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There is this female colleague of mine I like very much, although she is a corper just like me too. We are kind of getting close to each other and hugging each other to the extent that people around us have started thinking that we are dating each other but truth be told we are not dating. Deep down my heart, I want us to date each other but don't know the best approach to use to tell her, although some of her female colleagues have told me that she have a boyfriend but I still like her.

So, please gurus and professors of romanceland of nairaland, what's the best approach to this? My friends have told me to make my feelings known to her but I'm afraid that if I tell her my feelings directly, she might leave me. So I'm just asking the best way to approach this. Should I make my feelings known to her on WhatsApp or should I tell her face to face.
I'm an introvert who normally doesn't know how to express my feelings to girls that I like. I have missed countless girls who love me because of this.

Please, nairalanders, I need your help

Take her on a date and profess your love to her..simple.

Milesbillions:
There is this female colleague of mine I like very much, although she is a corper just like me too. We are kind of getting close to each other and hugging each other to the extent that people around us have started thinking that we are dating each other but truth be told we are not dating. Deep down my heart, I want us to date each other but don't know the best approach to use to tell her, although some of her female colleagues have told me that she have a boyfriend but I still like her.

So, please gurus and professors of romanceland of nairaland, what's the best approach to this? My friends have told me to make my feelings known to her but I'm afraid that if I tell her my feelings directly, she might leave me. So I'm just asking the best way to approach this. Should I make my feelings known to her on WhatsApp or should I tell her face to face.
I'm an introvert who normally doesn't know how to express my feelings to girls that I like. I have missed countless girls who love me because of this.

Please, nairalanders, I need your help

a typical female corper is not looking for a felow struggling corper but she will want managers in that office. Mr man focus. The best you can get is to nack her not date her. Chat her well and introduce naughty chats. Nacks fit show

Milesbillions:
There is this female colleague of mine I like very much, although she is a corper just like me too. We are kind of getting close to each other and hugging each other to the extent that people around us have started thinking that we are dating each other but truth be told we are not dating. Deep down my heart, I want us to date each other but don't know the best approach to use to tell her, although some of her female colleagues have told me that she have a boyfriend but I still like her.

So, please gurus and professors of romanceland of nairaland, what's the best approach to this? My friends have told me to make my feelings known to her but I'm afraid that if I tell her my feelings directly, she might leave me. So I'm just asking the best way to approach this. Should I make my feelings known to her on WhatsApp or should I tell her face to face.
I'm an introvert who normally doesn't know how to express my feelings to girls that I like. I have missed countless girls who love me because of this.

Please, nairalanders, I need your help

Tears loading.................
Stubborn Nigerians, they keep on wanting and ending just like a simp.

Mennnnnnnn,you've got to man up and tell her straight up..... Highest wey she fit do na to say NO.....And saying NO to your advances no be big deal......But the fact is that you've got to ask her out first.. Whether na face to face oh,or na through WhatsApp oh,just do am..

Milesbillions:
There is this female colleague of mine I like very much, although she is a corper just like me too. We are kind of getting close to each other and hugging each other to the extent that people around us have started thinking that we are dating each other but truth be told we are not dating. Deep down my heart, I want us to date each other but don't know the best approach to use to tell her, although some of her female colleagues have told me that she have a boyfriend but I still like her.

So, please gurus and professors of romanceland of nairaland, what's the best approach to this? My friends have told me to make my feelings known to her but I'm afraid that if I tell her my feelings directly, she might leave me. So I'm just asking the best way to approach this. Should I make my feelings known to her on WhatsApp or should I tell her face to face.
I'm an introvert who normally doesn't know how to express my feelings to girls that I like. I have missed countless girls who love me because of this.

Please, nairalanders, I need your help

Don't tell her any such shit. Simply go for the pussy. She'll be the one to come for dating if she can do that with you.

Telling her anything about dating is likely to get you a resounding no.

Young girls don't want any relationship with a struggling copper. You can Bleep if they like you, but you can't really keep.

No had feeling, a closed mouth is a closed destiny.


