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In our world, it is a very normal thing for a man to want to get a lady for himself. I would better put it that it is a natural, inborn

A man getting rebuffed on a quest to woo a lady is not strange thing to us. Regularly, a guy’s advances is met with so much resistance and all his efforts are trampled under feet.

Though a very sorry and sad turn of events, it usually happens. No matter how it is analyzed, the blame usually go to the man. It is generally agreed that is it the man who is in position to endure that he gets the outcome so he desires.

Thus, it is more of a man’s duties to impress the lady enough to get her liking or probably loving him and wanting to have him in her life. Most times, it is the man that makes the move and he has to calculate his move carefully and tactfully so he doesn’t take the wrong steps.

So what can a man really do to have a girl longing to be with him, to spend her time and her life with him? Let us look at some interesting things and man can do to ensure that the lady becomes his own.

Though there are no assurances about some things, but practically, there are things that have been proven to work. There are common ways of wooing a lady successfully. Meanwhile, it is important that we all note that getting a lady is not solely at the point where we ask her out. It all begins from the first moment you begin to notice or talk to her. So, what are the things you can do to land a lady?

1. Be Nice And Sensitive

No one, even a man would want to talk to a rude and lousy perons, talk less of a lady. Ladies desire men that are cool to be with. They want to know that the man they are dealing with is reasonable, kind and rational. This will give them the ease to be able to share things with you. So, you need to appear, look and be nice and courteous to the lady you like. You also need to be responsive to her uniqueness as a lady. These will endear her to you.

2. Be A Good Listener

You want a lady to fall for you? Give her your attention. Let her know you have her time. Listen to the details of what She’s telling you. Avoid being distracted in any form. Ladies notice reactions and responses, if She feels you are not paying attention to her, she will feel ignored.

3. Be A Generous Giver

Do you know that even rich, independent ladies still want to be pampered by a man? They want you to still spend on her even though she has her own. They want to see how generous you are with your money. Ladies tend to equate love with gifts. So, if you are hoping to get her agreeing to be with you, you have to show her that you are willing to take care of her and are read.

4. Be Intentional With Genuine Interest

Ladies have a way of decoding what your intention and purpose are. Though some may want to act naive and ignorant, they usually know what a guy is coming for. So, no matter what your real aim is, which should be good anyway, you need to show the lady that you genuinely care about her and want to be with her. There are ladies who would settle for a fling anyway, but real ladies will require real men.

5. Be Bold, Confident And Assertive

You are actually killing your chances being all jittery and unstable with a lady. If you want her, no matter how shy you may be, you need to find the courage to approach her. Even though you are not able to spoil her with wonderful eulogy or sweet lines, just approaching her is a great step. Let her know that you know what you want and that you have a mission.

6. Let Her Know You Have Plans For The Future

Wise ladies do not only see how well you are to do at the moment. They assess you from your plans, from the way you talk, from your willingness to grow yourself and decide if they should go along with you or not. Also, if you can let her see her place in your life, the prospects you have and the potentials for advancement, these will be positive markers of how she respond to you.

7. Avoid Faking Reality And Acting

Men are egoistic creatures. Anything that will pump their ego and make them feel good about themselves, they will readily do them. This is a common reason why men fake their lives to a lady. The try to assume a personality far different from who they truly are just to attract a lady. A large chunk of fabricated stories are spilled out coupled with a lot of acting up. This strategy usually backfires a lot of the time. If at all you are able to get her attention with deceit, you cannot keep it for long. Sadly too, if she is wise enough, she will do her background check and you know what that will mean for you if you were cooking up stories.

8. Do Not Be Too Forward

It is not a smart move to want to overwhelm a lady all of a sudden. She might get swamped with thoughts and startled by the speed of things and balk. This way, even when our good intentions, we may spoil things for ourselves. Whether it is a relationship we want, a life partner or bed partner, it is better to go slow. Though it may happen that even after the man has put in a lot and done as much as he should, he still gets rejected.

In these cases, we leave it for what ever forces are responsible. However, this will happen on few occasions.

