NewStats: 3,259,752 , 8,170,804 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 May 2025 at 09:52 PM 3d5163

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Everybodi eye don open. People are no longer willing to be vulnerable. And this relationship/marriage thing hardly works where partners refuse to adjust their age-long norms and regulations.

People can only be vulnerable when they come to the table on equal .

Rayban25:


You're still arguing with emotions.

it you're wrong and shut up. If you dont know something seek knowledge. A village person person can seek knowledge about divorce laws and not say the bunkum you said

That's why where you live is irrelevant.

We know you dont live in UK for sure with your statement obviously

Seek knowledge. If you dont know something, ask questions or shut up.

Shalom.

Lol.

.

lexy2014:


Like they say, better thing no need sign board. It will itself by itself. No need for plenty grammar

Garri no dey get ment board. 😂😂😂😂

uche87:
Often when single young people move to the United Kingdom, they are always caught between starting new relationships abroad or sticking to their old relationships in their home countries. This short article is aimed at guiding you to make the best decision on the basis of reality and not mere emotions and sentiments.

I will try as much as possible to make this piece less controversial. The aim isn't to break relationships and destroy the efforts of couples in their relationships.

Dating a good Nigerian woman in the UK is amazing. They bring happiness and increase your zeal to succeed by giving you strong backing.
Below are some of the reasons why dating a Nigerian woman in the UK is highly recommended.

(1) Nigerian women are appreciative:

Let's face it, there is no abundance of 'original' male suitors in the UK. Some coloured women even go for several months without anybody stopping them on the street to say hello. This adds value to men (law of demand and supply). So when single women ever meet their male counterparts, they value you like the pound note.

(2) Financial independence:

The UK creates an enabling ground and a level-playing field for everybody to succeed. As long as you are ready to work, you will make good money. UK-based Nigerian women have their own money and take pleasure in buying their own things unlike their counterparts back home, who are at the mercy of Tinubu and his APC friends.

(3) Beauty and fashion:

UK-based Nigerian women are not only beautiful, but they are so classy. They could be fashionable due to the extra cash and the affordability of clothes in the UK. I believe they have more 'packaging' than Amazon lol

(4) Better opportunities:

Nigerian women are doing really well in the UK. They are like the last piece of the puzzle you need to make your life complete. I have seen some men doing blue-collar jobs marry doctors and company management officials in the UK. This opens a door of opportunities and stability.

(5) Adaptability:

If you are in the UK, you are better off dating a Nigerian woman who lives in the country. This is because they have adapted to the system and have a strong knowledge of how it works. This is always as smooth as when Robin Van Persie moved from Arsenal to Old Trafford. He hit the ground running.

(6) Happy Ending:

UK women have very strong 'grips'. Legends in the house would understand. This is because of the scarcity of men and the busy nature of the country. You can't boldly say the same about Lagos-based women who are mostly 'sexually stressed' due to too multiple relationships running concurrently and marketing activities.

(7) Mental stability:

Due to the performing nature of the UK economy (compared to Nigeria), the women are generally happy to an extent because their needs are easily met via simple financial plans. Tinubu, back home has triggered an epidemic of mood swings amongst women with highly counterproductive public policies.

( Fiscal compatibility:

Nigerian women in the UK are largely transparent with their finances. They also contribute to the payment of bills. They know for sure that their spouses might develop hunchbacks carrying those responsibilities alone. This attribute isn't easy to come by in Nigeria where the women regularly say 'Your money is our money and my money is my money' to their men.

(9) Better exposure:

Traveling itself is a form of education. As you through places, they also through you. Nigerian women in the UK have mixed with different races by virtue of being in the country. This has also broadened their perspective on life and made them better people.

(10) Cooking:

Nigerian women are generally fantastic cooks. They don't just have the skill, but they also have the financial resources to explore new measures of making both local and foreign dishes. Inadequate financial resources impede the abilities of their local counterparts.

Osahon George Osayimwen writes from the United Kingdom.

We no dey date...konji go kill una

Creamypie:
How much them pay u to write this shit?I no wan vomit this afternoon.

I swear. I felt repulsed and disgusted reading all that. It felt like reading an article that says "10 reasons why you should eat faeces"

Tueh!!

pocohantas:
Funny thread. Men and women would marry themselves if they deem themselves compatible and "in love".

I have male and female friends in the UK. The major problem I see is they are overly cautious of themselves and no relationship would ever work where both parties are trying to be "smart".

Eriokanmi:
All these are physical attributes which mean nothing. What of the spiritual aspect? Are you compatible spiritually? Would you guys last as couple and be fruitful in all areas? Most of those using physical and material attributes as yardstick for future partners end up regretting.

