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One Thing You Must Not Lose On Valentine's Day (11133 Views)
psychoblayse(m): 10:22am On Feb 14, 2022 |
Moyinoluwa35:Make I use am buy chocolate chop �� |
psychoblayse(m): 10:23am On Feb 14, 2022 |
bibianna:This 100% |
Holluwhakemmy(f): 10:30am On Feb 14, 2022 |
Mko123:sora fun okunrin o, eletan ni won, olorun awa pelu wa o |
seyz91(m): 10:38am On Feb 14, 2022 |
This OP sef funny ![]() Na virginity ou just call like that without respect, any naija girl tell you say she be virgin before Besides the girls below 10years of age, you can hardly find any virgin girl in Naija Anymore jesusjnr2020: |
Neemah(f): 10:49am On Feb 14, 2022 |
Dear younger self, All around you seems to be tickled and getting warmed up. Girls expectant and almost bragging about what lies in wait for them, as an expression of being the ‘one’ that gets noticed, found attractive and ‘madly in love’ with. They feel like the big girls, the ones ‘wey sabi’, have ‘grown up’ and not on your daddy’s girl table. You are probably feeling isolated- like you don’t matter or are not getting noticed and this is tearing at your self-esteem. When the girls are showing off their gifts, the places they went to dine and how the touch made them melt away, what would you be saying? You know you are made for greater things but sometimes… The pressure is real, has always been. And if as adults we dare to speak to you from our heart, the truths of life, the regrets we have, the choices we wish we made better, the learnings from our failures, I tell you, you wouldn’t waste a moment and rather, focus on the great things you are here to do. Your attraction lies in your strength of character and you are not safe with anyone except the one who honours The Creator- for such a person will honour you and not tres his limits. Love relationships at this stage of your life is a threat to your life long peace. You don’t want to make a decision today that will end you in life-long guilt. Have you heard of delayed gratification? Oh yes, that’s the strategy of creation- You plant your seeds today and have to wait some time for harvest. What would you rather be planting with your decision of today? Peace of mind, glory and wisdom or lust, instant gratification and succumbing to pleasure and pressure? What decisions would you need to make today that will make proud of yourself 10, 20, even 50, 60 years to come or in eternity? You must understand that it’s a funny world with double standard. A world that winks at everyone operating on whims- dating is a goal, premarital affairs is in vogue, ‘testing and tasting’ in the name of finding sexual compability is the preaching- and then frowns at pregnancy outside wedlock. It’s a funny world, really. It winks at one thing and frowns at the other side of the same coin! Don’t you see what we have with AIDS? Side Chicks Syndrome nko? Forget Nollywood and the music industry. In fact, we have failed you- we tell you one thing on the pulpits, mimbars, homes and in school that are blameworthy- we forget that you are also watching and spotting that our actions do not match our words. Irrespective, do not fail yourself. In fact, use all our drama to be more sensible. You should look up to those in the society who have their heads screwed up right and use them as your models. It’s hard to find such, but I can assure you they still exist. Those who do not justify actions by the amount of pleasure they get from it, rather, live for and by a set of divine principles since all man made principles are sure to have their flaws. Babe, no pain, no gain o! Your pain today, is your gain of years to come. For indeed, with every difficulty, there’s certainly ease. So take personal responsibility and rise above the immorality that have been made fair-seeming. Maintain your purity and save it for the happy-ever-after. Your future is bright and the world awaits your imprint. Deter the distractions. Dare to be different. Love is not lust. It is not abuse. It is not overstepping divine limits. It isn’t what waits for Val’s day to be expressed and neither is it sex. Sex is also not love. Rather, it is a conscious decision, decreed by The Creator, that has to be made and done within emotional safety- in a loving, stable, holy union- marriage. Every other teaching aside this is man-made and again, a decision on whims. Attractions happen and emotions sometimes go haywire- The one who put the tingy feeling in you also knows- and he has made His Boundaries known- irrespective of what the society trails. He dares you not to become a toy or an object of immorality. So self-discipline isn’t ever old-fashioned. And self-control isn’t high-rated. Experiments are for the lab- not an option on your body. Honour yourself, respect your body and subject it not to the whims of the explorers- in thoughts, words or actions. Choose you, your purity, your serenity every day. Society has depicted that your self-worth and dignity is worth celebrating majorly by how boys and men throw es at you and then castigate you when you become vulnerable in the hands of those. Girl, its time to wise up... will you do this for you? Rooting for you to stay sane as you say No! Suruurah Ogunfemi The Positivity Diva Feb 13, 2022. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Johnkennie(m): 11:08am On Feb 14, 2022 |
The Devil want a Virgin for Val. Blood is Red, Red is a symbol for Val ![]() |
faithfull18(f): 11:09am On Feb 14, 2022 |
I , don't add stupidity to your CV.
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Articul8(m): 12:01pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Blackdisciple(m): 12:55pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Is not a prayer but so many girls will lost their lives today to ritual people, and also so many will loose their virginity today ...
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Mko123(m): 3:25pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Holluwhakemmy: Must you talk this gender that sent us away from garden of Eden |
Mko123(m): 3:27pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Moyinoluwa35: If the giveaway reach your nigga for Valentine, no bad ooo. I represent 07048357006 |
jesusjnr2020(m): 3:38pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
phemmyfour:Kindly read what you quoted very well before you start accusing someone falsely. But if it's your inclination or unfounded preconception you'd rather base your opinion than the truth, then kindly suit yourself. |
jesusjnr2020(m): 3:44pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
saphiere:Suit yourself. Sexual purity is not by force. |
Holluwhakemmy(f): 4:26pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Mko123:smiles you allowed yourselves to be sent out. |
Re: One Thing You Must Not Lose On Valentine's Day by Nobody: 4:28pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
May u drink the water of sorrow. U born fool
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Re: One Thing You Must Not Lose On Valentine's Day by Nobody: 5:01pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Moyinoluwa35:I will add it to buy garri and beans in paint rubbers.If i qualify,thank you! 1221869780 Access |
OBALOLA55(m): 5:12pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Tamilore11:NA YOUR UNBORN GENERATION GO DRINK WATER IF SORROW MR SIMPle GUY |
Articul8(m): 8:39pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Moyinoluwa35: Thank you very much.I am grateful. Guess you sent it already |
jesusjnr2020(m): 6:28am On Feb 15, 2022 |
jesusjnr2020:Thanks so much. I really appreciate. God bless you. |
tobore4u(m): 6:03pm On May 23, 2022 |
Articul8:did she send it? |
Articul8(m): 7:00pm On May 23, 2022 |
tobore4u(m): 9:58pm On May 23, 2022 |
Articul8:bro u are confusing me. Yes or no..... which one be you think. |
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