NewStats: 3,263,046 , 8,178,954 topics. Date: Wednesday, 04 June 2025 at 01:56 PM 1a6ev

In Nigeria, men go dey beg to date you. Even if they go still show you pepper, but at least, options plenty & they put in the efforts.

Outside Nigeria, them no send your papa

My cousins, in the UK, have beautiful daughter's who say no one looks at them, My aunties in thier 50's and get approached by many.....

A friend that went to Japan shared his experience on this.

Most of the young fellas think marriage is like a bondage wound up with a lot of responsibility. You see that responsibility is what most of them are not ready for.

Our culture here is helping in this regard.

IyaTola:
In Nigeria, men go dey beg to date you. Even if they go still show you pepper, but at least, options plenty & they put in the efforts.

Outside Nigeria, them no send your papa

My cousins, in the UK, have beautiful daughter's who say no one looks at them, My aunties in thier 50's and get approached by many.....

Reason me one of those your cousin nau

I go take care of her oh
I dey able and capable to put food for her table and even make her comfortable without timetable, our children go be uncountable, we go balance ontop high table


Damn... nasty... I'm out of here

IyaTola:
In Nigeria, men go dey beg to date you. Even if they go still show you pepper, but at least, options plenty & they put in the efforts.

Outside Nigeria, them no send your papa

My cousins, in the UK, have beautiful daughter's who say no one looks at them, My aunties in thier 50's and get approached by many.....

what is happening to your aunties in their 50's

Rubyjade:
A friend that went to Japan shared his experience on this.

Most of the young fellas think marriage is like a bondage wound up with a lot of responsibility. You see that responsibility is what most of them are not ready for.

Our culture here is helping in this regard.

Your post is incoherent, you might need to rephrase for a better understanding.

Shift abeg if you marry or not na u know

Read it slowly

Raalsalghul:


Your post is incoherent, you might need to rephrase for a better understanding.

Abroad isn’t friendly for our single women, they’re seen as the lowest perk for serious relationships. Unfortunately, most naija guys just use them for only sexual pleasure. Forget the packaging and flaunting stuff online, no serious guy abroad in their DMs. Stories plenty. Sadly.

HarlequinLekex:
Shift abeg if you marry or not na u know

The Naija man's options are multiple especially when they are outside the country SADLY; the white man's options are 'double multiple'. If he doesn't want his like, he'll consider Latin America, Asia, indians, etc Even in Africa, Nigerian women are at the bottom of the perking order, thanks to Nairaland men.

The bills and taxes over there would make you to chose loneliness over relationship.

Orgasmgiver123:

Reason me one of those your cousin nau

I go take care of her oh
I dey able and capable to put food for her table and even make her comfortable without timetable, our children go be uncountable, we go balance ontop high table


Damn... nasty... I'm out of here

Oyindamolah:

Oyinda
Se o wa
omo elewa
Aburo shalewa
Omo iya alamala
se o ni number
number to fi n se WhatsApp

Chubby girl
How far nau

The pressure to meet up with bills, taxes and other stuff to survive with back to back shifts go humble any Nigeria Person. Even many married people are lonely...talking from my sisters experience.

She said nothing but the fact.
Have experienced this issue.
Ko easy. Do shakara for naija but not for obodo Oyinbo

Beautiful thing ;
1. You can’t use money, catfish &pepper soup to get a girlfriend.
2. Bills are split even on first date
3. You don’t pay anyones transport
4. Dating doesn’t mean relationship
5. Relationship doesn’t mean marriage
6. You must ask if she is into men/women

IyaTola:
In Nigeria, men go dey beg to date you. Even if they go still show you pepper, but at least, options plenty & they put in the efforts.

Outside Nigeria, them no send your papa

My cousins, in the UK, have beautiful daughter's who say no one looks at them, My aunties in thier 50's and get approached by many.....

¹ltrue true true. U dyamm right about dat...plenty of beautiful men here in pekam London sir!(true story)

Rubyjade:
Abroad isn’t friendly for our single women, they’re seen as the lowest perk for serious relationships.

How many are ready to go out on Dutch dates?

How many can at least smile and be friendly when approached by men like their white counterparts?

How many of them are sociable: clubs, pubs, art exhibitions?

How many are willing to drop that sense of entitlement?

Your answer lies in the above.

When in Rome, behave like the Romans.

E ma ji tweets o ni tweets kiri o. E te pa, ese ati ise si.

Oyindamolah:

You're beautiful, if that's really you @ your pfp. ❤

What are you sayiing?

Magnoliaa:
E ma ji tweets o ni tweets kiri o. E te pa, ese ati ise si.

lavylilly:
What are you sayiing?

I dey kabash.

In Nigeria, your partner go dey call you at least 2x a day. You go still dey vex say e no text you.

Outside Nigeria, three weeks! Your phone is silent. Nothing from your so-called partner. After, they fit hit you up randomly, “What’s up?”

Some will just stop talking to you without giving you any cogent reason. Some would pull out of dates without saying a word

Shey you dey whyne me ni?

