NewStats: 3,261,361 , 8,173,786 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 12:46 AM 3x6o5s

blackgold2018:
lol.. I laugh at you. I’m telling you from experiences.

But you don’t wanna hear.. because you are blinded by love.
I have seen you Downgrade your other fellow in this your topic. Simply because you spoke to you, telling him who you are. That’s speaks more like your kind of a person.

People more of with pride are shallow minded. And are more often kids. Moreover boy, I’m 35..

Exactly my point, there are adults children, @ 35, yet your utterance are still childish, for the fact that Nigerian girls are nothing to write home about doesn't mean you should generalise, forget about love, na me sabi this babe, you don't know her, but here you her confidently describing her. This babe doesn't know the meaning of some certain words at her mid 20s(no pretence), she doesn't go out, everyone vouch for her, her breasts is so firm, I'm her first boyfriend, hates going out, her friends were extremely happy to see me the day I showed up at her hostel, noting that I will be the first guy doing such since they have been together. No party, no clubbing, only church activities and let me burst your bubble, you know we guys do talk, none of the guy that have tried to wooed her succeeded, she told me about those who did. Infact, people gets jealous of us cos of the age difference, wondering how I managed to convince her. Bro, I can go on and on about her testimonies. The only thing I can not guarantee you about this girl is the masturbating aspects but as for other vices, forget she comes clean. I have heard some few mother's scold their child and make her a reference point for role model cos we are not staying that far from each other. What else would you like to hear bro? Abeg relax, na me sabi this babe not you

The hymen can actually break without sexual intercourse for the first time if the lady in question does regular exercise or simply jumping on okada often, she can break her hymen without her knowing...
Besides, why are you interested hymen?
Do you want to manipulate her so as you get the opportunity to make love to her?

tfelicityk:
The hymen can actually break without sexual intercourse for the first time if the lady in question does regular exercise or simply jumping on okada often, she can break her hymen without her knowing...
Besides, why are you interested hymen?
Do you want to manipulate her so as you get the opportunity to make love to her?

Naaa! I was only curious about why she popped up such question

Honeybadgerxx:
There's this church girl I'm currently dating, I love her so much and she loves me too. She claimed to be a virgin and insisted on no sex till marriage, I really do not have a problem with that cos I'm not a virgin and I told her about it and she said she's cool with it.

Now this is where the issue is, suddenly one day she chatted me up and asked if I know about hymen in ladies, I said yes and she popped another question asking if the hymen of a lady can be broken without penetration, I told her yes that sometimes the thickness of the hymen varies amongst ladies, some are very light that too much of heat and stress can make a lady discover a little discharge of blood underneath her thereby breaking the hymen ( I actually learnt this during school days). But the question got me curious and forced me to ask her if hers was still intact, she replied me by saying she doesn't know, that she only saw it online and decided to ask me cos she knew I'm knowledgeable, like how possible is this? Why shouldn't you know? We fought about this for days and she still insist that she's isn't aware, she was nearly crying saying this. Well, I noticed some innocence in her statements and let go of it.

Now my question is, is it possible for a lady not to know if her hymen is still intact or not? Ladies in the house please help me out.

Note: I'm not a simp, I be correct OG but decided to give love a chance and trusted this girl not because she's a church girl, not because she claimed to be a virgin, but because everyone tends to vouch for her including those kiss and tell guys around, none of them fit play her tape like they talk about other ladies around. Even in her uni days, I was opportuned to have a friend in her school hostel area of which he's unknown to her and the comments he gave about her are very impressive.
Even when I stylishly engage her in some sex topics, she tends to ask me the meaning of some erotic words.

She's a good girl, never billed me before, though I do send her funds atimes, she dresses moderately and hates going out.

But considering how ladies pretends and how some good girls turns bad, I still have this doubt within me, what could make her asked me such question?

Please I need answers as I'm planning towards our marriage soon, she's in her mid 20s and now a grad

Just shut up

Honeybadgerxx:



Naaa! I was only curious about why she popped up such question

Okay....

Oakenshield:
Just shut up

Ok sir

Honeybadgerxx:



Exactly my point, there are adults children, @ 35, yet your utterance are still childish, for the fact that Nigerian girls are nothing to write home about doesn't mean you should generalise, forget about love, na me sabi this babe, you don't know her, but here you her confidently describing her. This babe doesn't know the meaning of some certain words at her mid 20s(no pretence), she doesn't go out, everyone vouch for her, her breasts is so firm, I'm her first boyfriend, hates going out, her friends were extremely happy to see me the day I showed up at her hostel, noting that I will be the first guy doing such since they have been together. No party, no clubbing, only church activities and let me burst your bubble, you know we guys do talk, none of the guy that have tried to wooed her succeeded, she told me about those who did. Infact, people gets jealous of us cos of the age difference, wondering how I managed to convince her. Bro, I can go on and on about her testimonies. The only thing I can not guarantee you about this girl is the masturbating aspects but as for other vices, forget she comes clean. I have heard some few mother's scold their child and make her a reference point for role model cos we are not staying that far from each other. What else would you like to hear bro? Abeg relax, na me sabi this babe not you

I didn’t generalize. I gave you my judgment based on what you narrated. You brought up a topic and still counter others against the love of your life, how childish.

