NewStats: 3,259,811 , 8,170,938 topics. Date: Monday, 26 May 2025 at 04:42 AM 4o1f5c

Good morning Nairalanders

There is this particular guy that I met on Facebook about two month ago in Facebook, we have been talking and he calls me almost everytime, he has tried to invite me to his house in osun state on different occasions but due to security issue I had to decline his invitation..

We planned to meet on Wednesday and he told me he was coming from osun state, so I told him to drop at Mr Biggs in Iwo Road Ibadan..

I stay at challenge so I had to #200 cab from there down to Iwo road, I was having about #1300 with me before leaving the house, I was already waiting for him for about 40minute before he showed up, he told me his car has fault and that he had to call his mechanic to fix the car for him, we sat down and talked.

During our discussion, he told me to please give him 1k to get something to drink, that he had forgotten his wallet in the car and his phone is off to make a transfer, I gave him and he ordered for soft drinks and meat pie..

Along the line, he told me he needed to make a call and requested for my phone so that he can direct the mechanic bringing down his car, I heard him calling and was directing the man down to Iwo road, all of a sudden he just went outside and before I could know it this guy has dissapeared with my phone and was just looking at him from afar..

I couldn't shout as I was just looking like a fool because I don't know what's happening, I waited for about 1hr thinking he has gone to pick the mechanic, I tried calling my number but was switched off, he has gone with my phone and I don't know his number off hand.
I had use the #100 left with me to buy recharge card and was left with nothing..
It was a bitter experience for me as I had to trek all the way from Iwo road to Olorunsogo, When I couldn't continue with trekking I had to approach a lady to please help me out
with #100 after explaining my situation to her and she gave me #500 and wished me well.

I thank God it was not more than this, he only went away with my phone, what if he had used me for ritual?

Please ladies be careful about the kind of guy you hang out with, always take your time to know the person you are moving out with..

I had learnt my lesson, and have handed him over to God .

Cutabani:
Wise advice that will NEVER be heeded to by girls of our generation till they kingdom come. Chai, sorry

Thank you

Mennnnnnnn,some men dey this life cha oh......

Well, should we call him a hustler abi make we just waka ?

My dear op,I thank God for your life, considering how many stories wey we don hear and read here on nairaland about how men dey use bannies for ritual

As for the advice you just gave to your fellow bannies,I just pray they'd heed to it because the bannies of this our generation would rather exchange their destinies for an iPhone than heed to such advice

Op,las las,no too reason your phone and 1k wey the idiot use discharge, because na who dey alive dey make money,dey buy and use phone..

The part you said you were watching him leave but couldn't shout had me laughing sha.


Sorry for your loss. You don't give people your phone that way.

You don't also borrow sb you just met money that way...no matter what they claim.

First turnoff to me is when they try to sound rich and unrevealing with a touch of reckless bragging.


Always learn to have dos and donts. It's only when you do you'll realize you are wiser because people who cannot exploit you will call you names. But guess what? You'll have your sanity.


It isn't your fault you were nice. The demon just had to exploit you.

You aren't smart enough. Next time don't give phone to strangers whether urgent or not

The guy used a veritable format on you because you came as a gullible. Why would you trust a total stranger without being in company of a friend.

Modified

Thank God he was yet to get mind to mine your skull.

Modified

While I wrote the above, some three guys were hatching plans to mine Sofiat's skull somewhere at Abeokuta.

Moblux:
format

To yo right...
Thank you sir

Aunty olorunsogo, ori yo eee gan ni ooo, assuming he kidnapped you kon, How will you write up this story of life? U want to chill with a big boy, u want to bam bam, now ur eyes don clear. I prayed other girls like you will learn from this. Guys dey vex, aje!

Nisiw365:
You aren't smart enough. Next time don't give phone to strangers whether urgent or not

With his appearance and the way he presented himself, he doesn't look a scammer, but I learnt my lesson.

YinkaOlusesi:
Aunty olorunsogo, ori yo eee gan ni ooo, assuming he kidnapped you kon, How will you write up this story of life? U want to chill with a big boy, u want to bam bam, now ur eyes don clear. I prayed other girls like you will learn from this. Guys dey vex, aje!

I'm glad he didn't even use m

Hmmm... Your phone stolen... AGAIN?

Why you nah?

