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I am married with kids and doing very well. I don't get the desired attention from my wife despite taking care of all the responsibilities and not complaining.

Why don't you take another wife, infact take two

YEMOYEMI:
I am married with kids and doing very well. I don't get the desired attention from my wife despite taking care of all the responsibilities and not complaining. I've told her many times how she's not being romantic but she's not bothered. She doesn't make move for sxx and she may not be bothered even in two months while I as a man always have the urge. She will close her legs and deny me many times. I'm looking for a girl to fill in the gap while I take care of such a girl but she must be reasonable.

I prefer a working class girl who is earning decently and will appreciate an addition from me.

you can A) divorce the 1st wife who doesnt want to fulfill her marital duties (aka take care of her man) or B) get a 2nd wife

YEMOYEMI:
I am married with kids and doing very well. I don't get the desired attention from my wife despite taking care of all the responsibilities and not complaining. I've told her many times how she's not being romantic but she's not bothered. She doesn't make move for sxx and she may not be bothered even in two months while I as a man always have the urge. She will close her legs and deny me many times. I'm looking for a girl to fill in the gap while I take care of such a girl but she must be reasonable.

I prefer a working class girl who is earning decently and will appreciate an addition from me.

Some women self funny, u no wan d man but I still dey him house, doing what?

You no wan d man make him touch you but you dey call attention. Me I want take it o. E. Better make I remain single than to one wahala for my bed.

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YEMOYEMI:
I am married with kids and doing very well. I don't get the desired attention from my wife despite taking care of all the responsibilities and not complaining. I've told her many times how she's not being romantic but she's not bothered. She doesn't make move for sxx and she may not be bothered even in two months while I as a man always have the urge. She will close her legs and deny me many times. I'm looking for a girl to fill in the gap while I take care of such a girl but she must be reasonable.

I prefer a working class girl who is earning decently and will appreciate an addition from me.

NB--Divorce or taking in a second wife neither is an option I want to take

Sit your wife down and talk to her. Listen to her reason for not being able to give you the desired sex you want. If there's anything you can do to release her stress, because stress for women kills libido. Tell her she is pushing you to go outside. If after doing all these she doesn't change , then you can take whatever decision you want

Blunttruth:

Sit your wife down and talk to her. Listen to her reason for not being able to give you the desired sex you want. If there's anything you can do to release her stress, because stress for women kills libido. Tell her she is pushing you to go outside. If after doing all these she doesn't change , then you can take whatever decision you want

a woman denying a man sex knows exactly what she's doing... she doesn't need to be told she's doing wrong... if the man is carrying out his responsibilities on her, and he also takes care of his body and not in anyway smelling and also dresses well, I can as well say the man is being friendzoned in marriage.. if this is the case, the woman is either cheating on him or the man is already emasculated..

I would suggest him to take another wife as soon as possible without remorse... he should also cease his responsibilities towards her and abandon her totally like she doesn't exist.. the man should be happy in front of her and don't ask her anymore for sex... he shouldn't even get angry sef..

another case is, if she's cheating on him already, I just hope his kids are yours if she has already given birth.

@YEMOYEMI

MrBrownJay1:


you can A) divorce the 1st wife who doesnt want to fulfill her marital duties (aka take care of her man) or B) get a 2nd wife

Which type of advise is this...Is divorce that easy.

Chinny024:
Which type of advise is this...Is divorce that easy.

its called an HONEST answer.

MrBrownJay1:


its called an HONEST answer.

There's nothing honest there biko...

Raising kids from broken home have negative impact on their psychological well-being.

Chinny024:
There's nothing honest there biko...
Raising kids from broken home have negative impact on their psychological well-being.

better a kid from a broken home with 2 happy seaparated parents, than kids who live with yeye parents who hate one another.
the fact that you believe that divorce means these children dont have happy parents, shows your narrow minded state of mind on this subject. i guess you would rather that people stay together forever, even if the r/ship is dead and over and both are miserable together, abi?!

MrBrownJay1:


better a kid from a broken home with 2 happy seaparated parents, than kids who live with yeye parents who hate one another.
the fact that you believe that divorce means these children dont have happy parents, shows your narrow minded state of mind on this subject. i guess you would rather that people stay together forever, even if the r/ship is dead and over and both are miserable together, abi?!

Abeg leave meoooo...Which one is abi...Abi wetin
ni..
Are we not entitled to our opinions?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣..

Chinny024:
Abeg leave meoooo...Which one is abi...Abi wetin
ni..
Are we not entitled to our opinions?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣..

yet YOU are the one who quoted ME when i gave my opinion. aint i entitled to my opinion?!?!?!?!? you should have used the above quote for your own self before quoting me.

garriAndsugar:
Why don't you take another wife, infact take two

why buying when you can lease and dump when you are tired,side chick is far better than marrying another woman

Second wife will still act like first wife after marrying her. Out of jelousy ,one might kill you,if your backup is not very strong.. I don't advice you to do side chick.. Even if you will, don't make it a serious relationship, e go still purge you.. That gender just dey selfish,I no know why..

Nawa o, go and get one banny with bigyanch outside my bro.
Be like your wife no know say other women dy desperate to marry.

MrBrownJay1:


yet YOU are the one who quoted ME when i gave my opinion. aint i entitled to my opinion?!?!?!?!? you should have used the above quote for your own self before quoting me.

No vex na....Small thing, you are already angry..sorry biko🙏🙏🙏