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Firstly, i'm not a tribalist. But i've been hearing alot about these set of Ladies from Benue especially the ones from idoma, till my first hand experience with one. They are indeed good cooks , no doubt very homely... There is also a part of benue that give their wives to visitors to be fvxked til this day for entertainment

But the koko now be say, most of their marriages don't last , the men are unstable womanisers in marriages and the women are also very promiscuous, most of them abandon their homes .. Very few stay and keep the home together , while their men keep sleeping with many women like 2Baba.. lol

The girl from Benue i once dated has 4 sisters , 2 of her sisters took their children and left their husbands in less than 3yrs, the 3rd sister does hook up and is always going after her sister's boyfriends .. sending nudes to them and all manner of sodomy.. the 4th one has been doing hook up too, til she got pregnant by a man at 20 and the man had to forcefully marry her . The marriage is less than 7months, it may not last, rumours has it the child doesnt belong to the man.

Now, my Ex has been jumping from one short lived relationship to another after cheating on all her ex lovers in the name of survival .. Her relationship is strictly transactional... Once u stop providing or start asking questions, she leaves cruelly ... to sum it all , their mom left their father because he was polygamous and promiscuous , also she didnt want a man to control her.. lol

I didnt draw my conclusion from just my experience with my ex and her family.. But i also grew up with a family from Tiv,Benue , i lived with them for 2yrs , i noticed the pattern and it's been exactly same occurrence and experience...

There is a high rate of narcissism in this people...

modified: I'm not generalising or condemning all men and women from Benue.. But if you wanna marry from there, you should investigate the family properly, don't ignore the patterns and red flags, genes dont lie...before dem go do u strong thing wey go shake ur foundation and liver.. But, honestly they tend to be very nice to visitors , but for relationships, u gotta shine ur eyes... i mean shine it well

Fallacy of hasty generalization.


99thEnemy is from Benue and he's not promiscuous in nature.

Benue people na true?

What you have described is not just Benue women but women in general.

Benue People are too Diaboilic!!!

Benue girls will soon arrive

Kriss216:
Fallacy of hasty generalization.


99thEnemy is from Benue and he's not promiscuous in nature.

Forget.. e dey their gene

braine:
What you have described is not just Benue women but women in general.

werey

I currently live with two benue girls (Tiv) in my compound and I can tell you for free that they are shameless, very promiscuous, and uncivilised.

Sleeping around means nothing to them( they do it without shame,) like they can sleep with you just to buy basic things like toothpaste, fill gas, etc

They are experts in child marriages, their women (45-65) sleep with younger guys

My friend once forked mother and daughter (Tiv tribe) in Benue state for less than 4k and they both knew

Honestly something needs to be done to to salvage that tribe

Well, everything you described up there can be found not just in Benue alone but allover the globe now. The worst is that young ladies now send nudes or seductive videos to people with the intent to be invited for s3x in exchange for money. No one is faithful anymore both men and women but in all these, you could still find few good men or women who refuse to be influence by what is going on in the world today.

Beebah2000:
werey

Your elder brothers at home are the werey.

Lie,

Dekadet:
Well, everything you described up there can be found not just in Benue alone but allover the globe now. The worst is that young ladies now send nudes or seductive videos to people with the intent to be invited for s3x in exchange for money. No one is faithful anymore both men and women but in all these, you could still find few good men or women who refuse to be influence by what is going on in the world today.

very few...

Omihanifa:
I currently live with two benue girls (Tiv) in my compound and I can tell you for free that they are shameless, very promiscuous, and uncivilised.

Sleeping around means nothing to them( they do it without shame,) like they can sleep with you just to buy basic things like toothpaste, fill gas, etc

They are experts in child marriages, their women (45-65) sleep with younger guys

My friend once forked mother and daughter (Tiv tribe) in Benue state for less than 4k and they both knew

Honestly something needs to be done to to salvage that tribe

My brother, you have observed well...
I'm not surprised

Tiv igede idoma igala which of them?

braine:


Your elder brothers at home are the werey.

you don dey ment, abi?
Shegiya

Frigga13:
Tiv igede idoma igala which of them?

remove Igede from your mention, igede ladies are very decent and moral.

