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I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. I have not been able to get her out of my mind.

She moved on got dumped by the guy in less than one month and she ed me 5 days ago and I responded today. I tried settling it out and she said I responded late. That it can't work now. She even said she was going to see another guy . Like wtf.

What type of useless mind game is this please.
The fact is I love her so much. She is not the type that is after money or material things.
And I don't believe in double dating. We have been moving alone for 5 years now. I don't know how to get her off my mind. I have watch countless YouTube videos on how to get an ex off your mind but non is working. I have tried having sex with different girls just to get her thoughts off but its not working. This thing is affecting my hustle seriously.

Damn, let me drink some beer.
Life has been unfair to me relationship wise

Na lie, it's just a mindset, concentrate on polishing yourself, make more money.

Holly Gram real matters on top real MATTERZ

LITE UP my WEED in peace

WTF MAN!

istration1:
Na lie, it's just a mindset, polish yourself

Dude it's far from mindset. she is my first love and we are actually suppose to get married. I trusted her with everything. Though her reasons for leaving is quite legit but I was not expecting it

You should add sniper into the beer and drink it.

Deaths to SIMP.

6pack:
I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. I have not been able to get her out of my mind.
She moved on got dumped by the guy in less than one month and she ed me 5 days ago and I responded today. I tried settling it out and she said I responded late. That it can't work now. She even said she was going to see another guy . Like wtf.
What type of useless mind game is this please.
The fact is I love her so much. She is not the type that is after money or material things.
And I don't believe in double dating. We have been moving alone for 5 years now. I don't know how to get her off my mind. I have watch countless YouTube videos on how to get an ex off your mind but non is working. I have tried having sex with different girls just to get her thoughts off but its not working. This thing is affecting my hustle seriously.
Damn , let me drink some beer.
Life has been unfair to me relationship wise

pls ALWAYS the reason why you broke up with her, and never look back towards her ever again. she is trying to play games with your head, and by the look of things, she is succeeding. why would you even care how/what/why she does that?!

Carcholce:
You should add sniper into the beer and drink it.

Deaths to my papa.

na I am not a simp. I can even say I am one of the meanest redpillers but in real real life the redpill shit is garbage. So shove your simp talk up your ass

MrBrownJay1:


pls ALWAYS the reason why you broke up with her, and never look back towards her ever again. she is trying to play games with your head, and by the look of things, she is succeeding. why would you even care jow/what/why she does that?!

I never ed her, I seriously made up my mind to leave her too. I bleeped 5x hotter girls them her, did every shit to keep her off but non actually worked.

6pack:
na I am not a simp. I can even say I am one of the meanest redpillers but in real real life the redpill shit is garbage. So shove your simp talk up your ass

Na small girl wan make you commit suicide so. Shove your balls up your asxx

She knows you still love her and she’s manipulating that fact. This kinda case, there’s not much to do than get rid of anything related to her. Delete her number sef and work on yourself. Leave her and focus on money. By that time, you’d date any girl you want.

Carcholce:




Na small girl wan make you commit suicide so. Shove your balls up your asxx

Where did I talk of suicide ? My life is too sweet to ever think of suicide. This type of Depression is temporal , na brokeness depression dey lead to suicide

bro you are letting her mess with your mind...if she really loves you the way you love her...she won't be doing this to you....be careful though so you don't go into much commitment in a relationship where you are always begging and she sees "loving" you is doing you a favour...BEWARE OF MANIPULATIVE PEOPLE

davidmoyes:
She knows you still love her and she’s manipulating that fact. This kinda case, there’s not much to do than get rid of anything related to her. Delete her number sef and work on yourself. Leave her and focus on money. By that time, you’d date any girl you want.

Yes I still love her deeply , and yes she is manipulating it and using it to her advantage but the table will turn soon.

6pack:
Dude it's far from mindset. she is my first love and we are actually suppose to get married. I trusted her with everything. Though her reasons for leaving is quite legit but I was not expecting it

Tell us what did you do that she want to quite such precious relationship legitimately?

6pack:
Where did I talk of suicide ? My life is too sweet to ever think of suicide. This type of Depression is temporal , na brokeness depression dey lead to suicide

Oya take down this post and deal with it like a real man.

rickpat:
bro you are letting her mess with your mind...if she really loves you the way you love her...she won't be doing this to you....be careful though so you don't go into much commitment in a relationship where you are always begging and she sees "loving" you is doing you a favour...BEWARE OF MANIPULATIVE PEOPLE

Yup for now I don't think she even loves me again. That is what's causing all this. I don't hope to go back.. I am just depressed from the situation. I bluntly even told her that if she knows whats good for her she should not come back because if she does, she will get the most brutal revenge from me. And I swear I mean it. I might fix marriage and all an on that day bounce her out and marry someone else

Goldbw122:

Tell us what did you do that she want to quite such precious relationship legitimately?

I was a little abusive . But she actually pushed me. You know this thing where someone provokes u, u react and they use it against u? That is how it played.
Manipulation

6pack:
I was a little abusive . But she actually pushed me. You know this thing where someone provokes u, u react and they use it against u? That is how it played.
Manipulation

Too bad, that means you have price market, that you don't want to buy, well you have to find someone that loves you it will take time, and you have issues too..

quote author=6pack post=112737816]Yup for now I don't think she even loves me again. That is what's causing all this. I don't hope to go back.. I am just depressed from the situation. I bluntly even told her that if she knows whats good for her she should not come back because if she does, she will get the most brutal revenge from me. And I swear I mean it. I might fix marriage and all an on that day bounce her out and marry someone else [/quote]
And you still mean it, that means the marriage will be terrible.. damn. You are welling to hurt the one you love I just can't rap my thought around that.

