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Pls I don't know what is wrong, and, maybe it's normal, since my wife got pregnant which is like 2 months now, sex is of no interest to me anymore. NOTE: I'm not into any extra marital affairs or crushing on any lady or having feelings for anyone else or of anything related to it. I so much love my wife but that zeal for sex has decreased drastically. Pls what can I do?

Testosterone levels are diminishing...

Nothing, absolutely nothing.

truthhurts2:
Pls I don't know what is wrong, and, maybe it's normal, since my wife got pregnant which is like 2 months now, sex is of no interest to me anymore. NOTE: I'm not into any extra marital affairs or crushing on any lady or having feelings for anyone else or of anything related to it. I so much love my wife but that zeal for sex has decreased drastically. Pls what can I do?

Go see your doctor to rule out any medical problems.

I, however, suspect the problem may instead be psychological and not physical.

Ok, continue until.....

Close ur eyes, take some highness nd imagine ur wife as ur female celebrity crush

U go Bleep her lik never befor

That's to tell u the saying that goes like this "naija women only offer sex nothing more" bcs if your wife offers something aside sex, u won't be here saying this

It's nothing. Just a result of the absence of variety. If your wife is sensitive to this, she'll spice you up on bed again. If she's not, she'll just lie down and face expecting you to climb the usual way

truthhurts2:
Pls I don't know what is wrong, and, maybe it's normal, since my wife got pregnant which is like 2 months now, sex is of no interest to me anymore. NOTE: I'm not into any extra marital affairs or crushing on any lady or having feelings for anyone else or of anything related to it. I so much love my wife but that zeal for sex has decreased drastically. Pls what can I do?

I think there is nothing wrong with you

So far you do get errection but no sex urge, just relax it will come up

At times it's like that especially once you gets above 30yrs, it gets dropping due to stress and state of mind

Kai...u need to follow your wife and attend antenatal.

When my wife had her last pregnancy,we were having sex almost everyday...I was even surprised where the strengths came from as it was one of the best pregnancies she ever had.

The baby was the healthiest that even nurses were asking us what she ate during the pregnancy.

Stopping thinking and start iring the pregnancy then your urge would be reawaken.

Increase your appetite for sex and pour everything inside like never before.



Good luck to u.

emmanuelbrown26:
That's to tell u the saying that goes like this "naija women only offer sex nothing more" bcs if your wife offers something aside sex, u won't be here saying this

Smile...

She offers a lot more than sex to the extent that I count myself lucky to have her.

frozen70:


I think there is nothing wrong with you

So far you do get errection but no sex urge, just relax it will come up

At times it's like that especially once you gets above 30yrs, it gets dropping due to stress and state of mind

Of course, I do get erection. I pray it change soon...

ibechris:
Kai...u need to follow your wife and attend antenatal.

When my wife had her last pregnancy,we were having sex almost everyday...I was even surprised where the strengths came from as it was one of the best pregnancies she ever had.

The baby was the healthiest that even nurses were asking us what she ate during the pregnancy.

Stopping thinking and start iring the pregnancy then your urge would be reawaken.

Increase your appetite for sex and pour everything inside like never before.

She's yet to start her antenatal, and even my work doesn't allow that, I mean, I hardly have time to spare, always fixed up



Good luck to u.

ibechris:
Kai...u need to follow your wife and attend antenatal.

When my wife had her last pregnancy,we were having sex almost everyday...I was even surprised where the strengths came from as it was one of the best pregnancies she ever had.

The baby was the healthiest that even nurses were asking us what she ate during the pregnancy.

Stopping thinking and start iring the pregnancy then your urge would be reawaken.

Increase your appetite for sex and pour everything inside like never before.





Good luck to u.

She's yet to start her antenatal, and even my work doesn't allow that, I mean, I hardly have time to spare, always fixed up

truthhurts2:



She's yet to start her antenatal, and even my work doesn't allow that, I mean, I hardly have time to spare, always fixed up

@ the bolded perhaps explains it all perhaps. Too much stress isn't good atall.

