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Hello beloved nairaland, I am here to seek advice from smart people in the house.

I met this girl at a market square in my village, last year December from then till now we have been dating and about to get married end of this year ( not official).
She is a university fresh graduate, she came from good and okay family, and ready to settle down. For now she is not working.

She asked me to open a shop for her as soon as we get married, I am not living in Nigeria, opening a shop won’t be problem to open for her.
The question is, can I open the shop with my name or I should open it with her name, because I don’t want to hear the story that touching the heart.

Smart people of nairaland pls advise me on what to do hear, before I can make a final decision.

Thank you guys in advance.

U Don open shop for your mama and sisters?

Una never Marry, girl Don already dey give you condition? As in.. A hoe is the one telling you what to do for her?

A typical Nigerian girl an with Entitlement mentality. That's exactly how they behave. That girl wants to cash out massively from you to secure her future should in case anything happens.

I don't recommend opening a shop for a Nigerian girl at all, but if you must open a shop for her, I'll recommend you wait for at least 6-7years before doing that. And the shop MUST be open in your NAME. Having said that, ask yourself why is she in a hurry to get a shop immediately after your marriage? That girl wan run you street bro. Be wise!

Open it na

Open the shop for her to ease your problem if both of decide u wan to get married


But why would you marry person wey u know for
6 month

You can open the shop for her after getting married to her.. as for the name kini, I Don't think it's really necessary.. 2 off u can have your names on it for rest of mind.. my worry is, you Don't stay in d country. How long would she have to wait to be with u and see u everyday? I get why oh.. to leave Naija ladies and travel out no be easy thing.

Wotoporiously speaking


Is she the one I wanna truly settle with forever?

Does she truly love me?

How often do you visit naija?

When are you guys gonna make it official?

Don't tell me, just answer within you and then proceed with your decision.


My opinion; marry that shenkes first before you open shop for am, use your upper.

Is she ready to get involved financially in the project or all expense on you?

Village girls de give condition too ??


Na to go under river go look for wife for this country, ....

You don open shop 4 ur Mama??
If u open it for her, it's inside dat Shop, one Soft, Yahoo boy will woo and Fucck her.
Better use ur Akonuche!

h0pze3:
Open the shop for her to ease your problem if both of decide u wan to get married


But why would you marry person wey u know for
6 month

it doesn’t matter, if both of you understand each other

Open the store before marriage,no. Open it after marriage, yes. Open in her name, no. Open in your name, yes. Never trust a vaginarian that stays with you for 24hrs not to talk of the one that stays far from you. Why do you even want to marry someone from here when you are abroad? You no see girl there? 95% of Nigerian wives at home cheat on their abroad husbands, forget their pretences and fake assurances.

Oga open for her na lol

golddust6000:
it doesn’t matter, if both of you understand each other

That is the problem with you SIMPs!

Person dey advice u, u dey say it doesn't matter. You're not in Nigeria? E sure me die say that girl has lots of guys that are constantly banging her pussy on a steady here in Nigeria. And you dey say it doesn't matter!

Your emotions are controlling you. Think logically like a man and not like a pussy ass niggar!

golddust6000:
Hello beloved nairaland, I am here to seek advice from smart people in the house.

I met this girl at a market square in my village, last year December from then till now we have been dating and about to get married end of this year ( not official).
She is a university fresh graduate, she came from good and okay family, and ready to settle down. For now she is not working.

She asked me to open a shop for her as soon as we get married, I am not living in Nigeria, opening a shop won’t be problem to open for her.
The question is, can I open the shop with my name or I should open it with her name, because I don’t want to hear the story that touching the heart.

Smart people of nairaland pls advise me on what to do hear, before I can make a final decision.

Thank you guys in advance.

Even after marriage she go the use your money to feed and fattened Dicksons here and there... Never trust that gender... why is she not proposing ing you where you are?

GooodHardDick:
Una never Marry, she Don already dey give you condition? As in.. She's the one telling you what to do for her?

A typical Nigerian girl. That's exactly how they behave. That girl wants to cash out massively from you to secure her future should in case anything happens.

My brother, if you must open a shop for her, I'll recommend you wait for at least 6-7years before doing that. And the shop MUST be open with your NAME!. Having said that, ask yourself why is she in a rush to get a shop immediately after your marriage? That girl wan run you street bro. Be wise!

that’s her plan, she is not contributing anything, am yet to decide, that’s why I wanna open the shop with my name

GooodHardDick:


That is the problem with you SIMPs!

Person dey advice u, u dey say it doesn't matter. You're not in Nigeria? E sure me die say that girl has lots of guys that are constantly banging her pussy on a steady here in Nigeria. And you dey say it doesn't matter!

Your emotions are controlling you. Think logically like a man and not like a pussy ass niggar!

Comrade take it easy.... you know majority of them get blinded immediately after entering that narrow hole.


Leave am... Marriage by correspondent.

golddust6000:
Hello beloved nairaland, I am here to seek advice from smart people in the house.

I met this girl at a market square in my village, last year December from then till now we have been dating and about to get married end of this year ( not official).
She is a university fresh graduate, she came from good and okay family, and ready to settle down. For now she is not working.

She asked me to open a shop for her as soon as we get married, I am not living in Nigeria, opening a shop won’t be problem to open for her.
The question is, can I open the shop with my name or I should open it with her name, because I don’t want to hear the story that touching the heart.

Smart people of nairaland pls advise me on what to do hear, before I can make a final decision.

