meet societal expectations. Nothing more!

Having children within a two-parent household is the major benefit. Another benefit could be or is companionship.

P.S. Raising children within a two-parent household is the best environment for having properly raised children as adjudged by studies globally.

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Jman06(m): 3:06pm On Aug 20, 2023
Gerrard59:


Having children within a two-parent household is the major benefit. Another benefit could be or is companionship.

P.S. Raising children within a two-parent household is the best environment for having properly raised children as adjudged by studies globally.
Those are not tangible reasons. I believe that children can be properly raised by one parent provided that resources are there.
Also, most men don't find ideal companionship in women! Any honest married man would tell you that he doesn't even have time to start doing companionship with his wife when he's busy working his butt off to pay bills.

Men get the best companionships in beer parlours with fellow men or in different social clubs or fraternities to which they belong.

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Lovelydaisies: 3:47pm On Aug 20, 2023
A colleague posted a wedding pic of a couple with twenty guests, her family and the groom's inclusive. They receptioned in a restaurant and she wore a simple gown for the reception.

These things are definitely possible.

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fineboynl(m): 4:23pm On Aug 20, 2023
Lovelydaisies:
A colleague posted a wedding pic of a couple with twenty guests, her family and the groom's inclusive. They receptioned in a restaurant and she wore a simple gown for the reception.

These things are definitely possible.
the service from the restaurant would even be better
Zedoo(m): 6:18pm On Aug 20, 2023
spiSeyi:
Just because you don't know how to maintain a vehicle doesn't make the vehicle model bad. Honda is bad yet it's a good car for those that can maintain it. Just because you failed in your marriage doesn't make marriage a scam. People who conclude that marriage is a scam are those that allow emotions to becloud their sense of reasoning by chosing to ignore the red flags during courtship tongue . I repeat Marriage is not a scam and it is the best institution in life if you enter it logically and with Godly principle. Read Waiting & Dating by Myles munroe cool

Once anybody starts quoting books I know they’re the type with a billion mentors and have never finished any project they started.
Marriage is not the best institution in life and is not meant for everybody.
Men who are down bad NEED women to feel like men.
Women take advantage of men to complete their life cycle through birth and cheat for the rest of the marriage while the man continues to sweat to keep the family together either that or woman is suffering endlessly to cater to family while man is useless.
The smal percentage of TRULY happy couples that exist outside of this did not read any books and are often outliers with their own unique way of life, never found in a church, mosque or whatever place where people gather to lure and induce themselves into doctrines.
The end.

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Zedoo(m): 6:20pm On Aug 20, 2023
ISellBeer:
God bless you OP
Once you get married (for guys) you will start noticing that your prick might not stand for months, it's not infection but more bills that keep Pilling up for you to settle.

I only did traditional wedding and I am not doing any white wedding. White wedding is a scam also, can't fall for that.

I just dey vex anyhow, this Tinubu ehhhh, make I see am first

Na this part Dey always make me laugh, who forced you into it? Nobody.
Gerrard59(m): 4:27am On Aug 21, 2023
Jman06:
Those are not tangible reasons. I believe that children can be properly raised by one parent provided that resources are there.
Also, most men don't find ideal companionship in women! Any honest married man would tell you that he doesn't even have time to start doing companionship with his wife when he's busy working his butt off to pay bills.

Men get the best companionships in beer parlours with fellow men or in different social clubs or fraternities to which they belong.

Well, judging from studies conducted globally by different researchers, that is not true. The best environment to raise children is in a two-parent household consisting of a father (man) and a mother (woman). If you believe otherwise, conduct your scientific/social science study and publish the results in a peer-reviewed journal.

P.S. In most developed societies where government interventions and subsidies exist, most poor people are those from single-parent homes. Then imagine the same in poor countries? Multidimensional poverty loading.... shocked shocked
Jman06(m): 7:30am On Aug 21, 2023
Gerrard59:


Well, judging from studies conducted globally by different researchers, that is not true. The best environment to raise children is in a two-parent household consisting of a father (man) and a mother (woman). If you believe otherwise, conduct your scientific/social science study and publish the results in a peer-reviewed journal.

P.S. In most developed societies where government interventions and subsidies exist, most poor people are those from single-parent homes. Then imagine the same in poor countries? Multidimensional poverty loading.... shocked shocked
If it's just about the fear of poverty, then I don't have anything to worry about because I can comfortably take care of my kid(s). I don't plan to birth more than two
Kobicove(m): 12:40pm On Aug 21, 2023
MrsTwrite:
I have someone who borrowed 5million naira to do a huge wedding ceremony. He's currently frustrated, going from one friends house, aunt's, uncle's to beg from them.

Big marriage ceremony is not a do or die affair because at the end of the ceremony, it's just you and your wife.

I'm sure it was his wife who stampeded him into taking that loan undecided

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MrsTwrite(f): 5:15pm On Aug 21, 2023
Kobicove:


I'm sure it was his wife who stampeded him into taking that loan undecided

😂🤣And she's fat.
Gerrard59(m): 3:06am On Aug 22, 2023
Jman06:
If it's just about the fear of poverty, then I don't have anything to worry about because I can comfortably take care of my kid(s). I don't plan to birth more than two

Again, the children need motherly care and advice. How do you intend to navigate around this?
Jman06(m): 9:54am On Aug 22, 2023
Gerrard59:


Again, the children need motherly care and advice. How do you intend to navigate around this?
If motherly care becomes absolutely necessary, then I can hire someone to play that role. But I have seen quite a number of people who were properly raised without their mothers.
Lovelydaisies: 11:11am On Aug 22, 2023
fineboynl:
the service from the restaurant would even be better

LoL, probably. But things would definitely be enough to go round.
fineboynl(m): 11:20am On Aug 22, 2023
Lovelydaisies:


LoL, probably. But things would definitely be enough to go round.
imagine jollof and fried rice mixed with big chicken and bottle water and holladia yoghurt.

A plate 3.5k
Yoghurt 1.5k

Per person should be 5k

Imagine the treats and gathering with pictures

5k X 20 people = 100k.
Lovelydaisies: 10:17am On Aug 23, 2023
fineboynl:
imagine jollof and fried rice mixed with big chicken and bottle water and holladia yoghurt.

A plate 3.5k
Yoghurt 1.5k

Per person should be 5k

Imagine the treats and gathering with pictures

5k X 20 people = 100k.

Not a bad quotation. Everything go go well.
chidekings(m): 3:11pm On Aug 11, 2024
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