NewStats: 3,262,297 , 8,176,739 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 June 2025 at 06:01 PM 3z3o1e

King44:
Just make sure that you have a job that keep you busy almost 24 hours and you drop money regularly cos if you dey house on a steady you may seem crazy, that could even be the end of your friendship with her.

With men it could be crazy
With women na another level of craziness

Above all, no dey house, get busy and assist her with money to make up for your absence.

Money for what.. She is nt my gf...... I can only assist if I av, I'm nt obligated too.
And we will be paying the rent together

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tellwisdom:


Na by force to work for island??...come make I give you work for site...Come de offload cement.

Sir.. Do u pray or wish that ur brother or sis to carry cement for site after graduating from school ??

Anyways, I don do laborer B4.. Carry cement, Carry block and that was then..


Now I am a graduate and God will not let me go back to site carrying cement again.. I went to school so as not to carry cement or block in site.. I did all and hustle to make a good grade not to carry cement.


I will soar high despite the difficulties.

Thanks

Timekeeper:


Money for what.. She is nt my gf...... I can only assist if I av, I'm nt obligated too.
And we will be paying the rent together

She doesn't have to be your gf. Just treat her the same way you would treat your girl, you can drop money once a while cos always could give her entitlement mentality.

Those her my 2 cents women are complicated.

An when you begin live with people you go know their true nature, doing that doesn't make you a simp but shows that you also care about running the house.

Timekeeper:
Advice Needed. I Have An Issue Bothering My Soul And Life..

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Do what you have to do.

King44:
She doesn't have to be your gf. Just treat her the same way you would treat your girl, you can drop money once a while cos always could give her entitlement mentality.

Those her my 2 cents women are complicated.

An when you begin live with people you go know their true nature, doing that doesn't make you a simp but shows that you also care about running the house.

Thank you bro... I appreciate.. She trust me bcox of our history and she knows how nice and responsible I am. So she doesn't have any problem with me..

I am jsut scared of women sumtyms

kaywhy09:


Do what you have to do.

Which is?

Timekeeper:


How and where..money creates alternatives..

When there is no money, no much alternatives

begin first.... Your Co workers should be able to help

Timekeeper:


And the price is like how much..

If I had much, I wunt consider staying

3k-20k a week or you can extend it, but you'll be staying with people. If you've been to the university, you'll have no problem with it.

Babara1994:
If I were you, I'll increase my options by resuming work first, hoping I get a place at work or someone at work who could render a better alternative. If you work in a manufacturing/engineering firm, there is a strong possiblity that you'd find a place to stay until weekends.

You can also find a co-worker who might give you one help or the other regarding ease of transportation or a much better accommodation.




Now, if you have exhausted all the above possibilities, you can now consider staying with her, but you should this saying from the Bible:
"Better to dwell on the top of the roof than to live with a contentious woman."

For your own good, I hope the lady you're staying with isn't a contentious woman. E get why

OP, take this advice to bank. In betting world, this is SureBanker!!! A word is a enough for the wise!!!!

Timekeeper:



Thank you bro... I appreciate.. She trust me bcox of our history and she knows how nice and responsible I am. So she doesn't have any problem with me..

I am jsut scared of women sumtyms

since you guys have not lived together under one roof for long before so don't be too comfortable.

Timekeeper:


Sir.. Do u pray or wish that ur brother or sis to carry cement for site after graduating from school ??

Anyways, I don do laborer B4.. Carry cement, Carry block and that was then..


Now I am a graduate and God will not let me go back to site carrying cement again.. I went to school so as not to carry cement or block in site.. I did all and hustle to make a good grade not to carry cement.


I will soar high despite the difficulties.

Thanks

You cannot offload cement in Nigeria but when asked to do same abroad, u go rush am. No be so??

Ok, what’s your result; to start with??

Styluss:
begin first.... Your Co workers should be able to help

U shud understand sumtins..

I can't just go to a worker then and start telling them my problem.. It's nt okay.

Atleast I must have spent some time there B4 doing such.... And even now, I don't know anyone there. Not even one...


And B4 i get acquainted to them, I must spend some months there, during those times, I have to be staying somewhere

U dnt really understand me

tellwisdom:


You cannot offload cement in Nigeria but when asked to do same abroad, u go rush am. No be so??

Ok, what’s your result; to start with??

Sir... God will d sumtin good for me.... It is nt my desire to do such again.. I asked if u can wish ur bro or sis after struggling to go to school and graduate well to go back to site and Carry cement, u didn't give me a reply.

Hi, someone recommended a website rentsmalsmall. I checked it out and I think it's cool. If you don't mind we can share an apartment. Quote me if you're interested.

ThickSharon123:


3k-20k a week or you can extend it, but you'll be staying with people. If you've been to the university, you'll have no problem with it.

Not a chance... 20k a week thanks for ur advice but forget it .....


And no university around here on the island Dt is close....

Han ahn 20k a week for how much salary.. When I am still on probation..

Forget it.. Thanks for ur contributions

Mariangeles:


I no vex nah.
Yes, aja means dog.



Maybe it's hyped because it's the city that never sleeps.

yeah al thanks to insecurity

LOLZ!!! Guy, women dont operate like that oh!! She could make a drastic turn at you overnight and they are not as considerate as men. If you must stay then I suggest you make the full payment yourself.

Timekeeper:


If we pay together, even if anyone must leave, certainly it can't be me... Las las she will take her properties away and I will try getting another one... Dt is the worst Dt can happen if we have paid

Timekeeper:


Sir... God will d sumtin good for me.... It is nt my desire to do such again.. I asked if u can wish ur bro or sis after struggling to go to school and graduate well to go back to site and Carry cement, u didn't give me a reply.

