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[quote author=jeff1993 post=121546722][/quote]while I agree that sex doesn't make one bad.

But guys need to understand that as a woman society judges women very harshly especially when it comes to sex.

So, it's only reasonable that a woman wants to be cautious about this situation.

But I get the op though. Sex shouldn't be seen as a reward. Both parties enjoy it after all.

Queendera:
this guy go insult you without insulting you 🤣🤣

never my intention ma

Crystalom3:
you get?

Most of them just assume that you are talking about sex whenever you bring on this topic.

Love and happiness is a process. It's like building a house. Marriage is roofing it.

You crown the effort to love and be happy with marriage.

Nowadays, instead of loving and genuinely caring, they want you to marry them before everything.

Yes bro ... Whenever I meet a babe like that make such proposition before our relationship that no sex before marriage, automatically my heart has left the relationship but I will still carry on an withhold any sign of emotion and love from her.

Maybe the day she ask me for stuff that is the day I will bring the topic up and we will juss break up.

jeff1993:

A good lady is a good one, Sex or not. Sex does not make u a bad person. That u had sex with someone u love and he turned around does not make u a Fool. We all have bad experiences.

Wether u withhold it or u chose to have sex ... Anybody that will stay with u will stay. I have witnessed a two month old marriage collapse cos of sex. Man complained that it smells and he cant take it any longer. He claimed he was deceived by the lady who chose to goad him on with no sex before marriage only for him to marry and see the reason ok n behind it.

I still maintained it's not to be given cheerfully

Queendera:
how come sex is always the first thing that comes to religious people's mind.

Do you know you guys discuss sex way more than you discuss God?

Like I read through and the op never talked about sex.

k.

Crystalom3:
■ Now this might seem trivia until you are hooked up to the horse and dragged in the mud of frustration as a man. There's nothing more annoying than being seen as a sin as a man. Honestly, if I recall some of my previous relationships experiences as I type this, I feel like smashing my phone. Nothing is worst than being treated as a penis in a relationship.Nothing. Stay safe out there. If you find a girl that's good enough and loves and respects you, forget it, you've gotten the jackpot.
■ No let anyone use religion as a form of "being a good girl" to kee you. It's even the way these ladies dream about their future husband and home. Lolz. No go work. They think say by enstranging men, God will give you the perfect man later in life. As a lady I wish you understood that life is a process. Not a reward. People get good home through hard work, not a reward from "being good". People get rich from the process of work, not from praying and "i receive it". Shalom.

1. OMGosh! Wow... so some of you you don't like being treated like a mere penis in a relationship yet the vast majority on here think of women as nothing more than pussies in the relationship?

2. Here's the fact for you. There is what is common sense and then there is reality. The reality for many Nigerian women living in Nigeria is that life that ought to be a process when commonsense is allowed to reign is not when commonsense is all but nonexistent in society. So, these ladies don't lack understanding. Rather they have been forced to play the game as it has been set by the predominant parties in society.... the men folk.

Beebah321 This is for your eyes only.....i no wan hear 2028 from you again

sense de dia....word ... preach

Blupen:
Beebah321 This is for you eyes only.....i no wan hear 2028 from you again

Lol
Forget wetin op dey talk. When them don knack their girlfriend tire, them go dump her go dey follow another girl.
This thing dey happen, u sef know that one.

Beebah321:
Lol
Forget wetin op dey talk. When them don knack their girlfriend tire, them go dump her go dey follow another girl.
This thing dey happen, u sef know that one.

I no know ooh am a virgin ooh, the last time way i have any encounter with toto na when i commot from one

Blupen:
I no know ooh am a virgin ooh, the last time way i have any encounter with toto na when i commot from one

this guy ehh
Since u say u be virgin, if I talk 2028 again no complain ooo.

Beebah321:
this guy ehh
Since u say u be virgin, if I talk 2028 again no complain ooo.

I don shoot myself with the last bullet wey remain for my gun chai!!

Crystalom3:
this video is a concrete example of what I'm saying.

Just listen to what this preacher is teaching his congregation about relationships in this 15 seconds clip

This is all shades of wrong

https://www.instagram.com/reel/dDiACDsdd/

People, especially women need to start thinking for themselves.

Adding you too @almarthins

I no get data o

Crystalom3:
■ this video is a concrete example of what I'm saying. Just listen to what this preacher is teaching his congregation about relationships in this 15 seconds clip. This is all shades of wrong https://www.instagram.com/reel/dDiACDsdd/ People, especially women need to start thinking for themselves. Adding you too @almarthins

And the preacher happens to be a man .... possibly priming the gullible in order to prey on them. Why you dey hate? @OP

Crystalom3:
not contradiction.

It's the assumption that everything I said earlier was all because sex.

Yes, I f*cked my girls.

But I hate when they feel everything about them, myself and the relationship should revolve around that 30-one hour of pleasure (just so you know, sex is not 5 minutes of pleasure, try telling brother Joshua the next time he's preaching about sex that some of us go up to hours).

I guess in your Bible God agrees with decievers and liars?

Because mentioning fornication and saying you didn't mention sex, is like saying I took it because no one was looking but didn't steal it.

Again a liar and a deciever but somehow feeling righteous because the sister f*cking is a bigger sinner.

It's the same thing with these religious ladies. Instead of being taught to actually be good and work hard, they are taught, all they need is to abstain from sex and everything else will fall in line.

Fornication or no fornication, you are good if you are good and bad if you don't work on yourself.

Sex is not the ultimate. Character, affection, understanding and submission are the ultimate.

Blupen:
I don shoot myself with the last bullet wey remain for my gun chai!!

No worry, I go con resurrect u when we enter 2028

Beebah321:
No worry, I go con resurrect u when we enter 2028

abeg leave me joor

Blupen:
abeg leave me joor

I no hold you na
Dey go joor

So all the things that's wrong with this country na this kind matter dey una table?

Ike kwuru

Dear OP, you don't need to bother about women and sex, they are biologically and physiologically wired for sex.
The older they get, the higher this cravings for sex becomes. Even that one you called holy, no worry, no be she holy ...for night body go tell am.

You my brother just give yourself all the attention you need and put on as much value as you can while you are young.
If you do, someday, along your way will be littered with willing women, old and young, married and single, ready to do anything no matter how lewd to sleep with you.

Take my advice if you will...spun it and continue your epistle.

Either way, this country can definitely be better than it currently is.

Kings,

Stop putting this much energy to reason Nigerian girls.

They are not worth it.

Just pump & dump them.