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emapeteum(m): 2:04pm On Apr 19, 2022
I once told a friend about this idea.
ufotty2001: 2:04pm On Apr 19, 2022
okoroemeka:
unfortunately for some of them the advice might be too late there is one living near our farm that want to get pregnant,she needed it so desperately that she has to receive one round almost daily for 3 months to be sure but nothing happened ,I cannot die on top of sterile pvssy I beg, I just gave up,not all trees will bear fruit.
oga go and check your sperm.. u may have low sperm count

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Holluwhakemmy(f): 2:05pm On Apr 19, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


E clear!
Yes 100%
Heterodox(m): 2:05pm On Apr 19, 2022
Mindlog:
Hmm...beg a guy to impregnate her? cheesy A lady who wants to get pregnant for a random guy can easily do so without the guy ever knowing he has fathered a child if the lady don't want him to be in the life of the child.

To go to a fertility clinic, pay for sperm and get inseminated is another option....no baby daddy drama.
And when the kid ask for his father you say he has no father?
Caleycashh: 2:07pm On Apr 19, 2022
yuping:
undecided u too funny, u make gbola sound very scarce, this boys of nowadays that goes into blood money, scam and fraud because of pussy. 1993 boyz are just too cheap as a woman if you want a man of 1993 upward just cook carry give am for two days him don fall even in love self. All this wannabe Red pillers, girls will cheat on them and they will still forgive and move on, she will still cheat again.
Abeg prick cheap and is paining me.
Na lie!... its cheap naim house maids dey sleep with kids dey suppose look after!?

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Karleb(m): 2:07pm On Apr 19, 2022
okoroemeka:
unfortunately for some of them the advice might be too late there is one living near our farm that want to get pregnant,she needed it so desperately that she has to receive one round almost daily for 3 months to be sure but nothing happened ,I cannot die on top of sterile pvssy I beg, I just gave up,not all trees will bear fruit.

grin grin

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Nyascobar1414: 2:08pm On Apr 19, 2022
jericco1:
Polygamy is the solution to this
Yea 100%... Cos it seems females plenty males
Nyascobar1414: 2:09pm On Apr 19, 2022
Holluwhakemmy:
Yes 100%
What is your age range
I wan check something
zinaunreal(m): 2:09pm On Apr 19, 2022
So the reason for children is to be looked after at old age like they came to be slaves. This guy is just useless. It's funny how people look normal until they spill dustbin from their mouths

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Echoban: 2:12pm On Apr 19, 2022
1Sharon:
Bs advice!!

Why encourage them to create fatherless children, all to save herself?

Children from a 2 patent household fare better than those with a single parent.

Children are going to want to know their family background and if their father is absent, they're going to hate you knowing you put them in that situation.


So the lady should remain childless ? Get old without heir.?

Abeg.. The child would adjust with time.
jericco1(m): 2:12pm On Apr 19, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


Yea 100%...
Cos it seems females plenty males
Not particularly
The reason is that marriage is not a priority for most men.
And it is for ladies. At least African ladies.
If there is polygamy eh, the guys that actually want more than one woman can do that.
That's why such issues are not that prevalent in the North.
A man can marry as many as 4 wives.
Mindlog: 2:13pm On Apr 19, 2022
Heterodox:
And when the kid ask for his father you say he has no father?

Just like men who opt for surrogacy and no mother in the picture, they will always have "a story" to tell the child/children.
Onogiede(m): 2:14pm On Apr 19, 2022
Any lady interested in single guy like me should endeavor to email me,....
ufotty2001: 2:14pm On Apr 19, 2022
PocoBigToto:
13% of girls will hit menopause in their early 30s
why did u say so
Johel(m): 2:14pm On Apr 19, 2022
jazon:
What do you think?


Bede Nnamdi Nwulu:
Dear Ladies, If you're clocking 40 years old and yet no husband is coming, Look for a guy and beg him to impregnate you.
You need a child that will look after you at old age.

Don't let anyone deceive you, Marriage is not an achievement, and it's not everybody that will get married.

You can still be single with your own child and still be happy and fulfill your purpose here on earth.

Stop waiting for something that may never happen. There's no marriage in heaven as I heard. I'm only trying to make common sense!


You made sense, but will they listen?
Generalwoodz(m): 2:17pm On Apr 19, 2022
teekay213:
fool grin grin grin
cross grain idiot wink
Holluwhakemmy(f): 2:21pm On Apr 19, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


What is your age range

I wan check something
don't bother it is between me and my God.
BigBashiru: 2:22pm On Apr 19, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


The kinda ego this girls have when in their h0e phase ehh.. You go just dey laff when them turn daily evening newspaper.

There's one 25 year old girl I know. She's average looking but she turns down 99% of interested guys...she was recently wooed by a single guy in his early 40s that was rich she said no.... she has an inflated view of herself. She feels she's the selector....Time will humble her eventually...

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teeshet: 2:22pm On Apr 19, 2022
Holluwhakemmy:
We won't beg for bread God is on the throne He will surprise us in a big way
be doing shakara there till you turn 45. You think God gives a fùck about you. Prostitute!
Holluwhakemmy(f): 2:25pm On Apr 19, 2022
teeshet:
be doing shakara there till you turn 45. You think God gives a fùck about you. Prostitute!
that's your daughters names.

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teeshet: 2:26pm On Apr 19, 2022
BigBashiru:


18-24 ain't ready for marriage....they have what is called choice paradox which means they are overwhelmed by various guys hitting on them and keep choosing till they hit 28, become evening newspaper and get desperate....
true. Have a drink with me. Weed or cigarette?
Generalwoodz(m): 2:27pm On Apr 19, 2022
We4all:


Yeah, that difference that makes a spinster free from the worries of losing her children to death.
Anyhow you wanna view it just know that; having a child far outweighs and more beneficial than having none. It's true that they all have their perks and downside, but a larger percentage of women when placed in this position would graciously go for my perspective.
teeshet: 2:28pm On Apr 19, 2022
Ishilove:

Why are you parking? Are you a single lady approaching 40? cheesy
have you frozen your eggs? Time is running out
Heterodox(m): 2:31pm On Apr 19, 2022
Mindlog:


Just like men who opt for surrogacy and no mother in the picture, they will always have "a story" to tell the child/children.
And that's the beginning of what?
Sirtee19: 2:32pm On Apr 19, 2022
Well, marriage is an achievement for male and female. It is an achievement to find a beautiful soul worth spending the rest of your life with.
It can as well not be an achievement for one with zero interest in it. And it is okay to not want to be married either.
Let everyone find peace in their decisions. If you fail in marriage, that does not mean others do. A successful marriage is a blessing and a great achievement.
Stop deceiving some low minded young ladies out there.
teeshet: 2:34pm On Apr 19, 2022
ufotty2001:
100% agree with him.. my ex girlfriend is 40yrs above. My dear! They are so desperate to get married. Guys please be careful when dating evening newspaper
dont tell me you didnt fùck her good before i curse you
Ishilove: 2:36pm On Apr 19, 2022
teeshet:
have you frozen your eggs? Time is running out
Ask your ancestors.
Mindlog: 2:36pm On Apr 19, 2022
Heterodox:
And that's the beginning of what?

Whatever it will lead to. I have my own beliefs while still recognizing that people are daily making diverse choices regarding their reproduction.
Generalwoodz(m): 2:37pm On Apr 19, 2022
Kobojunkie:
What distinct difference is that? undecided

Also, all those old men and women who you see struggling to make ends meet, this since they chose to have kids instead of a good retirement portfolio, what difference did having kids make for them?. undecided

Have you seen all those old men and women living lavish, large and big with children?

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