National Diploma upper credit.

Bsc 2nd Class upper....

You are going too far. Incase you find anywhere available for me to carry cement and get paid, pls recommend me. At least I won’t have to be bathing on the road in AJAH

Baba forget all these people saying you should rent a place or anything like that.
Stay with the babe, focus your Monday to Friday on work. Weekend, you do football and other things to keep yourself busy. Before you know it, six months has come and gone.

Na you know how be for you, no matter how woman matter hard reach its better than that mainland to Island stress. Life na in stages

God bless you!

Hi, I sent you a pm. I am also urgently in need of accommodation on the Island or somewhere close to the Island, however small. I am hoping we can pull resources together to work something out for ourselves.

Regards

Timekeeper:


If I must get another place, money for rent, agreement ń commission especially now Dt things are too hard.. I can't afford it


Most people are saying I should get a place.. The truth is that it's nt easy... Even my brother place Dt I stay temporarily, I am planning to leave bcox the place don dey choke....

We agreed to pay 1 year which is 30k each but I opted for 6 months.. I am hoping miracle can happen and God will take me to next level....
I am trying... But she said we need to pay the rent this weekend so landland wunt come and harass her.... It is really closing in on me.... Infact I am currently sourcing for my own part of the money

I can't reject the job and stay jobless.... I am not the type Dt loves staying home and doing nothing while others are at work. So this change Dt I got, I want to make use of it .


Attention: if there is any guy here staying on the island Dt I can squat with, I will really appreciate.. I am of good behavior and a Christian... I don't drink nor smoke, I mind my business..... I am an active person Dt seeks opportunities and my drive for success is unending...

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/6865390/need-anyone-staying-island-lekki

janzguy:
LOLZ!!! Guy, women dont operate like that oh!! She could make a drastic turn at you overnight and they are not as considerate as men. If you must stay then I suggest you make the full payment yourself.

I don't av the money to pay full ooo... Except we share. Money no dey.. Bro

Trojan8:
Baba forget all these people saying you should rent a place or anything like that.
Stay with the babe, focus your Monday to Friday on work. Weekend, you do football and other things to keep yourself busy. Before you know it, six months has come and gone.

Na you know how be for you, no matter how woman matter hard reach its better than that mainland to Island stress. Life na in stages

God bless you!

Thank u so much boss.. U too much bros

YOU ARE A MUMU THE GIRL WANTS TO USE YOU TO HANDLE HER RENT AND YOU TOO ARE FALLING FOR IT I KNOW YOU ARE NOT THINKING STRAIGHT CAUS EYOU FEEL YOU STAYING WITH HER AND HAVING ACCESS TO HER WOULD MEAN FREE NACKS BUT USE YOUR HEAD SHES THE ONE ACTUALLY USING YOU NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.

She’s quite ambitious though, e no easy for person to leave all the luxury for him papa house go live under such conditions.

chaloskyx:
YOU ARE A MUMU THE GIRL WANTS TO USE YOU TO HANDLE HER RENT AND YOU TOO ARE FALLING FOR IT I KNOW YOU ARE NOT THINKING STRAIGHT CAUS EYOU FEEL YOU STAYING WITH HER AND HAVING ACCESS TO HER WOULD MEAN FREE NACKS BUT USE YOUR HEAD SHES THE ONE ACTUALLY USING YOU NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.

But the both of them are contributing na

Kindly endure things will get better

Another SIMPle man .. Just tell us ur mind

Then if you must stay, there are certain things to do to keep your peace and sanity.

1. Always financially in the running of the house. Give her money for food even if you are not going to eat the food that day.

2. Never stay at home or indoors for too long. Even in your free days and time, dont stay at home for too long, you could take a stroll or go watch football (Women will disrespect you too quickly when you are always in their faces).

3. Try and avoid confrontations or issues.. she is not your girlfriend but your room mate.

4. Always have it at the back of our mind that it is her house and not your house or our house. But her house!!!!!

5. Never get angry when she comes back home late. Even if you must get angry dont overreact, cos nshe is your room mate and not your babe.

6. Make sure your financially!!!!!!!!!!!

7. Make sure your financially!!!!!!!!!!!

8. Make sure your financially!!!!!!!!!!!

Timekeeper:


I don't av the money to pay full ooo... Except we share. Money no dey.. Bro

You could be very right bro. I have seen women and known what they are capable of doing..... Its better the guy just starts sorting out his own accommodation immediately he lives in with her. All this could just be she looking for who will pay rents for now that she is down.

chaloskyx:
YOU ARE A MUMU THE GIRL WANTS TO USE YOU TO HANDLE HER RENT AND YOU TOO ARE FALLING FOR IT I KNOW YOU ARE NOT THINKING STRAIGHT CAUS EYOU FEEL YOU STAYING WITH HER AND HAVING ACCESS TO HER WOULD MEAN FREE NACKS BUT USE YOUR HEAD SHES THE ONE ACTUALLY USING YOU NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.

You need to also ask yourself one very important question, what is the possible of she getting enough funds to still packout in 6 months or 1 year time. Judging that she no longer has money now.

Timekeeper:


E no fit work bro.. Tfare alone has killed me


Not possible bro imagine 1500 to 1800 plus hold up and stress... Daily

Compared to 300 to 400 daily..

Na Ogun state your brother dey live? 1k5 to 1k8 even people who stay in Abule egba to VI dont pay up to that