Everybody the feel say his tribe holy nairalamd is not benue go to benue and tell them all u typed if your face no add weight.


Every ekwuke wants to trend

BITTEREX:
Firstly, i'm not a tribalist. But i've been hearing alot about these set of Ladies from Benue especially the ones from idoma, till my first hand experience with one. They are indeed good cooks , no doubt very homely...

But the koko now be say, most of their marriages don't last , the men are unstable womanisers in marriages and the women are also very promiscuous, most of them abandon their homes .. Very few stay and keep the home together , while their men keep sleeping with many women like 2Baba.. lol

The girl from Benue i once dated has 4 sisters , 2 of her sisters took their children and left their husbands in less than 3yrs, the 3rd sister does hook up and is always going after her sister's boyfriends .. sending nudes to them and all manner of sodomy.. the 4th one has been doing hook up too, til she got pregnant by a man at 20 and the man had to forcefully marry her . The marriage is less than 7months, it may not last, rumours has it the child doesnt belong to the man.

Now, my Ex has been jumping from one short lived relationship to another after cheating on all her ex lovers in the name of survival .. Her relationship is strictly transactional... Once u stop providing or start asking questions, she leaves cruelly ... to sum it all , their mom left their father because he was polygamous and promiscuous , also she didnt want a man to control her.. lol

I didnt draw my conclusion from just my experience with my ex and her family.. But i also grew up with a family from Benue , i lived with them for 2yrs , i noticed the pattern and it's been exactly same occurrence and experience...

There is a high rate of narcissism in this people...

modified: I'm not generalising or condemning all men and women from Benue.. But if you wanna marry from there, you should investigate the family properly, don't ignore the patterns and red flags, genes dont lie...before dem go do u strong thing wey go shake ur foundation and liver..

Your assertion is a reflection of the society generally. You can encounter such with any tribe in Nigeria. For your information, anywhere you want to marry, do due delligence, not only from Benue

Omihanifa:
I currently live with two benue girls (Tiv) in my compound and I can tell you for free that they are shameless, very promiscuous, and uncivilised.

Sleeping around means nothing to them( they do it without shame,) like they can sleep with you just to buy basic things like toothpaste, fill gas, etc

They are experts in child marriages, their women (45-65) sleep with younger guys

My friend once forked mother and daughter (Tiv tribe) in Benue state for less than 4k and they both knew

Honestly something needs to be done to to salvage that tribe

You people just take your experience and generalize. Mention your tribe here and someone can say his experience with them which maybe worse than what you are narrating here

Kriss216:
Fallacy of hasty generalization.


99thEnemy is from Benue and he's not promiscuous in nature.

I don't just understand why one pained human being will come out to stereotype a whole tribe from an experience with one person who his relationship didn't go well with.

From one girl and her sisters, e don turn Idoma people. now na Benue in general.

We have not less than 8 tribes in Benue and they are now all promiscuous because of OP's choice of so called girlfriend.

BITTEREX: ....

As a Tiv man that I am, come let me console you with 100 tubers of Yam for what my promiscuous Idoma sister from Benue did to you.

99thEnemy:




As a Tiv man that I am, come let me console you with 100 tubers of Yam for what my promiscuous Idoma sister from Benue did to you.

You don too oppress us with tubers of yam for this forum

I will tell my kinsmen to crown you O ji Ji emè ogò anytime you come SE.

The very few Benue people I've met are not promiscous...

Thank god fulanis are killing them...
benue pigs

Kriss216:



You don too oppress us with tubers of yam for this forum

I will tell my kinsmen to crown you O ji Ji emè ogò anytime you come SE.

Hope there will be surplus palm wine and beautiful hawt maidens at my coronation


Make room for security too, I don't want meth traffickers' near my event

2Face will be accompanying me

Venue people don't even like themselves a Tiv man does not like Idoma, neither did Igede like both Tiv and Idoma. Igede man will call Utonkon a prostitute. And honestly they are behaving true to type

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BITTEREX:
Firstly, i'm not a tribalist. But i've been hearing alot about these set of Ladies from Benue especially the ones from idoma, till my first hand experience with one. They are indeed good cooks , no doubt very homely...