Seems like one is just pasting all of the comments from Rinu's twitter post about this topic here

Oyindamolah:
The Naija man's options are multiple especially when they are outside the country SADLY; the white man's options are 'double multiple'. If he doesn't want his like, he'll consider Latin America, Asia, indians, etc Even in Africa, Nigerian women are at the bottom of the perking order, thanks to Nairaland men.

The bills and taxes over there would make you to chose loneliness over relationship.

That depends on the kind of woman o. In ranking order, the white man is revered worldwide and is higher than his black counterpart (thanks to their great-grandparents who dominated the world). To get the top class women in developed countries as a black African male migrant takes a whole lot - education, mannerisms, spoken language, career etc. Add the fact that most Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), some due to the suffer-head conditions they faced in Nigeria, and it gets worse. One literally has to be a Tidjane Thiam to stand a chance. It might be better in the US and other countries with a substantial black population, but in places where the black population is very minute, e get as e be. So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", certain questions should be asked.

- What calibre of women "love" Nigerian men?
- Which countries do they come from?
- What are the profiles of these women (height, facial looks, educational attainment, career etc)?

Magnoliaa:
E ma ji tweets o ni tweets kiri o. E te pa, ese ati ise si.

Replied.

DaddyCK:


¹ltrue true true. U dyamm right about dat...plenty of beautiful men here in pekam London sir ma!(true story)

Raalsalghul:


How many are ready to go out on Dutch dates?

How many can at least smile and be friendly when approached by men like their white counterparts?

How many of them are sociable: clubs, pubs, art exhibitions?

How many are willing to drop that sense of entitlement?

Your answer lies in the above.

When in Rome, behave like the Romans.

Gerrard59:


That depends on the kind of woman o. In ranking order, the white man is revered worldwide and is higher than his black counterpart (thanks to their great-grandparents who dominated the world). To get the top class women in developed countries as a black African male migrant takes a whole lot - education, mannerisms, spoken language, career etc. Add the fact that most Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), some due to the suffer-head conditions they faced in Nigeria, and it gets worse. One literally has to be a Tidjane Thiam to stand a chance. It might be better in the US and other countries with a substantial black population, but in places where the black population is very minute, e get as e be. So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", certain questions should be asked.

- What calibre of women "love" Nigerian men?
- Which countries do they come from?
- What are the profiles of these women (height, facial looks, educational attainment, career etc)?

Gerrard59:


That depends on the kind of woman o. In ranking order, the white man is revered worldwide and is higher than his black counterpart (thanks to their great-grandparents who dominated the world). To get the top class women in developed countries as a black African male migrant takes a whole lot - education, mannerisms, spoken language, career etc. Add the fact that most Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), some due to the suffer-head conditions they faced in Nigeria, and it gets worse. One literally has to be a Tidjane Thiam to stand a chance. It might be better in the US and other countries with a substantial black population, but in places where the black population is very minute, e get as e be. So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", certain questions should be asked.

- What calibre of women "love" Nigerian men?
- Which countries do they come from?
- What are the profiles of these women (height, facial looks, educational attainment, career etc)?

Middle aged white women

fat and or below average looking white girls

women of other african nationalities

women that have had it hard in life and want to be taken care of (in a way this is all women but some ,more than others), to answer your question.

saladinnoir:


Middle aged white women

fat and or below average looking white girls

women of other african nationalities

women that have had it hard in life and want to be taken care of (in a way this is all women but some ,more than others), to answer your question.

Good. In that case, Nigerian men are not top of the food chain regarding dating when abroad. Isn't that the reason they lament of lack of sexual partners aka knack o before going to the abroad? These men believe the 5K or 10K they give to young girls in Nigeria can be replicated abroad, but it is a lie. You want to use money to buy the heart of a Swiss girl? How much does he have to do such?

Na who get mind dey marry oooo!!!

Most Nigerian women are on the thick side and some obese, so you don't expect a white guy to go after them considering that they have their own definition of what beauty is to them.

Now, if you are fat or chubby according to the west standard, do not properly put your wigs on, hardly wear makeup, do not go out then how are western guys gonna look at you

In regards to Nigerian guys and dating abroad. It is difficult, sometimes Nigerian guys want to date Nigerian girls but their rude and aggressive attitude put them off.

Another dynamic is survival, coming from a poor country where survival is the game, the Nigerian guy mind is to meet a foreigner and entangle them towards a relationship so that they can be legal. The Nigerian girls loses out if all her men are looking for foreign women to date

Gerrard59:


Good. In that case, Nigerian men are not top of the food chain regarding dating when abroad. Isn't that the reason they lament of lack of sexual partners aka knack o before going to the abroad? These men believe the 5K or 10K they give to young girls in Nigeria can be replicated abroad, but it is a lie. You want to use money to buy the heart of a Swiss girl? How much does he have to do such?

Nigerian guys that don't get sex abroad, just look at them, the way they dress, their fitness level, how they live, literally who is gonna date a fresh off the boat who looks weird and cant speak properly

Gidem!

Gerrard59:


Good. In that case, Nigerian men are not top of the food chain regarding dating when abroad. Isn't that the reason they lament of lack of sexual partners aka knack o before going to the abroad? These men believe the 5K or 10K they give to young girls in Nigeria can be replicated abroad, but it is a lie. You want to use money to buy the heart of a Swiss girl? How much does he have to do such?