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manee2:
My ex broke up with me while I was accomodating her brother, and she's married now.
I saw this as motivation, moved and doubled down on my hustle and lost communication with both of them.
As I was trying to find my bearings, within a year two of my friends had already kicked me out of their house.
About 3 months ago she ed me through FB and asked for my phone number for her brother.
He needed my help, under the guise of trying to start his life over. All his friends he hung out with turned their backs on him.

Having learned life the hard way, I have become an introvert who easily feels uncomfortable around the people around me. I discovered that I did better on my own.

Regardless of that, I put up with it and regret it because I'm embarrassed and slowly losing focus.
Although he is ive, but he has Diogenes syndrome.
Being so kind-hearted, I don't know how to ask him to leave my space.

Grow some balls. Flatly tell him to leave. If not you'll end up being ive aggressive and do something foolish.

Never be afraid of conflict bro. That's what makes you a man.

nicerod:
Shit and refused to flush

The guy has diogenes syndrome

Oga please, come and go.

I once had a girl stalking me back then during my JUPEB days. She was in my place that evening and wasn't willing to leave.
I turned on the fake call feature in my phone. It rang after 15 seconds and I pretended like It was an emergency that I had somewhere to go. That was how she left.


Another way.
I wan reach Simon house... Make I kukuma escort you na.

Why can't you just ask him to leave your place?

Simple and direct

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manee2:
My ex broke up with me while I was accomodating her brother, and she's married now.
I saw this as motivation, moved and doubled down on my hustle and lost communication with both of them.
As I was trying to find my bearings, within a year two of my friends had already kicked me out of their house.
About 3 months ago she ed me through FB and asked for my phone number for her brother.
He needed my help, under the guise of trying to start his life over. All his friends he hung out with turned their backs on him.

Having learned life the hard way, I have become an introvert who easily feels uncomfortable around the people around me. I discovered that I did better on my own.

Regardless of that, I put up with it and regret it because I'm embarrassed and slowly losing focus.
Although he is ive, but he has Diogenes syndrome.
Being so kind-hearted, I don't know how to ask him to leave my space.

Guy, you have no option than to give him a deadline, eg month end to move out. Nothing shy here. You need your privacy to set your life streight. This one no be quarrel matter.
Unfortunately, such people will claim you kicked them out and tell the tales for years, especially if they become well to do.
Always avoid placing yourself in such situation.
Great, I learned a new one ie "Diogenes syndrome. Never heard of that before.

Go to a nice bar.
Drink enough of Trophy 🏆 beer 🍺...
Hold urine 4 body, sleep 💤 on d same bed with him..
And, finally urinate 4 bed wen both of una dey sleep togeda..

U will thanks me later

Diogenes syndrome is a big case and I can never put up with someone with a dirty habit. That alone is enough reason to kick him out.
My advise is you sit him down and have a heart to heart talk with him. Let him go find an apartment even if its a only room apartment. Know how much the rent is and how much he has and him financially to pay for the room and move out.
This way their will be no I'll feelings etc.

I hate it when a full grown man is behaving like someone that doesn’t have common sense all in the name of I’m kind-hearted. How can you allow the same brother of your ex that was with you when your ex broke up with you stay with you again? I can see that your kind-heartedness is slowly turning to mumuism.

Your ex left you to marry another man because you are a weak man. Women don't normally like weak men. Be a man bro

rent and furnish a new apartment for him

u dnt need to put up any drama. Tell him you need your space and he’ll leave.

manee2:
My ex broke up with me while I was accomodating her brother, and she's married now.
I saw this as motivation, moved and doubled down on my hustle and lost communication with both of them.
As I was trying to find my bearings, within a year two of my friends had already kicked me out of their house.
About 3 months ago she ed me through FB and asked for my phone number for her brother.
He needed my help, under the guise of trying to start his life over. All his friends he hung out with turned their backs on him.

Having learned life the hard way, I have become an introvert who easily feels uncomfortable around the people around me. I discovered that I did better on my own.

Regardless of that, I put up with it and regret it because I'm embarrassed and slowly losing focus.
Although he is ive, but he has Diogenes syndrome.
Being so kind-hearted, I don't know how to ask him to leave my space.

Foolish move and very weak man you are.... See your mouth like you allowed your ex brother, very stupid thing I have heard..... Disgusting

Diogenes syndrome is no joke and the sufferer can continuously continue to piss you off back to back from being extremely dirty and untidy to always staying indoors thereby giving you no room for your own privacy.

Bro, just jejely tell the guy to go. Why isn't he staying with his sister? I can bet you she chased him out of her house too. And Pls all this My Ex this My ex that is annoying......they are Ex for a reason. Everything about them should also be left behind.

