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Married men in the house, Is it normal for someone that is getting marry in the next one month to be nervous and anxious at the same time?

Yes and no

deewhydoski:
Married men in the house, Is it normal for someone that is getting marry in the next one month to be nervous and anxious at the same time?

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How old are you so I will know how to advice and give you the remedy for it.

To an extent,YES

garriAndsugar:
Yes and no

Are you married?

Sirchiboy:
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How old are you so I will know how to advice and give you the remedy for it.

34

spencekat:
To an extent,YES

What can be the cause?

deewhydoski:

Are you married?

I'm not.. but I've seen everything concerning marriage.
Hope you are mentally ready?

If you’re not mentally ready for it, save yourself the stress and stay clear.
So we wont be reading funny news here 3months after the wedding

marlow1962:
If you’re not mentally ready for it, save yourself the stress and stay clear.
So we wont be reading funny news here 3months after the wedding

I am mentally ready and I know what I am getting myself into. No marriage is 100% perfect we have to tolerate eachother. I gat to understand that the five letter word 'sorry' can go along way in marriages .
Don't worry u will not hear any negative news by the grace of God

deewhydoski:

34

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At 34,
You are still a young man with great potential.
You are nervous because you are about to say goodbye to singlehood.
You are transiting from adulthood to parenthood and that comes with so much responsibility and expectation.
You are scared because of the great responsibility that comes after the marriage.
You are scared because you don't want to fail or be tagged as a colossal failure if you fail to deliver.
Take a deep breath whenever you are nervous and position your mind positive.
Say positive affirmation.
Holy Spirit guide and direct me.
Lead me to the right dimension.
Make me a great husband to my wife and children.
Refill and rebrand me with your overflowing confidence and power.

Sirchiboy:
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At 34,
You are still a young man with great potential.
You are nervous because you are about to say goodbye to singlehood.
You are transiting from adulthood to parenthood and that comes with so much responsibility and expectation.
You are scared because of the great responsibility that comes after the marriage.
You are scared because you don't want to fail or be tagged as a colossal failure if you fail to deliver.
Take a deep breath whenever you are nervous and position your mind positive.
Say positive affirmation.
Holy Spirit guide and direct me.
Lead me to the right dimension.
Make me a great husband to my wife and children.
Refill and rebrand me with your overflowing confidence and power.

Thank so much bro
I appreciate. Thanks a bunch

deewhydoski:


Thank you so much, bro
I appreciate. Thanks a bunch

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Moreover, I want you to know that marriage is a beautiful thing and you shouldn't be scared of it.
Just hope for the best and at the same time expect the worst because life does not go the way we planned.

Sirchiboy:
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Moreover, I want you to know that marriage is a beautiful thing and you shouldn't be scared of it.
Just hope for the best and at the same time expect the worst because life does not go the way we planned.

Thanks

We dea age bracket,, omoh marriage dea scare me somehow but I go chest am anyhow

deewhydoski:

I am mentally ready and I know what I am getting myself into. No marriage is 100% perfect we have to tolerate eachother. I gat to understand that the five letter word 'sorry' can go along way in marriages .
Don't worry u will not hear any negative news by the grace of God

Amen

it is normal.

You have gotten good responses already.


Please kindly ignore all the anti marriage posts that might flood this thread soon. Don't let them put nonsense inside your head. Happy married life in advance.

deewhydoski:
Married men in the house, Is it normal for someone that is getting marry in the next one month to be nervous and anxious at the same time?

Beeni ooooo, a norm that is normal

garriAndsugar:

I'm not.. but I've seen everything concerning marriage.
Hope you are mentally ready?

you are. Or married but you have seen everything concerning marriage (joke of the century)

NoToPile:
You have gotten good responses already.


Please kindly ignore all the anti marriage posts that might flood this thread soon. Don't let them put nonsense inside your head. Happy married life in advance.

Thanks bro

I wish you a happy married life in advance. May you enjoy your home. Always to lead your family but also have an open ear to your wife.

davien:
I wish you a happy married life in advance. May you enjoy your home. Always to lead your family but also have an open ear to your wife.

Thanks bro

Why are you nervous? If you know the bad sides of your partner and you are OK with it, it's not a problem. But if you are hoping to change your partner or thinking everything will change after marriage then you must be joking. No one is perfect and don't expect any perfection in marriage. Try play your part to be the best thing your partner has ever dreamt of. It's just most people are not straightforward and the funny thing is that truth will always comes. Just try be yourself and don't start any habit you can't continue.

I’m “sarcastically” sorry for you. Enjoy your self inflicted woes.

9japride:
Why are you nervous? If you know the bad sides of your partner and you are OK with it, it's not a problem. But if you are hoping to change your partner or thinking everything will change after marriage then you must be joking. No one is perfect and don't expect any perfection in marriage. Try play your part to be the best thing your partner has ever dreamt of. It's just most people are not straightforward and the funny thing is that truth will always comes. Just try be yourself and don't start any habit you can't continue.

My partner doesn't have any problem whatsoever, she is every man dream. I am even lucky for having her.

davien:
I wish you a happy married life in advance. May you enjoy your home. Always to lead your family but also have an open ear to your wife.

Thanks bro

ObalendeCMS:
I’m “sarcastically” sorry for you. Enjoy your self inflicted woes.

Don't be like this bro.
Be happy for a beautiful thing

I think subconsciously, you're not ready.
Your conscious mind can deceive you because they rely so much on what you feed them with. But your subconscious mind can't deceive you or be deceived, because they contain all the truth.
Most of the times, our subconscious mind will try to send us some subtle messages, but we ignore it because we're so fixated on what we want. But ignoring these messages will not take the consequences away.
Some of the ways these messages come to us is through the following;
1. Anxiety
2. Being Nervous
3. Dreams
4. Still Small Voice
5. Insight
6. Serendipity etc.
Being anxious sometimes is very healthy, but it depends on the degree. For instance, preparing for interview. No matter how much you're prepared for it, there's still this anxiety we feel because we're moving from the known position, to the unknown. But marriage is different, you have to be sure of what you're doing.
Being anxious and nervous at the same time, might be a subtle message you need to interpret. Find out why you're feeling this way. Except you are a shy type, you should be anxious and happy, not nervous.

It's very normal to be nervous... I was so nervous until the very last minute during my wedding. I snored for the first time in my life after my wedding, and I never snored again since that day. My brother it is very normal to be nervous. But let me give you small advice, no do yourself o (I mean no spend what you can afford). No best or worst wedding anywhere. Do your best and leave the rest, that day will come and go. Trust me, God no go shame you

deewhydoski:
Married men in the house, Is it normal for someone that is getting marry in the next one month to be nervous and anxious at the same time?

Yes it's normal

raphroye:
It's very normal to be nervous... I was so nervous until the very last minute during my wedding. I snored for the first time in my life after my wedding, and I never snored again since that day. My brother it is very normal to be nervous. But let me give you small advice, no do yourself o (I mean no spend what you can afford). No best or worst wedding anywhere. Do your best and leave the rest, that day will come and go. Trust me, God no go shame you

Thanks bro