Last weekend, I was seeing a client on the island. They're very wealthy. If I mention the name here, this thread go full with attacks but it's not necessary. They have a son who's like 2 feet tall. He's in his 30s. He can't feed on his own. They always shut the door at him each time they're going for events. He's rarely known by the public.

Each time they see this guy, they always feel sad. Before you enter their house, you must go through all manner of security screening as if you're entering an embassy for a visa appointment. The wife is an epitome of beauty. She also schooled abroad as the husband. He's their only son. Marerial things and careers don't guarantee ultimate happiness in marriage.

See God's face before you marry. Also, don't marry because of material wealth or career achievements. Look at those successful people today. They had a history of humble beginnings. I never knew Dangote and Pastor Adeboye were never born of rich parents until I heard their history from Mama ijesha, a nonagenarian who lives at ijeshatedo area of lagos. Dangote came from Kano to lagos as a boy and was squatted by Mallam Maitama who happened to be mama ijesha's first tenant. She showed me their apartment on the ground floor the day I visited her. I bought my land from her son, who asked me to see him on his arrival from the UK. The woman said pastor adeboye once worked part time at her uncle's place, a popular cocoa merchant back in the days. One day, the man had to tell pastor adeboye to stop coming to work there so he could concentrate on his studies and gave him scholarship...many won't hear a story like this but the sweet sides when Dangote's uncle gave him money to start business and all. This generation is too materialistic.

Good morning sir can you link me with Job way no go stress me I just finished my nysc. I stay in island

ednut1:
This one is doing PR for Nigeria women in the Uk. If they have all those qualities listed up there men will be rushing them. They are mostly being avoided for obvious reasons 😆. The average Nigerian woman abroad has this over inflated ego just because she don japa. Tufiakwa

Honorable, it's ok. Off your mic

One is currently dealing with my guy, his eyes don red finish, I dey console am make his eyes no tear.

For relationship matter, do you best and leave the rest to God. It's complicated

uche87:
Often when single young people move to the United Kingdom, they are always caught between starting new relationships abroad or sticking to their old relationships in their home countries. This short article is aimed at guiding you to make the best decision on the basis of reality and not mere emotions and sentiments.

I will try as much as possible to make this piece less controversial. The aim isn't to break relationships and destroy the efforts of couples in their relationships.

Dating a good Nigerian woman in the UK is amazing. They bring happiness and increase your zeal to succeed by giving you strong backing.
Below are some of the reasons why dating a Nigerian woman in the UK is highly recommended.

(1) Nigerian women are appreciative:

Let's face it, there is no abundance of 'original' male suitors in the UK. Some coloured women even go for several months without anybody stopping them on the street to say hello. This adds value to men (law of demand and supply). So when single women ever meet their male counterparts, they value you like the pound note.

(2) Financial independence:

The UK creates an enabling ground and a level-playing field for everybody to succeed. As long as you are ready to work, you will make good money. UK-based Nigerian women have their own money and take pleasure in buying their own things unlike their counterparts back home, who are at the mercy of Tinubu and his APC friends.

(3) Beauty and fashion:

UK-based Nigerian women are not only beautiful, but they are so classy. They could be fashionable due to the extra cash and the affordability of clothes in the UK. I believe they have more 'packaging' than Amazon lol

(4) Better opportunities:

Nigerian women are doing really well in the UK. They are like the last piece of the puzzle you need to make your life complete. I have seen some men doing blue-collar jobs marry doctors and company management officials in the UK. This opens a door of opportunities and stability.

(5) Adaptability:

If you are in the UK, you are better off dating a Nigerian woman who lives in the country. This is because they have adapted to the system and have a strong knowledge of how it works. This is always as smooth as when Robin Van Persie moved from Arsenal to Old Trafford. He hit the ground running.

(6) Happy Ending:

UK women have very strong 'grips'. Legends in the house would understand. This is because of the scarcity of men and the busy nature of the country. You can't boldly say the same about Lagos-based women who are mostly 'sexually stressed' due to too multiple relationships running concurrently and marketing activities.

(7) Mental stability:

Due to the performing nature of the UK economy (compared to Nigeria), the women are generally happy to an extent because their needs are easily met via simple financial plans. Tinubu, back home has triggered an epidemic of mood swings amongst women with highly counterproductive public policies.

( Fiscal compatibility:

Nigerian women in the UK are largely transparent with their finances. They also contribute to the payment of bills. They know for sure that their spouses might develop hunchbacks carrying those responsibilities alone. This attribute isn't easy to come by in Nigeria where the women regularly say 'Your money is our money and my money is my money' to their men.

(9) Better exposure:

Traveling itself is a form of education. As you through places, they also through you. Nigerian women in the UK have mixed with different races by virtue of being in the country. This has also broadened their perspective on life and made them better people.

(10) Cooking:

Nigerian women are generally fantastic cooks. They don't just have the skill, but they also have the financial resources to explore new measures of making both local and foreign dishes. Inadequate financial resources impede the abilities of their local counterparts.