Now rest and go enjoy your babe.

And for you to speak lowly on that guy and you speaking on who you are. You need to correct that rubbish. Typically Nigerian low class and average mentality.

blackgold2018:
I didn’t generalize. I gave you my judgment based on what you narrated. You brought up a topic and still counter others against the love of your life, how childish.

Now rest and go enjoy your babe.

And for you to speak lowly on that guy and you speaking on who you are. You need to correct that rubbish. Typically Nigerian low class and average mentality.

Ok noted, I'm sorry. Thanks for your input

...

Baba, gradually put your hand in there, you know what's up. That one confirms everything for you.

Honeybadgerxx:
There's this church girl I'm currently dating, I love her so much and she loves me too. She claimed to be a virgin and insisted on no sex till marriage, I really do not have a problem with that cos I'm not a virgin and I told her about it and she said she's cool with it.

Now this is where the issue is, suddenly one day she chatted me up and asked if I know about hymen in ladies, I said yes and she popped another question asking if the hymen of a lady can be broken without penetration, I told her yes that sometimes the thickness of the hymen varies amongst ladies, some are very light that too much of heat and stress can make a lady discover a little discharge of blood underneath her thereby breaking the hymen ( I actually learnt this during school days). But the question got me curious and forced me to ask her if hers was still intact, she replied me by saying she doesn't know, that she only saw it online and decided to ask me cos she knew I'm knowledgeable, like how possible is this? Why shouldn't you know? We fought about this for days and she still insist that she's isn't aware, she was nearly crying saying this. Well, I noticed some innocence in her statements and let go of it.

Now my question is, is it possible for a lady not to know if her hymen is still intact or not? Ladies in the house please help me out.

Note: I'm not a simp, I be correct OG but decided to give love a chance and trusted this girl not because she's a church girl, not because she claimed to be a virgin, but because everyone tends to vouch for her including those kiss and tell guys around, none of them fit play her tape like they talk about other ladies around. Even in her uni days, I was opportuned to have a friend in her school hostel area of which he's unknown to her and the comments he gave about her are very impressive.
Even when I stylishly engage her in some sex topics, she tends to ask me the meaning of some erotic words.

She's a good girl, never billed me before, though I do send her funds atimes, she dresses moderately and hates going out.

But considering how ladies pretends and how some good girls turns bad, I still have this doubt within me, what could make her asked me such question?

Please I need answers as I'm planning towards our marriage soon, she's in her mid 20s and now a grad

@Dialpad What's the name of the app, please?

Dialpad:
Dont ever be deceived by all those no sex before marriage crap.

If you are financially OK, I will suggest you put a specific app on the phone, what you will see will not only shock you but make you FEAR the opposite sex.


FYI, if you decide to go the app route, you must be super strong to manage the outcome emotionally, trust me it is impossible for you to find anyone clean, it will expose a whole lot of BS

BTW, the app is not on playstore, the best hacker can never detect it.

Until u realize that pussy is pussy, whether virgin or not, that’s when u will stop giving a Bleep about virgins.

It’s very possible for a lady to have her hymen broken without her knowing infact if she’s not into sex and she didn’t do anything that touches that place there’s no way she will know. A wearing off hymen doesn’t give you a sign. The lady will keep telling you she’s a virgin and there won’t be blood on her first and maybe you or her will both be wondering were the blood run go. And again from studies some women are born without a hymen, you can goggle that too so it’s no big deal but the real deal is irrespective of the situation the man knows when the engine is brand new on his first .

I had two friends who were holy sisters. One is now a lesbian.

The last conversation I had with the other one got me shocked. Make I no too spill.

blackgold2018:
yes. They feel Hot too

Of course even plants feel hot too once in a while

blackgold2018:

Some checkmate either knowing or unknowingly by fingering their pussy surface.

Did a virgin tell you this?

athaliya:


Of course even plants feel hot too once in a while



Did a virgin tell you this?

yea..

GrammarNazi1:


Woman wrapper, that's what I can glean from the topics of your threads.

You're indeed a kid.

go and sit down, for your mind you don yap me

GrammarNazi1:

You're obviously a kid.

go and sit down Mr old man

GrammarNazi1:


Woman wrapper, that's what I can glean from the topics of your threads.

