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ChemicalReaction:


Life is not all black and white, there are some grey areas, too. Sometimes just behave like mumu to get the answers you want. If he could afford it, I don't see how buying the cream for a woman he claimed to be dating should be a problem. No be ordinary cream? Was he expecting a millionaire to be using 5K cream? 😅

It's possible she has gotten the answer she needed, whether to forge ahead with a relationship with OP or not.

It's possible she wanted to do away with OP, reason she asked for the cream few days after they met.
It's possible she wanted to test him the same way "rich" men test their broke babes.

Bottom line is, it is not every woman who asks you for favours that actually needs it, but at this point OP may never be able to figure out her intentions because like the Nigerians we are, we're already programmed to label every woman who asks for favour as materialistic.

Some women, particularly independent women have seen shege in relationships, they, like their male counterparts have met leeches and gold diggers in the name of love, reason why they test you before it starts to get too serious.

So according to you and this epistle to the simps, the best and ONLY way to test him was to ask him to buy cream for her? Yet she came to his house and ate his food and he never used that to TEST her as FFO(for food only).

The way una dey reason sometimes for this forum taya me. The other girls up there asked him to date his league as if relationships are about money, class and status and yet these ones too dey find real love.

N.B: To the men out there, you should see now for yourself that your usefulness is never as a human being but what you can provide. You are nothing but a tool to be used. Take the redpill and start prioritizing your needs from now on. OP did the right thing

45k cream for someone you described as a "millionaire with multiple businesses" is, in fact, low. Itzzz like you don't know the cost of women's skin care routine. How do you think skincare businesses make their money? On IG alone, there are more than 500,000 pages selling vitamin c serum, astringent bla bla in Nigeria.... 🤣🤣 Women with basic income buy these things all the time. Don't compare with what you'll do as a man. The things women prioritise differ largely.

The only problem is asking you to fund her lifestyle a week into the relationship. Everything she said about herself might actually be a scam.

Acidosis:

45k cream for someone you described as a "millionaire with multiple businesses" is, in fact, low. Itzzz like you don't know the cost of women's skin care routine. Women with basic income spend more.

The only problem is asking you to fund her lifestyle a week into the relationship. Everything she said about herself might actually be a scam.

What most ladies don't know is cream doesn't do much on your skin
Eat healthy and excercise and you'll glow.
Use 5million naira cream and you'll look dirty when you stand next to me(bitter truth) 😂.

IconicR:
What most ladies don't know is cream doesn't do much on your skin
Eat healthy and excercise and you'll glow.
Use 5million naira cream and you'll look dirty when you stand next to me(bitter truth) 😂.

The impact is usually for a short period of time. This is why they never go back once they start buying. The day you stop using that cream, wahala go burst

So you have a glowing skin and you exercise? Send pishure. Let's confirm.

Acidosis:


The impact is usually for a short period of time. This is why they never go back once they start buying. The day you stop using that cream, wahala go burst

So you have a glowing skin and you exercise? Send pishure. Let's confirm.

Come my house and see for yourself 😂.
Truly creams can be damaging to the skin especially those harsh ones.
I have lost count of times I was being approached to inquire about my skin care routine and they don't always believe my response, some will just tell me you naturally have beautiful skin if that's all you do.
Even my mom doesn't do much and she still turn heads.
Just eat healthy and excercise, give the body the necessary rest and you'll glow

2 last year, and 1 this year.

Honestly, I barely believe these stories you guys complain About here. But I was shocked. When I experienced mine, How she told me, we can't be in a relationship anymore. Just because I didn't give her the 15k she requested for.

First of all, she started with a phone. I dudged that one, and told her I don't have the money yet. Secondly clothes, and money for hair, I gave her the money for hair.

The one that got be offended was then the 15k. I scolded her. And told her to stop all this her request for this and that, as if she can't get these things by her self from her monthly Pay.

We were meant to go on a dinner date, and I asked her if she will be going with me. She said yes.

So I was coming with an uber. To pick her, all of a sudden she called and said I should be going. She will be coming by herself.

I got there, sent her a message. I was already there waiting.

After few minutes, this girl, sent me a long note. How she won't be coming any longer. And no longer interested in the relationship. I read the message and kept quiet. I didn't even bother my self. Since this was something she could have simply told me and we could talk about it, we can talk about, why this irrational behaviour.

About 4 months later, this girl sent me a message, about how she was sorry over the manner she broke up with me.

And that I should please forgive her,and accept her back if possible. I didn't even respond to her message.

It was later on, I heard the real gist from a friend that knows a friend to the guy she dumped me for.

The guy really did her, dirty. The dude promised this girl marriage, and later dumped her. .

This life sha, truely, all that glitters isn't gold.

