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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 12:22pm On Dec 08, 2021
You see those ones carrying their sexuality up and down like Agege bread nothing cerebral to offer period
AbujaCitiBlog: 12:25pm On Dec 08, 2021
Ishilove:
Okay, you've been noticed.
I know you are pained. It is well. If it is a woman that wrote that he doesn't need a man in her life will you be sounding like this? I know you wont. There lies the hypochrisy!

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EmmyDJourno: 12:25pm On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:


I pay for it , and not just regular sexx I mean next level kinky fantasy shit

My brother you are not alone in this

I too am currently dealing with the same issue, I have not met who I like since 2019, I don't want to waste my time, her time or my money

I also engage in good, kinky sex, massage, et al, recently pressure from ladies has me banging like 4 chics with more still begging for my time

I feel sorry for them coz I feel nothing, despite knowing it would only lead to heartbreak

For all those olofofo neighbours no mind them, they are the unintelligent people who don't understand the sanctity in minding their business

Keep being true to you, their talk no fit 2 weeks

Las Las God would have mercy on us and give us the peace we desire

Don't forget what I said...Bleep the olofofo and do you cheesy


EmmyDJourno: 12:29pm On Dec 08, 2021
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Teripaul:
I no even understand wetin diswan dey talk. . oga u be gay. . In a scale. . .

You are myopic to the dynamism in life, everything no be black and white
syntekelite(m): 12:32pm On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
So today I realized everyone in my area is talking about how I have no girl in my life for a while. One of them slipped and mistakenly itted I’m their topic and they feel I cannot approach women.

Now the thing is I’m way beyond approaching women, it’s not an issue of talking to them really more like an issue of me not even replying them. Now my neighbors think I don’t know how to talk to girls but in reality I don’t even reply girls that talk to me. I have a pretty face and I cannot count how many green lights I get from girls every single day, it’s unbelievable..only today a girl told me not to pay for the water I bought from her all cuz I flirted a little with her for fun. It’s that extremely easy for me but the problem is I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.

I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life, all they offer these days is their body. I don’t see why I should be spending my money on someone just so people can see me strolling with a woman. Why do I need a woman? Why are they emotionally blackmailing me to be strolling with a female by force? Women I have created so many threads about how I think y’all are trying to ruin my life.

Keep gossiping me, I won’t date till I’m probably out of this dead country and then I can meet people who are not seeing me as an “update” to cash out. Rubbish, na by force to date girl?

Dont make anyone force their myopic views on you,what matters most is how sure you are of who you are,you are not strange,neither are you weird.. I also think you need a change of environment...cos intellectually sound women live in places that fit who they are..
Oceanblaze(m): 12:34pm On Dec 08, 2021
Hope you are not in love with your hands
berbs: 12:35pm On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
So today I realized everyone in my area is talking about how I have no girl in my life for a while. One of them slipped and mistakenly itted I’m their topic and they feel I cannot approach women.

Now the thing is I’m way beyond approaching women, it’s not an issue of talking to them really more like an issue of me not even replying them. Now my neighbors think I don’t know how to talk to girls but in reality I don’t even reply girls that talk to me. I have a pretty face and I cannot count how many green lights I get from girls every single day, it’s unbelievable..only today a girl told me not to pay for the water I bought from her all cuz I flirted a little with her for fun. It’s that extremely easy for me but the problem is I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.

I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life, all they offer these days is their body. I don’t see why I should be spending my money on someone just so people can see me strolling with a woman. Why do I need a woman? Why are they emotionally blackmailing me to be strolling with a female by force? Women I have created so many threads about how I think y’all are trying to ruin my life.

Keep gossiping me, I won’t date till I’m probably out of this dead country and then I can meet people who are not seeing me as an “update” to cash out. Rubbish, na by force to date girl?

How old are you
ActuaRise696969: 12:37pm On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
So today I realized everyone in my area is talking about how I have no girl in my life for a while. One of them slipped and mistakenly itted I’m their topic and they feel I cannot approach women.

Now the thing is I’m way beyond approaching women, it’s not an issue of talking to them really more like an issue of me not even replying them. Now my neighbors think I don’t know how to talk to girls but in reality I don’t even reply girls that talk to me. I have a pretty face and I cannot count how many green lights I get from girls every single day, it’s unbelievable..only today a girl told me not to pay for the water I bought from her all cuz I flirted a little with her for fun. It’s that extremely easy for me but the problem is I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.

I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life, all they offer these days is their body. I don’t see why I should be spending my money on someone just so people can see me strolling with a woman. Why do I need a woman? Why are they emotionally blackmailing me to be strolling with a female by force? Women I have created so many threads about how I think y’all are trying to ruin my life.

Keep gossiping me, I won’t date till I’m probably out of this dead country and then I can meet people who are not seeing me as an “update” to cash out. Rubbish, na by force to date girl?

