NewStats: 3,261,512 , 8,174,215 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 01:15 PM 1f6v2s

Samantha124:
You're right, they only go for broke street girls.

And why would I want to be approached by a Nigerian when there are SA men?

And you're rich and mansion dwelling girl!? 😆🤣, keep fooling and deceiving yourself 🤡
None would even approach you so cut the special crap, you don't even worth Naija guys, mtcheeww

Samantha124:
We all need money and we have to work for it, or find a way to work for it.

But Nigerian men have this tendecy of downgrading women by making it seem like all they have to do is open their legs and get paid.

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Samantha124:
Who said I'm complaining?

And why would I complain about something I don't care about?

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Samantha124:
I'm only talking based on what I heard from those ladies who have experience.

And honestly speaking, I don't want to experience that love because next thing he's gonna start expecting me to be cooking Nigerian food, the food I might not even eat.

Everything you wrote in these responses are all hearsays, and gossips, and lies..



And if you never cared,, I wonder why you have such ladies so much around you, and even make out time to listen to their stories, and yet you don't care?

Okay.

Caleycash:
And you're rich and mansion dwelling girl!? 😆🤣, keep fooling and deceiving yourself 🤡
None would even approach you so cut the special crap, you don't even worth Naija guys, mtcheeww

You're entitled to your own opinion.

BluntCrazeMan:

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Everything you wrote in these responses are all hearsays, and gossips, and lies..



And if you never cared,, I wonder why you have such ladies so much around you, and even make out time to listen to their stories, and yet you don't care?

Samantha124:
You're entitled to your own opinion.

Now you landed.


You made a faulty generalization based the opinion you formed for yourself on hearsays and gossips.

You aired the opinion.
Though they were your opinions,, but they are all faulty when viewed from other various perspectives.

Dude, your brothers are attention seekers everywhere they go... They want to be noticed.

I said I've heard some stories and seen some... Not everything is based on hearsay.. if you guys want to be respected all the time, then caution your brothers to behave when they get to other people's countries.

It's your brothers' fault that we see them the way we do... How come Zimbabweans date a lot of SA girls, but they don't go around using money to buy their love and seeking for everyone's attention?

BluntCrazeMan:




Now you landed.


You made a faulty generalization based the opinion you formed for yourself on hearsays and gossips.

You aired the opinion.
Though they were your opinions,, but they are all faulty when viewed from other various perspectives.

Samantha124:
But I don't hate you guys.

I'm here to learn about you guys so that I can stop having this fear of the unknown about Nigerian guys.

What will I gain from hating you guys?

ok then..... stick to your south African men with their protruding forehead

Samantha124:
Dude, your brothers are attention seekers everywhere they go... They want to be noticed.

I said I've heard some stories and seen some... Not everything is based on hearsay.. if you guys want to be respected all the time, then caution your brothers to behave when they get to other people's countries.

It's your brothers' fault that we see them the way we do... How come Zimbabweans date a lot of SA girls, but they don't go around using money to buy their love and seeking for everyone's attention?

In case you might wanna know, Nigerians date far more SA girls than the Zimbabweans do.
And then also, Nigerians love spending money (lots of money),, whether in a relationship or not. (And that's a lifestyle which some people love and even enjoy so much about Nigerians)

If that's what you hate about Nigerians, then you voice it out..... and stop pretending to be counting the number of “SA Girls” which other men from other countries are dating.



Nigerians enjoy spending money.
And if spending money is not good, then, you have to start letting us know how bad it really is.

Samantha124:
I don't care what you Nigerian men say... .. I'm content and at peace with my SA brothers.

I wouldn't be in a relationship with a Nigerian man even if he was the last man on earth... Even SA ladies are just tolerating you guys because of your money, they don't love...🤣🤣🤣

LOl so its your buthis who love you
? yet they kill, lynch, abuse and rape you every hour in the townships right?

The amount of Nigerians married to a SAn is over 1m not to talk about baby daddies.

