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I'm the only son, and the house is mine already...I got my own detached bunk..but sometimes people do stare at me and gossip that as old as I am, I still stay with my parents. my fiancee refused to have my child because of this same issue, that i should pack out first... before we think about having kids or marriage.
left for me I see nothing wrong here, why would I go and pay house rent when I could use that money for something better..because my own apartment is detached and my parents are not even complaining..

but friends, outsiders always pokenosing... sometimes I feel ashamed when I think about it

Seun
lalasticlala

Not yet.
Wait till you are 40. That's the best age to be ashamed.

Rise above the gossips. There is nothing wrong staying in your parents home after all it is yours too.

VeryWickedMan:
Not yet.
Wait till you are 40. That's the best age to be ashamed.

are you indirectly calling me a fool?

No big deal if you are still living with your parents at 35. As long as you are gainfully employed and you can take care of yourself. Like you said you are the only child so naturally your parents won’t want you to be far from them. But I will just suggest that You get them a maid that can look after them before taking the decision to move out since it’s already affecting your relationship and self esteem.

You know women love privacy and being in control. So as long as you are still in your parents house they won’t feel comfortable.

Tonero5200:
are you indirectly calling me a fool?

I wasn't indirect.

Every one has a different journey in life. Do what works best for you not what you think others expect of you

@35 you're still living with your parents ? You should bury your face in shame. Your fiancé is absolutely right. Please pack out from your parent's house and rent your own apartment.

You haven’t even married her yet and you're talking about having kids even in your parent's house. Nawa o! What a shame!!

Even the Bible says "Genesis 2:24" "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife... "

Sir, leave your father's house, go rent your own apartment and go perform the marital rights with your Fiancé before you start giving birth to kids.

Shame!!!!!

Are you productive?
Are you helping your parents in the home?
Are you channeling your saved income into other beneficial areas?

If your answer is yes to any of the above, carry on.

Oga you are the only son... you ain't moving any Freaking place. Bro no dull ooo. unless you no get work na him people go de reason this. apart from that, it's your right since no other male child is around to look after your parent, unless u no de comot every morning.

<<if the house is close to your place of work...Close to the mall, church, mosque, shrine and all various conveniences..

<<U have your privacy.. meaning u can cook your own meal in your own kitchen, have your own toilet, entertain visitors without your parents being on the way or encroaching on your private space...., I will say carry on brother...

<< Even if u rent your own home, people will still find one fault or another...
<<Stop living a life where people dictate how you do your thing...

Baba, let them say what they like.

I'm sure many of them would kill to be in your shoes.

Enjoy your life and only move out if you wish to.

Jennyclay:
@35 you're still living with your parents ? You should bury your face in shame. Your fiancé is absolutely right. Please pack out from your parent's house and rent your own apartment.

You haven’t even married her yet and you're talking about having kids even in your parent's house. Nawa o! What a shameless man!!

Even the Bible says "Genesis 2:24" "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife... "

Sir, leave your father's house, go rent your own apartment and go perform the marital rights with your Fiancé before you start giving birth to kids.

Shame!!!!!

See them.

Cho cho cho cho cho.

Go and move him out now.

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Bad guy Na direct shot you shoot lol

VeryWickedMan:


I wasn't indirect.

If they find out now You might not be older than him and fit Dey your parent house or probably life has not hit you not to talk to people like this, Na you know about shame

Jennyclay:
@35 you're still living with your parents ? You should bury your face in shame. Your fiancé is absolutely right. Please pack out from your parent's house and rent your own apartment.

You haven’t even married her yet and you're talking about having kids even in your parent's house. Nawa o! What a shame!!

Even the Bible says "Genesis 2:24" "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife... "

Sir, leave your father's house, go rent your own apartment and go perform the marital rights with your Fiancé before you start giving birth to kids.

Shame!!!!!

Jennyclay:
@35 you're still living with your parents ? You should bury your face in shame. Your fiancé is absolutely right. Please pack out from your parent's house and rent your own apartment.

You haven’t even married her yet and you're talking about having kids even in your parent's house. Nawa o! What a shame!!

Even the Bible says "Genesis 2:24" "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife... "

Sir, leave your father's house, go rent your own apartment and go perform the marital rights with your Fiancé before you start giving birth to kids.

Shame!!!!!

U are always fond of typing trash,,, what's wrong with him staying in his own father's house?,, didn't u see that's he is the first son and also sole owner of the house?
Op I will advise u to follow ur decision,, don't mind what those busy body says,,, it's ur parents house not ur uncle's house or whatever,,,

Tonero5200:
I'm the only son, and the house is mine already...I got my own detached bunk..but sometimes people do stare at me and gossip that as old as I am, I still stay with my parents. my fiancee refused to have my child because of this same issue, that i should pack out first... before we think about having kids or marriage.
left for me I see nothing wrong here, why would I go and pay house rent when I could use that money for something better..because my own apartment is detached and my parents are not even complaining..

but friends, outsiders always pokenosing... sometimes I feel ashamed when I think about it

Seun
lalasticlala

It depends.