Water seller trips for you? Your level is high. sad
seyz91(m): 12:37pm On Dec 08, 2021
cheesy
Ishilove:
Okay, you've been noticed.

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stanisbaratheon: 12:43pm On Dec 08, 2021
Some guys in my neighbourhood tried this on me when I was in school.

I came to the realisation that since they carry oloshos a lot, the only way to show their guilt is to blackmail and troll me for not having a babe and I no dey carry olosho too. grin
The thing is they want you to be like them so that they will feel alright in what they're doing.

The next thing they say is "you be gay"?

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TheManOfTheYear: 12:49pm On Dec 08, 2021
arthurwillia:

Keep living in your world of fantasy
You are a gay baba, you get satisfied sexually? But what do you need Amaka for? Please the person that satisfied you sexually na man bAa? MTxhew
Your thinking must be really shallow and close-minded.
So because he has refused to date a girl all these years automatically means he is gay? Can you make sense of what you just typed?

Most Nigerian girls are just nothing but liabilities, they basically don't have anything to offer you. All they do is take and take, a young man who isn't up to 23 would be playing fatherly role to woman, because of what?

Only very few ladies are sensible. Let people do whatever suits them

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TheManOfTheYear: 12:51pm On Dec 08, 2021
TheWolfen:
Whatever man. It is your life. Being single and waiting for the right moment isn't such a such a bad idea.
but if you into masturbation homosexual practice then that is bad I don't such abominable act
But you fornication?
You get sense so?

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Babastrong(m): 12:54pm On Dec 08, 2021
[quote author=NovesaTillie post=108304309]Are you gay? undecided

You sound gay.
Waste of pinis.

Come let's spend some time together.
I give you 2 months you'll be talking about getting married. [thanks sis, pls help him. He really need help. The only paradise on earth i know are GOOD WOMEN. Olohun ma base maami je(may God not spoil my mother's effort)]
Blastedholligan: 12:57pm On Dec 08, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Are you gay? undecided

You sound gay.
Waste of pinis.

Come let's spend some time together.
I give you 2 months you'll be talking about getting married.
lemme take his place. What do you think?
benydy(f): 12:58pm On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:

Oga please explain
I pay for it , and not just regular sexx I mean next level kinky fantasy shit
Babastrong(m): 1:03pm On Dec 08, 2021
Beautiful house, good car and a sexy and ive wife. These are the reasons i said i will make it to 120yrs on this surface of earth.
theamazonguru(m): 1:12pm On Dec 08, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Are you gay? undecided

You sound gay.
Waste of pinis.

Come let's spend some time together.
I give you 2 months you'll be talking about getting married.

OMG,what did I just read.
Are you that cheap?

Spits and runs outta here
theamazonguru(m): 1:14pm On Dec 08, 2021
Blastedholligan:
lemme take his place. What do you think?

Be there be looking for woman of easy virtue you hear
A girl that will freely throw herself at you, what do you think of such?
abiodunjonah: 1:16pm On Dec 08, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Are you gay? undecided

You sound gay.
Waste of pinis.

Come let's spend some time together.
I give you 2 months you'll be talking about getting married.
where are u, let's hang out
damoceile: 1:16pm On Dec 08, 2021
stacyadams:


Just watch she will tell u emotional , shoulder to lean on and prayers..just wait grin

These girls don cast aswear grin grin
MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 1:24pm On Dec 08, 2021
truthsayer009:


I don't know where you people got your theories from, that someone doesn't want to approach you doesn't determine whether they are a man or not. Approaching you is not the standard for men.

People approach whoever they feel is going to give them a positive response and if your vibe is off, It is not the man's fault.

Women are hypergamous and only respect those above them, It would take proper attraction for you to consider men in your own class, so why would they approach you. They are not stupid.
Go back to my comment. I'm not the one complaining about men approaching but rather it is those who think my being single is their business which is not, that are giving me reasons why I'm still single. Some even said I'm too principled and the people showing this concern are not men or my family. Just random people who instead of minding their relationship and marriages are disturbed about another's state of singlehood. I only added that in response to them. That any man who thinks I'm too this or too that is not for me.
Moconka: 1:25pm On Dec 08, 2021
Going thru this until my church member stopped me one day and told me she’s into selling clothes n co. Gave her attention n she requested for my phone number. Suddenly began vibing on WhatsApp and before you know it, we dated for 2months. I was on my own jejely because I haven’t met the right woman for me. Now I was loving her babe until She loved up too before she suddenly told me some days ago that her mom went to pray and they said we can’t marry each other that am fire she’s water. I haven’t been thinking straight for days now but I know God will take come to my rescue.
Moconka: 1:28pm On Dec 08, 2021
Going thru this until my church member stopped me one day and told me she’s into selling clothes n co. Gave her attention n she requested for my phone number. Suddenly began vibing on WhatsApp and before you know it, we dated for 2months. I was on my own jejely because I haven’t met the right woman for me. Now I was loving this babe and She loved up too before she suddenly told me some days ago that her mom went to pray and they said we can’t marry each other that am fire she’s water. I haven’t been thinking straight for days now but I know God will come to my rescue. [/quote]
CAPSLOCKED: 1:38pm On Dec 08, 2021
Moconka:
Going thru this until my church member stopped me one day and told me she’s into selling clothes n co. Gave her attention n she requested for my phone number. Suddenly began vibing on WhatsApp and before you know it, we dated for 2months. I was on my own jejely because I haven’t met the right woman for me. Now I was loving this babe and She loved up too before she suddenly told me some days ago that her mom went to pray and they said we can’t marry each other that am fire she’s water. I haven’t been thinking straight for days now but I know God will come to my rescue.