Osahon George Osayimwen writes from the United Kingdom.

In my experience of yrs of staying in uk,inhave discovered that African women there are ugly.probably becos of d high cost of saloon or the ones going there jst happen to be d ugliest Nigerians avail.

Walk d street of lagos or abuja n see beautiful Nigerian woman.Goto uk 90% of black girls are ugly.when i was in uk i dated a very fat ugly yoruba girl that i didn't really luv bt needed kpekus to keep body n soul due to scarcity.
Omo d konji in uk is real.in naija i dey fck beauty queens wit joy

Gerrard59:


To be fair, a man without papers is a red flag. If my sister brings forth a man without papers, I will ask certain questions:

- Which school is he studying?
- What is he studying?
- How old is he?
- Where is he working?

See below:

So, why do you want another woman to do the same for you?

You should understand that whether he's got papers or not, one has to do some checks anyway but I'm averse to holding prejudice against these group of people without papers.

My second comment you quoted is a different case, where my friends avoided all the cute and able guys in UK and went all the way to naija to marry some guys with a totally different orientation. Well, you've got to be experienced to make such moves though...IMO.

ednut1:
you yourself as a man. You dey find sex, free cooking and companionship. Its transactional na

NA so e be o

bdon12:

In my experience of yrs of staying in uk,inhave discovered that African women there are ugly.probably becos of d high cost of saloon or the ones going there jst happen to be d ugliest Nigerians avail.

Walk d street of lagos or abuja n see beautiful Nigerian woman.Goto uk 90% of black girls are ugly.when i was in uk i dated a very fat ugly yoruba girl that i didn't really luv bt needed kpekus to keep body n soul due to scarcity.
Omo d konji in uk is real.in naija i dey fck beauty queens wit joy

Are you happy now, oga goan sit down jare!

Elejó wewe!

1Sharon:


False.

Are you based in UK?

Okestra01:

Are you based in UK?

I am presently available for a serious, mature and godly lady based in the UK or any other western country for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. Ladies abroad are not that bad as people paint them. Let's prove people wrong and build together. 07038112360

omooba969:


Are you happy now, oga goan sit down jare!

Elejó wewe!

U taking this personal bro.Jst accept it,nt jst naija,african girls in uk are ugly.

Some of them have lovely heart. Thing is, the good among them are not that lucky to meet the good guys. If I'm lucky to meet a sweet lovely heart girl, Especially if she's genotype AA, I'd wife her up quickly. I like my naija girls o!

The majority of the bad ladies abroad actually makes it very difficult for the good ones to be noticed thereby making people to generalize the all together. We still have good ones out there. To wife the good one has always been my prayer. Life is not hard but ego atimes will not make some speak out. Ladies should better see shooting their shot as a norm.

yeldey:


Very interesting story, naija ladies are very myopic.

I when I landed Edmonton still transiting using the City Bus and Train, Naija babes dey see me then has Jonny just come, they dont even respond after exchanging s because they knew I just landed. They never gave bobo the chance.

Now that I got a MNC job, bought a car and a small home, them no allow man pikin rest.

A naija guy who works in my organization came here on Student Visa told me a story of how he met a naija babe in the Train, he said they flowed very well and exchanged phone number. The lady asked him of his residency status and he was honest with her. He decided to reach out to this lady same day, he discovered the lady had blocked his line everywhere including whatsapp😆😆

Na you get time dey exchange .

bdon12:

In my experience of yrs of staying in uk,inhave discovered that African women there are ugly.probably becos of d high cost of saloon or the ones going there jst happen to be d ugliest Nigerians avail.

Walk d street of lagos or abuja n see beautiful Nigerian woman.Goto uk 90% of black girls are ugly.when i was in uk i dated a very fat ugly yoruba girl that i didn't really luv bt needed kpekus to keep body n soul due to scarcity.
Omo d konji in uk is real.in naija i dey fck beauty queens wit joy

ednut1:
This one is doing PR for Nigeria women in the Uk. If they have all those qualities listed up there men will be rushing them. They are mostly being avoided for obvious reasons 😆. The average Nigerian woman abroad has this over inflated ego just because she don japa. Tufiakwa

He is actually referring to those who grew up there. Their perceptions are different from our women who grew up here.

1Sharon:


You don't care about where I live and you're very certain I don't know anything about divorce laws abroad?

Idiot.

Low budget red piller. You're bitter because your ugly and broke. You're not entitled to the affection of beautiful women.

Says a woman who look like this 😂. Women smoke weed I swear. Not women fault. Men rarely let y’all know how ugly u look cuz naturally men just want sex. So they gas u up. If men are as visual as women and judge women based on how they look, most of y’all will be depressed by now since y’all thrive on validation and gass

LordAdam16:


Iffa hear 🙂

Mk everybody dey their dey.