Do you depend on your parents Financially? What do you do for a living?

Tonero5200:
I'm the only son, and the house is mine already...I got my own detached bunk..but sometimes people do stare at me and gossip that as old as I am, ....
but friends, outsiders always pokenosing... sometimes I feel ashamed when I think about it

Are you also an only child?

Since you live at home with your folks, meaning you probably don't pay rent, does it also mean you are a millionaire with greater than 50 million to your name?

Kobojunkie:
Are you also an only child?

Since you live at home with your folks, meaning you probably don't pay rent, does it also mean you are a millionaire with greater than 50 million to your name?

how does his balance affect you or this thread.to be asking such a silly question

DenreleDave is in the right person to answer you...he is even worser, because he still eats mama thank you ma....

Tonero5200:
are you indirectly calling me a fool?

Hahahaha

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You sound like someone who has depended solely on the fact that you are the only son and all your father has is yours therefore you won't hustle to make something out of life by yourself. If this is your thought, I am sorry for you. Entitlement metality




quote author=Tonero5200 post=115436139]I'm the only son, and the house is mine already...I got my own detached bunk..but sometimes people do stare at me and gossip that as old as I am, I still stay with my parents. my fiancee refused to have my child because of this same issue, that i should pack out first... before we think about having kids or marriage.
left for me I see nothing wrong here, why would I go and pay house rent when I could use that money for something better..because my own apartment is detached and my parents are not even complaining..

but friends, outsiders always pokenosing... sometimes I feel ashamed when I think about it

Seun
lalasticlala[/quote]

Tonero5200:
I'm the only son, and the house is mine already...I got my own detached bunk..but sometimes people do stare at me and gossip that as old as I am, I still stay with my parents. my fiancee refused to have my child because of this same issue, that i should pack out first... before we think about having kids or marriage.
left for me I see nothing wrong here, why would I go and pay house rent when I could use that money for something better..because my own apartment is detached and my parents are not even complaining..

but friends, outsiders always pokenosing... sometimes I feel ashamed when I think about it

Seun
lalasticlala

I tell you Bro, don't mind them. There is nothing to be ashamed of. They are just jealous and want their hate to affect your finances.
If your woman complains , dump her. For she is not a wife material. She's trying to cut out the little family you have so she can deal with you.

A wife material would not push you to wastage.

Don't fall for the pressure (it's all misplaced priorities) mostly from those who haven't been in marriage for minimum of 10yrs.

Nothing to be ashamed of. I wish my daddy had a house in this Lagos, I would have been staying there cos this house rent I'm paying is vexing me.

House matter now no gree person talk. So stay where you are. instead of enriching another mans pocket, save the money and start building your own house. That is if you care to. Don't let anyone push you into hardship.

Jennyclay:
@35 you're still living with your parents ? You should bury your face in shame. Your fiancé is absolutely right. Please pack out from your parent's house and rent your own apartment.

You haven’t even married her yet and you're talking about having kids even in your parent's house. Nawa o! What a shame!!

Even the Bible says "Genesis 2:24" "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife... "

Sir, leave your father's house, go rent your own apartment and go perform the marital rights with your Fiancé before you start giving birth to kids.

Shame!!!!!

You are gradually becoming a nuisance on this forum.

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Klass99:


It's interesting you said this because one of our family friends, has a 42 year old son (Richard) who still lives at home with his parents and claims ownership of his parents house.

Richard is not the only child neither is he the first born child, but he keeps claiming ownership while the parents are alive and contributes nothing to that house.

His sisters who live on their own are the ones who pay the NEPA bills in that house, send upkeep money to their parents, which feeds him as well. When his sister Dorothy who I'm close friends with, starts lamenting over this guy's matter ehn!

This OP didn't respond to the question I asked or the issue of paying bills in my first post. It makes me wonder if he is another Richard in the making.

well, I'm not richard... what I make a week can comfortably feed you and your family for a month, no sweat.. and yes I'm the only child, the only son. so tell your fairy tales on the next thread

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Klass99:


No vex, I said I was wondering. It is good you clarified you are not like that, but why were you silent about the issues raised in my first post, then as soon as I narrate Richard's story you respond with vexation? That wasn't a fairy tale either but a family's reality.

Why did you quench the attack. I was expecting some vawulence.

Klass99:


No vex, I said I was wondering. It is good you clarified you are not like that, but why were you silent about the issues raised in my first post, then as soon as I narrate Richard's story you respond with vexation? That wasn't a fairy tale either but a family's reality.

I kept quiet because I owed you no explanation about my financial strength, that wasn't why I created this thread..be sensible and ask reasonable questions then you get a reply...or if you want to take me as a jest you get a bountiful of it.
silly girl, the Post you made comparing me with your brother richard you think it's cool, I see it and I be happy and dancing.

what if I compare you to a mad woman I saw in my shop today? becareful