It also happened to me.
She was the one who ended the relationship after discovering she was 5months older than me. After 2months of dating another guy she came back. I maintained my stand even tho it took me a month to absurve the heart break when she called the relationship to an end.
I told her that my age hasn't changed that am still 5months younger than her.
So maintain the stand that its over between you both. Don't even think about you would have married her again. Continue reminding yourself the reason why she left you. And try to armend that reason. Mine wasn't what can be armended so I try as much as to know your age first before even talking to you self. So as such stuff not to repeat itself.

Lifeemetu:
It also happened to me.
She was the one who ended the relationship after discovering she was 5months older than me. After 2months of dating another guy she came back. I maintained my stand even tho it took me a month to absurve the heart break when she called the relationship to an end.
I told her that my age hasn't changed that am still 5months younger than her.
So maintain the stand that its over between you both. Don't even think about you would have married her again. Continue reminding yourself the reason why she left you. And try to armend that reason. Mine wasn't what can be armended so I try as much as to know your age first before even talking to you self. So as such stuff not to repeat itself.

Thanks, this is actually my plan. Taking her back will be serious disaster.

Think twice before going back to something you ones left

Dont date her if u hv see red flag ....be a man of yourself...dating someone that won't give u peace of mind is like digging early grave for yourself

6pack:
I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. I have not been able to get her out of my mind.
She moved on got dumped by the guy in less than one month and she ed me 5 days ago and I responded today. I tried settling it out and she said I responded late. That it can't work now. She even said she was going to see another guy . Like wtf.
What type of useless mind game is this please.
The fact is I love her so much. She is not the type that is after money or material things.
And I don't believe in double dating. We have been moving alone for 5 years now. I don't know how to get her off my mind. I have watch countless YouTube videos on how to get an ex off your mind but non is working. I have tried having sex with different girls just to get her thoughts off but its not working. This thing is affecting my hustle seriously.
Damn , let me drink some beer.
Life has been unfair to me relationship wise

She’s a hoe. Think of it this way
You’re home ,depressed and crying over her
She’s out there hoeing around. Enjoying with another guy.

Channel that energy you used in loving her to love yourself and chase the bag. Time will do it job.

Try blocking her too. Man tf up. She’ll come begging someday

I don’t believe in love anymore tho I hope I get back in track later because love is actually cool

Mumu SIMP!

A hoe and a prostitute came back to you and you're even still willingly to accept her back.
The runz girl told you she's going to see another guy who's already banging her pussy, And you're here killing yourself.

Pussy ass niggars everywhere! U don't date Nigeria girls oga, you only bang their pussy, dump them and move on.

Alaye, you can either swallow the Red Pill or continue simping. The choice is yours!

Wotoporiously speaking

Op I don meet manchi's like you and I dey always sorry for them and I don help some heal and focus.

This na wetin dey happen when you mix business with pleasure, you allow your love life to come dey affect your hustle.

You better commot your eyerinse from that shenkes mattais before you lose yourself.

WHEN IN LOVE

Heart involvement- 20%
Brain involvement- 80%
If otherwise you're in trouble

Run am like this and you go see say no girl for planet earth go make you lose yourself and peace of mind during dating and after breakups regardless of who and how she was to you, na healing method 101 na hin I drop so for you, if you like loseguard again.

This is exactly what you get when you LOVE a woman too much, more than the Love she professeses for you.
IF you marry her, you will SUFFER!
It's an established fact which occurs in about 99% of men who do such!


Pls. what else can she offer beyond bedmatics?
I'm very interested in it & not the bedmatics
Except she's extraordinarily intelligent.
Intelligent/Smart Ladies give me ORGASM

So you're trying to say that you're inlove abi?
I don't think so cos how can you love when u don't know what love is. .
I mean LOVE is selfless...meaning you can't be selfish with it or to someone you love..and she's being selfish to you rn..her aside,you need to love yourself before loving someone else,that means u need to be selfless to yourself too...stop being selfish to yourself by being in an unhealthy back and forth...
Try block anybody that's disturbing you oo �

Victor USA is the one that can handle u and reset ur brain.

If not a fool, a lady dumped u 4 anoda guy.he dumped her b4 she came back 2 u.u didn't respond on tym and she's spinning ur head left and right and u are simping around too.Sir,to be candidly honest, you are a big fool.it's ur type that women cheat on u,collect ur money and give other guys and finally dump u.U are an idiot.i hate stupidity.

ObamaMessi:
If not a fool, a lady dumped u 4 anoda guy.he dumped her b4 she came back 2 u.u didn't respond on tym and she's spinning ur head left and right and u are simping around too.Sir,to be candidly honest, you are a big fool.it's ur type that women cheat on u,collect ur money and give other guys and finally dump u.U are an idiot.i hate stupidity.

This is pure description of what I am doing now. A big fool. All these and even more is what I will say if someone had posted this and I am to respond or give advice. Dude I talk to people about not being simps teach them the redpill shit . Make them know that no girl is worth their time etc but here u am defying all what I teach , some times it is not as easy as it seems. I am one of those guys that have never been in love before, I just Bleep this girls and that's it. But this time everything changed. I can't even imagine is doing this. But somehow I know I am more after revenge that actually having her back. I still want to see how I can get her back, waste a handful of her years and send her out on our wedding day. This might not sound real but that is exactly what I will do if my plot twist works.

When you decide to be a man
You will forget her