You're indeed a kid.

you don’t have anything to say please kindly go and sit down

Honestly, I pray that she doesn't fall into your hands.

Honeybadgerxx:
There's this church girl I'm currently dating, I love her so much and she loves me too. She claimed to be a virgin and insisted on no sex till marriage, I really do not have a problem with that cos I'm not a virgin and I told her about it and she said she's cool with it.

Now this is where the issue is, suddenly one day she chatted me up and asked if I know about hymen in ladies, I said yes and she popped another question asking if the hymen of a lady can be broken without penetration, I told her yes that sometimes the thickness of the hymen varies amongst ladies, some are very light that too much of heat and stress can make a lady discover a little discharge of blood underneath her thereby breaking the hymen ( I actually learnt this during school days). But the question got me curious and forced me to ask her if hers was still intact, she replied me by saying she doesn't know, that she only saw it online and decided to ask me cos she knew I'm knowledgeable, like how possible is this? Why shouldn't you know? We fought about this for days and she still insist that she's isn't aware, she was nearly crying saying this. Well, I noticed some innocence in her statements and let go of it.

Now my question is, is it possible for a lady not to know if her hymen is still intact or not? Ladies in the house please help me out.

Note: I'm not a simp, I be correct OG but decided to give love a chance and trusted this girl not because she's a church girl, not because she claimed to be a virgin, but because everyone tends to vouch for her including those kiss and tell guys around, none of them fit play her tape like they talk about other ladies around. Even in her uni days, I was opportuned to have a friend in her school hostel area of which he's unknown to her and the comments he gave about her are very impressive.
Even when I stylishly engage her in some sex topics, she tends to ask me the meaning of some erotic words.

She's a good girl, never billed me before, though I do send her funds atimes, she dresses moderately and hates going out.

But considering how ladies pretends and how some good girls turns bad, I still have this doubt within me, what could make her asked me such question?

Please I need answers as I'm planning towards our marriage soon, she's in her mid 20s and now a grad

Even when the hymen break the hole will still be thinning your finger can’t penetrate the hole talking from experience with such story line.
If she really love you at least she suppose to let you see the hymen for yourself as you are not going to have sex with her . My ex that year allowed me to check as deserve that as we did not have sex for close to 2 years dating. You can check x videos online and type deflowering you will see what hymen look like.

Postinor:
I think virginity tests are ran in the lab,u can try one out

I think this is a good idea.


From ur write up I think she might be a good girl. But still be watchful and careful.

blackgold2018:
yea..

You're either lying or she lied. She's not even a virgin to start with

There's a liar somewhere in between.

athaliya:


You're either lying or she lied. She's not even a virgin to start with

There's a liar somewhere in between.

you are both wrong.

Virgins feel horrny too.

Honeybadgerxx:
There's this church girl I'm currently dating, I love her so much and she loves me too. She claimed to be a virgin and insisted on no sex till marriage, I really do not have a problem with that cos I'm not a virgin and I told her about it and she said she's cool with it.

Now this is where the issue is, suddenly one day she chatted me up and asked if I know about hymen in ladies, I said yes and she popped another question asking if the hymen of a lady can be broken without penetration, I told her yes that sometimes the thickness of the hymen varies amongst ladies, some are very light that too much of heat and stress can make a lady discover a little discharge of blood underneath her thereby breaking the hymen ( I actually learnt this during school days). But the question got me curious and forced me to ask her if hers was still intact, she replied me by saying she doesn't know, that she only saw it online and decided to ask me cos she knew I'm knowledgeable, like how possible is this? Why shouldn't you know? We fought about this for days and she still insist that she's isn't aware, she was nearly crying saying this. Well, I noticed some innocence in her statements and let go of it.

Now my question is, is it possible for a lady not to know if her hymen is still intact or not? Ladies in the house please help me out.

Note: I'm not a simp, I be correct OG but decided to give love a chance and trusted this girl not because she's a church girl, not because she claimed to be a virgin, but because everyone tends to vouch for her including those kiss and tell guys around, none of them fit play her tape like they talk about other ladies around. Even in her uni days, I was opportuned to have a friend in her school hostel area of which he's unknown to her and the comments he gave about her are very impressive.
Even when I stylishly engage her in some sex topics, she tends to ask me the meaning of some erotic words.

She's a good girl, never billed me before, though I do send her funds atimes, she dresses moderately and hates going out.

But considering how ladies pretends and how some good girls turns bad, I still have this doubt within me, what could make her asked me such question?

Please I need answers as I'm planning towards our marriage soon, she's in her mid 20s and now a grad

You're not a virgin yet you get mad upon discovering that your "woman to be" isn't a virgin. Fear God na

Flexispy ... please don't use if you can't handle emotional shock.

IntelLord:
@Dialpad What's the name of the app, please?

