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I have discovered that gentle and humble males seem to be attracted to tough females, while tough males seem to like gentle females.

Is it because opposites attract?


Some gentle males want women who can tease them(the males), women who are outspoken and etc

This is my humble observation over the years.


I am not claiming to be gentle or humble but I love women who are outspoken, who can tease me, who can do whatever she wants with my body, provided she is not causing me permanent damage or injury.


What is your take on this?

Please there is no cause for insult/abuse.


If you disagree with me,it is not enough to be abusive.

Apt

I'm calm and gentle and I want someone just like me.

anochuko01:
I'm calm and gentle and I want someone just like me.

Ok Sir.

Thank you.

Okay

Where is research and where did you make your observations??

You just switched that topic on frontpage

I am like a cutlass, one side is sharp while the other is blunt......I give you any side you prefer. I am dating someone with similar character, when you see her innocent looks you would think she can't hurt a fly but provoke her then she will show you her bad side.


That's how we roll.

It's good so as to balance things. The area the gentleman cannot handle because of his gentleness, the tough wife handles it. Vice versa. There are some nonsense the gentleman won't be able stop from people, or people might want to take advantage of him due to his gentleness. The wife comes into the matter to stop it. E.g A tough woman won't take it likely if another woman or even man talks to her husband rudely in her presence. She will be very hot with anyone who dares. Likewise the man, if his tough wife lands herself into trouble, he will use his gentility or gentlemanism handle the issue or quench the fire. So, it's good. I'm gentleman, so, i will need a woman who is tough(sharp mouth woman) but not a tiger sha. I hope u gerrit?

Truvelisback:
It's good so as to balance things. The area the gentleman cannot handle because of his gentleness, the tough wife handles it. Vice versa. There are some nonsense the gentleman won't be able stop from people, or people might want to take advantage of him due to his gentleness. The wife comes into the matter to stop it. E.g A tough woman won't take it likely if another woman or even man talks to her husband rudely in her presence. She will be very hot with anyone who dares. Likewise the man, if his tough wife lands herself into trouble, he will use his gentility or gentlemanism handle the issue or quench the fire. So, it's good. I'm gentleman, so, i will need a woman who is tough(sharp mouth woman) but not a tiger sha. I hope u gerrit?

Ok Sir.

Thank you.

Bahamas95:
I am like a cutlass, one side is sharp while the other is blunt......I give you any side you prefer. I am dating someone with similar character, when you see her innocent looks you would think she can't hurt a fly but provoke her then she will show you her bad side.


That's how we roll.

Thanks Sir.

You've said it all, Opposite Attracts.
Just as Negative and Positive produce light to balance things

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
Where is research and where did you make your observations??

You just switched that topic on frontpage

Like I said, it is just my personal observation over time.




Your observation could be different.


In the nature of things, people have different opinions on all matters.


This topic could even serve as something close to a research.


I had wanted to start a thread on this before, but I forgot.


When I saw the topic on the front page, I then ed.

Divoc19:
You've said it all, Opposite Attracts.
Just as Negative and Positive produce light to balance things

Ok.

Thank you Ma.

7victor:


Ok Sir.

Thank you.

My pleasure. Another reason again is that, when a gentleman( who is quiet in nature or rarely talks) is in a relationship/married to a gentlewoman, the relationship will be very dull or boring. These i have noticed from experience.

Truvelisback:
My pleasure. Another reason again is that, when a gentleman( who is quiet in nature or rarely talks) is in a relationship/married to a gentlewoman, the relationship will be very dull or boring. These i have noticed from experience.

I cannot relate at all

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