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I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 10:23pm On Dec 07, 2021
So today I realized everyone in my area is talking about how I have no girl in my life for a while. One of them slipped and mistakenly itted I’m their topic and they feel I cannot approach women.

Now the thing is I’m way beyond approaching women, it’s not an issue of talking to them really more like an issue of me not even replying them. Now my neighbors think I don’t know how to talk to girls but in reality I don’t even reply girls that talk to me. I have a pretty face and I cannot count how many green lights I get from girls every single day, it’s unbelievable..only today a girl told me not to pay for the water I bought from her all cuz I flirted a little with her for fun. It’s that extremely easy for me but the problem is I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.

I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life, all they offer these days is their body. I don’t see why I should be spending my money on someone just so people can see me strolling with a woman. Why do I need a woman? Why are they emotionally blackmailing me to be strolling with a female by force? Women I have created so many threads about how I think y’all are trying to ruin my life.

Keep gossiping me, I won’t date till I’m probably out of this dead country and then I can meet people who are not seeing me as an “update” to cash out. Rubbish, na by force to date girl?

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NovesaTillie(f): 10:26pm On Dec 07, 2021
Are you gay? undecided

You sound gay.
Waste of pinis.

Come let's spend some time together.
I give you 2 months you'll be talking about getting married.

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 10:32pm On Dec 07, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Are you gay? undecided

I’m very true to myself. I cannot stand the thought that I’m being used as a maga. Plus I get serious sexual satisfaction regularly so what else do I need a woman for?

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NovesaTillie(f): 10:34pm On Dec 07, 2021
Prettydevil:


I’m very true to myself. I cannot stand the thought that I’m being used as a maga. Plus I get serious sexual satisfaction regularly so what else do I need a woman for?

So you get the satisfaction for free?
Or FWB?

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 10:38pm On Dec 07, 2021
NovesaTillie:


So you get the satisfaction for free?
Or FWB?

I pay for it , and not just regular sexx I mean next level kinky fantasy shit

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 10:40pm On Dec 07, 2021
If I’m always satisfied sexually , I mean every single fetish In my head regularly then please what do I need an Amaka or a chidera for? What else will she be doing around me? Nagging? Abeg

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Ishilove: 10:42pm On Dec 07, 2021
Okay, you've been noticed.

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Teripaul(m): 10:43pm On Dec 07, 2021
I no even understand wetin diswan dey talk. . oga u be gay. . In a scale. . .

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DrFunmisticGlow: 10:44pm On Dec 07, 2021
You are gay aren't you?!
Prettydevil:
So today I realized everyone in my area is talking about how I have no girl in my life for a while. One of them slipped and mistakenly itted I’m their topic and they feel I cannot approach women.

Now the thing is I’m way beyond approaching women, it’s not an issue of talking to them really more like an issue of me not even replying them. Now my neighbors think I don’t know how to talk to girls but in reality I don’t even reply girls that talk to me. I have a pretty face and I cannot count how many green lights I get from girls every single day, it’s unbelievable..only today a girl told me not to pay for the water I bought from her all cuz I flirted a little with her for fun. It’s that extremely easy for me but the problem is I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.

I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life, all they offer these days is their body. I don’t see why I should be spending my money on someone just so people can see me strolling with a woman. Why do I need a woman? Why are they emotionally blackmailing me to be strolling with a female by force? Women I have created so many threads about how I think y’all are trying to ruin my life.

Keep gossiping me, I won’t date till I’m probably out of this dead country and then I can meet people who are not seeing me as an “update” to cash out. Rubbish, na by force to date girl?

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NovesaTillie(f): 10:46pm On Dec 07, 2021
Prettydevil:


I pay for it , and not just regular sexx I mean next level kinky fantasy shit

It's okay. Enjoy. Whatever rocks your boat.

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Nonexisting: 10:47pm On Dec 07, 2021
As long as you fucck pussies, you don't have to give a fucck about what people say. Who girlfriend help?

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Teripaul(m): 10:50pm On Dec 07, 2021
Prettydevil:


I’m very true to myself. I cannot stand the thought that I’m being used as a maga. Plus I get serious sexual satisfaction regularly so what else do I need a woman for?


Oga u need woman to u. . [in every succesful man, there is a woman behind it) flips in eye side ways grin

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Teripaul(m): 10:52pm On Dec 07, 2021
Nonexisting:
As long as you fucck holes grin grin grin grin grin, you don't have to give a fucck about what people say. Who girlfriend help?

sorry 4 puttin the correct word grin

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BlaqJosh: 10:52pm On Dec 07, 2021
enjoy yourself no mind those feminist and pussy whipped boys up there, You owe nobody any explanation about your life

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 11:52pm On Dec 07, 2021
Teripaul:



Oga u need woman to u. . [in every succesful man, there is a woman behind it) flips in eye side ways grin

Not really...
The presence of a woman doesn't automatically makes a man successful and not all successful men have a woman beside them...

