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I and my gf started a new relationship and it's been going well, two weeks ago which was her birthday, we both came to lagos to spend quality time and have fun for two weeks.

while on the vacation, I checked her phone and noticed there was a guy who wished her happy birthday and told her he had a gift for her, she responded and deleted the message

The next day I checked her phone, I didn't see the chat with the guy and I was sure my eyes saw an unread message the previous day.

Four days ago she told me she wants to go she a female.friend, when I confronted her she then mentioned that she wants to go pick up the gift from her male friend, the same guy that she earlier told me about that he is just a friend.

I'm sad cos with all the love I'm beginning to show towards her she isn't satisfied but thinking about another guys gift and attention.

We both quarreled over the issue and I made it clear that if she ever goes to see the guy and I find out it will be the end of our relationship.


Women are truly strange.

In Igbo la bi voice... She's not your girlfriend... It's just your turn...

TarOrfeeek:


You are mumu man

You used money that can buy a plot of land in Osun state to go and lodge a prostitute in hotel and be eating expensive food.


Place your hand on your forehead and pray for yourself.

Wetin na, is it your money...

Wahala for who dey relationship o

You went on a two weeks vacation because of birthday and your girl is still hungry to collect something from another man while celebrating her birthday?

Op I don't think you went on any 2weeks vacation because of birthday please...

Bros bless Mee na with just 2 percent of all that spending in the Bahamas b!+ch

LoL
This one never wake up.
The earlier you realize that they are all hypergamists the better for you. You should know that while she's with you, she's also looking out for the best bigger deal out there. You still want the girl for yourself only? LoL trust me she doesn't care how you feel.

There is nothing wrong with her taking gift from a guy if she's just friends with him. What is fishy is why she had to delete the messages and even lie.

The female gender is never satisfied... The fact that she deleted her chat history with the guy is a red flag already.
I just had to marry early & i've gotten myself out of this girlfrnds mess. There r hardly loyal.

This is the problem with you guys, always trying to over please a lady. Imagine you spending a lot on a vacation just because of her birthday while there's a guy out there who didn't even do anything except buying her just a gift (which might even not be true or might be their coded word for sex) and she still chose to leave you and run back to his place.

You know what? At times these guys talking about redpills are right, most ladies are just not worth the stress guys go through with them. Best is you chop your own clean mouth and move on.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

You took a hoe to hotel for 2 weeks and you are complaining that she may be cheating on you. Which girl if not an olosho will allow you waste that kind of money on frivolities in this hard time? How many times have you taken your sisters and mother on a good time date or will you die if you it? God punish you idiot. You will have more tears.

How about u pretend not to have money during d birthday and see if she will understand and stick by you.

Lol she will go there and fvk the guy.
There's nothing you can do to stop that, woman open eyes too much, lol, you think a woman will forget gifts, lol even if it's in the bellie of a whale she'd go there, submit her pvssy for deep plunging and take her gift. And you'd never know, the best you can do now if fvk her while you are with her, and throw her out once you're done

There are things you need to find out before you jump to conclusions.

There are ladies that don't keep female friends, their friends are males and they don't fvck them. They know where to draw the line. Contrary to what romance section will make you believe, some women are faithful to the core.

If she's the type that has more male friends than female, are you then saying that she will not accept birthday gifts from friends because she's dating you?

She has a life before meeting you dude, key in or leave. Don't take it from her.

What else did you see in their conversations?
Give us something to think about and then advise.

Deleting the messages is a red flag but what if you're a sensitive, jealous and insecure boyfriend?

Find out bro. Don't ask for a woman's trust in a relationship that is new. She's dating you means you came first in her list of many irers. She will have to be very sure of you before she deletes others. She's a woman so that is what it is.


As per two weeks vacation because it was her birthday, please where are you taking Jesus t?o

Girls are gift addicted... Make you no too blame her

You are so foooolish! Metchewww

It's her birthday and anyone can give her gift.

She is Ur girlfriend n not Ur wife

When u marry her, then u can tell her not to collect another man's gift.

I ed when my babe was sick, the guy that eventually took over from me was just a friend. He bought her more things than myself. Me not get much then na.
You claim 2weeks holiday, do u know if the guy have done one month holiday.