Thank you guys in advance.

open shop for her ,make she they make profit ,then make one broke guy come they help her keep am warm ,then she will blame you for not giving her attention,we have seen this before. una no wan get sense

GooodHardDick:


That is the problem with you SIMPs!

Person dey advice u, u dey say it doesn't matter. You're not in Nigeria? E sure me die say that girl has lots of guys that are constantly banging her pussy on a steady here in Nigeria. And you dey say it doesn't matter!

Your emotions are controlling you. Think logically like a man and not like a pussy ass niggar!

bro I understand you, I no dey carry woman for head make person no go get heart problem, if I catch her cheating that will be another story, but as I know she is not that kind person.

GooodHardDick:


That is the problem with you SIMPs!

Person dey advice u, u dey say it doesn't matter. You're not in Nigeria? E sure me die say that girl has lots of guys that are constantly banging her pussy on a steady here in Nigeria. And you dey say it doesn't matter!

Your emotions are controlling you. Think logically like a man and not like a pussy ass niggar!

comrade leave the simp Op alone. His eyes go soon clear...na small boys go even dey bang him wife after the yeye marriage....Na Nigerian girl him wan bank on...even we wey dey with them physically no watin xup come be him wey dey outside.....him go soon create thread again telling us how d yeye girl sexy behave bad.....abeg TRP is DIAMOND

elmagnifico411:
You can open the shop for her after getting married to her.. as for the name kini, I Don't think it's really necessary.. 2 off u can have your names on it for rest of mind.. my worry is, you Don't stay in d country. How long would she have to wait to be with u and see u everyday? I get why oh.. to leave Naija ladies and travel out no be easy thing.

i will be coming every six months of the year till she me over

oga no open anything open for yourself ,in your name. only cut small thing they give her, Ignore this advice and watch it end in tears

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking


Is she the one I wanna truly settle with forever?

Does she truly love me?

How often do you visit naija?

When are you guys gonna make it official?

Don't tell me, just answer within you and then proceed with your decision.


My opinion; marry that shenkes first before you open shop for am, use your upper.

I will be going for introduction my end of this year, by middle of next year then maybe the married, but if she get pregnant along the line then it will be faster.

GooodHardDick:
Una never Marry, she Don already dey give you condition? As in.. She's the one telling you what to do for her?

A typical Nigerian girl. That's exactly how they behave. That girl wants to cash out massively from you to secure her future should in case anything happens.

My brother, if you must open a shop for her, I'll recommend you wait for at least 6-7years before doing that. And the shop MUST be open with your NAME!. Having said that, ask yourself why is she in a rush to get a shop immediately after your marriage? That girl wan run you street bro. Be wise!

She's been pushed somewhere... the simp is not listening to advise.

slan87:
Is she ready to get involved financially in the project or all expense on you?

NO, she is not working, she is just a fresh graduate.

golddust6000:
I will be going for introduction my end of this year, by middle of next year then maybe the married, but if she get pregnant along the line then it will be faster.

Ask her if she will like to follow u to ur base... her answer will expose her intentions.

MAGG0T:



Village girls de give condition too ??


Na to go under river go look for wife for this country, ....

lol, she is not a village girl, but I met her in the village. She lives in the city.

golddust6000:
bro I understand you, I no dey carry woman for head make person no go get heart problem, if I catch her cheating that will be another story, but as I know she is not that kind person.

guy I dey laugh you, u feel you know her, ur eyes go soon clear...I bet you she is with you because you are outside and she feels the Benjamin dey ur hand. Pretend and tell her u are broke and will be deported or just form say no money again and see her reactions henceforth...I give u few weeks or months u go testify.. becareful with naija babes.....u no go hear now

Vinnie2000:
You don open shop 4 ur Mama??
If u open it for her, it's inside dat Shop, one Soft, Yahoo boy will woo and Fucck her.
Better use ur Akonuche!

my mama and sister get shop. Na wife the mother of my kid na him sure

Toktee:
Ask her if she will like to follow u to ur base... her answer will expose her intentions.

following him is even going to cause him more problems over there... ....Op eye never clear

golddust6000:
that’s her plan, she is not contributing anything, am yet to decide, that’s why I wanna open the shop with my name

Didn't see you where I said, if you must open a shop for your wife (which she isn't even your wife yet, but a community hoe for guys to enjoy), the marriage must at least get to 6-7 years before you can do that.

Stop simping. Don't let your emotions control you. She's not even contributing anything to the project? Alaye, abort mission asap. Don't try it. Don't open any shop. Wait till after 6-7 Years. Otherwise, ask yourself why is she in a hurry to get the shop?. That girl wants to cash out massively from you. Use your head.

Nonexisting:
Open the store before marriage,no. Open it after marriage, yes. Open in her name, no. Open in your name, yes. Never trust a vaginarian that stays with you for 24hrs not to talk of the one that stays far from you. Why do you even want to marry someone from here when you are abroad? You no see girl there? 95% of Nigerian wives at home cheat on their abroad husbands, forget their pretences and fake assurances.

Ah tell you..

Sometimes I wonder why some men prioritize them.

GooodHardDick:
U no dey Naija? you wan open shop for girl wey dey stay naija?

Have you opened a shop for your mother and sisters?

if you open a shop for that girl even after your marriage, Guys will be coming to that shop to take her out and bang the hell out of her pussy. In fact, e sure me die say she dey bang guys on a low-key here in Nigeria.

I don't recommend opening a shop for a Nigerian girl at all. This is because getting married to a Nigerian girl is way too risky. Having said that, ask yourself why is she in a rush to get a shop immediately after your marriage? That girl wan run you street bro. Be wise!

Stop this madness oga