Generally, if a man does what he should, there is a rather high chance that he will be rewarded with that golden “yes” when he finally pops the question. So instead of doubts or fear of the unknown, move in and begin to toss that lady you have been eyeing all these time. Try out the tips given above and very probably, you will hit the jackpot.

source: https://flipmemes.com/2021/05/22/8-possible-ways-to-get-her-to-like-you/

Just have money. Why should a man kee himself, as if they don't need impressing too? Women are the chasers, and any man going after a Girl will only have himself used and discarded.
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On another note OP, which mod is bankrolling you here? Are you dating any? Because the way your threads hit FP, ehn...

Men like me don suffer walahi and guess who be da punishers? una know una self bcuz so long as mary k still dey hold and blend well for una face, and una skin still dey bloom, therefore una iskenchi no get limit

Na only mumu dey believe in love.love na fallacy

Food don done for Broke Men wey wan dey relationship

I guess these are what Ned Nwoko has been doing that made him marry over 3 Wives, which a young celebrity is even among.

Girls don't really know what they want, especially when you have money.

They will be like

All these points listed are are not available for Nigerian ladies .... If you don't have money, hide your face my brother..

See that number three be generous...like make we dey do father Christmas

If you wrote this article from Nigeria then you're wrong but if you're writing from the new found country UAR then we can't say for now about the ladies there

OK

Ned Nwoko doesn't have these qualities, gues what?? extreme beautiful ladies loves him.. just make money and forget this nonsense write-up. when u make money love go dey. Actresses, models even pastors's wife go dey rush u, don't mind d mumu op

Ok

,all this on top toto? well since na public forum i go take am say you wan get followers... guy just fine, come dey wear good clothes you fit visit gym from time to time,na you go run na.... women like to fvck fine boys well...so all this na hogwash..

There's no manual to get anyone to like u, be yourself who go like u go like u

Lol

Ok

When you Make money,you can marry a virgin, Miss Nigeria, Celebraty etc, money can buy you a enough happiness,
Just make money
Just make money
Just make money biko

All because of this hole !

All these epistle just to get into a girl's pants,

Men have really reduced themselves to nothing.

There are over 4 billion women in the world. If she no like you someone else will

OK ooo

Formula or no Formula, person wey go love you go love you die.

1- have money
2- get money
3- more money
4- have more money
5- give her money
6- give her money again
7- give her more money again
8- give here ego kudi owo ...

As a lady some of these work some of the time but who no go like you no go like you


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Rubbish. Just be nice to her, and also have money, she must like you.

is she financially okay?

3. Be A Generous Giver

Do you know that even rich, independent ladies still want to be pampered by a man? They want you to still spend on her even though she has her own. They want to see how generous you are with your money. Ladies tend to equate love with gifts. So, if you are hoping to get her agreeing to be with you, you have to show her that you are willing to take care of her and are read.

Just have money and be a generous giver (an afúnimawobẹ somebody).

Dazzol.

If you like, list 100 things to do, some Naija babes won't see your romantic side until you have money.

The moment you say "hi" to some of them, na billing.

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source: https://flipmemes.com/2021/05/22/8-possible-ways-to-get-her-to-like-you/

Guy, women are crazy. Infact, majority of "today's women" are stack raving mad all these tips don't work.

I'm a high value man, and I know it. Met a girl, not quite long ago, took her on dates, invited her to my office showed her what I do, the ease at which we communicated blew my mind. I did everything like a proper gentleman. When I finally asked her for a relationship. She said their normal "she'll think about it". I asked her for answer a few days later, she said no. Do you know she blocked me on all social media. I was in shock utter shock. Traced her to were I'd know she'd be after 2weeks(I'm an extremely busy person). I apologized to her for even asking her out in the first place and left.

She unblocked me that evening, now she's the one stalking me, and I now have to block her on all social media myself.

What's all the drama for, for crying out loud.

ednut1:
There are over 4 billion women in the world. If she no like you someone else will

Abi o

mtchew

Number 3 and 6, then number, make more money

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