You met on Facebook? Are you implying that you got scammed by a fake Facebook page?

I think that's where your trouble started, your inability to detect a fake Facebook page.

You should have requested a video call at some points. That way you can match his image with whatever he has on Facebook.

If his page is real, then that makes your job easier. his photos and details, and send him a message about your intention to call him out on Twitter, Nairaland, etc.

Things the happen sha.
Sorry about your experience.

maxwelltony:


I'm glad he didn't even use m

God is with you, never stop praying hard. some people of this kind of situation av been kidnapped for rituals or for ransom of 5m.

maxwelltony:


With his appearance and the way he presented himself, he doesn't look a scammer, but I learnt my lesson.

scamming has nothing to do with appearance. Anyway you have learnt your lessons

I don't understand why you will give the guy 1k and you still didn't wake your mind up.
Facebook is never a place you meet someone and you just have full trust and especially with what is happening sometimes with the female folks.
Some will be on nairaland all day and yet still don't learn.
Don't allow something to happen to you before you learn. You can be wise from other touching stories.

Do you have access to his pictures on facebook? How about posting it

Op your skull is safe for another day

All hail sango

What's the name of your phone?

MaverickA3:
What's the name of your phone?

Techno spark 7

shamsin6300:
Things the happen sha.
Sorry about your experience.

Thank you sir

Ahn

Wetin Buhari no go see for Zamfara

Crazy things are happening
But then again, this tactics is not new.. a part of me thinks you were way into the guy which is not a bad thing either. A guy man that called mechanic and said he forgot his phone, and even had no shame to ask You for money to get drinks, shows the level of his sapatiousness
But then again, like you said, thank God for life
People like these are not far from doing ritual that’s if he hasn’t started already

Damnnn niggar

He don looseguard you.
He outsmart you for the game

You come dey yan many many talk

Wetin dey your mind maybe na to chop that guy and discharge especially as you hear say he get ride

The guy work on your desperation, seem like you are too desperate

omo the guy Nurse you like a client for 2month ni...

Thank God na only phone O! You can replace it anytime and what about his pictures on Facebook

Them Don loose guard the OP. You only agreed to meet him because you sensed he was rich.

Unfortunately, most Nigeria girls will never learn anything from this. Nigeria girls love money more than their lives and obviously wants to reap where they did not sow.

Just have money and see how their pussies will automatically start getting wet for you even without them seeing you.

maxwelltony:
Good morning Nairalanders

There is this particular guy that I met on Facebook about two month ago in Facebook, we have been talking and he calls me almost everytime, he has tried to invite me to his house in osun state on different occasions but due to security issue I had to decline his invitation..

We planned to meet on Wednesday and he told me he was coming from osun state, so I told him to drop at Mr Biggs in Iwo Road Ibadan..

I stay at challenge so I had to #200 cab from there down to Iwo road, I was having about #1300 with me before leaving the house, I was already waiting for him for about 40minute before he showed up, he told me his car has fault and that he had to call his mechanic to fix the car for him, we sat down and talked.

During our discussion, he told me to please give him 1k to get something to drink, that he had forgotten his wallet in the car and his phone is off to make a transfer, I gave him and he ordered for soft drinks and meat pie..

Along the line, he told me he needed to make a call and requested for my phone so that he can direct the mechanic bringing down his car, I heard him calling and was directing the man down to Iwo road, all of a sudden he just went outside and before I could know it this guy has dissapeared with my phone and was just looking at him from afar..

I couldn't shout as I was just looking like a fool because I don't know what's happening, I waited for about 1hr thinking he has gone to pick the mechanic, I tried calling my number but was switched off, he has gone with my phone and I don't know his number off hand.
I had use the #100 left with me to buy recharge card and was left with nothing..
It was a bitter experience for me as I had to trek all the way from Iwo road to Olorunsogo, When I couldn't continue with trekking I had to approach a lady to please help me out
with #100 after explaining my situation to her and she gave me #500 and wished me well.

I thank God it was not more than this, he only went away with my phone, what if he had used me for ritual?

Please ladies be careful about the kind of guy you hang out with, always take your time to know the person you are moving out with..

I had learnt my lesson, and have handed him over to God .

Sorry for your situation.

You must have felt something for him which is why you let your guards down.

Next time, be wise.