Maybe go on a brief holiday with madam and see if everything falls back to normal?


https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/loss-of-libido/

truthhurts2:
Pls I don't know what is wrong, and, maybe it's normal, since my wife got pregnant which is like 2 months now, sex is of no interest to me anymore. NOTE: I'm not into any extra marital affairs or crushing on any lady or having feelings for anyone else or of anything related to it. I so much love my wife but that zeal for sex has decreased drastically. Pls what can I do?

try to listen to her, just in case, women mind work differently, she might not be complaining but might use it against you afterwards.

emmanuelbrown26:
That's to tell u the saying that goes like this "naija women only offer sex nothing more" bcs if your wife offers something aside sex, u won't be here saying this

.

With your continuous wobbling around threads, what have you got to offer humanity? Why do you think your unresolved fixations should be a model for others to live their lives?

truthhurts2:

Of course, I do get erection. I pray it change soon...

It will if you program your mind towards sex and fantasizss on it

yuping:
try to listen to her, just in case, women mind work differently, she might not be complaining but might against you afterwards.

Of course, she's complaining, I'm just using the early stage of the preg as an excuse but mind you, the early stage will soon gone and I will be left with nothing

frozen70:


It will if you program your mind towards sex and fantasizss on it

I'm thinking of maybe going on a short vacation with her and a little shopping, even though not in my budget at all, maybe that would revive it(me)

truthhurts2:


Of course, she's complaining, I'm just using the early stage of the preg as an excuse but mind you, the early stage will soon gone and I will be left with nothing

oga try get help, make madam proud na beg I beg.

emmanuelbrown26:
That's to tell u the saying that goes like this "naija women only offer sex nothing more" bcs if your wife offers something aside sex, u won't be here saying this

Hate has beclouded your sense of reasoning, so much so that you never make sense.

Hmmmm.....

Very soon you wouldn't find her attractive anymore.

It's men like u that will start body shaming her after delivery.

Mariangeles:


Hate has beclouded your sense of reasoning, so much so that you never make sense.

Hmmmmmm, who let d dogs out?
En cum bi like say u never see your period right!?
Did I say anything contrary to d reality on ground?

@truthhurts2

What’s causing that decline in your interest? It’s like saying you don’t want to go to work anymore. There’s a reason for it, like maybe your boss or coworkers are toxic, you’re feeling like a fraud for hyping your skills and not measuring up etc.

What’s causing your interest decline?

Guy.
Enjoy the break.
It will come back.

Sometimes sex needs a break.

Foodqueen:
Hmmmm.....

Very soon you wouldn't find her attractive anymore.

It's men like u that will start body shaming her after delivery.

I don't even know what to say to you, and is not that I don't know what to say I just don't want to be offensive... but I will rather keep quiet

truthhurts2:
I'm thinking of maybe going on a short vacation with her and a little shopping, even though not in my budget at all, maybe that would revive it(me)

Or you could do some serious self examination to figure out where exactly the problem lies.

* Fear of pregnancy?
* fears surrounding the health of the fetus?
* Fear of fatherhood?
* Fear you might not be able to carry the weight?
....

What is it? You need to identify what it is that is behind it and tackle it now, not later. ..

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.fatherly.com/love-money/men-not-sexually-attracted-pregnant-wife/amp/

socialmediaman:
@truthhurts2

What’s causing that decline in your interest? It’s like saying you don’t want to go to work anymore. There’s a reason for it, like maybe your boss or coworkers are toxic, you’re feeling like a fraud for hyping your skills and not measuring up etc.

What’s causing your interest decline?

If I knew Sir I won't be here... I tried to think of the cause but I can't pinpoint anything

truthhurts2:

I don't even know what to say to you, and is not that I don't know what to say I just don't want to be offensive... but I will rather keep quiet

What she said is not far from the truth. Most men who body shame their wives do so because of their own insecurities. They hide their own deep shame/fear/anxiety and turn to bully others including their wives instead.

So the sooner you deal with whatever it is that your mind, and now body are now warning you of, the sooner you tackle that stressor, the better for you and your marriage.

truthhurts2:

If I knew Sir I won't be here... I tried to think of the cause but I can't pinpoint anything

Keep deep-diving into your mind, resolving any thing that you can imagine as a possible reason, until your body starts to work again.

Or go see a mental health counselor or psychologist for help with it.