NewStats: 3,262,495 , 8,177,295 topics. Date: Monday, 02 June 2025 at 01:08 PM g566z

I'm typing this with tear in my eyes,I am a failure I failed myself too many times and Ive lost count,I'll be 25 this year and I'm a total waste,how did I get here?

I swear I can't even answer that question myself I have never been addited to anything in my life,no drugs no gambling or any sort of thing that could put me put my life pinry...I left school 2020 since I couldn't met up financially few months ago I posted a trend on nairaland of how happy I was my late mom sis reached out to me from UK and asked to go back to school,luckily I was reinstated back by the school...

I stopped my factory work, I went back to school and started from 200level I was glad because I just want to get a degree....

I sold my phone and everything ( I sold all on nairaland)... because I had to complete registration,this my evil mom sis kept promising me she'll send me something and she never did and it's over 4months now.

I sleep in school classes I don't even have anything,I paid my school fee already with the things I sold very cheaply here on nairaland.
I attended Osun state university so my fee is arou 234k.

I already gave up on schooling but this evil woman pushed me and now I'm confused as I don't even have a phone I fall literally sick everytime...
I curse my mom sis any day I wake up because I wake with pain and fear...

I have literally lost my way I don't know what to do anymore I'm totally confused,I'm depressed I seriously need a miracle and food,I swear on my mom's grave I have not had anything to eat in 2days...

She won't reply me,I text on whatsapp with people's number cuz I don't have a phone again, once I introduce myself she'll just say I'll get back to you everytime,and that all and not even one as she sent me a dime...I explained everything to her that I sold my phone because I believed her...
Now I don't even know what to do as I have no one to run to....if you are in osogbo and you can help me with something to eat Ill be so glad.

Your advices will also go a long way,as I'm in a delima wether to go back to lagos and continue my factory work or to finish this second semester.

you're just 25 and still yet you think your life is already over?
Come back when you're 40 please.

SweetBuns:
you're just 25 and still yet you think your life is already over?
Come back when you're 40 please.

You are very heartless and stupid, ashawo 500naira

Blupen969:
You are very heartless and stupid, ashawo 500naira

I'm guessing that you finally found a good reason to insult someone this morning.

The only problem here is that of a young and able bodied man of 25 who still has his whole life ahead of him say that his life is already over.

I get you're facing challenges, but you're already claiming that your life is over?? If any thing, na your mentality go kill you.

And as for the riff-raff who quoted me, I guess your own charity never started at home (or at all). Mmkpi.

Op nobody will help you in nairaland, your aunty weh deh uk no help you na nairalanders go come help you??
my advice is that you go back to your factory work save money and get a laptop and then learn a tech skill, school no go determine your future na you go determine your future

SweetBuns:

I'm guessing that you finally found a good reason to insult someone this morning.

The only problem here is that of a young and able bodied man of 25 who still has his whole life ahead of him say that his life is already over.

I get you're facing challenges, but you're already claiming that your life is over If any thing, na your mentality go kill you.

And as for the riff-raff who quoted me, I guess your own charity never started at home. Mmkpi.

You think i get your time??
God forbid

Blupen969:
You think i get your time??
God forbid

k

Blupen969:
Op nobody will help you in nairaland, your aunty weh deh uk no help you na nairalanders go come help you??
my advice is that you go back to your factory work save money and get a laptop and then learn a tech skill, school no go determine your future na you go determine your future

.

Thanks boss.
That the only option I have here,I learnt graphic design and I'm quite good,Im just confused if I should finish this semester first since i already paid, because I'm still hanging probably my aunt will turn up later, I don't want a situation again that I will waste all my effort as she kept saying I should hold on...that what I'm confused about

Blupen969:
You are very heartless and stupid, ashawo 500naira

Haha guy, is too early na.

The way una take dy throw insults for here eh, nawa

SweetBuns:

I'm guessing that you finally found a good reason to insult someone this morning.