Lol... Zimbabweans date more SA girls, but you wouldn't know that because most of them don't like to be noticed and they learn our languages when they get here.

You'd hear a Zimbabwean speaking Zulu or Xhosa and you'd just assume that he is a South African..😂😂😂

On top of that, you Nigerians don't even know the difference between Zimbabweans and us South Africans... So stop being ignorant and listen when I tell you that the problem is with your brothers.

If you like spending money, then how come you're always crying on this forum about how your ladies are always asking for mere urgent 2ks?

BluntCrazeMan:



In case you might wanna know, Nigerians date far more SA girls than the Zimbabweans do.
And then also, Nigerians love spending money (lots of money),, whether in a relationship or not. (And that's a lifestyle which some people love and even enjoy so much about Nigerians)

If that's what you hate about Nigerians, then you voice it out..... and stop pretending to be counting the number of “SA Girls” which other men from other countries are dating.



Nigerians enjoy spending money.
And if spending money is not good, then, you have to start letting us know how bad it really is.

You're right, your brothers are married to SA men's leftovers... These are the kinds of women that SA men don't see worthy of marriage, they'd just use them for fun and dump them.

Not only do they marry SA men's leftovers, they also take care of SA men's kids just for the sake of the green card, something they're failing to do back in their home country Nigeria...😂😂😂

In your country you want virgins as wives, but in SA you specifically go for prostitutes as wives.

It's good that you guys are removing those street girls from the streets and making them your wives... God bless you..😂😂😂

goodmike7:


LOl so its your buthis who love you
? yet they kill, lynch, abuse and rape you every hour in the townships right?

The amount of Nigerians married to a SAn is over 1m not to talk about baby daddies.

Samantha124:
You're right, your brothers are married to SA men's leftovers... These are the kinds of women that SA men don't see worthy of marriage, they'd just use them for fun and dump them.

Not only do they marry SA men's leftovers, they also take care of SA men's kids just for the sake of the green card, something they're failing to do back in their home country Nigeria...😂😂😂

In your country you want virgins as wives, but in SA you specifically go for prostitutes as wives.

It's good that you guys are removing those street girls from the streets and making them your wives... God bless you..😂😂😂

U really have bad mouth o, chai e don do abeg

I'm a good girl and I don't like fighting... But these guys keep coming after me and pushing me over the edge.

In Nigerian Pidgin " they go collect woto woto"..😂😂😂

Don't even ask me what woto woto is because I don't know..😂😂😂😂

lordnkem000:

U really have bad mouth o, chai e don do abeg

Samantha124:
I'm a good girl and I don't like fighting... But these guys keep coming after me and pushing me over the edge.

In Nigerian Pidgin " they go collect woto woto"..😂😂😂

Don't even ask me what woto woto is because I don't know..😂😂😂😂

Am sorry about that, u should know most of our guys are kind of toxic in nature when it comes to Nairaland but cool offline. I know u re a good girl I've been following for long now but pls don't let it get to u ok, do your thang and be happy, don't let no one tell u how u should live your life, u don't need anyone's endorsement alright.
How is SA today? Hope this hunger & brokeness finishing my ass here isn't doing u guys over there o. Better pikin

SA is okay, today it's a public holiday here..😊😊😊.. it's women's day..

How about Nigeria?

lordnkem000:

Am sorry about that, u should know most of our guys are kind of toxic in nature when it comes to Nairaland but cool offline. I know u re a good girl I've been following for long now but pls don't let it get to u ok, do your thang and be happy, don't let no one tell u how u should live your life, u don't need anyone's endorsement alright.
How is SA today? Hope this hunger & brokeness finishing my ass here isn't doing u guys over there o. Better pikin

Samantha124:
You're right, your brothers are married to SA men's leftovers... These are the kinds of women that SA men don't see worthy of marriage, they'd just use them for fun and dump them.

