NewStats: 3,259,774 , 8,170,890 topics. Date: Monday, 26 May 2025 at 12:30 AM 5a4621

Octopusssy:
Oga, what is the measurement of the said oversized preek? I want to check something

Lol bad shald.

Too big!
Stay toooo long!!
Oh boy!!!
Woow

rosechika1994:
I have met someone like that, you said she said she never had sex, test her yourself like a man, be a lion and the truth will come up, I stayed with someone like these for over 3 years not knowing that someone have been shopping her till the day I truly shopped her well, that day I knew everything.

That happens most times.

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

She doesn't love you. Live with it.

Thank you everyone once again

Slim fit it now

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Which one be private part again?

E no get name?

Ficient:
must you put everything inside all the time. if 60 to 70 percent enter manage am like that. if you are doing it right na she go push the remaining percentage enter, toto no be your mate. Except she has a rare condition or something else wrong entirely (like body odor, bad breath, no luv) and she's just using the size of your gbola as excuse.

Kolo

Since today is independence... Am sure she will definitely agree to kpomkpom with you. Except she is not a patriotic citizen.

Octopusssy:
Oga, what is the measurement of the said oversized preek? I want to check something

The truth is that an average dck size for one lady can be big for another lady and a very big size for one lady is seen as just OK for another.

It depends on srxual exposure.

chatinent:
Make sex enjoyable, then, since that is the only option you both have. Of course, you know cheating is never an option.

You never indulged premaritally, she likewise. Good one!

Big Gbenga shouldn't be a problem with the perfect how-tos.

Now let's hit the bulls eye!

Try lubrication, fair play, lubrication again.

Don't replicate porn roles you watched. Don't watch it... because you'll start replacing her with the other figures you fantasize on.

Don't do fantasy oo! Just have it as a blessing of marriage!

Try not to be a sexaddict too! You know na person daughter. You can't be having it twelve times daily na, baba. You both need to discuss on the perfect time!

Tell her hoo haaa she has to learn to love sex; that's an only option for her too!


She has to be in with the right stimulation, yeah? Learn it.

Make stimulation good.


And where it's about to hit 10pm, reach for the sky.

I still feel you missed sth during courting. Yes, no to premarital sex but you had to discuss this situation since you think you know it already.

By the way, be a stimulant! It works!

Enjoy.
Lol. Don't tag me.

Let her know sex is important to you... Anytime she gives u sex be sweet to her... Buy her gift, help her in the kitchen etc... Anytime she doesn't just keep to yourself n ignore her.. It's works for women trust me

In as much as sex is what perfect a union you just have to make sure it's not one sided. Not every woman likes sex, just as not every man like sex. Thou everything in marriage is endurance she herself need to be talked to... She needs more of the advice than you do. A woman who can not make her man happy in bed should not expect her man to make her happy in monetary aspect. Ask her the best way she can enjoy sex... If she's the type that needs you to turn her wet before you penetrate or she give you Mouth Action for her to feel hony. Seriously you cant be hony and want to mate a woman who is not in the mood. pre-intimacy before sex is advisable and if you can't, make sure you know her erogenous zone this will make you know where to touch her to be in the mood. And please don't mate her like she's a prostitute. Ensure you are emotionally connected during sex so u can enjoy it and cum at ones

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls
Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Opposite.

Nonsense.

DavidNative:
She has been exposed to porn in the past from what she said. All saying am comparing her to other ladies. i had bought books sex to help, she enjoys its when i perform romance and oral o her, but when i request for sex or she should give me some, she says she cant cos of my size and i should give her time, but its been a year, hence why i had to voice out
Thanks alot once again for your comment ma

Let her take watermelon frequently

She does not like sex or some weird psychological stuff.

If you've not had a child then this is the best you can get. After childbirth, you'll have sex prob once in 6 months.

You're having it less frequently, as a married man you should be having it atleast 2-3 times per week! Ordinary boyfriend have it 3times per week how much more you who have a wife at home. If she cannot fulfill her conjugal duties, get a side chick to help her or you become miserable and sex staved

DavidNative:
hmm. Thank you Sir 4 this, this is what i had been doing, i had tried not to even react negatively since, but could get tiring, sometimes i had to masturbate of if i cannot bear it again , last week wen i brought it up with her even in a very gentle and romantic atmosphere , we could not sleep as she was crying all through that i was not understanding , i had to plead with her never to bring it up before we could sleep at midnight

Alright ma. i will try that

RosyIsBlessed:


Let her take watermelon frequently

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Welcome to the club men!
My wife complains that my private part is medium size and that am a 4minutes man.
Bros, don't kill yourself with too much thinking......women generally don't know what they want.