This is why I love Tallesty1's brothers. They will allow their friends come live with them. For front they will be shining teeth and claiming only men can live together. Behind they would be nagging seriously and wishing the guy would leave. Tell him to leave kwanu, they won't

Now they are suggesting he brings his babe.
The foolish girl would also pack her bags and go there to serve as a tool to chase the guy out. Then they will once again claim the relationship was good until the girl moved in.

manee2:
My ex broke up with me while I was accomodating her brother, and she's married now.
I saw this as motivation, moved and doubled down on my hustle and lost communication with both of them.
As I was trying to find my bearings, within a year two of my friends had already kicked me out of their house.
About 3 months ago she ed me through FB and asked for my phone number for her brother.
He needed my help, under the guise of trying to start his life over. All his friends he hung out with turned their backs on him.

Having learned life the hard way, I have become an introvert who easily feels uncomfortable around the people around me. I discovered that I did better on my own.

Regardless of that, I put up with it and regret it because I'm embarrassed and slowly losing focus.
Although he is ive, but he has Diogenes syndrome.
Being so kind-hearted, I don't know how to ask him to leave my space.

Send am SMS

dangermouse:
Diogenes syndrome is a big case and I can never put up with someone with a dirty habit. That alone is enough reason to kick him out.
My advise is you sit him down and have a heart to heart talk with him. Let him go find an apartment even if its a only room apartment. Know how much the rent is and how much he has and him financially to pay for the room and move out.
This way their will be no I'll feelings etc.

Shey the guy get rent money e come dey person house for 2months?
See, that guy isn't planning on going anywhere especially with that disorder. The sister knew Op is softhearted so they played him into their plans..
It's a sad one.

I think OP initially wanted to prove to his ex that things have improved by accommodating her brother.
@op, it's simple now. Ask him when he's renting his own apartment

Kobicove:
Personally I think before you allow someone to come squat in your house matters such as how long the person can stay should be discussed and agreed upfront

pocohantas:
This is why I love Talles ty1's brothers. They will allow their friends come live with them. For front they will be shining teeth and claiming only men can live together. Behind they would be nagging seriously and wishing the guy would leave. Tell him to leave kwanu, they won't

Now they are suggesting he brings his babe.
The foolish girl would also pack her bags and go there to serve as a tool to chase the guy out. Then they will once again claim the relationship was good until the girl moved in.

Lol 😆
@last paragraph, men don dey use women head no be today.

Keep playing the video Tik-tok of tinubu blah bblahblu speech original campaign rallies, the person will angrily leave your house

novia22:


Shey the guy get rent money e come dey person house for 2months?
See, that guy isn't planning on going anywhere especially with that disorder. The sister knew Op is softhearted so they played him into their plans..
It's a sad one.

Allow the op who has the full picture tell us himself. Op said the guy is ive so where is he getting the money to him?

Persephone1:
Lol 😆
@last paragraph, men don dey use women head no be today.

When we were younger my brother would tell me to tell his friends he is not disposed. I did it the first few times before noticing he always claimed I never tried waking him up. The next time they came, I opened the whole gate for them and they marched to his room.

It's good to help but don't do help that you will regret later and have a very communication with him on the way forward. Don't act like a naive person. I hope you letting the guy stay with you will not make her married sister get closer to you again and you won't be sleeping with another man's wife. After all you have drilled the hole before so drilling it again won't be hard. Flee from married women!

Lolz…. Same thing nearly happened to me early this year, thank God I dodge a bullet. At first, he said he wants to be learn trade in my shop I declined, secondly he requested to squat in my apartment for a month or two, I declined. Why not go squat with ur sis new bf. Wetin concern me again with your family life.

Don't start what you can't finish.

Go and buy babalawo equipment and dey arrange your thing for the house around 1 AM every night.

pocohantas:


When we were younger my brother would tell me to tell his friends he is not disposed. I did it the first few times before noticing he always claimed I never tried waking him up. The next time they came, I opened the whole gate for them and they marched to his room.

It's how they will push you to do something and later go on to hide hands that always amuse me. Men don't like to be in hot spots so they shift the blame on others usually women. If you see a man who accepts his faults easily, lol feed him 10 times a day

I have learned not to be used long ago, I can take a fall for a man if it will shatter him or it would be completely embarrassing but it will be my choice and with T&Cs 😂

Simple...


1. Drink Monkey Tail...

2. Remove your shirt.....

3,. Carry cutlass....and

4. Look am for eyes with the cutlass on hand and politely tell him to leave ya house.

Thank me later...

Kobicove:
Personally I think before you allow someone to come squat in your house matters such as how long the person can stay should be discussed and agreed upfront

facts

Just say no