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A nairaland female question me: You have so many sob stories. How do your friends cope with you and all this sadness around you? I am responding by writing

Why Some People Need To Leave Your Life.

I once encounter a prophetic service where a man received a prophecy about his act of giving and charity. This man was giving help to some certain persons but yet he was not receiving any financial reward from God as the scripture says that he would. In his life, he began to wonder why he was not receiving financial reward from God. One day he encounter a prophet of God and God began to speak to the man why he was not receiving any financial help from Him.

Through the prophet, God told the man that the reason why he refuse to give to him financial favor in return over his good act of charity is because he was giving to the wrong set of people. He was giving help to some certain people in his life and those people God wants to deal with them and his giving to these set of people is preventing God from dealing with them.

THE MESSAGE

There are certain type of people that will (must) leave your life before God will channel you or bless you. In most cases, these category and set of people in your life are friends and family that God's will (must) remove them out from your life so that He can personally work on you and channel you to greatness.

God must remove them from your life, so that He can personally deal with them.

In most cases, if God bless you and these set of people are still in your life, they will become more of a trouble to your peace and well being.

MY EXPERIENCE

God has called me into the ministry of help and charity and I have been doing it for 17 years without expecting any reward. Whenever I tried harder to carry some people along so that I can share my life joy with them, some how and some way, something must happen. Something that is beyond the natural will always happen that will disconnect (us) or me out from their life.

I discovered that, I am free to help outsiders but only those who God wants, are the only ones that will be in my life. No matter how hard I endure or tried to graft them to my life, there must seperation. It is mainly the devils in their life or God Himself, that will remove me from their life.

Over the years I have come to acknowledge, It is only those God permit that will be in my life. This is why I no longer make friends with people or desire close friendship

FINAL WORDS

I was taught that we all must pray and allow the Holy Spirit to help us find the people whom we are to take care of, share Christs love and disciple them. God will lead others to find us and take care of us; He has assigned angels to take care of all of us and He will assign the exact people to nurture us for each phase of our lives..

Agreed

Bossose:
Agreed

My brother
You don't need the crowd in your life. You just need one good person that will change or beautify your life.

He does much who loves much. He does much who does a thing well. He does well who serves the common good rather than his own interests.

Lostchild:
Jesusjnr2020 , MariahAngel

A nairaland female question me: You have so many sob stories. How do your friends cope with you and all this sadness around you? I am responding by writing

Why Some People Need To Leave Your Life.

I once encounter a prophetic service where a man received a prophecy about his act of giving and charity. This man was giving help to some certain persons but yet he was not receiving any reward from God as the scripture says that he would. In his life, he began to wonder why he was not receiving financial reward from God. One day he encounter a prophet of God and God began to speak to the man why he was not receiving any financial help from Him.

Through the prophet, God told the man that the reason why he refuse to give to him financial favor in return over his good act of charity is because he was giving to the wrong set of people. He was giving help to some certain people in his life and those people God wants to deal with them and his giving to these set of people is preventing God from dealing with them.

THE MESSAGE

There are certain type of people that will leave your life before God will bless you. In most cases, these category and set of people in your life are friends and family that God's will (must) remove them from your life so that He can personally deal with them.

In most cases if God bless you and these set of people are still in your life, they will become more of a trouble to your peace and well being.

MY EXPERIENCE

God has called me into the ministry of help and charity and I have been doing it for 17 years without expecting any reward. Whenever I tried harder to carry some people along so that I can share my life joy with them, some how and some way, something that is beyond the natural will always happen that will disconnect (us) or me out from their life. I discovered that, only those who God wants, are the only ones that will be in my life. No matter how hard I tried to graft them to my life. I saw that, it is mainly the devils in their life or God Himself, that will remove them from my life. Over the years I have come to acknowledge, It is only those God permit that will be in my life. This is why I no longer make friends or desire close friendship

FINAL WORDS

My mentor - Johan Melchizedek once said that we all must pray and allow the Holy Spirit to help us find the people whom we are to take care of, share Christs love and disciple them. God will lead others to find us and take care of us; He has assigned angels to take care of all of us and He will assign the exact people to nurture us for each phase of our lives..

