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A trend is now occurring in our society with most marriages crashing within 2 to 3 months of getting married.

All what most young couples care about is getting married but not staying married. They go about sharing asoebis and spending millions of naira to get married but will quickly run away from the marriage within a twinkle of an eye.

Most of the girls still have someone that they love more but choose to marry the guy that is ready to get married immediately.

Most guys get their fingers burnt out of desperation to just get married without properly dating.

I know a recent case study now as the new wife just left him as he complained to me that the wife was picking the calls of her ex boyfriend in their matrimonial home.

He said she even goes to visit her ex when he is at work.

It is such a shame what marriage is turning to nowadays.

Why wouldn't marriages crash when women go into them for what they can get and not what they will give. You can't withdraw money from back if you don't first make a deposit.

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Lust and peer pressure. Marriage is for matured minds.

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Nonexisting1:
Why wouldn't marriages crash when women go into them for what they can get and not what they will give. You can't withdraw money from back if you don't first make a deposit.

If they had dated properly I think that won't have arose as they already know themselves properly.

A lot of people don't know what marriage is about.

Societal pressure force people who know next to nothing about marriage to marry.

Some men think it's only to provide, have sex and have a woman to birth and raise kids that marriage is all about.

Many women get married just to be Mrs. No preparation for the journey ahead.

I before I got married, I attended marriage seminar, read books, listened to messages from seasoned counsellors like Bimbo Odukoya, marriage counsellors from my church and pastors whose marriages I ire.

These days, how many young people will even read books about marriage and it's preparation or listen to messages or go to seminars for intending couples?

NotBeenPaid:

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Lust and peer pressure. Marriage is for matured minds.

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They all want to get married as their friends are getting married.They don't even care if the guy they are getting married to is a ritualistic as long as he can fund the marriage occasion they are ready.

Romanoff:
A lot of people don't know what marriage is about.

Societal pressure force people who know next to nothing about marriage to marry.

Some men think it's only to provide, have sex and have a woman to birth and raise kids that marriage is all about.

Many women get married just to be Mrs. No preparation for the journey ahead.

I before I got married, I attended marriage seminar, read books, listened to messages from seasoned counsellors like Bimbo Odukoya, marriage counsellors from my church and pastors whose marriages I ire.

These days, how many young people will even read books about marriage and it's preparation or listen to messages or go to seminars for intending couples?

absolutely spot on .you are right.

guobe:
If they had dated properly I think that won't have arose as they already know themselves properly.

It's not about dating. I have seen people that dated 5yrs and their marriage still crashed. Men today marry for nyash and breast and women marry for comfort and to form for their friends with few marrying to escape their family's pressure and problems. I have said it, I can not marry in this world, maybe in the next. I have met so many women and I am yet to see one that knows the true meaning of marriage. Even me, I'm not ready for the bullshit. My father will always say that if a man is not ready to raise an infant ekuke dog, he should never talk about marriage and my mother will add that if a woman is not ready to be a mother to a grown idiot, she should never think of marriage.

Many things

You marry slay queen your marriage lasted for 3 months and you say your marriage no long.

Tell me, how many years you want a slay queen to spend with you in your marriage?

Nonexisting1:
It's not about dating. I have seen people that dated 5yrs and their marriage still crashed. Men today marry for nyash and breast and women marry for comfort and to form for their friends with few marrying to escape their family's pressure and problems. I have said it, I can not marry in this world, maybe in the next. I have met so many women and I am yet to see one that knows the true meaning of marriage. Even me, I'm not ready for the bullshit. My father will always say that if a man is not ready to raise an infant ekuke dog, he should never talk about marriage and my mother will add that if a woman is not ready to be a mother to a grown idiot, she should never think of marriage.

lol that is serious o

browndre:
You marry slay queen your marriage lasted for 3 months and you say your marriage no long.

Tell me, how many years you want a slay queen to spend with you in your marriage?

slay Queens everywhere and marrying beauty who turns the marriage to ugly.