Flexispy ... please don't use if you can't handle emotional shock.

Elxandre:

What's this app sir

Honeybadgerxx:
There's this church girl I'm currently dating, I love her so much and she loves me too. She claimed to be a virgin and insisted on no sex till marriage, I really do not have a problem with that cos I'm not a virgin and I told her about it and she said she's cool with it.

Now this is where the issue is, suddenly one day she chatted me up and asked if I know about hymen in ladies, I said yes and she popped another question asking if the hymen of a lady can be broken without penetration, I told her yes that sometimes the thickness of the hymen varies amongst ladies, some are very light that too much of heat and stress can make a lady discover a little discharge of blood underneath her thereby breaking the hymen ( I actually learnt this during school days). But the question got me curious and forced me to ask her if hers was still intact, she replied me by saying she doesn't know, that she only saw it online and decided to ask me cos she knew I'm knowledgeable, like how possible is this? Why shouldn't you know? We fought about this for days and she still insist that she's isn't aware, she was nearly crying saying this. Well, I noticed some innocence in her statements and let go of it.

Now my question is, is it possible for a lady not to know if her hymen is still intact or not? Ladies in the house please help me out.

Note: I'm not a simp, I be correct OG but decided to give love a chance and trusted this girl not because she's a church girl, not because she claimed to be a virgin, but because everyone tends to vouch for her including those kiss and tell guys around, none of them fit play her tape like they talk about other ladies around. Even in her uni days, I was opportuned to have a friend in her school hostel area of which he's unknown to her and the comments he gave about her are very impressive.
Even when I stylishly engage her in some sex topics, she tends to ask me the meaning of some erotic words.

She's a good girl, never billed me before, though I do send her funds atimes, she dresses moderately and hates going out.

But considering how ladies pretends and how some good girls turns bad, I still have this doubt within me, what could make her asked me such question?

Please I need answers as I'm planning towards our marriage soon, she's in her mid 20s and now a grad

The fact you have a Penis doesn't mean you know everything about it. If I should ask you some questions now you'll know.
She's not lying

Honeybadgerxx:


Yea, sincerely I don't really care... Thanks for your input.



IconicR: 9:20am
So much from someone that brothel babes can describe his organ without missing any part. See as his eager for virginity smh.


Shut it please, I don't visit brothels, and not everyone can wife a lady with multiple body counts as yours.

Multiple body counts in a woman destroys her total psychological,emotional,physical and mental wellbeing.
They are many here in nairaland

GrammarNazi1:

I know a woman who swore with her life and the lives of her kids that she was not cheating on her husband.

Yet one day, her husband caught her red-handed in a toilet having sex with a blind security man.

This woman I am talking about was my neighbour when I was in secondary school.

women 😄😄


I pity the op,he is a learner😅🤣

Experienced person no dey ask mumu question like this

Honeybadgerxx:
There's this church girl I'm currently dating, I love her so much and she loves me too. She claimed to be a virgin and insisted on no sex till marriage, I really do not have a problem with that cos I'm not a virgin and I told her about it and she said she's cool with it.

Now this is where the issue is, suddenly one day she chatted me up and asked if I know about hymen in ladies, I said yes and she popped another question asking if the hymen of a lady can be broken without penetration, I told her yes that sometimes the thickness of the hymen varies amongst ladies, some are very light that too much of heat and stress can make a lady discover a little discharge of blood underneath her thereby breaking the hymen ( I actually learnt this during school days). But the question got me curious and forced me to ask her if hers was still intact, she replied me by saying she doesn't know, that she only saw it online and decided to ask me cos she knew I'm knowledgeable, like how possible is this? Why shouldn't you know? We fought about this for days and she still insist that she's isn't aware, she was nearly crying saying this. Well, I noticed some innocence in her statements and let go of it.

Now my question is, is it possible for a lady not to know if her hymen is still intact or not? Ladies in the house please help me out.

Note: I'm not a simp, I be correct OG but decided to give love a chance and trusted this girl not because she's a church girl, not because she claimed to be a virgin, but because everyone tends to vouch for her including those kiss and tell guys around, none of them fit play her tape like they talk about other ladies around. Even in her uni days, I was opportuned to have a friend in her school hostel area of which he's unknown to her and the comments he gave about her are very impressive.
Even when I stylishly engage her in some sex topics, she tends to ask me the meaning of some erotic words.

She's a good girl, never billed me before, though I do send her funds atimes, she dresses moderately and hates going out.

But considering how ladies pretends and how some good girls turns bad, I still have this doubt within me, what could make her asked me such question?

Please I need answers as I'm planning towards our marriage soon, she's in her mid 20s and now a grad

Even if she's not a virgin, there are things they can do to seal it up and you'd struggle to enter, thereby feeling you're the first to penetrate.