But the koko now be say, most of their marriages don't last , the men are unstable womanisers in marriages and the women are also very promiscuous, most of them abandon their homes .. Very few stay and keep the home together , while their men keep sleeping with many women like 2Baba.. lol

The girl from Benue i once dated has 4 sisters , 2 of her sisters took their children and left their husbands in less than 3yrs, the 3rd sister does hook up and is always going after her sister's boyfriends .. sending nudes to them and all manner of sodomy.. the 4th one has been doing hook up too, til she got pregnant by a man at 20 and the man had to forcefully marry her . The marriage is less than 7months, it may not last, rumours has it the child doesnt belong to the man.

Now, my Ex has been jumping from one short lived relationship to another after cheating on all her ex lovers in the name of survival .. Her relationship is strictly transactional... Once u stop providing or start asking questions, she leaves cruelly ... to sum it all , their mom left their father because he was polygamous and promiscuous , also she didnt want a man to control her.. lol

I didnt draw my conclusion from just my experience with my ex and her family.. But i also grew up with a family from Benue , i lived with them for 2yrs , i noticed the pattern and it's been exactly same occurrence and experience...

There is a high rate of narcissism in this people...

modified: I'm not generalising or condemning all men and women from Benue.. But if you wanna marry from there, you should investigate the family properly, don't ignore the patterns and red flags, genes dont lie...before dem go do u strong thing wey go shake ur foundation and liver..

First of all, you are a tribalist to the core but feel too ashamed to be yourself. And it really disgust me that you claimed not to be.

The way you painted this is like no one in Benue state is married

Or all girls in Benue state are unfaithful.


This is very far from the truth. Idoma girls are good cooks just as you have said. And if we are to count the number of broken homes in Nigeria, I'm sure idoma women will not make the top 200 list.

Secondly, the idomas are the most peace loving people in Benue state and probably the whole of Nigeria.

Don't because you've seen a problem with one family say it is so for the whole tribe.

Omihanifa:
I currently live with two benue girls (Tiv) in my compound and I can tell you for free that they are shameless, very promiscuous, and uncivilised.

Sleeping around means nothing to them( they do it without shame,) like they can sleep with you just to buy basic things like toothpaste, fill gas, etc

They are experts in child marriages, their women (45-65) sleep with younger guys

My friend once forked mother and daughter (Tiv tribe) in Benue state for less than 4k and they both knew

Honestly something needs to be done to to salvage that tribe

lolz.

U live with ashawo.

Is ashawo peculiar to Benue girls alone?

If op is not ashamed then let him mention his tribe let's c.

Crystalom3:


First of all, you are a tribalist to the core but feel too ashamed to be yourself. And it really disgust me that you claimed not to be.

The way you painted this is like no one in Benue state is married

Or all girls in Benue state are unfaithful.


This is very far from the truth. Idoma girls are good cooks just as you have said. And if we are to count the number of broken homes in Nigeria, I'm sure idoma women will not make the top 200 list.

Secondly, the idomas are the most peace loving people in Benue state and probably the whole of Nigeria.

Don't because you've seen a problem with one family say it is so for the whole tribe.

Every man got their opinion..

99thEnemy:


I don't just understand why one pained human being will come out to stereotype a whole tribe from an experience with one person who his relationship didn't go well with.

From one girl and her sisters, e don turn Idoma people. now na Benue in general.

We have not less than 8 tribes in Benue and they are now all promiscuous because of OP's choice of so called girlfriend.



As a Tiv man that I am, come let me console you with 100 tubers of Yam for what my promiscuous Idoma sister from Benue did to you.

my brother e tire me o.

All the news of relationship wahala we have been Reading on nairalaland, nothing concern Benue but the yeye op, just de yarn dust.

How many troublesome divorce or court cases have you read on NL about Benue state