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There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

Maybe you didn't include sex in your and conditions with her when you signed up for the relationship. Don't worry, wait few more years, she will consider you. Probably 4 more years.

LOL "Past experience" huh? What type of drug did the girl give you? It's very potent, like very potent. 4 years relationship? Damn! Is this the new format?

Marry her and have all the sex you want with her,that's the right thing to do.

Oga count your losses and move on

Sorry boss. No be all investments dey succeed.

Move on and forget the past.

TheUndercover:


Maybe you didn't include sex in your and conditions with her when you signed up for the relationship. Don't worry, wait few more years, she will consider you. Probably 4 more years.

LOL "Past experience" huh? What type of drug did the girl give you? It's very potent, like very potent. 4 years relationship? Damn! Is this the new format?

See how Kpekus made this man to wait patiently for 4years, now he's weeping and gnashing his teeth because he's tired of waiting .... Never Underestimate the power of Kpekus

She is seeing some one else, or is she a virgin?

U are a wicked person,so u want to have sex with her then it would results in unwanted pregnancy then u abandoned her,why can't u think are u a dog that can't live without sex,,think.. because fornication is a sin,u sef know it,and u call yourself a Christian,you are a disgrace to christians aswear, it gona clock 4 years this year that hav been a celibate..just pity your life aswear....

DaddyRochie1642:
See how Kpekus made this man to wait patiently for 4years, now he's weeping and gnashing his teeth because he's tired of waiting .... Never Underestimate the power of Kpekus

It's really powerful bro . The guy still believes he's in a relationship when he's just an ATM and an emotional tampon. A non-virgin girl for that? Damn! The drug is really working.

I'm sure the girl doesn't even contribute anything to the relationship excluding the sex part. Sunk cost fallacy is at play here.

Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything
She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.
when I ask her what happen she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences
Am tired of the relationship sef
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo
What should I do

Hmmmmm it's obvious you wanna chop and go... And she knows it,

And all u have spent on her far exceed the few hours of sexual enjoyment if at all u eventually get ur way...

Whichever way she is the winner here...

DaddyRochie1642:
See how Kpekus made this man to wait patiently for 4years, now he's weeping and gnashing his teeth because he's tired of waiting .... Never Underestimate the power of Kpekus

No be juju be that

Adeesther56:
U are a wicked person,so u want to have sex with her then it would results in unwanted pregnancy then u abandoned her,why can't u think are u a dog that can't live without sex,,think.. because fornication is a sin,u sef know it,and u call yourself a Christian,you are a disgrace to christians aswear, it gona clock 4 years this year that hav been a celibate..just pity your life aswear....

If you are the one in that ur profile pics
Why won’t you be celibate

Okay

Our opinion @[/b] : [b]Sex is not love,
Sex, inherently, has nothing to do with love, but we like to think they’re the same because it makes the sex and the love more fulfilling.
But there will come a point where the facade will fade and you’ll be left with one of two statements: “ Do I want something more,” or “It was just a fvck?”

Love, inherently, has nothing to do with sex.
This should be obvious but it sadly isn’t.
Think about it.
You love your parents, your pet and (hopefully) yourself, but you cannot sleep with any of those things!
Again, think about this!

We Rise.

Powerfly:

You made sense!
Lots of sense... But the generation I come from would never acknowledge this...
Sadly....

Thanks for the heads up sis.
Seems the generation we live now has lost it,
We only pray and hope the next generation will be saner.

I can sense a boy of 21yrs dating a girl of 17 here...

Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

Do your worst

Nwamaikpe please come and advice this bros on how to use soap

Flee Fornication!!

If you are tired of Waiting go and Pay her bride price so you have all the days, weeks and years to bulala her as you like.

Sparogative konji has wrecked this brother.
Although I would not premarital sex, I would never forget what an elderly man once said to me.

He said... "my son, there are three things you need to do to have a long and fulfilled life". He went further to say:

1. Fear women
2. Fear who and what doesn't fear women
3. Never ever forget number 1 and 2

Ever since I listened to that baba, no woman has made me pained or heartbroken.

Marry her naa

temitope27:
Then rape her

Stop promoting Rape on social media, especially on Nairaland ...okay?
Will you ever tell anyone to rape your sister or aunty because she refused sex with a guy?
How old are you Topsy?
just because you have one palasa phone do not give you the right to be so slow.
Better think twice before your mouth/fingers put you in deep sh#t before God and man!

Advice from the elders.


Na for Nairaland dem MANNA go teach una MANNERS 1by1.

Collectii......

Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

Flee for your life Young man, nor allow one weak vessel use Kongi kill you. I was once in this sort of evil relationship. Mine was 2 years no sex. Dumped her ass for the next available girl who is serious and down for business. Today we are happily married with 3 kids. The idiot is still single and singing I broke her heart.

Marry her first, sex will come afterwards

So you really want to

Oboy you try you deserve award