Not only do they marry SA men's leftovers, they also take care of SA men's kids just for the sake of the green card, something they're failing to do back in their home country Nigeria...😂😂😂

In your country you want virgins as wives, but in SA you specifically go for prostitutes as wives.

It's good that you guys are removing those street girls from the streets and making them your wives... God bless you..😂😂😂

See how you put down your fellow SA women to make yourself look good on Nairaland. So all the SA women married to Nigerians and now "leftovers" in your warped opinion.

I have a relative who is married to a SA for more than 15 years and they have kids and love each other dearly. She has been to Nigeria couple of time and you tell me this lady is a "Leftover " right.

For me , i am scared of SA and find it to be too violent. I can't be paid to visit, and can never date a SA lady under any condition. The past 15yrs, i have always discouraged any of my friends and relatives from visiting.

The cultural differences are to much and I sincerely find the ladies unattractive. My personal opinion.

It's not my fault that most Nigerian guys are known for going for certain types of SA ladies here... I'm just telling it like it is.

So far I don't know this lady that you're talking about, but the chances of her being SA men's leftover are high.

You're scared of SA, but you're okay and comfortable with your terrorists? Okay... No one is forcing you to come here anyway.

It's okay if you don't find SA women attractive, there are different strokes for different folks... The same way you don't find SA women attractive, it's the same way I don't find Nigerian men attractive too.... We all have different preferences.

Skyview01:


See how you put down your fellow SA women to make yourself look good on Nairaland. So all the SA women married to Nigerians and now "leftovers" in your warped opinion.

I have a relative who is married to a SA for more than 15 years and they have kids and love each other dearly. She has been to Nigeria couple of time and you tell me this lady is a "Leftover " right.

For me , i am scared of SA and find it to be too violent. I can't be paid to visit, and can never date a SA lady under any condition. The past 15yrs, i have always discouraged any of my friends and relatives from visiting.

The cultural differences are to much and I sincerely find the ladies unattractive. My personal opinion.

Samantha124:
You're right, your brothers are married to SA men's leftovers... These are the kinds of women that SA men don't see worthy of marriage, they'd just use them for fun and dump them.

Not only do they marry SA men's leftovers, they also take care of SA men's kids just for the sake of the green card, something they're failing to do back in their home country Nigeria...😂😂😂

In your country you want virgins as wives, but in SA you specifically go for prostitutes as wives.

It's good that you guys are removing those street girls from the streets and making them your wives... God bless you..😂😂😂

Which useless green card?
do you have green cards in SA?
we pay heavily to get our pemits through home affairs without the help of your huns here.

Left overs? yet they cry and send us messages begging and swearing
The stoop so low in the clubs pretending to be cousins to their gf to drink free drinks ;Dat the end we take the girls home and they call and cry all night.
Honestly, your men are no match for jollofs, those uncircumsized men with dick size of an index finger when erect?
men who drink 2 litres of coke daily?
lazy me who depend on your women for stipends and feeding after hook ups with Nigerians?

Yes we have some foolish Nigerians married to women with kids from deadbeat dads but did we not improve the standards of your women, built their self esteem so much so you huns with locals even envy them?

Nigerians are naturally givers and yes I don women with kids because I only Bleep coloreds here and strictly single girls without kids fresh from varsity and well to do. Seen yor ic and I wnt look at you twice,,God forbid.

Samantha124:
SA is okay, today it's a public holiday here..😊😊😊.. it's women's day..

How about Nigeria?

Nigeria is so hot, people aren't happy, there's so much grumbling because of the hike of food prices and little or no money..
God is in control
U mean there is a public holiday for women there? Incredible!!
Tell me about it plz dear

lordnkem000:

Nigeria is so hot, people aren't happy, there's so much grumbling because of the hike of food prices and little or no money..
God is in control
U mean there is a public holiday for women there? Incredible!!
Tell me about it plz dear

Simp, e don do!!! Leave her alone...

What's incredible about women day in SA? We have around 6 Women days in naija na...

Tell you about kini? Have some shame na...