IconicR:
Come my house and see for yourself 😂.
Truly creams can be damaging to the skin especially those harsh ones.
I have lost count of times I was being approached to inquire about my skin care routine and they don't always believe my response, some will just tell me you naturally have beautiful skin if that's all you do.
Even my mom doesn't do much and she still turn heads.
Just eat healthy and excercise, give the body the necessary rest and you'll glow

I no dey go woman house

I agree. Nothing beats the natural and basic things like exercise and healthy living.

Most of those creams are harsh o, some even bear the label "acid" but there is a limit to what you can apply at any given time.

The only scary part, for me, is the fact that you'll always have to continue to maintain your skin. And there's this peer pressure thing attached to skincare.

Acidosis:


I no dey go woman house

I agree. Nothing beats the natural and basic things like exercise and healthy living.

Most of those creams are harsh o, some even bear the label "acid" but there is a limit to what you can apply at any given time.

The only scary part, for me, is the fact that you'll always have to continue to maintain your skin. And there's this peer pressure thing attached to skincare.

Even the continuous maintenance is not guaranteed because as long as you tampered your skin with a harsh cream, be ready for the damage ahead.
The damage always hit hard at an advance age and by that time no amount of maintenance can save you.
You no Dy go woman house indeed 👀👀👀

IconicR:
Even the continuous maintenance is not guaranteed because as long as you tampered your skin with a harsh cream, be ready for the damage ahead.
The damage always hit hard at an advance age and by that time no amount of maintenance can save you.
You no Dy go woman house indeed 👀👀👀

Hmmn.. Another scary part --- old age! Well let's hope it will never be as bad as you imagine.

Of course ! So if you wan .

Wahala 🤣 abi she be goddess,cream 45k. Jesus Christ, person salary

luminouz:


So according to you and this epistle to the simps, the best and ONLY way to test him was to ask him to buy cream for her? Yet she came to his house and ate his food and he never used that to TEST her as FFO(for food only).

The way una dey reason sometimes for this forum taya me. The other girls up there asked him to date his league as if relationships are about money, class and status and yet these ones too dey find real love.

N.B: To the men out there, you should see now for yourself that your usefulness is never as a human being but what you can provide. You are nothing but a tool to be used. Take the redpill and start prioritizing your needs from now on. OP did the right thing

yes I stand with you

Bunkbars:
2 last this year, and 1 this year.

Honestly, I barely believe these stories you guys complain About here. But I was shocked. How she told me, we can't be in a relationship anymore. Just before I didn't give her the 15k she requested for.

First of all, she started with a phone. I dudged it, and told her I don't have. Secondly clothes, and money for hair, I gave her the money for hair only.

The one that got be offended was then the 15k. I scolded her. And earned her never to beg me for money like she can't get these things by her self from her monthly Pay.

We were meant to go on a dinner date, and I asked her if she was coming. She was coming. She said yes.

I was to pick her, with an uber. She said no problem. I should be going. She will be there soon.

I got there, sent her a message. I was already there waiting.

This girl, sent me a long note. How she won't be coming any longer. And no longer interested in the relationship. I read the message and kept shut. I didn't even bother my self. Since this was something she could have simply told me and we could talk about it

About 4 months later, this girl sent me a message, about how she was sorry over the manner she broke up with me.

And that I should please forgive her,and accept her back if possible. I didn't even respond to her.

It was later on I heard the real gist from a friend that knows a friend to the guy she dumped me for.

The guy really did my ex, dirty. The dude promised this girl marriage, and later dumped her. .

This life sha, truely, all that glitters isn't gold.

hahahahahahahhaha

fourboys:
Lies no even fit u

My wife cream is 60k.she never demanded for it,i introduced her to it n she loves it.mine is 35k.whos that one saying 45k cream is a lie

Now let me ask this one time, is there a difference between a rich lady's pussy and other pussies?
Now why would I spend 45k for a cream on a lady whose pussy ain't magical.
Sure she is testing him, she is also testing the size of his pocket and how vulnerable he is to her manipulation techniques.
You did good son, she will milk you dry and dump you.

For those of you robbing 50k creams, 40k sef, what!, anybody robbing any creame above 2.5k in this hard time, when I dey find 20k wey I go tk revive my business, God dey watch una.

My ex collects 2m a month as salary but she still asked me to give her 150k to add and rent a house. I left her that day

Persephone1:
You went after a lady way out of your league but somehow she's at fault. Lol

is the cream a set



or how the fvck is a cream 45k ...

🙄🙄🙄

Persephone1:
Calm down guys it's possible. A set of Novage cream cost over that. Lol .

Na op him boundary

e dey lighten pesin



abi e dey reverse old age...


if it doesn't do any of two..


why on earth should a person spend that much on a cream??

luminouz:


So according to you and this epistle to the simps, the best and ONLY way to test him was to ask him to buy cream for her? Yet she came to his house and ate his food and he never used that to TEST her as FFO(for food only).