The only problem here is that of a young and able bodied man of 25 who still has his whole life ahead of him say that his life is already over.

I get you're facing challenges, but you're already claiming that your life is over?? If any thing, na your mentality go kill you.

And as for the riff-raff who quoted me, I guess your own charity never started at home (or at all). Mmkpi.

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I get what you saying,my life isnt over I'm working on a decision and I'm finding it really hard to decide on what to do...
I said I'm confused and depressed never said my life was over, that why in my last paragraph I said I need advice.
Thank you

Freedomlurther:
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Thanks boss.
That the only option I have here,I learnt graphic design and I'm quite good,Im just confused if I should finish this semester first since i already paid, because I'm still hanging probably my aunt will turn up later, I don't want a situation again that I will waste all my effort as she kept saying I should hold on...that what I'm confused about

That your aunty will not help you my guy but you can stay and waste time and finish the semester or you can wake up and be in control of your future now

Blupen969:
That your aunty will not help you my guy but you can stay and waste time and finish the semester or you can wake up and be in control of your future now

.
Thanks man

Freedomlurther:
I'm typing this with tear in my eyes,I am a failure I failed myself too many times and Ive lost count,I'll be 25 this year and I'm a total waste,how did I get here?

I swear I can't even answer that question myself I have never been addited to anything in my life,no drugs no gambling or any sort of thing that could put me put my life pinry...I left school 2020 since I couldn't met up financially few months ago I posted a trend on nairaland of how happy I was my late mom sis reached out to me from UK and asked to go back to school,luckily I was reinstated back by the school...

I stopped my factory work, I went back to school and started from 200level I was glad because I just want to get a degree....

I sold my phone and everything ( I sold all on nairaland)... because I had to complete registration,this my evil mom sis kept promising me she'll send me something and she never did and it's over 4months now.

I sleep in school classes I don't even have anything,I paid my school fee already with the things I sold very cheaply here on nairaland.
I attended Osun state university so my fee is arou 234k.

I already gave up on schooling but this evil woman pushed me and now I'm confused as I don't even have a phone I fall literally sick everytime...
I curse my mom sis any day I wake up because I wake with pain and fear...

I have literally lost my way I don't know what to do anymore I'm totally confused,I'm depressed I seriously need a miracle and food,I swear on my mom's grave I have not had anything to eat in 2days...

She won't reply me,I text on whatsapp with people's number cuz I don't have a phone again, once I introduce myself she'll just say I'll get back to you everytime,and that all and not even one as she sent me a dime...I explained everything to her that I sold my phone because I believed her...
Now I don't even know what to do as I have no one to run to....if you are in osogbo and you can help me with something to eat Ill be so glad.

Your advices will also go a long way,as I'm in a delima wether to go back to lagos and continue my factory work or to finish this second semester.

I hope your story clear do me your aza if i at all make i do you small bread to take eat something

tunize:

I hope your story clear do me your aza if i at all make i do you small bread to take eat something

.

Thanks alot,you've no idea of what you just did for me.

Freedomlurther:
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I don't mind anything at all boss
7062283203
Opay
Oluwafemi

done bless up

tunize:

I hope your story clear do me your aza if i at all make i do you small bread to take eat something

Ahh boss na me need the real help ooh show your boy small love nah

tunize:

done bless up

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Ahh boss
Just saw it now,God bless boss
I really do appreciate

I have deleted my number already as I won't want anyone to to feel,the purpose I opened this trend is because I want to beg,tho I needed money to but as God will have it someone sent me 5k more than enough to eat and get back to lag,as I still have my apartment there till august and they can still take me back at my previous work,I'm just too confused right now on what to do

Freedomlurther:
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Ahh boss
Just saw it now,God bless boss
I really do appreciate

God bless you more

Blupen969:
Ahh boss na me need the real help ooh show your boy small love nah

Some other time bro i don see your name already

tunize:
Some other time bro i don see your name already

Thanks boss God will continue to bless you boss man

Freedomlurther:
I'm typing this with tear in my eyes,I am a failure I failed myself too many times and Ive lost count,I'll be 25 this year and I'm a total waste,how did I get here?