And even if the what you say is true in the OP's case, the woman here may likely be his mother cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: I Am Being Emotionally Blackmailed To Date by Nobody: 11:55pm On Dec 07, 2021
Some of wuna assumptions mad o...
Like Because OP doesn't see the need to have a girlfriend, it automatically means he's gay.... Wahala...

Tis well Sha...
OP...
The choice is yours...
Don't allow anyone blackmail you into something you don't feel up to...
If you see no need for a girlfriend, that's fine, buh in all you do...
Stay away from premarital sex...
E get why cheesy

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Moz22: 12:25am On Dec 08, 2021
Ishilove:
Okay, you've been noticed.
lol

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Divoc19(f): 12:26am On Dec 08, 2021
Do not be moved by their blackmail.
Live in your head and be yourself

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Bennysam: 2:51am On Dec 08, 2021
Ishilove:
Okay, you've been noticed.
E pain you, sorry oooo

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zed7: 3:24am On Dec 08, 2021
Funny enough it's the best way to live. Most people are in relationships for the sex only. They have nothing else going for them.

People should date when they truly meet someone they connect with not because everyone expects them to date.

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Dshocker(m): 9:43am On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
So today I realized everyone in my area is talking about how I have no girl in my life for a while. One of them slipped and mistakenly itted I’m their topic and they feel I cannot approach women.

Now the thing is I’m way beyond approaching women, it’s not an issue of talking to them really more like an issue of me not even replying them. Now my neighbors think I don’t know how to talk to girls but in reality I don’t even reply girls that talk to me. I have a pretty face and I cannot count how many green lights I get from girls every single day, it’s unbelievable..only today a girl told me not to pay for the water I bought from her all cuz I flirted a little with her for fun. It’s that extremely easy for me but the problem is I’m not dating because I haven’t found anyone I like in years.

I don’t know what use a girl will even have in my life, all they offer these days is their body. I don’t see why I should be spending my money on someone just so people can see me strolling with a woman. Why do I need a woman? Why are they emotionally blackmailing me to be strolling with a female by force? Women I have created so many threads about how I think y’all are trying to ruin my life.

Keep gossiping me, I won’t date till I’m probably out of this dead country and then I can meet people who are not seeing me as an “update” to cash out. Rubbish, na by force to date girl?

Guy for you to be complaining about not wanting to spend on women shows you are still struggling financially and secondly,i don't understand you when you said you don't have their time,it is either you are gay or you are a chronic masturbator

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Mko123(m): 9:43am On Dec 08, 2021
I close my ears to another form of blackmail from nairaland. This is December, holes need to cash out.
Las las then go still use this thread blackmail some SIMP

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Tbvxl: 9:45am On Dec 08, 2021
angry
jieta: 9:45am On Dec 08, 2021
Op! If you keep listening to peoples opinions about your life you'll get stagnated.

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illicit(m): 9:45am On Dec 08, 2021
Fvck one of their sisters

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ipobarethieves: 9:45am On Dec 08, 2021
sad
McOluOmo: 9:45am On Dec 08, 2021
F
Kiddogarcia(m): 9:46am On Dec 08, 2021
Ok
arthurwillia(m): 9:46am On Dec 08, 2021
Prettydevil:
If I’m always satisfied sexually , I mean every single fetish In my head regularly then please what do I need an Amaka or a chidera for? What else will she be doing around me? Nagging? Abeg
Keep living in your world of fantasy
You are a gay baba, you get satisfied sexually? But what do you need Amaka for? Please the person that satisfied you sexually na man bAa? MTxhew

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2ndchildhood(m): 9:46am On Dec 08, 2021
NovesaTillie:
Are you gay? undecided

You sound gay.
Waste of pinis.

Come let's spend some time together.
I give you 2 months you'll be talking about getting married.

I use to be exactly like this op, thinking I could always survive without a woman, thinking women have nothing to add to my life apart from sex, always thinking like 'mosdii', that "women are out to add more salts to men's injury instead of softening it", always thinking being single is the best.


Until I met a beautiful damsel every nigga out there would kill to have, dated for like 7 months, then I discovered that I and 'mosdii' was right..

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Lagosfinder(m): 9:47am On Dec 08, 2021
Desperate people

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