NewStats: 3,262,065 , 8,175,998 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 05:09 PM 3m6l3s

There is a guy in an organization of which I work for, he holds a higher position and as such he is the bossy type who love to feel like an important person,,

My organization needed to purchase some new cars and he was the one in charge of the planning and purchase, after the cars were bought it was discovered that he requested for kickbacks from the vendor,

he was almost sacked but instead was recently demoted to my office on the same position, Due to some key responsibilities I have in the office I'm in charge of some activities,,,
Here is the problem, he isolates himself,, still behaves like he's a superior, acts bossy and doesn't want to associate with other colleagues or in discharging his duties.

How do I handle such a person?? How do I approach the situation accordingly,,, make I clear the guy put am for him place or I should just be complacent? Guys help out

Why is it bothering only you? If you are actually handling some key responsibilities, you won't be noticing him. You can't deny not to have gossiped about him.

Like I said I'm in charge of some key responsibilities in the office,

If she no disturb ur work ... look away nw ... abi how is doing ur duties related to her doing her own...

Damnnn niggar
Isoright
Check whether the guy sabi booze or kpoli
If yes....then invite am make una booze together small...from there begin align with am
If na weekend...make una dey one side....probably book hotel...arrange one or two slim beautiful runs babe make them bang the guy till day break....before you know it....the guy go dey reason well with you and una go dey do things together

3verblazing:
If she no disturb ur work ... look away nw ... abi how is the doing ur duties related to her doing her own...

Ogbeni make una dey read

A sinking man is the most dangerous man to mess with.
He won't mind dragging you down with himself. So be careful.
Assign duties to him.
Let him know that he'll need to cooperate with you to make things work.
Take your mind off revenge and intimidation and focus on getting results.
Try to empathize with him and help him navigate through his hard time. You never know what tomorrow holds.

That’s encountering a Micromanagement person. I guess.
They become overly involved in the work of co-employees/employees, they mess up independent decision-making, and are all over your face for frequent updates. Most times, micromanagement is as a result of insecurities

Sometimes, it’s an underlying personality trait which is common in Cholerics, this isn’t to make Cholerics uncomfortable, but it is what it is, other temperament has their issues too. And sometimes it stems from background.
Dealing with bossy people be frustrating, but if you have or develop the right mindset and attitude you can deal with them effectively.

Here’s how to deal with such individuals:
Don't take it personal.
Learn to Just ignore them by wisdom. And
Set healthy boundaries.

Tsii

Do your job steadfastly, if he continues to sulk or act bossy or never discharges his duty,write him up. He needs sack

Be good at your job, and let your work speak for you.

Hmmm

konfusedgee:
Like I said I'm in charge of some key responsibilities in the office,

Report him to the authority. It is that simple.

Speechless

Handle it like a man. Dialogue! No go dey hawk beef for office o

Just sideline the guy. He will look for you friendship

Just let him be. He has already seen enough. I believe he is still in self-denial stage. With time, he will come to with his new reality

OP relax, take am slow. Na just hangover

give him some time.

Is he the boss on that department or your the boss?

Your explanation isn't clear....if you are the head of thet department....no issue... put him in his place and he's below you.

Guy let him be if he ain't disturbing u...but if he ain't doing his duties ...talk to him or call on ur superiors and inform dem

This shouldnt give you the slightest headache na.....
Except you dont have other important things to do at the office, else you need not worry yourself over that boy.....

Sounds like you've been looking for a way to treat the guy's Bleep up before..... Tor, your time don come, use it as you like but that " breakfast is not for one person, na everybody go chop am"

You are feeling bossy...like you felt he is feeling bossy too...Oga face front and mind your business...Nobody holy padi...

Nothing

Blackbug:
Do your job steadfastly, if he continues to sulk or act bossy or never discharges his duty,write him up. He needs sack

You need serious beating

Report him to HR if he refuse to obey you

Did you know how demotion feels.......let him be jare.

Nkemtreasure:
Just sideline the guy. He will look for you friendship

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This....

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He's already sinking my friend. As much as you can never be the guy that'd have to place the last nail on his head. Let somebody else do that dirty job.

It's a very wicked world we live in. Unless he crosses you just try to stay on your lane

Any employee who steals in my company will get fired immediately!

Ignore him and his attitude what is important to you is his job functions.if he fails to do it after several discussion with him or someone close to him to caution his actions.
You can report him to manager in charge of your office.
Don't create unnecessary enemity or get disturbed with irrelevant things please, ��� focus on the job and your next promotion.