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AT 35, Should I Be Ashamed Living With My Parents? (3713 Views)
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Tonero5200: 11:40am On Aug 06, 2022 |
I'm the only son, and the house is mine already...I got my own detached bunk..but sometimes people do stare at me and gossip that as old as I am, I still stay with my parents. my fiancee refused to have my child because of this same issue, that i should pack out first... before we think about having kids or marriage. left for me I see nothing wrong here, why would I go and pay house rent when I could use that money for something better..because my own apartment is detached and my parents are not even complaining.. but friends, outsiders always pokenosing... sometimes I feel ashamed when I think about it Seun lalasticlala 2 Likes 1 Share |
VeryWickedMan: 11:46am On Aug 06, 2022 |
Not yet. Wait till you are 40. That's the best age to be ashamed. 28 Likes 3 Shares |
SUPERPACK: 11:48am On Aug 06, 2022 |
Rise above the gossips. There is nothing wrong staying in your parents home after all it is yours too.
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Tonero5200: 11:50am On Aug 06, 2022 |
VeryWickedMan:are you indirectly calling me a fool? |
Omihanifa: 11:52am On Aug 06, 2022 |
No big deal if you are still living with your parents at 35. As long as you are gainfully employed and you can take care of yourself. Like you said you are the only child so naturally your parents won’t want you to be far from them. But I will just suggest that You get them a maid that can look after them before taking the decision to move out since it’s already affecting your relationship and self esteem. You know women love privacy and being in control. So as long as you are still in your parents house they won’t feel comfortable. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
VeryWickedMan: 11:53am On Aug 06, 2022 |
Tonero5200: I wasn't indirect. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
thesicilian: 11:54am On Aug 06, 2022 |
Every one has a different journey in life. Do what works best for you not what you think others expect of you
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Jennyclay(f): 11:57am On Aug 06, 2022 |
@35 you're still living with your parents ![]() You haven’t even married her yet and you're talking about having kids even in your parent's house. Nawa o! What a shame!! Even the Bible says "Genesis 2:24" "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife... " Sir, leave your father's house, go rent your own apartment and go perform the marital rights with your Fiancé before you start giving birth to kids. Shame!!!!! 17 Likes 7 Shares |
ValCon888: 12:04pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Are you productive? Are you helping your parents in the home? Are you channeling your saved income into other beneficial areas? If your answer is yes to any of the above, carry on. 2 Likes |
fnep2smooth(m): 12:04pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Oga you are the only son... you ain't moving any Freaking place. Bro no dull ooo. unless you no get work na him people go de reason this. apart from that, it's your right since no other male child is around to look after your parent, unless u no de comot every morning.
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Richy4(m): 12:06pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
<<if the house is close to your place of work...Close to the mall, church, mosque, shrine and all various conveniences.. <<U have your privacy.. meaning u can cook your own meal in your own kitchen, have your own toilet, entertain visitors without your parents being on the way or encroaching on your private space...., I will say carry on brother... << Even if u rent your own home, people will still find one fault or another... <<Stop living a life where people dictate how you do your thing... 14 Likes |
Karleb(m): 12:09pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Baba, let them say what they like. I'm sure many of them would kill to be in your shoes. Enjoy your life and only move out if you wish to. 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Karleb(m): 12:10pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Jennyclay: See them. Cho cho cho cho cho. Go and move him out now. 24 Likes 1 Share |
Klass99(f): 12:29pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
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tamcamp253: 12:36pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Bad guy Na direct shot you shoot lol
VeryWickedMan: 3 Likes |
tamcamp253: 12:43pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
If they find out now You might not be older than him and fit Dey your parent house or probably life has not hit you not to talk to people like this, Na you know about shame
Jennyclay: 1 Like |
FiremanX: 1:52pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Jennyclay:U are always fond of typing trash,,, what's wrong with him staying in his own father's house?,, didn't u see that's he is the first son and also sole owner of the house? Op I will advise u to follow ur decision,, don't mind what those busy body says,,, it's ur parents house not ur uncle's house or whatever,,, 6 Likes |
ecolime(m): 2:23pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Tonero5200:It depends. Do you depend on your parents Financially? What do you do for a living? 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Kobojunkie: 3:48pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Tonero5200:Are you also an only child? ![]() Since you live at home with your folks, meaning you probably don't pay rent, does it also mean you are a millionaire with greater than 50 million to your name? ![]() 6 Likes 2 Shares |
KiNg0G: 3:50pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:how does his balance affect you or this thread.to be asking such a silly question 5 Likes |
Chidi2022: 4:09pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
DenreleDave is in the right person to answer you...he is even worser, because he still eats mama thank you ma....
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Fadafada231(m): 4:12pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Tonero5200: Hahahaha |
doggedfighter(f): 4:30pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
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chinebu(m): 4:37pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
You sound like someone who has depended solely on the fact that you are the only son and all your father has is yours therefore you won't hustle to make something out of life by yourself. If this is your thought, I am sorry for you. Entitlement metality quote author=Tonero5200 post=115436139]I'm the only son, and the house is mine already...I got my own detached bunk..but sometimes people do stare at me and gossip that as old as I am, I still stay with my parents. my fiancee refused to have my child because of this same issue, that i should pack out first... before we think about having kids or marriage. left for me I see nothing wrong here, why would I go and pay house rent when I could use that money for something better..because my own apartment is detached and my parents are not even complaining.. but friends, outsiders always pokenosing... sometimes I feel ashamed when I think about it Seun lalasticlala[/quote] 13 Likes 1 Share |
Riverrun: 5:59pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Tonero5200: I tell you Bro, don't mind them. There is nothing to be ashamed of. They are just jealous and want their hate to affect your finances. If your woman complains , dump her. For she is not a wife material. She's trying to cut out the little family you have so she can deal with you. A wife material would not push you to wastage. Don't fall for the pressure (it's all misplaced priorities) mostly from those who haven't been in marriage for minimum of 10yrs. |
Channah1(f): 6:14pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Nothing to be ashamed of. I wish my daddy had a house in this Lagos, I would have been staying there cos this house rent I'm paying is vexing me. House matter now no gree person talk. So stay where you are. instead of enriching another mans pocket, save the money and start building your own house. That is if you care to. Don't let anyone push you into hardship. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Kajaard: 6:35pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Jennyclay: You are gradually becoming a nuisance on this forum. 4 Likes |
Klass99(f): 6:46pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
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Tonero5200: 6:54pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Klass99:well, I'm not richard... what I make a week can comfortably feed you and your family for a month, no sweat.. and yes I'm the only child, the only son. so tell your fairy tales on the next thread 3 Likes |
Klass99(f): 6:57pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
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Karleb(m): 7:22pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Klass99: Why did you quench the attack. I was expecting some vawulence. 3 Likes |
Tonero5200: 7:42pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Klass99:I kept quiet because I owed you no explanation about my financial strength, that wasn't why I created this thread..be sensible and ask reasonable questions then you get a reply...or if you want to take me as a jest you get a bountiful of it. silly girl, the Post you made comparing me with your brother richard you think it's cool, I see it and I be happy and dancing. what if I compare you to a mad woman I saw in my shop today? becareful 1 Like |
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