NewStats: 3,262,178 , 8,176,335 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 June 2025 at 07:44 AM 2r19

Hello everyone, I & my girlfriend welcomed a new baby yesterday, I feel really devastated & scared as to what the future holds for me and wonders if my life now will be way harder as my plans for this year didn't go as planned.

Also seeking assistance in offsetting the outstanding bills. Thank you all in anticipation

I live in Lagos and willing to take anyone who decides to help to the hospital as well for confirmation

NB: I'm 35 years of age and wanted this child as well, business didnt turn out fine reason I'm stucked

Newbaby:
Hello everyone, I & my girlfriend welcomed a new baby yesterday, I feel really devastated & scared as to what the future holds for me and wonders if my life now will be way harder as my plans for this year didn't go as planned.

Also seeking assistance in offsetting the outstanding bills. Thank you all in anticipation

I live in Lagos and willing to take anyone who decides to help to the hospital as well for confirmation

NB: I'm 35 years of age and wanted this child as well, business didnt turn out fine reason I'm stucked

Congratulations on the birth of your baby. 9 months journey no easy but why is your new. You just ed and this is your second post.
Kindly use your old so people can trust you. A lot of scam going on lately and people are skeptical about new s.

dobnina:

Congratulations on the birth of your baby. 9 months journey no easy but why is your new. You just ed and this is your second post.
Kindly use your old so people can trust you. A lot of scam going on lately and people are skeptical about new s.

We could do a video call where you get to see us all here in the hospital if willing to help sir

Newbaby:


We could do a video call where you get to see us all here in the hospital if willing to help sir

You want help, why ashamed to use your old ? Is the "insults" more important than the money you need to offset the bills?

Kenyanseedlings:


You want help, why ashamed to use your old ? Is the "insults" more important than the money you need to offset the bills?

Pls ignore Op.
He is not serious.
I pray his helper locates him all the same.

Kenyanseedlings:


You want help, why ashamed to use your old ? Is the "insults" more important than the money you need to offset the bills?

Kindly ignore if my old is a necessity to you helping me, what other genuineness is more to that of visiting the hospital where we currently are or doing a vid call? Please answer this

dobnina:

Pls ignore Op.
He is not serious.
I pray his helper locates him all the same.

Kindly ignore if my old is a necessity to you helping me, what other genuineness is more to that of visiting the hospital where we currently are or doing a vid call? Please answer this. Also, I thank you that you wish me well all the same

Kenyanseedlings:


You want help, why ashamed to use your old ? Is the "insults" more important than the money you need to offset the bills?

I want help doesn't mean I should expose myself to online bullying and insults. Yes I have an old but what if I lied that I've been following nairaland as a guest and only just opened this acc as my first due to the circumstances I found myself in ? Majority of people asking for old don't intend helping but mocking

Newbaby:


I want help doesn't mean I should expose myself to online bullying and insults. Yes I have an old but what if I lied that I've been following nairaland as a guest and only just opened this acc as my first due to the circumstances I found myself in ? Majority of people asking for old don't intend helping but mocking

you don't want to take responsibility for your actions
you're not responsible reason you're stuck.

Following

Your baby is so cute

That's why we tell people not to troll on SM.

Why are you scared to use your old ?

Did you pose as an online millionaire or you do troll people


As I am,if condition makes my crayfish bend,I am so using this to beg my nairaland people o

I am very sure people like u must have abused alot of men and women here hence the reason why u can't use your old .

Well,congrats sha.

Life is not easy in the country these days and i wish u the best as I still maintained that u use ur old .

Na u know wetin u dey fear u.

Lol, after insulting & trolling your potential helpers with your old , you've come back here to beg them with a new ; are you not a joke?

People like this Op are responsible for the geometric increase in poverty in Nigeria.

You had nine months since conception to prepare, what were you doing?

Now you're coming to regale us with tales of how this and that did not work out for you.

And your partner? So she doesn't have any cash to spare? Immediate family? Extended family nko?

You both are broke, yet to get your shit together, in the poverty capital of the world yet you've gone ahead to procreate.

I feel for the child because this is how generational poverty starts, that is if your case is not a continuation of that started by your forefathers.

Honestly, I'm tempted to call you "foolish".

And I think it's high time I take this "Nigerians are suffering" rhetorics with a pinch of salt.

No normal person goes around giving birth with the terrible stats, news, hyper-inflation and low standard of living staring at you with a smile.

"new baby" , "wanted this child as well" . in other words, u n ur gf have another child or two already , yet bringing another into d world knowing both of u r not financially for that right now . U couldn't use condom , abi ?

Airforce 1 is that you?

Oga, oga, don't say things didn't go as planned because you knew you were not ready for this but you were busy doing the do and saying it didn't go as planned.
Which of the scenarios did you not plan? The doing part or the business? Mehn..you can't tell us you didn't know that having unprotected sex could lead to pregnancy. You knew yet you continued enjoying it until it hooked and your eyes come clear once. why?

Why una dey do like this?

If someone tried to advise you then that the path you're toing will not favor you, you wouldn't have listened. Now you want people to do what?

Anyways, congratulations on your baby but una no dey try by bringing innocent children into the world to come suffer all because of sex. Hm..

I am suspecting Zonefree to be the Op.

A broke man is not entitled to an erection

Beremx:
I am suspecting Zonefree to be the Op.

Agadi nwaanyi, you should be older than this
Shameless old looking whor.e!

Houseofglam7:
Airforce 1 is that you?

Newbaby:
and wonders if my life now will be way harder

It will.

Kaycee54321:


It will.

Men you are wicked o. You should have tried to deceive the op na.

OP, you don price market.

Next time, if you know you need people's help, don't insult them.

I'm sure your old has posted enough insults and threats.

The baby is your cross, carry it.

Next time, use a condom.

Zonefree:

Agadi nwaanyi, you should be older than this
Shameless old looking whor.e!

Bia nwoke'm why you dey vex....are you directly telling us that you cannot inpregnate a woman?

Why madam's statement come hit you below the loins nau?

ahnie:

Bia nwoke'm why you dey vex....are you directly telling us that you cannot inpregnate a woman?

Why madam's statement come hit you below the loins nau?

Dey your lane abeg!

Zonefree:

Dey your lane abeg!

You must answer my question

tensazangetsu20:

Men you are wicked o. You should have tried to deceive the op na.

Nairaland people wicked no single encouragement, congratulations or help. Newbaby you cannot use your old because you don use am abuse people anyhow and said alot of trash with it. It is good and it serves you right. I hope nobody helps you from here. Go and hustle, go and ask your family people and friends to help you.

Welcome to the world beautiful baby girl. Op dm me your .

Scared of paying bills.

Blacckrod:
Welcome to the world beautiful baby girl. Op dm me your .

Wow, God bless, it's been insults all through on here, may many good things locate us, amen