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After getting the job,he was posted to one northern state where he met the lady from the south west.

In less than 6 months, he told me someone wanted to say Hi to me when he called. I heard a lady's voice. He later introduced her to me as his fiancee.

Long story short. We went for wedding and all.

At the point of delivery which the doctor insisted on her having CS due to her medical condition, my brother insisted the wife will deliver via push. It was then the doctor made known to my brother " oga you're talking as if you're not aware of your wife's health"

Omo!!! Na there my brother come say he no Sabi ooo. It was discovered she's indeed SS. I asked my brother before we went for all the marriage rites of they're compatible health wise an he answered affirmative.


After the discovery, my brother left the wife in the hospital but my dad and I insisted he gets back to her till after everything.

It was when was after the successful surgery my brother told me that his wife brought the test result from another lab, reason being that he was busy when they were supposed to go for the test together.

My brother's mind is made up on divorce.

What will you advise my brother to do?

Tell your bro. to finish what he started oo

[quote author=Shalommy post=120296276]Tell your bro. to finish what he started oo [/quott

The young man is already tired of the marriage

That kind of a thing happened to my guy. His fiancee brought a fake genotype result. After trad, in preparation for wedding his church insisted they have another test in their approved hospital,the bean was spilled. It was discovered that the girl was SS. That was the end of the marriage. The guy married another girl

[quote author=Deeprooted post=120296462][/quote]How old is their marriage?

Shalommy:
Tell your bro. to finish what he started oo

I concur. Boys do not get married, only men do .

Its better he divorce her than to keep her and regret for the rest of his life. Being a SS come with great burden... it can turn an rich individual into a poor man in a matter of few years if not months.

Deeprooted:
After getting the job,he was posted to one northern state where he met the lady from the south west.

In less than 6 months, he told me someone wanted to say Hi to me when he called. I heard a lady's voice. He later introduced her to me as his fiancee.

Long story short. We went for wedding and all.

At the point of delivery which the doctor insisted on her having CS due to her medical condition, my brother insisted the wife will deliver via push. It was then the doctor made known to my brother " oga you're talking as if you're not aware of your wife's health"

Omo!!! Na there my brother come say he no Sabi ooo. It was discovered she's indeed SS. I asked my brother before we went for all the marriage rites of they're compatible health wise an he answered affirmative.


After the discovery, my brother left the wife in the hospital but my dad and I insisted he gets back to her till after everything.

It was when was after the successful surgery my brother told me that his wife brought the test result from another lab, reason being that he was busy when they were supposed to go for the test together.

My brother's mind is made up on divorce.

What will you advise my brother to do?

S.S matter eh, them no dey use love or emotion oh. Na objectivity and realism them dey use face am, no matter whose ox faces the brunt. Forget "I been love am" or "she love me" or "we are in love" gist. If at least one of the marriage partners no be complete AA, In this case, he has these options. 1. divorce her and marry another wife with AA genotype. 2. reman married, but no kid. 3. Remain married, have kids with SS genotype, and drain or strain you both emotionally, mentally, and financially, and who will suffer from birth till premature death, at 24 years at most 4. Remain married, with no kid, but have an AA side chick who will birth healthy children for u. Thank God am AA.I can marry any woman on earth

Deeprooted:
After getting the job,he was posted to one northern state where he met the lady from the south west.

In less than 6 months, he told me someone wanted to say Hi to me when he called. I heard a lady's voice. He later introduced her to me as his fiancee.

Long story short. We went for wedding and all.

At the point of delivery which the doctor insisted on her having CS due to her medical condition, my brother insisted the wife will deliver via push. It was then the doctor made known to my brother " oga you're talking as if you're not aware of your wife's health"

Omo!!! Na there my brother come say he no Sabi ooo. It was discovered she's indeed SS. I asked my brother before we went for all the marriage rites of they're compatible health wise an he answered affirmative.


After the discovery, my brother left the wife in the hospital but my dad and I insisted he gets back to her till after everything.

It was when was after the successful surgery my brother told me that his wife brought the test result from another lab, reason being that he was busy when they were supposed to go for the test together.

My brother's mind is made up on divorce.

What will you advise my brother to do?

What is your brother's genotype? If your brother is AA, then there is no risk that any of their children will be SS

Shalommy:
How old is their marriage?

2 years

weslay:


What is your brother's genotype? If your brother is AA, then there is no risk that any of their children will be SS

My brother is AS

Creamypie:
s s matter eh. them no dey use love or emotion oh. Na objectivity and realism them dey use face am, no matter whose ox faces the brunt

I'm telling you

habsydiamond:
Its better he divorce her than to keep her and regret for the rest of his life. Being a SS come with great burden... it can turn an rich individual into a poor man in a matter of few years if not months.

It has taken it toll on my brother

Deeprooted:


My brother is AS

This is a sad one. I pray the Child is AS.

Make ya brother run before the S S matter go dry in pocket

"It was when was after the successful surgery my brother told me that his wife brought the test result from another lab, reason being that he was busy when they were supposed to go for the test together".....Too busy doing what? He knows he is already AS and was lackadaisical about the testing and the now wife got to scam him.😠

Even in the Catholic church, that is enough ground to dissolve the marriage because of deceit.

My main interest is the baby, is the genotype known?

The earlier he walks away, the better for him.


What a sad story.

It's a fraud. Your brother must take part of the blame for not doing due diligence.

FreeStuffsNG:

I concur. Boys do not get married, only men do .

I spit on your useless head....mumu man

Samfloxin:
That kind of a thing happened to my guy. His fiancee brought a fake genotype result. After trad, in preparation for wedding his church insisted they have another test in their approved hospital,the bean was spilled. It was discovered that the girl was SS. That was the end of the marriage. The guy married another girl

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He averted a lot

Deeprooted:


What do you mean by "deceived"? Did they discussed about genotype and she lied about her status?

This is very pathetic and I hope your bro will be able to get over this

Wahala wahala wahala

Mm

Fake story. It's only a fool who can't recognise a sickler through his or her physical structures and eye colours.
Modified.
All those people quoting me and saying trash are fools. How can one stay with a sickler for a very long time and still not know. If he wasn't aware of such I wonder what else he wasn't aware of.Me personally cannot stay with such a person and wouldn't be aware no matter how smart such a person claims.

know your dude

Deeprooted:


My brother is AS

This story get as e b. How you go dey date person upto marriage you no go know her genotype.

Deception 😞

Justbehave:
Fake story. It's only a fool who can't recognise a sickler through his or her physical structures and eye colours.

Some don't have the above features. Check sickle motivator on instagram. You would never know except she tells you.

If you continue with her out of pity
Death won't pity your children
Think of that

When you are AS/SS, issues like genotype become the first thing you want to find out especially when you think someone might end up being a life partner.

How the SS lady was okay with marrying someone with AS genotype thus putting the probability of them having a SS child at 50% is beyond imagination.

Is she illiterate and doesn't understand the probability of giving birth to an SS baby?

If she was AS, I'll say she doesn't know firsthand the pain of being a sickler, but she has experienced the pain and yet wants to put her child through such.

That's beyond reckless, it is psychological. She needs to have her head checked.

However, about the marriage dissolution I have no solution. This matter is too complicated.