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My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.

I am mentally stress with what am ing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.

The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least with something.

For now, am managing to night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.

My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian.

Total of 11 person's.
Dude I put myself in your situation and realized I need advice too.

You're timid Abi?? When you're serious we'll know

Some people are living 11 in one room. May God help us in this country.

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wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.
Am mentally stress with what am ing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too. The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that,both the sisters are not working so as to at least with something.
For now, am managing to night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.
My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian

it depends how you want to deal with it

1 not upsetting your wife

2 dealing with like man

3 not getting involved

1 not upsetting your wife aka accepting that your wife's sister and wife would happy that you didnt throw out too

2 dealing it like man, you were supposed to consulated before moving in and understand abit of why she left

3 not getting involved, your in-laws are the ones supposed to take her in while they get to know the issue and finding the solution, its not your issue is supposed to go to her parents or other elder relatives

I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.

You got me laughing here.

.

U now av two wives with plenty kids

Start making advance at her twin sister she will run away herself





Lollest lol sense nor go kee me

As e dey pain you e go dey sweet dem.
But seriously if you no tell me come invade my hood like that I go send you back o. After all I no marry two wives.

12 disciples
Omorr that's a burden too huge for a single son of man to bear

Had it bn the wife dey work nau,e for good.


Say no to lazy housewives and full time jobless housewives.

Sir travel small make the see shege or tell her straight to her face u don't need her highest nah bad person e go end

wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.
Am mentally stress with what am ing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too. The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that,both the sisters are not working so as to at least with something.
For now, am managing to night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.
My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian

Daily increment on food alone is btw 14-16k? (14*30= #420k) if I choose minimum increment spendings only on food oooo.

All of these are just to make front page, yet some hopeless and lazy readers will almost have HBP on mere figment of OP' imagination, blaming institution of marriage as usual.
.......thank God you still be able to stay in room and parlor? Wen u done with ur hallucinations you shall wake up from your dream where you saw urself in room and parlor self contained when actually you are in a single room ,"face me and face you".

Discuss with your wife please and let her find a solution. Talk to her privately because most times women no too dee get sense like that. Hmmm. Women always allow their emotions to overide their sense of reasoning. She go talk for her mind say she can't chase her relatives away.

the audacity of the move and loading of your living space is unsettling. You better call both women to a meeting as they need to find something productive to do as you cannot carry the burden alone. Else you will die and they will need to find someone else to carry their burden

Question is ,are you running a RUGA ?

They know you are a fool and will react like a weakling that is why they did that nonsense.

Abfinest007:
Start making advance at her twin sister she will run away herself





Lollest lol sense nor go kee me

Ummmm. Nooo

Whiteshield:
They know you are a fool and will react like a weakling that is why they did that nonsense.

Am not a fool oga

seyenko:
the audacity of the move and loading of your living space is unsettling. You better call both women to a meeting as they need to find something productive to do as you cannot carry the burden alone. Else you will die and they will need to find someone else to carry their burden

Thanks issorite

Blake755:
Sir travel small make the see shege or tell her straight to her face u don't need her highest nah bad person e go end

Okay.

Kwamecron:
U now av two wives with plenty kids

Thanks for the humor

Sontima:
Some people are living 11 in one room. May God help us in this country.

Amin. Thanks sister

gift2xl:
Total of 11 person's.
Dude I put myself in your situation and realized I need advice too.

Haaa

TooMuchJuice:
11 people; way too many in that space.
Not a healthy-living situation for anybody there,
most importantly your kids.

Yes my kid not find it very easy. We only have a bathroom. Even to read and do assignment no space again

wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.
Am mentally stress with what am ing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too. The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that,both the sisters are not working so as to at least with something.
For now, am managing to night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.
My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian

Sorry for you cause you married into a family of liabilities and worthlessness.

2 twin sisters not working and having 8 kids amongst themselves

nawa

Stop living a life that struggles to please people.

Stop being afraid of offending people.

wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.
Am mentally stress with what am ing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too. The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that,both the sisters are not working so as to at least with something.
For now, am managing to night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.
My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian

Both your wife n her sister should start working ASAP.

Feeding 8kids isn't a joke for anyone to handle in this buharieconomics