NewStats: 3,263,124 , 8,179,176 topics. Date: Wednesday, 04 June 2025 at 06:47 PM 25w1z

Martinez39s:
Who re this simp?

She’s so ruthless, she robbed him of his kidney and heart. That’s the reward of simping

​​How do you begin to love yourself?

Today I want to delve more deeply into the subject of self-love and break down one effective technique that will help bring this self-love into life.

Self-love is a kind of investment. Why is this problem so urgent today? Because since childhood we are taught to share and suppress any initiative to do something for ourselves. You're supposed to give, give and concede, but you're not allowed to say no, take and ask.

Such mass education creates the illusion that this kind of behavior is the norm, and when you see someone behaving this way, you have no questions. Although somewhere subconsciously you understand that something is wrong. After all, you don't feel that it's good for you.

The fact is that we are the only guaranteed asset that we have. You must realize that throughout your life you will have nothing more secure than yourself. No business, no good wife, no friends, no parents can give you as much as you can give yourself.

But this ability has been tried throughout our lives as a weakness. So it is much easier for us to give than to take. This is why we often love someone or something more than we love ourselves. And therein lies the key problem. We're not afraid to spend a lot of our resources on other people, but, at the same time, we're constantly putting off even something necessary when it comes to ourselves.

I think you've already come to the logical conclusion from all of this. The more you invest in yourself, the more you love yourself. Invest in your knowledge, in your body, in your health, and in your appearance. This will give you a tremendous amount of motivation.

When you reward yourself for your accomplishments and victories, your brain will do its best to repeat that result, because that reward is the best emotion there is.

Investing in knowledge will always pay off in your experience. Appearance will always pay for itself with its confidence. Health will always pay for itself with its treatment. So don't spare your resources (time, energy and money) on yourself and don't put off working on yourself. Time is not infinite.

And that, by the way, is the main difference against selfishness. Because the egoist, in spite of all the illusion of self-love, will never spend on himself.

heartofcity12:
Simps are out there suffering at the hands of ladies. This one is sacrificing and doing Father Christmas/poverty alleviation scheme for a girl on a meagre 200k salary in Abuja, I’m sure she’ll monkey branch immediately she sees a better option. This is lengthy tho . Stay redpilled

And he is tabling the matter before another woman.
He will die o.

SOZINN:




And he is tabling the matter before another woman.
He will die o.

Can you just imagine...

heartofcity12:


Can you just imagine...

The guy is deceiving himself. He's asking for advice when he knows deep down that he is not ready to “loose” the girl. A leech oh but he doesn't want to “loose” her.

SOZINN:


The guy is deceiving himself. He's asking for advice when he knows deep down that he is not ready to “loose” the girl. A leech oh but he doesn't want to “loose” her.

It’s hard for him to accept his fate because he already invested his time, energy and resources. He’s drained but can’t still let go coz he already invested too much. He’ll collapse when the girl finally says it’s over

Happy New Year to my fellow redpillers

heartofcity12:
Simps are out there suffering at the hands of ladies. This one is sacrificing and doing Father Christmas/poverty alleviation scheme for a girl on a meagre 200k salary in Abuja, I’m sure she’ll monkey branch immediately she sees a better option. This is lengthy tho . Stay redpilled

LMFAO... The werey said he is not complaining, so wetin in dey do now? in dey explain concisely about what he is going through?

If you ask me, na real LAMENTATION be this... LOL... sighs! MEN! well one thing I do know for sure is this, if you do not have sense and you are as dumb as anything one can think of, WOMEN will teach you to have sense and you will get that sense by fire by force.
Happy we all are alive in the new year, May our days not be cut shut, AMEN!

davidswhales:


LMFAO... The werey said he is not complaining, so wetin in dey do now? in dey explain concisely about what he is going through?

If you ask me, na real LAMENTATION be this... LOL... sighs! MEN! well one thing I do know for sure is this, if you do not have sense and you are as dumb as anything one can think of, WOMEN will teach you sense and you will get that sense by fire by force...