ARE YOU INSANE? cheesy
THERE'S NO GOD COMING TO YOUR RESCUE MY MAN, YOU MUST UNDERSTAND THAT THE WORLD IS VERY CRUEL PLACE AND MOST TIMES, THE PEOPLE WE CONFER OUR FEELINGS ON AND PLACE IN CHARGE OF OUR HAPPINESS WILL MOST LIKELY PULL THE RUG.. BECAUSE THEM NO SEND YOUR PAPA.
SO YOU MUST GUARD YOUR HEART & MIND AT ALL COST AND ASSOCIATE WITH AND LEARN FROM EXPERIENCED AND ENLIGHTENED MEN.

NEVER EXPECT LOYALTY FROM ANYONE, THEY DON'T OWE YOU ANYTHING BECAUSE YOU DON'T OWN THEM.

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stacyadams: 1:43pm On Dec 08, 2021
damoceile:


These girls don cast aswear


grin grin
grin grin to crown it all they will buy singlet and cheap okrika boxers for their boyfriend birthday and be shouting "I want iPhone 14 for birthday gift..bunch of scammers..efcc should shine their torch on them too not only Yahoo boiZ

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damoceile: 1:45pm On Dec 08, 2021
stacyadams:
grin grin to crown it all they will buy singlet and cheap okrika boxers for their boyfriend birthday and be shouting "I want iPhone 14 for birthday gift..bunch of scammers..efcc should shine their torch on them too not only Yahoo boiZ

I tell you bro, nah who get time dey follow them roll I swear... They are very useless I swear grin

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Aaron12(m): 1:57pm On Dec 08, 2021
damoceile:


I tell you bro, nah who get time dey follow them roll I swear... They are very useless I swear grin
Exactly they are very useless.
Olaniyi021(m): 1:58pm On Dec 08, 2021
International oloso sighted
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 2:11pm On Dec 08, 2021
gassbee:
Are u sure ur ak47 is stil in order

I pay to get my deek licked like four times a week, maybe it’s your life that isn’t in order because I doubt you have ever had a Mouth Gig ode
Silentgroper(m): 2:12pm On Dec 08, 2021
Moconka:
Going thru this until my church member stopped me one day and told me she’s into selling clothes n co. Gave her attention n she requested for my phone number. Suddenly began vibing on WhatsApp and before you know it, we dated for 2months. I was on my own jejely because I haven’t met the right woman for me. Now I was loving her babe until She loved up too before she suddenly told me some days ago that her mom went to pray and they said we can’t marry each other that am fire she’s water. I haven’t been thinking straight for days now but I know God will take come to my rescue.
If u're fire nd she's water. It's all d more reason u need to be together.. Bt i really do not understand all dz.. How does being fire take effect on someone's life.

bt on rare ocassions, u should listen to dat pastor ..
Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 2:15pm On Dec 08, 2021
I am not gay my dear nairanladers. Why will I chose the strong butt hole of a man over the big soft yansh of a girl? God forbid!

All I’m saying is normal girls won’t even want to do kinky stuff with you because you’re their so called boyfriend..after spending all u have on their stupid needs. But when I pay for it, I get to have the best sexual experiences over and over so maybe You people are the gay ones for begging one little girl to fvck u after spending money u should be giving your mum on her all because you want to feel among and say you have a girlfriend. I am in a class of my own, when I die nobody will me after two weeks and u think I won’t do all the sexual fetish that is known to man? I don’t need a girlfriend, I have a million girls I pay for my PLEASURE DUMB ASSES

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 2:17pm On Dec 08, 2021
Elsueno:


With that explanation... my conclusion is that you are gay! & U don't know it yet....it's cool, am not judging...just it's a crime in Nigeria grin

Explain why I love having my deek sucked regularly then? I don’t date no mean say I no like Mouth Gig from girls ode

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