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Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Please mind your business

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Please help ur friend

Hmm Op, What makes you more righteous than your friend's wife?

Mtcheeee!

Nigerian girls are usel*ss.... All of them

Madam u better mind your business oooo

Some times i just don't know what these women really want. U fúck them good, show love and care, make sacrifices for Them, provide everything they need, do fun things together yet when fùckup o'clock reach not even God can save u. They will just throw away everything and do the fùckup with one opportunistic idiot.. Na wah oo

If a friend of mine knew that my wife was having a close relationship with someone and I found out later that he knew and did not tell me, that would be the end of our friendship. Your friend has a right to know what is going on in his marriage/life.

Telling him could be saving him from lots of problems further down the road of life..Make sure that you are absolutely certain before letting him know. We guys need to know the truth about these lying, good for nothing , self centered ladies.

Amebo woman mind your business

Her husband your friend? Tell me something

Prettygirl200:
Madam u better mind your business oooo

Yes thats what they say; "mind your business"

NO WONDER THEY REGARD SOME WOMEN AS HOE!

I'll advice you to mind your business. Na Nigeria we dey. Your friend might even know about their relationship.
Incase your conscience doesn't let you rest, you should try and bump unto them so you can see and decipher her reaction.

I will surely go through every comments on here today and take the ones that is best!

I appreciate y'all for your contributions & s, even those that insulted me I forgive you!!!

Kollins11:
Nigerian girls are usel*ss.... All of them

Oga go and find the girl that broke your heart, this thread is not an avenue for you to insult Nigerian girls!

Tell him anonymously with the picture evidence.

Berra mind your business, ma'am.

incandescentena:
Yes thats what they say; "mind your business"

NO WONDER THEY REGARD SOME WOMEN AS HOE!

That's why your mother and sisters are HOES.

Tell him please. Save his life

Raychee:
Tell him anonymously with the picture evidence.

Hmm I love this suggestion

Prettygirl200:
Madam u better mind your business oooo

You must be a very bad friend. So u see danger coming for him and u would rather fold ur arms and keep quiet. And even smile and laugh with him? People dey oo

Raychee:
Tell him anonymously with the picture evidence.

The first vaginarian in this thread that has sense and she will probably be the last sensible one to comment. Finding a way to bring the man to come witness the situation will also be very helpful, that way all doubts will be cleared.

You are not different frm her.

Amebo.

Nigeria women are useless excluding my senior sis

killmods:

You must be a very bad friend. So u see danger coming for him and u would rather fold ur arms and keep quiet. And even smile and laugh with him? People dey oo

U must be a fool.

Prettygirl200:
Madam u better mind your business oooo

look at them, ashawo.

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Lalasticlala

Just mind ur Business. No go let Busybody put u for trouble.

Islandlady:
Hmm I love this suggestion

But be very careful so that it doesn't link back to you. Just incase she isn't cheating and it's not what it actually looks like. Before you are accused of trying to snatch somebody's husband

Ask yourself if in 20yrs time he finds out all his children are not his, how you will feel? And how he will feel about u not giving him a clue earlier

U must not tell him clearly u can ask him if his brother visited because you always see someone that looks like him with his wife

Raychee:
Tell him anonymously with the picture evidence.

hoaxer, you are not better than her.

Eaziimoney:
I'll advice you to mind your business. Na Nigeria we dey. Your friend might even know about their relationship.
Incase your conscience doesn't let you rest, you should try and bump unto them so you can see and decipher her reaction.

so if nah Ghana he shouldn't mind his business?
Wait till u get in a serious relationship n ur friend begin hide things from u, u go hate ur friend more

Haakeem:
hoaker, you are not better than her.

Type coherent words if you want to mention me please. So i know the kind of reply to give you. What's a hoaker? I don't claiming to be better than anybody. So if your spouse is cheating and someone close to you becomes aware of that fact, you would prefer they keep it away from you abi? Hypocrite much!