Female Nigerian dual nationals in the West are still early in their journey. Middle aged and older white women crisscross the oceans to find love and they pay a fortune for a barely literate third worlder to sing off-key romance tunes over the phone. Or they go on the prowl for impressionable post-pubescent teens.

That's the future that awaits them.

You're invisible in your 20s and early 30's. Wait until you're in your 40s. Body go tell you.

-Lord

Bro, can I send you an email?

Origamist:

Bro, can I send you an email?

Sure thing.

-Lord

LordAdam16:


Iffa hear 🙂

Mk everybody dey their dey.

Female Nigerian dual nationals in the West are still early in their journey. Middle aged and older white women crisscross the oceans to find love and they pay a fortune for a barely literate third worlder to sing off-key romance tunes over the phone. Or they go on the prowl for impressionable post-pubescent teens.

That's the future that awaits them.

You're invisible in your 20s and early 30's. Wait until you're in your 40s. Body go tell you.

-Lord

Hian, una go kill person with laugh for nairaland.unblockandhide.com, lol at invisible, pubescent teens, illiterate third worlder, Haba, for posting this hard comments, l will ask the IGP of police in Nigeria to arrest and detain you for 1000 years in Abuja without bail

Right005:


Says a woman who look like this 😂. Women smoke weed I swear. Not women fault. Men rarely let y’all know how ugly u look cuz naturally men just want sex. So they gas u up. If men are as visual as women and judge women based on how they look, most of y’all will be depressed by now since y’all thrive on validation and gass

How do I look exactly?

Thank God you said the truth about men. If women said the exact same thing, we'd be called misandrists.

My comment wasn't even directed to you, but you decided to assist your comrade. I guess maybe the shoe fit and my comment hit you in your spirit.

Oya now.

Okestra01:

I am presently available for a serious, mature and godly lady based in the UK or any other western country for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. Ladies abroad are not that bad as people paint them. Let's prove people wrong and build together. 07038112360

bdon12:

In my experience of yrs of staying in uk,inhave discovered that African women there are ugly.probably becos of d high cost of saloon or the ones going there jst happen to be d ugliest Nigerians avail.

Walk d street of lagos or abuja n see beautiful Nigerian woman.Goto uk 90% of black girls are ugly.when i was in uk i dated a very fat ugly yoruba girl that i didn't really luv bt needed kpekus to keep body n soul due to scarcity.
Omo d konji in uk is real.in naija i dey fck beauty queens wit joy

You dated an ugly yoruba woman as you said because In life everybody eventually gets in where they fit in.

The beautiful girls that you desired were just not on the same wavelength as you and they didn't want you. You can't use money to sleep with UK girls like you do in Nigeria to women.

Uk born Nigerian girls are not ugly, laye laye.

The attractive ones just didn't want you and now you've concluded UK women are ugly.

bdon12:

In my experience of yrs of staying in uk,inhave discovered that African women there are ugly.probably becos of d high cost of saloon or the ones going there jst happen to be d ugliest Nigerians avail.

Walk d street of lagos or abuja n see beautiful Nigerian woman.Goto uk 90% of black girls are ugly.when i was in uk i dated a very fat ugly yoruba girl that i didn't really luv bt needed kpekus to keep body n soul due to scarcity.
Omo d konji in uk is real.in naija i dey fck beauty queens wit joy

same here bro, in they are all mids, had to settle for this fat ugly hairy transgender-looking ibo woman because of konji

BanyXchi:
same here bro, in they are all mids, had to settle for this fat ugly hairy transgender-looking ibo woman because of konji

Lol i feel ur pain.

1Sharon:


You dated an ugly yoruba woman as you said because In life everybody eventually gets in where they fit in.

The beautiful girls that you desired were just not on the same wavelength as you and they didn't want you. You can't use money to sleep with UK girls like you do in Nigeria to women.

Uk born Nigerian girls are not ugly, laye laye.

The attractive ones just didn't want you and now you've concluded UK women are ugly.

Well bro ,i wasnt talking abt d uk born ones.i was talking abt those who relocated to uk at some point.those born in uk to are majorly ugly n d fine ones only date fellow brits....so technically u right.bt wat d fck is uk born nigerian girls?girl wey dem born for uk is british whether she has Nigerian heritage or not...she is black British.

bdon12:

Well bro ,i wasnt talking abt d uk born ones.i was talking abt those who relocated to uk at some point.those born in uk to are majorly ugly n d fine ones only date fellow brits....so technically u right.bt wat d fck is uk born nigerian girls?girl wey dem born for uk is british whether she has Nigerian heritage or not...she is black British.

Well the newbies don't represent the majority.

Being born in the UK doesn't make someone white, they still have Nigerian blood.