I swear I can't even answer that question myself I have never been addited to anything in my life,no drugs no gambling or any sort of thing that could put me put my life pinry...I left school 2020 since I couldn't met up financially few months ago I posted a trend on nairaland of how happy I was my late mom sis reached out to me from UK and asked to go back to school,luckily I was reinstated back by the school...

I stopped my factory work, I went back to school and started from 200level I was glad because I just want to get a degree....

I sold my phone and everything ( I sold all on nairaland)... because I had to complete registration,this my evil mom sis kept promising me she'll send me something and she never did and it's over 4months now.

I sleep in school classes I don't even have anything,I paid my school fee already with the things I sold very cheaply here on nairaland.
I attended Osun state university so my fee is arou 234k.

I already gave up on schooling but this evil woman pushed me and now I'm confused as I don't even have a phone I fall literally sick everytime...
I curse my mom sis any day I wake up because I wake with pain and fear...

I have literally lost my way I don't know what to do anymore I'm totally confused,I'm depressed I seriously need a miracle and food,I swear on my mom's grave I have not had anything to eat in 2days...

She won't reply me,I text on whatsapp with people's number cuz I don't have a phone again, once I introduce myself she'll just say I'll get back to you everytime,and that all and not even one as she sent me a dime...I explained everything to her that I sold my phone because I believed her...
Now I don't even know what to do as I have no one to run to....if you are in osogbo and you can help me with something to eat Ill be so glad.

Your advices will also go a long way,as I'm in a delima wether to go back to lagos and continue my factory work or to finish this second semester.

This one is very deep

Do you have siblings you could reconcile with to assist you with feeding then during holidays you look for sites to hustle

You can't just drop out of school for the second time and write again for the school to accept you back

They will think you are not serious

Look a man goes through a burning furnace of life to be able to stand well

You are ing through yours and you don't have to give up

Honestly you don't have to

frozen70:


This one is very deep

Do you have siblings you could reconcile with to assist you with feeding then during holidays you look for sites to hustle

You can't just drop out of school for the second time and write again for the school to accept you back

They will think you are not serious

Look a man goes through a burning furnace of life to be able to stand well

You are ing through yours and you don't have to give up

Honestly you don't have to

.

I only have step moms that won't even allow me enter my father's house.
I'm entitled to a 3 bedroom apartment in lagos,but the attack was too much and my mom made promise I won't near there...
And at the moment I'm struggling so hard to keep to that promise.

frozen70:


This one is very deep

Do you have siblings you could reconcile with to assist you with feeding then during holidays you look for sites to hustle

You can't just drop out of school for the second time and write again for the school to accept you back

They will think you are not serious

Look a man goes through a burning furnace of life to be able to stand well

You are ing through yours and you don't have to give up

Honestly you don't have to

Oga his school fees is 234k na your papa go pay for am the school fees? which kind hustle weh go give am 234k??

boss pls do me 1k abeg

tunize:

I hope your story clear do me your aza if i at all make i do you small bread to take eat something

pls someone should help me also

Dont drop out so incase she sends funds later you wont be in a mess

Blupen969:
You are very heartless and stupid, ashawo 500naira

I'm really speechless for that comment

PJtech:
boss pls do me 1k abeg

Some other time bro God bless

it's well bro

tunize:

Some other time bro God bless

Please I need someone who can gift me 1k,I'm traveling to lagos to osogbo and I'm 800N short...

I'm not certain I'll be leaving school but I want to leave for lag today and get some work to do,I already I'll have where to sleep,and if my aunt reach out to me before it's too late I'll go back to school.
I wouldn't want to spend the money with me on food and not have tfare to travel some other time.