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manee2(m): 3:52pm On May 09, 2023
My ex broke up with me while I was accomodating her brother, and she's married now.
I saw this as motivation, moved and doubled down on my hustle and lost communication with both of them.
As I was trying to find my bearings, within a year two of my friends had already kicked me out of their house.
About 3 months ago she ed me through FB and asked for my phone number for her brother.
He needed my help, under the guise of trying to start his life over. All his friends he hung out with turned their backs on him.

Having learned life the hard way, I have become an introvert who easily feels uncomfortable around the people around me. I discovered that I did better on my own.

Regardless of that, I put up with it and regret it because I'm embarrassed and slowly losing focus.
Although he is ive, but he has Diogenes syndrome.
Being so kind-hearted, I don't know how to ask him to leave my space.

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dawnomike(m): 4:11pm On May 09, 2023
manee2:
My ex broke up with me while I was hosting her brother, and she's married now.
I saw this as motivation, moved and doubled down on my hustle and lost communication with both of them.
As I was trying to find my bearings, within a year two of my friends had already kicked me out of their house.
About 3 months ago she ed me through FB and asked for my phone number for her brother.
He needed my help, under the guise of trying to start his life over. All his friends he hung out with turned their backs on him.

Having learned life the hard way, I have become an introvert who easily feels uncomfortable around the people around me. I discovered that I did better on my own.

Regardless of that, I put up with it and regret it because I'm embarrassed and slowly losing focus.
Although he is ive, but he has Diogenes syndrome.
Being so kind-hearted, I don't know how to ask her to leave my space.
Simple... Bro, my village people are coming to visit and you don't want them to meet you here bro!!! They strong gan grin

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Houseofglam7(f): 4:25pm On May 09, 2023
Just say NO

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Lvgirl: 4:27pm On May 09, 2023
Hmm my brother resist the devil and he will flee
kestolove95(m): 4:27pm On May 09, 2023
Go bring ur babe to come stay with you for a week, dat one alone is ok

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Cassandraloius: 4:48pm On May 09, 2023
kestolove95:
Go bring ur babe to come stay with you for a week, dat one alone is ok

Problem solved.

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Kobicove(m): 5:08pm On May 09, 2023
Personally I think before you allow someone to come squat in your house matters such as how long the person can stay should be discussed and agreed upfront undecided

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nicerod(m): 6:16pm On May 09, 2023
Shit and refused to flush

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manee2(m): 7:08pm On May 09, 2023
Houseofglam7:
Just say NO

He's been here already for over 2 months

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Sucre6: 8:28pm On May 09, 2023
Why should u accept your ex brother to stay with u in the first place?

And why didn't you define the of him staying if he must stay at all, ask him how long he will be staying, if it's what u can tolerate fine, if not, tell him your house is occupied.

That thing between your legs ain't pvssy bro, that a dick with two giant hairy balls, that means you are a man, handle your sh!t like a grown ass man, sit him down and tell him that his time has expired, because u will be bringing in your fiancy to come stay with u and u need privacy, , ask him to bounce, u owe him and his sister absolutely nothing

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manee2(m): 6:10am On May 10, 2023
Sucre6:
Why should u accept your ex brother to stay with u in the first place?

And why didn't you define the of him staying if he must stay at all, ask him how long he will be staying, if it's what u can tolerate fine, if not, tell him your house is occupied.

That thing between your legs ain't pvssy bro, that a dick with two giant hairy balls, that means you are a man, handle your sh!t like a grown ass man, sit him down and tell him that his time has expired, because u will be bringing in your fiancy to come stay with u and u need privacy, , ask him to bounce, u owe him and his sister absolutely nothing

Thanks

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SultanOfAbia: 7:41am On May 10, 2023
Drop snake for your parlour
Once he sees it
His spirit will run faster than his body

Nobody go tell am to come back again

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FREDCLSSICO7(m): 3:35pm On May 10, 2023
put wetin go dey attract snake and scorpion come your doormot once he see like two snakes and 3 heavily pregnant scorpion nobody go tell am before he pick race

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Deeprooted: 3:56pm On May 10, 2023
There's just no polite why to do it!

Some people don't know when their welcome is overdue and I see that as entitlement mentality.

But if he/she genuinely needs your help, don't get tired of it if you have the wherewithal! But if he's fooling you then kick his a** outa ya house!

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ecolime(m): 3:56pm On May 10, 2023
Kobicove:
Personally I think before you allow someone to come squat in your house matters such as how long the person can stay should be discussed and agreed upfront undecided
My thought exactly ๐Ÿ’ฏ

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Dozie32(m): 3:57pm On May 10, 2023
Form say you want travel. Or you arrange an old to act like your mom.
illuminutty: 3:57pm On May 10, 2023
Go to court and get a quit notice.

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Phoenix873: 3:57pm On May 10, 2023
If you have the financial wherewithal, assist him rent a single room in a face me I slap you house, there are some that goes for 50k one year including agreement and commission.
Otherwise, grow some balls and tell him to his face that his time is up and give him a deadline on which you intend to see him leave peacefully or you drag him out.

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AImiron(m): 3:57pm On May 10, 2023
How do you politely ask someone to leave your house?
House Wey you dey pay rent abi co-rent?

You tell em to leave nah. It's that simple. Well I no get anyone wey fit come house and won't leave the same day, when you're not my sibling or babe...

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rentAcock(m): 3:58pm On May 10, 2023
I don't think it's your house because if it's really your house, you wouldn't need suggestions from strangers on how to ask the person to leave. The guy is unkempt and a hoarder, what other reasons do you need to boot him out?

Just tell him you want to start bringing ladies over as you are thinking to settle down soon. Or tell him one of your uncle is relocating from the village to live with you. I don't think it's too hard to makeup a reason.
001Lagos: 3:58pm On May 10, 2023
OP, you allowed your ex brother to stay with you with the hope that through her brother you will be able to get your Ex back

Pele , that's not gonna happen

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DesChyko: 3:58pm On May 10, 2023
I don't think it's really a problem at the moment though ๐Ÿค”. When it becomes a problem, you will know exactly what to do ๐Ÿ˜Ž

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Mitsurugi(m): 3:58pm On May 10, 2023
Please carry your kaya and go!

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Lanretoye(m): 3:59pm On May 10, 2023
Except you want to keep going to his own house,leave my house na leave my house or kuku say commot fir my house.
sonature1: 3:59pm On May 10, 2023
This is one of the biggest challenges most kindhearted people face, including myself.

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Samfloxin(m): 3:59pm On May 10, 2023
Tell the person...Mr Man, I politely tell you to leave my house

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checky619: 4:00pm On May 10, 2023
Tell them youโ€™re heading out, simple as that
Slydan204: 4:00pm On May 10, 2023
Very SIMPle...tell to leave ur house as u need ur space
Kellie069(m): 4:00pm On May 10, 2023
Plenty plenty stories everyday for this social media..
Weedhustler: 4:01pm On May 10, 2023
To make it in life u need to offend people, bro man up and wake him up around 5 am tell him he just have to find his way that u are done. Nigeria is not for the weak!

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