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Hmmm, I feel you.

Just relax and calm down.

The truth is that sexual matters are not always what you read or watch in porns.

There's a side of your wife yet to be discovered! Take your time to discover it.

Don't back down on the love languages you've been speaking. However, you may need to withdraw from those sexual gimmicks you've been trying to use. She may not even like them.

Why not try jisting and see if she'll like that. Sexual preferences are as diverse as people. Find out hers.

Let me tell you, sex for newly married is huge with a lot of fantasies, so I can feel you.

Believe it, women too loves it, but theirs are a bit complex.

For a guy, except the wife has emotionally wounded him, all he needs to be ready for sex is her body.

For a lady, it may be more, How do you know that? Ask her.

Talk about other things of interest to her. She may love outings. Find out!

All the best.

KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

After you don talk finish, then you ed your status

[quote author=DavidNative post=106340236]Pls i need an honest and kind advice . I will deeply appreciate [she just needs to understand or get another wife]

Gate050:

Was the name given to you by her too? FREELANE33 Liar

He was hallucinating perhaps. Or he's a serial liar and doesn't care whether what he says is true or not.

DavidNative:
hmm. Thank you Sir 4 this, this is what i had been doing, i had tried not to even react negatively since, but could get tiring, sometimes i had to masturbate of if i cannot bear it again , last week wen i brought it up with her even in a very gentle and romantic atmosphere , we could not sleep as she was crying all through that i was not understanding , i had to plead with her never to bring it up before we could sleep at midnight

Are you in Port Harcourt?

You have to understand with her and adjust as one has to come down to the other partner frequency which seems easier than the other partner to ungrade

Wahala

Alright Sir, i will get on this

IDERAWOLE:


Hmmm, I feel you.

Just relax and calm down.

The truth is that sexual matters are not always you read or watch in porns.

There's a side of your wife yet to be discovered! Take your time to discover it.

Don't back down the love languages you've been speaking. However, you may need to withdraw from those sexual gimmicks you've been trying to use. She may not even like them.

Why not try jisting and see if she'll like that. Sexual preferences are as diverse as people. Find out hers.

Let me tell you, sex for newly married is huge with a lot of fantasies, so I can feel you.

Believe it,women too loves it, but theirs are a bit complex.

For a guy, except the wife has emotionally wounded him, all he needs to be ready for sex is her body.

For a lady, you need more, How do you know that? Ask her.

Talk about other things of interest to her. She may love outings. Find out!

All the best.

I feel your pain
I will advise that you be gentle while making love and don't try to force yourself on her and don't insert it all

MASTERYANKEE:
Get one side chick pregnant not time men

Oh, you want him to come back and start lamenting on how the side chick is being rude after childbirth or how she's being lazy and all?

Side chick is not the solution. He brought the problem on himself. Didn't they both see each other's genitals while dating/courting?

iomoge2:
One mans meat…. Mschewwwww

That’s why it’s good to test your goods before you pay.

See as this my sister is frustrating this man.

Oga buy her stimulant like Spanish fly and co.
Buy pills to turn her on big time.
Add intimacy gadgets to your game
Lubricant
Tell her to try cow girl
Do it in the bathroom or kitchen

And if you know you are too long, don’t penetrate her fully.

You can sexually frustrate her by putting only the tip inside….. she would beg you to go deeper.

I hate what I hate.

Hian, lol at sexually frustrate her, una go kill person with laugh for nairaland.unblockandhide.com

Lagos , why?

RosyIsBlessed:


Are you in Port Harcourt?

Sex once a month is too much? That's outrageous! Should be at least twice per week.

He needs to understand her sexual needs? Can't she communicate?

Clearly they're not sexually compatible and that's why no sex before marriage is a recipe for disaster!

nairaman66:
Even the Bible says, too much of everything is bad. Sometime, just do little and leave the rest, it is not every time you’d spend hours on top of her, you have to learn to understand her sexual needs.

Forget all these people who says big dickk is this and that, I spend minimum of 1hrs on my wife etc. You can’t believe all these! You are having sex and at the same time being the time keeper?

There is honor in moderation.

yuping:
Until I'm married I still don't have The to advice you, let me wait for elders.

You no wan answer university question when you are still in secondary school. That is good of you.

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Sadly your marriage will eventually fail. If you dont have a child yet, just let go no matter how hard it feels. With this experience, in the future I am sure you wont buy 'No Testing' again.

Good luck bro