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I just got ission in to NDA I will be truthful I am the only child of my parents. My mother isn't very enlightened, she initially ed me but now she is seriously opposing me.
I am about to forfeit the ission because of her threats
Please I need advice. I am from south east

Does the NDA have any strange effect on a student who is the only child of his or her parents?

I am yet to understand your fear.

Otisker:
I just got ission in to NDA I will be truthful I am the only child of my parents. My mother isn't very enlightened, she initially ed me but now she is seriously opposing me.
I am about to forfeit the ission
Please I need advice. I am from south east

Please don't forfeit that golden opportunity o. as you're graduating you're employed also. You have no business with labour market.

immortalcrown:
Does the NDA have any strange effect on a student who is the only child of his or her parents?

I am yet to understand your fear.

Read well bro my mother is threatening hellfire right now as I am typing this. She is the reason I am about to forfeit it

why did she suddenly changed her mind?! what is her EXACT reason for being against it now?!

MrBrownJay1:
why did she suddenly changed her mind?! what is her EXACT reason for being against it now?!

No special reason. She isn't enlightened, I don't think she has travelled outside southeast before. Doesn't know how to use the internet.

She is saying she heard of how Nigeria will invade Niger and that some soldiers are deserting because they know they will die... She probably got this news from one pastor she went to visit this evening. She is also giving examples of people that ed the army and later ran away... Bro so many rubbish reasons

She won't even listen when I told her that NDA is a university and that it's students don't take part in combat. She is saying it's a lie that as long as they teach you to shoot one day they will come and carry all of us and send us to die. Just imagine stuffs an illiterate will say. I am so lost right now

Otisker:
My mother isn't very enlightened, she initially ed me but now she is seriously opposing me.
I am about to forfeit the ission because of her threats

Just pray over it and make a decision...

If you have a ion for serving in the military and have a confirmed NDA ission, if you're over 18, then you don't need parental consent. Your destiny is in your hands.

Shalom!

Otisker:
I just got ission in to NDA I will be truthful I am the only child of my parents. My mother isn't very enlightened, she initially ed me but now she is seriously opposing me.
I am about to forfeit the ission because of her threats
Please I need advice. I am from south east

Bro better use speed dey go NDA cuz it's obvious your village people want to get you through your mother.

And besides if you don't later make it that same mother of yours will finish you with her mouth.

The woman doesn’t want to lose her only child to a needless war (in the future) within & outside the country. She is a deep thinker forget the fact that she isn’t educated.

I'll advise you focus on better jobs.

meum:
The woman doesn’t want to lose her only child to a needless war (in the future) within & outside the country. She is a deep thinker forget the fact that she isn’t educated.

He'd live much longer if he's Naval or AF

You're an only child, and the only occupation you find on earth is being a soldier?
Like seriously?
Will you go for something better before I open my eyes!

Otisker:
I just got ission in to NDA I will be truthful I am the only child of my parents. My mother isn't very enlightened, she initially ed me but now she is seriously opposing me.
I am about to forfeit the ission because of her threats
Please I need advice. I am from south east

God has bless u with NDA nd u think bcus u r d only child of ur parents u want to forfeit it. Wiseup bro, going der won't harm u. I know of people like u dat had gone der nd ed out nd r doing well today. Don't give d devil chance in ur life.
After all, one responsible child is better than 12 troublesome children. U will make ur parents proud. I see u as a commission officer doing well in 2028 this I av forseen. Mark my words. God bless u.

Reading this,I summarized that it's either the story is cruise or you have no respect, whatsoever for your mother. You describe her in such a derogatory way.

Otisker:

No special reason. She isn't enlightened, I don't think she has travelled outside southeast before. Doesn't know how to use the internet.

She is saying she heard of how Nigeria will invade Niger and that some soldiers are deserting because they know they will die... She probably got this news from one pastor she went to visit this evening. She is also giving examples of people that ed the army and later ran away... Bro so many rubbish reasons

She won't even listen when I told her that NDA is a university and that it's students don't take part in combat. She is saying it's a lie that as long as they teach you to shoot one day they will come and carry all of us and send us to die. Just imagine stuffs an illiterate will say. I am so lost right now

CJStarz:
Reading this,I summarized that it's either the story is cruise or you have no respect, whatsoever for your mother. You describe her in such a derogatory way.

I love her. I am only trying to explain the situation clearly because that's what is happening.

I can force my way but I reasoned that I might be the one who is wrong since I am blinded by ion and determination to succeed.

Otisker:

I love her. I am only trying to explain the situation clearly because that's what is happening.

I can force my way but I reasoned that I might be the one who is wrong since I am blinded by ion and determination to succeed.

Ok.
Personally, pray over it. Get someone close to her to try n convince her,but if she refuses, my dear drop d idea. God will make another way for you.

meum:
The woman doesn’t want to lose her only child to a needless war (in the future) within & outside the country. She is a deep thinker forget the fact that she isn’t educated.

Guy go and sit down with ur fish brain,,,, if ur time to die reach even in ur house room self you wil die,,, I no army that have been in borno fighting boko Haram over 10years now and stil alive, and this him own is not even recruit it's NDA oo

Otisker:
I just got ission in to NDA I will be truthful I am the only child of my parents. My mother isn't very enlightened, she initially ed me but now she is seriously opposing me.
I am about to forfeit the ission because of her threats
Please I need advice. I am from south east

if ur time to die reach even in ur house room self you wil die,,, I no army that have been in borno fighting boko Haram over 10years now and stil alive, and this ur own is not even recruit it's NDA oo

Bro drop ission to be honest
If anything bad happens in the future ur mama go say u no hear word Na u kill urself

Cazzim:



Guy go and sit down with ur fish brain,,,, if ur time to die reach even in ur house room self you wil die,,, I no army that have been in borno fighting boko Haram over 10years now and stil alive, and this him own is not even recruit it's NDA oo

Next time take a deep breath & relax before you type. Stop expressing your frustration in a public forum. It’s only frustrated people that start a discourse with an abuse & name calling. No be me do you! okay?

I stand by what I said as a mother she is afraid of losing her only child to needless fightings that we keep witnessing within the country. I know of a highly placed public officer holder(a man) that was sad the day his only son (he has female children too) decided to the Army. That is a man that has other children & you expect a woman (obviously she hasn’t benefited much or anything from Nigeria) with her only child to happily endorse this.

He has to try harder to convince that woman. Her fears are valid.

@op try harder to convince her. If she finally agrees (trust me it won’t be an easy decision for her) then go to NDA & make her proud.