Guy relax, if uncomfortable with the relationship, bounce

SO WHY ARE YOU INFORMING US?

Mylife89:
I and my gf started a new relationship and it's been going well, two weeks ago which was her birthday, we both came to lagos to spend quality time and have fun for two weeks.

while on the vacation, I checked her phone and noticed there was a guy who wished her happy birthday and told her he had a gift for her, she responded and deleted the message

The next day I checked her phone, I didn't see the chat with the guy and I was sure my eyes saw an unread message the previous day.

Four days ago she told me she wants to go she a female.friend, when I confronted her she then mentioned that she wants to go pick up the gift from her male friend, the same guy that she earlier told me about that he is just a friend.

I'm sad cos with all the love I'm beginning to show towards her she isn't satisfied but thinking about another guys gift and attention.

We both quarreled over the issue and I made it clear that if she ever goes to see the guy and I find out it will be the end of our relationship.


Women are truly strange.

Just continue enjoying her until you get tired.. Then leave

Tallesty1:
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There are ladies that don't keep female friends, their friends are males and they don't fvck them. They know where to draw the line. Contrary to what romance section will make you believe, some women are faithful to the core.

You are so naive... Nigerian girls will chew you up and spit you out.

DropsMic:



You are so naive

Do you have a close female friend?

2 weeks vacation cos of her birthday? E be like say that one na Jesus birthday

Ok

Mylife89:
I and my gf started a new relationship and it's been going well, two weeks ago which was her birthday, we both came to lagos to spend quality time and have fun for two weeks.

while on the vacation, I checked her phone and noticed there was a guy who wished her happy birthday and told her he had a gift for her, she responded and deleted the message

The next day I checked her phone, I didn't see the chat with the guy and I was sure my eyes saw an unread message the previous day.

Four days ago she told me she wants to go she a female.friend, when I confronted her she then mentioned that she wants to go pick up the gift from her male friend, the same guy that she earlier told me about that he is just a friend.

I'm sad cos with all the love I'm beginning to show towards her she isn't satisfied but thinking about another guys gift and attention.

We both quarreled over the issue and I made it clear that if she ever goes to see the guy and I find out it will be the end of our relationship.


Women are truly strange.

Olorun Awa pelu ooo
She's not your GF

Av you listening to portable Song that said Eyi O..B.. O adugbo wa

The guy just want to give her birthday d*ck dats all,

why you con dey para

swallow red pill and know peace

No advice will be given today.

Speaking about red flags, a lady agreeing to a 2 week vacation doesn't want your progress.

Texting with a guy while with you is another red flag.

You shouldn't spend that much with a lady, you ain't sure of her loyalty.

Well, if you can see the writings on the wall, you gat a greedy hoe and a liar as well. Your birthday vacation wasn't enough.

Nothing, you gonna give her will be a enough.

Good luck.

You gonna be needing lots of it...

It will end up in tears.

Las Las you go chop breakfast.

SIMPtoms of a SIMPle man

Mylife89:
I and my gf started a new relationship and it's been going well, two weeks ago which was her birthday, we both came to lagos to spend quality time and have fun for two weeks.

while on the vacation, I checked her phone and noticed there was a guy who wished her happy birthday and told her he had a gift for her, she responded and deleted the message

The next day I checked her phone, I didn't see the chat with the guy and I was sure my eyes saw an unread message the previous day.

Four days ago she told me she wants to go she a female.friend, when I confronted her she then mentioned that she wants to go pick up the gift from her male friend, the same guy that she earlier told me about that he is just a friend.

I'm sad cos with all the love I'm beginning to show towards her she isn't satisfied but thinking about another guys gift and attention.

We both quarreled over the issue and I made it clear that if she ever goes to see the guy and I find out it will be the end of our relationship.


Women are truly strange.

Carry gf go vacation on her birthday.Mr loverboy!
You forget that these hookup girls these days,na highest bidder?
Wise up man. She is not your girl friend alone... Remove the (y) in your and it becomes (y)our
Your mind be tell you say na only you? No go dey deceive your self Mr vacation