Thank you for confirming to everyone in here that you guys only go for those gold digging street girls you meet in the clubs... At least everyone in here will now believe me.

And it's good that you end up improving their standards, at least SA guys wouldn't have to be bothered by them ever again... In fact, I'd suggest that you guys leave with them when you go back to Nigeria.

Continue cleaning our country by taking all these girls off the streets and turning them into wives... You're doing a good job..

And don't bring God into this, this is not church.

goodmike7:


Which useless green card?
do you have green cards in SA?
we pay heavily to get our pemits through home affairs without the help of your huns here.

Left overs? yet they cry and send us messages begging and swearing
The stoop so low in the clubs pretending to be cousins to their gf to drink free drinks ;Dat the end we take the girls home and they call and cry all night.
Honestly, your men are no match for jollofs, those uncircumsized men with dick size of an index finger when erect?
men who drink 2 litres of coke daily?
lazy me who depend on your women for stipends and feeding after hook ups with Nigerians?

Yes we have some foolish Nigerians married to women with kids from deadbeat dads but did we not improve the standards of your women, built their self esteem so much so you huns with locals even envy them?

Nigerians are naturally givers and yes I don women with kids because I only Bleep coloreds here and strictly single girls without kids fresh from varsity and well to do. Seen yor ic and I wnt look at you twice,,God forbid.

Samantha124:
It's not my fault that most Nigerian guys are known for going for certain types of SA ladies here... I'm just telling it like it is.

So far I don't know this lady that you're talking about, but the chances of her being SA men's leftover are high.

You're scared of SA, but you're okay and comfortable with your terrorists? Okay... No one is forcing you to come here anyway.

It's okay if you don't find SA women attractive, there are different strokes for different folks... The same way you don't find SA women attractive, it's the same way I don't find Nigerian men attractive too.... We all have different preferences.

Nigeria is a country of more than 200 million people.

When you say 'most Nigerians", you must have had experience with more than 50% of 200million to qualify as "most Nigerians" don't you think so.

I have seen videos of SA citizens and police looting stores during a riot but that would not qualify as most South Africans in my estimate.

That said, SA is a crime ridden third world hell hole like Nigeria so come off of your high horse and stop pretending like you are a citizen of New Zealand.

The difference between me and you is that i am truthful and do acknowledge that Nigerian is messed up and a terrorist haven. That is the reality, while you are pretending like like SA is a kind of eldorado.

It dates back to the 9th of August 1956 when thousands of women from all races marched to the union buildings protesting against the laws... It was normally referred to as a dompas( stupid ).

The limited black South Africans and other minority groups ( Coloureds and Indians) from freely moving around the country and they were required to carry it all the time, it was more like a port.

Because if the apartheid police came across a black South African or people from those minority groups and found that they don't have a , they'd beat them up and arrest them.

lordnkem000:

Nigeria is so hot, people aren't happy, there's so much grumbling because of the hike of food prices and little or no money..
God is in control
U mean there is a public holiday for women there? Incredible!!
Tell me about it plz dear

I'm talking about most Nigerians in SA, duhh!!!🤦🤦🤦

Skyview01:


Nigeria is a country of more than 200 million people.

When you say 'most Nigerians", you must have had experience with more than 50% of 200million to qualify as "most Nigerians" don't you think so.

I have seen videos of SA citizens and police looting stores during a riot but that would not qualify as most South Africans in my estimate.

That said, SA is a crime ridden third world hell hole like Nigeria so come of off your high horse and stop pretending like you are a citizen of New Zealand.

The difference between me and you is that i am truthful and do acknowledge that Nigerian is messed up and a terrorist haven. That is the reality, while you are pretending like like SA is a kind of eldorado.

Samantha124:
It dates back to the 9th of August 1956 when thousands of women from all races marched to the union buildings protesting against the laws... It was normally referred to as a dompas( stupid ).

The limited black South Africans and other minority groups ( Coloureds and Indians) from freely moving around the country and they were required to carry it all the time, it was more like a port.

