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tishbite42:

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And that's what a man needs

nope

He needs to marry who he love himself. A girl can love you and you don't love her. Do you want him to frustrate the poor girl in marriage? Do you expect him to sleep around after marriage having married someone he doesn't love but later met someone he truly love?

advanceDNA:


I know she explained....baba na u no get the meaning of the explanation....see ...If u dey live for Maiduguri...if woman gbadun u..she no go get excuse for not seeing you...

Woman wey dey jump her papa electric fence for night to be with man....na ordinary shop go come stop am from seeing u in two months...

Dey play

You are too wise

ZIMDRILL:


i think you really need time to think and not rush

1 the girl you love, you what you said she is showing actions of not on love with you, you are in love by yourself

2 tell us does she live alone? instead of you asking her to visit you why cant you visittl her by her place?

3 the other girl its up to you, the ones you dont really love or the ones you take for pleasure usaully give that good sex and they end falling pregant, now it depends on many factors on how to deal with her
are yout parents traditionalist ? if there are they will likely want you to marry her

are you also a traditionalist ?

are het parents traditionalist ? in the event you accept the baby and not the child

Is your screen digitiser bad??

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

Let me tell you a story.

I have a friend who believed he was into a relationship with a lady who lives in USA.
They planned that he should come and visit him, my guy left his base in one of the European countries,got to US, called his babe, the babe blanked him, my guy got stranded.
He sent messages, placed calls to her, this babe never picked, nor returned the call or the messages. Only for my guy to find out few days later that this his supposed girlfriend had gone on a date with another guy. In fact she left US to go meet this other guy in another country far away. This is the same lady claiming busy busy for my guy. Anytime he calls her if she ever picks the call, the response would be sorry I am busy will call you back. Never to call back.
Now it's clear where her mind is.

Brother borrow yourself brain, it's obvious you are the only one in that relationship. That lady doesn't feel you.
No matter how busy you are, you would always find time for whatever or whoever you claim to love.
You love her, she doesn't love you.

There is another that loves you and has your time yet you don't love her.

Make your choice.

When you were cuming you actualy thought you were going and now you want an advice

Oloko bi oko inaki , go and marry the one you impregnate, she's the one for you already.

Leave the one you are eyeing for other person, simple.

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

Sorry to ask

Do you really love her or you tend to love her because she is financially stable?

Be truthful to yourself.

Those of you that ask these type of questions and create such posts on NL should't be having sex.
The questions and posts are so immature and horribly composed, I don't think you have attained the discipline and responsibility to engage in sex. Even if its supposed to be your sowing wild oat phase.

coputa:
Do not marry who you love but love who you marry.You love the first girl but she doesn't have your time, the second one is your woman,as you continue living with her your love for her will increase.

Marriage is beyond ticked boxes,it's your spouse character that matters most and not beauty.

This theory doesn't work for everyone. How can you marry someone you don't love with the hope of loving her later in marriage. That's a huge risk biko. The man will later be sleeping around with the one he truly love. This obviously might lead to divorce

I can't marry who i don't love o.. it's not a must for love to be equal but i will love her more

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

May God deliver us men from this confusion.
Too many fine girls everywhere, and they say we can only marry one for a life time, who made this rule self , definitely not God

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

Your boo get a boo.

Oga marry someone you’re sexually connected to, e get why? That other babe is seeing someone else and she would frustrate you in marriage either sexually or emotionally. Receive sense

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant due to distance, he barely knew her and she insist on keeping the child, but he still going ahead to marry me . Both of them are irresponsible, but the girl feels she could use pregnancy to trap him . So many baby mamas today are as result of ladies thinking they van play smart over a man.

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

Huh! Na just wa.

jibs4lv:
Oloko bi oko inaki , go and marry the one you impregnate, she's the one for you already.

Leave the one you are eyeing for other person, simple.

LOl

Stop misleading people on nairaland. You mean once i impregnate anyone, that automatically make the person meant for me? Lol

Once an idiot impregnate your daughter or sister that makes the idiot her husband, your son inlaw?

nkemdi89:
My boyfriend got another girl pregnant due to distance, he barely knew her and she insist on keeping the child, but he still going ahead to marry me . Both of them are irresponsible, but the girl feels she could use pregnancy to trap him . So many baby mamas today are as result of ladies thinking they van play smart over a man.

Very true o.

Best advice I ever got: deal with the woman who likes you , not the one you like.
The one you like will put you through all sorts of nonsense and stress you unnecessarily.

[quote author=nkemdi89 post=123055220]My boyfriend got another girl pregnant due to distance, he barely knew her and she insist on keeping the child, but he still going ahead to marry me . Both of them are irresponsible, but the girl feels she could use pregnancy to trap him . So many baby mamas today are as result of ladies thinking they van play smart over a man. [/qluote]those girls are foolish. Men will always go with their heart. If you like born 100 pikin, if he doesn't love or want you, he'd rather go for someone who doesn't have a womb

Marry the one you give belle end of story

Marry the one wey get belle for you ....The one that has belle for you gives you the best feeling forget about that one you won't be happy with her....Anyone woman that gives you happiness, peace of mind and emotional stability is your wife ...Love her even if you no get feelings for her the feelings will come

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

That girl you said you genuinely love might turn out to be a boring wife in the long run. GOD works in mysterious ways.

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

Mind blowing sex ....very good
I am jelouse now

Go and impregnate another babe again na. After that, come and tell us that you have done it agin on this Nigeria forum site. Did you ask us before you start doing it?

advanceDNA:


I know she explained....baba na u no get the meaning of the explanation....see ...If u dey live for Maiduguri...if woman gbadun u..she no go get excuse for not seeing you...

Woman wey dey jump her papa electric fence for night to be with man....na ordinary shop go come stop am from seeing u in two months...

Dey play

woman can have your time and still doesn't want you. I can have a woman's time but still doesn't want her.

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

You already have ur answer marry the one you give belle now simple

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

Okokobioko

You are against abortion?
How my advice wan take help you? abi you wan kill the girl wey carry the bele

Love who u marry

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

What happened to using a condom ........ Whilst banging raw, and releasing inside her ....... What did you think would happen.......😛😭😂

theamazonguru:


Let me tell you a story.

I have a friend who believed he was into a relationship with a lady who lives in USA.
They planned that he should come and visit him, my guy left his base in one of the European countries,got to US, called his babe, the babe blanked him, my guy got stranded.
He sent messages, placed calls to her, this babe never picked, nor returned the call or the messages. Only for my guy to find out few days later that this his supposed girlfriend had gone on a date with another guy. In fact she left US to go meet this other guy in another country far away. This is the same lady claiming busy busy for my guy. Anytime he calls her if she ever picks the call, the response would be sorry I am busy will call you back. Never to call back.
Now it's clear where her mind is.

Brother borrow yourself brain, it's obvious you are the only one in that relationship. That lady doesn't feel you.
No matter how busy you are, you would always find time for whatever or whoever you claim to love.
You love her, she doesn't love you.

There is another that loves you and has your time yet you don't love her.

Make your choice.

Irony of life. You love who doesn't love you and who loves you, you don't love the person. Why is it so?

As you enjoyed the kpekus, gently enjoy the fatherhood.

almarthins:


Very true o.

Funny enough the same girl that claimed she can take care of the child without his , can not even feed herself, she hid the pregnancy till five months without informing him . I read through their chats.