He wrote such lengthy posts about her and said he’s not complaining. No be juju be that . He’s drained and can’t still let go coz he has already invested a lot. E chok

CaveAdullam:


Many young men don't pity themselves at all. The need to spend on a woman or to have a woman whom people think they ought to spend on is preposterous. Normally, 30k is a small salary in Nigeria, but if a young man can use that money diligently he can still do well
with it for himself. Once he adds a woman to that equation, he will gnash his teeth way longer than getting an inch above the ladder.

Some guys feel that their life is incomplete without spending on women or there is some sort of void to fill when spending on a girl.

heartofcity12:


He wrote such lengthy posts about her and said he’s not complaining. No be juju be that . He’s drained and can’t still let go coz he has already invested a lot. E chok

LOL.. naxo o my brother, AFISURU O (in yoruba)

CaveAdullam:
DAY 365, REDPILL 2021

When fvcking b!tches make sure your heart is in your hands.

Authority: be sharp.

365 days of different pills

davidswhales:


Happy we all are alive in the new year, May our days not be cut shut, AMEN!

AMEN!

this is the two pix i dropped out of the few ones i saved from fb,shola should be allowed to contest for president he's a comrade
Happy new year nlanders,let's be selfish this year and only give to those who are only there for us..
in fact i thank God am no more in a relationship coz it doesn't allow me grow it's only spending and doing nonsense no growth..
TRP to the world..

shola am now your disciples... please i won't be like Judas

CaveAdullam:
How (most) men manage to like what they hate which of course is literally poisonous and a nonsense is what I don't understand.

Deep sigh!

That guy sounds just like banky w! If you've ever heard banky w gushing about his wife,then you will know that nothing is inside that big head of his!

Lightway:
Oya

It was the last line for me. He say make she go use am paint their house

Women don't like nice guys

Sigh... One of my neighbour asked me for 2k yesterday evening... He was seriously begging me... Had to top up extra 1k for him.

Only for the Idiot to a video of him and a Girl in Coldstone this evening.

You see why most times one dey get double mind about helping guys also??

B

Nezzjnr:
Sigh... One of my neighbour asked me for 2k yesterday evening... He was seriously begging me... Had to top up extra 1k for him.

Only for the Idiot to a video of him and a Girl in Coldstone this evening.

You see why most times one dey get double mind about helping guys also??

This is serious

Nezzjnr:
Sigh... One of my neighbour asked me for 2k yesterday evening... He was seriously begging me... Had to top up extra 1k for him.

Only for the Idiot to a video of him and a Girl in Coldstone this evening.

You see why most times one dey get double mind about helping guys also??

Did you call him to lambast his life?

luminouz:

Did you call him to lambast his life?

When i replied his status by saying "Boss you dey Flex oo"... He deleted the video immediately. .

I've learnt already

Nezzjnr:

When i replied his status by saying "Boss you dey Flex oo"... He deleted the video immediately. .

I've learnt already

Best reply bossman

Nezzjnr:
Sigh... One of my neighbour asked me for 2k yesterday evening... He was seriously begging me... Had to top up extra 1k for him.

Only for the Idiot to a video of him and a Girl in Coldstone this evening.

You see why most times one dey get double mind about helping guys also??

Better ask for a refund

Valentine is coming

heartofcity12:


Better ask for a refund

I know ways of getting the money back .

That one no be issue.

Nezzjnr:

I know ways of getting the money back .

That one no be issue.

In as much as I helping fellow men in need, I also know that not all men are worth the help.

Nezzjnr:
Sigh... One of my neighbour asked me for 2k yesterday evening... He was seriously begging me... Had to top up extra 1k for him.

Only for the Idiot to a video of him and a Girl in Coldstone this evening.

You see why most times one dey get double mind about helping guys also??

Alaye that thing dey vex person enter soul.

RAGGA40:
Alaye that thing dey vex person enter soul.

Helping many of these simps financially is like helping females indirectly.

heartofcity12:


She’s so ruthless, she robbed him of his kidney and heart. That’s the reward of simping

It doesn't pay to be a simp.

Nezzjnr:
Sigh... One of my neighbour asked me for 2k yesterday evening... He was seriously begging me... Had to top up extra 1k for him.

Only for the Idiot to a video of him and a Girl in Coldstone this evening.

You see why most times one dey get double mind about helping guys also??

Am short of words comrade