Because if the apartheid police came across a black South African or people from those minority groups and found that they don't have a , they'd beat them up and arrest them.

Wow that's really good.. Weldon to you women.
You are so cool and down to earth, pls don't let anyone change u okay. I like u alot this way

luminouz:


Simp, e don do!!! Leave her alone...

What's incredible about women day in SA? We have around 6 Women days in naija na...

Tell you about kini? Have some shame na...

Do you even know who is really a Simp?
We have 6women days in your father's house I think, idiot. Do we have a national holiday for women? No.
Abeg who invited u in my discussion with her? Are u her boyfriend or brother or father? Idiot. Go look for something else to occupy urself and let us breath. I don't have time for ur type

Samantha124:
I'm talking about most Nigerians in SA, duhh!!!🤦🤦🤦

The quality of Nigerians that relocate to asian countries and SA are those who have nothing going for them in Nigeria so i will not argue with you on that.

My cousin, i persuaded him not to go to SA 15 years ago. He did not listen and his home in Durban was broken into and he was shot more than 20times and stabbed.
He came back from SA in a body bag and that informed my fear for SA .
I don't hate the country or its people, by all means, it is a beautiful country.
If i get offered 1million Rand today to visit, i will turn it down with all due respect.

lordnkem000:

Do you even know who is really a Simp?
We have 6women days in your father's house I think, idiot. Do we have a national holiday for women? No.
Abeg who invited u in my discussion with her? Are u her boyfriend or brother or father? Idiot. Go look for something else to occupy urself and let us breath. I don't have time for ur type

Lol...e don pain am

lordnkem000:

Wow that's really good.. Weldon to you women.
You are so cool and down to earth, pls don't let anyone change u okay. I like u alot this way

Haaaaaa...simp leleyi ooo...

See toasting!!!

So what? Are you saying people in Nigeria don't get robbed and killed?

And what do you have to say about those Nigerians who scam and kill South Africans in South Africa

Skyview01:


The quality of Nigerians that relocate to asian countries and SA are those who have nothing going for them in Nigeria so i will not argue with you on that.

My cousin, i persuaded him not to go to SA 15 years ago. He did not listen and his home in Durban was broken into and he was shot more than 20times and stabbed.
He came back from SA in a body bag and that informed my fear for SA .
I don't hate the country or its people, by all means, it is a beautiful country.
If i get offered 1million Rand today to visit, i will turn it down with all due respect.

Samantha124:
So what? Are you saying people in Nigeria don't get robbed and killed?

And what do you have to say about those Nigerians who scam and kill South Africans in South Africa

We get robbed and killed but not on the same level as SA . I was told you could secure a contract hit on someone with a bottle of beer.
I grew up in Nigeria and am used to the environment and know where to avoid and how to handle myself.
But SA is on a different level and I am sincerely afraid of visiting.

Unlike you, i am pragmatic and like to be real. I don't pretend Nigeria is all sweet and good.

I have been following your post you act like all Nigerians in SA are criminals while all South Africans are angels with the Sun shining out of their collective butts.

I can post you a link of regular South Africans looting store and attacking other people. I can also show you proof of SA police looting other people stores.

This got me laughing..😂😂😂.. Just because your cousin got killed, we're not on the same level?🤣🤣🤣.. What about those communities in your country that get invaded and wiped out within a matter of hours and have their houses burned down by criminals?

I was also told that in Nigeria women get used for rituals.

I grew up in SA too and I'm used to the environment and know where to avoid and how to handle myself.

Nigeria is also on a different level and I'm also afraid of visiting because of the high levels of terrorism, kidnappings, cults, and money rituals.

Skyview01:


We get robbed and killed but not on the same level as SA . I was told you could secure a contract hit on someone with a bottle of beer.
I grew up in Nigeria and am used to the environment and know where to avoid and how to handle myself.
But SA is on a different level and I am sincerely afraid of visiting.