Since both of you are always together to the d point of hugging each other tightly that means the food is almost 70% done.
Just tell her ur mind she will appreciate ur boldness and won't leave u even if she say no she open legs for u.
It is much much easier to bang a girl that both of you spend much together, be it at work, school, church etc.
Girls feel more comfortable with a colleague.

Same happened to me during my service we are always together we do lie together in same bed but when I asked her out she said no.

But las las we ended up kissing and constantly banging each other.

Milesbillions:
There is this female colleague of mine I like very much, although she is a corper just like me too. We are kind of getting close to each other and hugging each other to the extent that people around us have started thinking that we are dating each other but truth be told we are not dating. Deep down my heart, I want us to date each other but don't know the best approach to use to tell her, although some of her female colleagues have told me that she have a boyfriend but I still like her.

So, please gurus and professors of romanceland of nairaland, what's the best approach to this? My friends have told me to make my feelings known to her but I'm afraid that if I tell her my feelings directly, she might leave me. So I'm just asking the best way to approach this. Should I make my feelings known to her on WhatsApp or should I tell her face to face.
I'm an introvert who normally doesn't know how to express my feelings to girls that I like. I have missed countless girls who love me because of this.

Please, nairalanders, I need your help

Invite her to your house and try to have sex with her, apply pressure if she is skeptical, she'll eventually give in

All this copers wey dey serve wey get BF already go just dey catch feelings for camp anyhow, I fear them o.


Na person go think say him GF/fiancee dey loyal until she go service and come back with wider and sluggish pkekus..

hmmmm
opportunity cums at wans
try ur luck

Spider20:

Tears loading.................
Stubborn Nigerians, they keep on wanting and ending just like a simp.

I don't think you know or understand the real meaning of a simp......


Megan I'm a redpiller too but i do am with sense. Im a great fan of ubunja, and the rest of them but that will not make me not to show feelings to somebody I'm having it for

brosom:
All this copers wey dey serve wey get BF already go just dey catch feelings for camp anyhow, I fear them o.


Na person go think say him GF/fiancee dey loyal until she go service and come back with wider and sluggish pkekus..

Lol

EzegeNdiigbo:
Take her on a date and profess your love to her..simple.

Hope it won't cost much, going on a date with a girl all because I wanna tell her I like her which she already knows but she is actually waiting for me to open my mouth to tell.....

Sometimes women are funny I swear

ednut1:
a typical female corper is not looking for a felow struggling corper but she will want managers in that office. Mr man focus. The best you can get is to nack her not date her. Chat her well and introduce naughty chats. Nacks fit show

Is actually a school not a company....

This nacking everybody just dey talk like this....she is church girl too, so I think that knacking aspect might not be so easy oooo.

Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn,you've got to man up and tell her straight up..... Highest wey she fit do na to say NO.....And saying NO to your advances no be big deal......But the fact is that you've got to ask her out first.. Whether na face to face oh,or na through WhatsApp oh,just do am..

Thank you BOSS.

Asking her out means taking her to a restaurant and buying food for both of us, then when we are eating, I can fire my feelings to get right? Hope this is what you mean by taking her out

Fasindo:





No had feeling, a closed mouth is a closed destiny.


Since both of you are always together to the d point of hugging each other tightly that means the food is almost 70% done.
Just tell her ur mind she will appreciate ur boldness and won't leave u even if she say no she open legs for u.
It is much much easier to bang a girl that both of you spend much together, be it at work, school, church etc.
Girls feel more comfortable with a colleague.

Same happened to me during my service we are always together we do lie together in same bed but when I asked her out she said no.

But las las we ended up kissing and constantly banging each other.

Wow.... that's a great experience bro..

Abeg can you give me the lines that you used in asking her out?

EzegeNdiigbo:
Take her on a date and profess your love to her..simple.

useless advice by a simp..

I give you that kind advice base on your write-up. and moreover she had ed the four wall of university.so taking her out on a DATE gonna make it more ROMANTIC and save the stress of long toasting you know...