Romanoff:

I before I got married, I attended marriage seminar, read books, listened to messages from seasoned counsellors like Bimbo Odukoya, marriage counsellors from my church and pastors whose marriages I ire.

Epeleeee, me to go listen to Don Moen, Micheal smith before I get married

Sammy07:


Epeleeee, me to go listen to Don Moen, Micheal smith before I get married

it helps alot in marriages.very essential.No one is all knowing and experience is certainly the best teacher.

guobe:
it helps alot in marriages.very essential.No one is all knowing and experience is certainly the best teacher.

Noted sir

Kids are marrying kids and giving birth to kids, it will only get worse.

Tallesty1:
Kids are marrying kids and giving birth to kids, it will only get worse.

you gerrit.real kids

If you have ever gotten married you will know that the first few months of the marriage is full of temptations.Your ability to withstand the pressure of the first few months makes you a man.

JustStupidity:
Yes because women don't have any other thing to offer apart from se.x

ah for real.Not all women

browndre:
You marry slay queen your marriage lasted for 3 months and you say your marriage no long.

Tell me, how many years you want a slay queen to spend with you in your marriage?

Funny thing is that experienced oloshos and retired slay queens will give you more peace in marriage now than all these small girls that scream men are scum in the comfort of their university hostels. They have seen it all, done it all and there's nothing to prove again. But make sure they are actually retired and tired because some of them retire because of something. If they retire because breast done fall and they marry rich man who give them money for breast upliftment surgery, the olosho in them will be back.

Why won't it crash when you be seeing red flags waving at you like Russian banner but you will still marry her.

Find a virgin and see how your marriage will last longer than a millennia.

longing and peer stress

jeromestarks:
Why won't it crash when you be seeing red flags waving at you like Russian banner but you will still marry her.

Find a virgin and see how your marriage will last longer than a millennia.

Let me know If you don see one abeg

End times

browndre:
You marry slay queen your marriage lasted for 3 months and you say your marriage no long.

Tell me, how many years you want a slay queen to spend with you in your marriage?

You marry a hookup bitch,and the marriage last 2weeks,he still dey complain say e no last..

Nonexisting1:
Funny thing is that experienced oloshos and retired slay queens will give you more peace in marriage now than all these small girls that scream men are scum in the comfort of their university hostels. They have seen it all, done it all and there's nothing to prove again. But make sure they are actually retired and tired because some of them retire because of something. If they retire because breast done fall and they marry rich man who give them money for breast upliftment surgery, the olosho in them will be back.

They are all the same.. If she is not virgin or her body count 2.. Just know that you are investing in what is not sure.. BigRisk

One of my guys recently separated from his wife of two months after spending millions during wedding.

Number one problem is that, people want to marry and still want to enjoy the *luxury" freedom of single.

(Some guys married,yet still want to be sleeping with different girls like single, meanwhile, no room available in his house to carry them to sex again and to get hotel, it will take additional spending, before you know it will turn it to fight, and for girls, they married yet still want attention/chatting with exes and other guys, they still dressing like harlot which can make them fall for another guys).

Number two problem is finances, marriage comes with whole lot of responsibilities.

(Money you spend during single, will now multiple and to carry on, it's big problem)

Fiscus105:
Number one problem is that people wants to married and still wants to enjoy luxury freedom of single.
(Some guys married,yet still want to sleeping with different girls like single, meanwhile, no room available in his house to carry them to sex and to get hotel, it will take additional spending, before you know it will turn it to fight, and for girls, they married yet still want attention/chatting with exes, still dressing like harlot which can make them fall for another guys)you nailed it absolutely true

Number two problem is finances, marriage comes with whole lot of responsibilities.

(Money you spend during single, will now multiple and to carry on, it's big problem)

Corridon:
One of my guys recently separated from his wife of two months after spending millions during wedding.

alot of marriages are scattering early

For me na olosho wey dey my street me I dey reason to marry.


Atleast she dey give me free nacks when I no get money