@ bolded remind of a similar concern a Nlander expressed about me a couple of years back when she saw how committed to the things of God, so I'm not surprised.

It comes with being different from the norm and those of the world, a necessity for anyone who desires to be used to a rare degree by God, so it's part and parcel of the life I live.

As you pointed, separation is a crucial process. There are some things that would never be revealed to someone unless they separate themselves from some certains persons as Abraham had done to Lot his cousin.

It true that following God's Instructions and being led of the Spirit makes separation more effortless. This was how many false disciples of Jesus were separated Him. The Word of the Spirit which He spoke acted as a sift to separate the chaff from the wheat. The same Word of the Spirit that drove away the false disciples is the same Word that attracted the true ones and made them to remain with Him.

That's the example I follow here. I'm not here to make friends but to do the Will of He that sent me here. God's presence means everything to me, so I wouldn't want to lose that for anything in the world, even if everyone else is offended in the process.

I know that all I need is 1like from above. Everything else is a bonus.

Thanks and God bless.

Only a person that has the sentient understanding about the things of God will say what you just said. I m glad because your write up here only makes the thread more unique.

Thanks


[quote author=jesusjnr2020

May be my problem is from too much helping of people,
So I need to stop helping, I help,no one to help me.
I have noticing this stinginess in life of so many men of God I come across, they only take the little I have from me,if I don't have something to give they most to find work that I will do for them for free,and the end of the day what I will get out of my giving out and the hard labour is " GOD BLESS YOU"

I now know why they are using me instead of helping me.

If I tell you my own experience with pastors or god of men, you will see that, what you yourself have seen or experience is true.

A yahoo boy or an unbeliever will easily help you financially than a pastor. Yes, I say this because pastors are the most stingiest set of people I have seen in my life. They will preach sowing and reaping but they them self will never sow to your life.

Before they will give you anything, they have heavily used in the name of God to benefit their purpose.

Please, do not stop helping people, but help strangers. Go and help those beggars out there, they will pray for you and speak blessings from their heart to your life.

Adam. What you feel is %100 true

Adamgeneral12:
May be my problem is from too much helping of people,
So I need to stop helping, I help,no one to help me.
I have noticing this stinginess in life of so many men of God I come across, they only take the little I have from me,if I don't have something to give they most to find work that I will do for them for free,and the end of the day what I will get out of my giving out and the hard labour is " GOD BLESS YOU"

I now know why they are using me instead of helping me.

Lostchild:
If I tell you my own experience with pastors or god of men, you will see that, what you yourself have seen or experience is true.


Please, do not stop helping people, but help strangers. Go and help those beggars out there, they will pray for you and speak blessings from their heart to your life.

Adam. What you feel is %100 true

I'm afraid,because na everyday if I comot I dey see people that beg me for help,some I dey look dem like say dem dey okay than me,yet dem go stop me among many people wet dey waka for road and be demanding for help
I dey give dem o,but I come notice say me wey they help I no dey see someone to help me.
I don't know who be those people, may be na one person dey change to different people,I don't know
Na wetin dey scared me be that

There is the porpular quote that says, givers never lack but in reality "Givers Lack' because Satan always attack true givers.

Yes, you will give all your life for people but you will not find anyone to help you when you need help. Why? because people are selfish

Do not fear humans because your life is in the hands of your God, so no one can use your money to destroy you. Even if they try it, God will justify you because good is stronger than evil.

Help when you can and give when you have. Heaven does nothing until good men do something

Adamgeneral12:

I'm afraid,because na everyday if I comot I dey see people that beg me for help,some I dey look dem like say dem dey okay than me,yet dem go stop me among many people wet dey waka for road and be demanding for help
I dey give dem o,but I come notice say me wey they help I no dey see someone to help me.
I don't know who be those people, may be na one person dey change to different people,I don't know
Na wetin dey scared me be that

Lostchild:
There is the porpular quote that says, givers never lack but in reality "Givers Lack' because Satan always attack true givers.


Help when you can and give when you have. Heaven does nothing until good men do something

I will continue to give as you say.

Adamgeneral12:

I will continue to give as you say.

People give what they have. It is the good you have is what you gave out to people.

Give help when you can but expect the worst from others