Milesbillions:


Hope it won't cost much, going on a date with a girl all because I wanna tell her I like her which she already knows but she is actually waiting for me to open my mouth to tell.....

Sometimes women are funny I swear

Milesbillions:


Is actually a school not a company....

This nacking everybody just dey talk like this....she is church girl too, so I think that knacking aspect might not be so easy oooo.

why should she gree for you. Gals wey ready to marry in 6 months while you will probably marry 8 years later. Forget church gal its all a scam

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Bro
I advise you not to ask her out. That's the fastest way to play yourself. She will definitely say no. I'm speaking from experience. Just go with the flow. Be close friends with her and make her be the one to question your relationship. Girls don't really like putting a label on friendships with guys cause it enslaved them in a way. Just my thoughts. I also advise you to read The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. It will teach you how to seduce and manipulate people into love and submission.

Today nah 21-10-21 month go soon end and Pom Pom go enter carry your allowance go do shopping for her without spending a dime on yourself trust me she go woo you herself.

Hope she no dy collect money from u
Dah part dy important too

Brokeboygram:
Bro
I advise you not to ask her out. That's the fastest way to play yourself. She will definitely say no. I'm speaking from experience. Just go with the flow. Be close friends with her and make her be the one to question your relationship. Girls don't really like putting a label on friendships with guys cause it enslaved them in a way. Just my thoughts. I also advise you to read The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. It will teach you how to seduce and manipulate people into love and submission.

Boss, thats what I'm currently doing now, I'm not a guy that is into all this relationship stuff because of the cunning nature of girls but when I saw this girl, I immediately developed one kind of likeness for her. So now, I'm just flowing with her for now, but sooner or later, Im gonna tell her that I like her and I want us to be more than friends. Simple and short. Then, from there, I will see where the flow we lead us.

Bundle002:
Hope she no dy collect money from u
Dah part dy important too

No..... she has not done anything of such for now.

she is a good girl, even if she comes up with that part of billing, I know how to dogde am bro.

I'm a redpiller too.

bloody mrafucker coper with android phone, that relies on allowee wants to ask a fellow females coper out, TUEEEEH.

Don't play yourself into her hand GCFR of Simp Republic.

Let me just give you small clue, so it won't be as if I watch you to enter fire..

.What you will do is, Make yourself Scarce for her, but show her love through phone,wave to her and act like you're focusing on something or someone else. (if you're too available you will loose value.)

When you appear scarce to her, she will be the one looking for you to know why, during that period you will then take your chance.

EzegeNdiigbo:
Take her on a date and profess your love to her..simple.

Don't try this simpish approach . Wgat a retarded way of doing things

Brokeboygram:
Bro
I advise you not to ask her out. That's the fastest way to play yourself. She will definitely say no. I'm speaking from experience. Just go with the flow. Be close friends with her and make her be the one to question your relationship. Girls don't really like putting a label on friendships with guys cause it enslaved them in a way. Just my thoughts. I also advise you to read The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. It will teach you how to seduce and manipulate people into love and submission.

Manipulating people into love and submission? This is why there are so many failed relationships. You can't have love if it's not genuine. It won't last

EASYGURU:


Don't try this simpish approach . Wgat a retarded way of doing things

What's your approach then? Let's learn from the sages

OMOJOHN001:
bloody mrafucker coper with android phone, that relies on allowee wants to ask a fellow females coper out, TUEEEEH.

Don't play yourself into her hand GCFR of Simp Republic.

Let me just give you small clue, so it won't be as if I watch you to enter fire..

.What you will do is, Make yourself Scarce for her, but show her love through phone,wave to her and act like you're focusing on something or someone else. (if you're too available you will loose value.)

When you appear scarce to her, she will be the one looking for you to know why, during that period you will then take your chance.

Noted BOSS �

But I'm not a bloody mrafucker coper as you wrote above.

Anyways, thanks for your input. Much appreciated

EASYGURU:


Don't try this simpish approach . Wgat a retarded way of doing things

I already know that if I do it, I will fall into a trap. So, doing it is already out of option for me