The way una dey reason sometimes for this forum taya me. The other girls up there asked him to date his league as if relationships are about money, class and status and yet these ones too dey find real love.

N.B: To the men out there, you should see now for yourself that your usefulness is never as a human being but what you can provide. You are nothing but a tool to be used. Take the redpill and start prioritizing your needs from now on. OP did the right thing

like


you fly business class..

you three exotic cars

yet you're calling me to tell you ain't got money for cream ...


why not sell one of those luxury cars and get some cream for yourself...

It's not like I'll be the only one hitting the cunt ..

IconicR:
What most ladies don't know is cream doesn't do much on your skin
Eat healthy and excercise and you'll glow.
Use 5million naira cream and you'll look dirty when you stand next to me(bitter truth) 😂.

how much is your cream??

😁😁😁😁

Silentgroper:




how much is your cream??

😁😁😁😁

This question should be from my future oga

Acidosis:


I no dey go woman house

I agree. Nothing beats the natural and basic things like exercise and healthy living.

Most of those creams are harsh o, some even bear the label "acid" but there is a limit to what you can apply at any given time.

The only scary part, for me, is the fact that you'll always have to continue to maintain your skin. And there's this peer pressure thing attached to skincare.

when they start getting cancer of this and that they'd start crying foul ...


It's no wonder they say ailments like that only happens to the rich..

IconicR:
This question should be from my future oga

who says I can't be your future oga...



😁😁😁

IconicR:
This question should be from my future oga

Alright.. assume I'm your future oga for 5min.



😁😁😁


now answer my question

Silentgroper:


Alright.. assume I'm your future oga for 5min.



😁😁😁


now answer my question

Assumptions no good

IconicR:
Assumptions no good

kpele

IconicR:
Assumptions no good

He asked an harmless question but from what I understand with some either ebony or light complexioned people is their natural glowing skin even if they use vaseline their skins still glows, I am lucky to be like that.

Nigerians and low self-esteem
Equating price of cream to healthier skin care
You guys should keep introducing cancer causing agents into your body in the name of "am using a more expensive cream than you"

The funny thing is that cheaper creams/lotions like baby oil, vaseline are more healthier to the skin than one 500k customized cream that contains all kinds of carcinogens because the manufacturers only care about having a fat bank .

The most annoying set of people are the bleaching crew
That's the lowest level of low self-esteem

Each man for himself

goodmike7:



He asked an harmless question but from what I understand with some either ebony or light complexioned people is their natural glowing skin even if they use vaseline their skins still glows, I am lucky to be like that.

picture or we don't believe

bdon123:

My wife cream is 60k.she never demanded for it,i introduced her to it n she loves it.mine is 35k.whos that one saying 45k cream is a lie

luminouz:


So according to you and this epistle to the simps, the best and ONLY way to test him was to ask him to buy cream for her? Yet she came to his house and ate his food and he never used that to TEST her as FFO(for food only).

The way una dey reason sometimes for this forum taya me. The other girls up there asked him to date his league as if relationships are about money, class and status and yet these ones too dey find real love.

N.B: To the men out there, you should see now for yourself that your usefulness is never as a human being but what you can provide. You are nothing but a tool to be used. Take the redpill and start prioritizing your needs from now on. OP did the right thing

First of all, what is real love? I'm asking cos I honestly want to learn from you.

Secondly, nobody is saying OP did the wrong thing. Two things are involved. It's either he's not able to afford her lifestyle or it's a problem of wrong timing on the lady's part., which is actually the problem I see, too. Because truthfully, one week is too sudden to ask another person to fund her expensive skincare routine just yet. You can't meet someone last week and you're already asking them for favours when it's not an emergency.

That said, your problem is that she dared asked him for cream when she could afford it, and I ask again, how is asking someone you're supposedly in a relationship with for cream a big deal?

Is it that the money is too much for you? If that is the case then OP, already made it clear she could afford her lifestyle. I mean, he's the one who met her at the airport and knows what he saw that made him ask for her number, right? Person will not be using 45K cream and her skin will not be skinning, or she won't exude elegance with the way she dressed and the manner she carried herself.

You sounded like a broken record with the red pill hogwash for someone who understands the "real" definition of love... If you want to be uncharitable in your relationship, no wahala... But don't come here sounding as though you understand love.

Bottom line is, whether man or woman, everybody wants to feel secure in the choices they've made, and saying "I love you" is never enough. One's ability to provide should also be factored into the equation of a serious relationship. Good thing the gentleman already understands they are not financially compatible and has done the needful

Is the purpose of this forum always to broke shame women? Which single girl has 3 cars and can't afford her cream? Let's be sensible for once. Which single girl even buys 3 cars?