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Bola146:
100% YES!!! She trained 2 PhD, Msc and 1 BEd by herself. She loving, caring, she forgives easily, she loves her privacy, she taught me giving is good no matter how rich or poor you are, she can greet from her house to only when she is tired. I hate her first but when I was growing up, I will continue to appreciate her whenever I all the lessons she taught us. She is just a good role model to me!

Wait! Are you a les?

mariahAngel:


Very true.



Many of them fell under that category.

Hehehe but why? Why many of them....

It's good to be closer to God o, but i huru ke style ndi MFM na chosen a ahu...o gwuru m ike..

mariahAngel:


Very true.



Many of them fell under that category.

Hehehe but why? Why many of them....

It's good to be closer to God o, but i huru ke style ndi MFM na chosen a ahu...o gwuru m ike...

Wisdom!

Munzy14:

Hehehe but why? Why many of them....

It's good to be closer to God o, but i huru ke style ndi MFM na chosen a ahu...o gwuru m ike..

Maybe they think it'll affect the romance...but not necessarily so

mariahAngel:


Maybe they think it'll affect the romance...but not necessarily so

Hmmmm...but it does...Ndi mma na mpa...how many times have u seen them hug affectionately..

Hold hands together and do under the mango tree talking to..lol


GROWING up, if we are watching a movie and it gets to romantic scenes, ihu mma m agbaruo..

For mpa m, ihe ga apu ya na onu wu" onye wetere film apari a...

Smh...na that situation the worry guys..

Ma dear all d one u dey talk about men nko?

For I am even looking for a lady like ma mum sef she's d best

sapphiere:
Another thread to bash women.

Munzy14:

Hmmmm...but it does...Ndi mma na mpa...how many times have u seen them hug affectionately..

Hold hands together and do under the mango tree talking to..lol

Ihunanya ha wu old school style.
Chefuo o...style ahu wu organic and lasts till death parts them.
Owuhu ihe a anyi huga these days... Genetically modified love

GROWING up, if we are watching a movie and it gets to romantic scenes, ihu mma m agbaruo..

For mpa m, ihe ga apu ya na onu wu" onye wetere film apari a...

Gbashi ha nkiti! Na scope!
They do more than that o!
If it were up to old school parents, we'd never know how babies are conceived.

For long, I thought mothers just eat and eat till their belly grows, then they'd go to the hospital and the nurses give them babies.
...but what never adds up was how the belly deflates.

Smh...na that situation the worry guys..

Romance can be taught by either partner, depending on who's more romantic.

mariahAngel:



Ihunanya ha wu old school style.
Chefuo o...style ahu wu organic and lasts till death parts them.
Owuhu ihe a anyi huga these days... Genetically modified love




Gbashi ha nkiti! Na scope!
They do more than that o!
If it were up to old school parents, we'd never know how babies are conceived.

For long, I thought mothers just eat and eat till their belly grows, then they'd go to the hospital and the nurses give them babies.
...but what never adds up was how the belly deflates.



Romance can be taught by either partner, depending on who's more romantic.

Hahahahaha..you don finish me...old school VS GMO love...

Hahaha..During chilhood, I told my mom to eatwell so she can poo another baby..
Ihuru ndi mma eeh...And she assured me she will..


True....Romance di important o...very very...

It is an integral part of the car called relationship.

Both partners need to be o...before ya di ka ofu onye o na border the other partner with too much romance...

I nogo even try am

Imagine giving out your shop for free to a woman because she said things are hard for her.

She did this just 1 year after loosing her husband and things became quite hard for her.

Preference of wife material is like food choice. One man's food is another man's poison, no matter how delicious or popular the food is.
So, no matter how good our moms are generally, her traits may be irrelevant to our marital partner choice.
BECAUSE MOST MEN GOES FOR BEAUTY / PACKAGING AND NOT CHARACTER

Virgin with nagging !
Capital No.

Your daddy married me as a virgin but that doesn't change her character. Sometimes you will think she is the husband.

Good side: she loves her husband, religious, Too generous and has many other good side.

l can not cope with nagging wife.
I pity my father most time. Association of l want to marry a virgin .

Bigdik70inch2:
I can't Ooo!!!
Marry fire kwa??

She get easily provoked and so hot tempered.......

She's very stubborn and hardly listen to OR follow our opinions

Just too religious.........infact she fought everyone close-by/neighbour/family/friends/youths/strangers who wouldnt readily absorb her preaching(BIGGEST TURN OFF).......

She's hyperactive too........hardly sit her ass down on a spot to rest.......if she's isn't doing this then definitely she's up doing that...... even the unnecessary things and wud lament if u failed to her........

Mind:Those r her weakness anyways

GOOD SIDE:

SHE SINGLE HANDEDLY SPONSORED OUR EDUCATION FROM PRE NURSERY TO BEEN A GRADUATE........

SUCH A YOUNG PRETTY HER GOT HERSELF MARRIED TO ONE IDIOT DURING HER PRIME...........INFACT SHE STRUGGLED SPONSORING HIS EDUCATION TO UNIVERSITY LEVEL EVEN WHEN HER FAMILY WERE VEHEMENTLY AGAINST..........

.........BUT THE IDIOT BECAME DOCTOR AND NEVER CAME BACK TO HER/US........JUX THE ONLY PERSON I WILL NEVER FORGIVE EVN ON MY DYING BED.........

SHE SPONSORED HER HALF BROTHERS AND SISTERS TOO.......SOME GRATEFUL WHILE SOME R INGRATES.......

Do you know what it means not to forgive someone even in your dying bed

emmyskies:

Do you know what it means not to forgive someone even in your dying bed

Very well......
Pls.......holding yo preaching to yourself

Bigdik70inch2:


Very well......
Pls.......holding yo preaching to yourself

I won't preach to you since you don't want. I just hope that you KNOW what you are doing

Munzy14:

Hahahahaha..you don finish me...old school VS GMO love...

Ehen na!
Gi lee ya in a different angle, ihunanya ha kajara akaja.
A love that stood the test of time, assured and gave security to their children.
Owuhu ihe anyi huga ugbu a...emetu ihe ntakiri, ha si ka ha divorce without considering how it'll affect the children.
If you ask people these days if they'd like to have the kind of relationship their parents had, funny enough, many would say never!

Apart from the abusive ones, parents back then knew how to resolve their issues.
They knew what was at stake.
It was like divorce was almost totally out of the question. If they had issues, they resolved. Period!
But nowadays, most people think marriage is all lovey dovey and a bed of roses. Emetu ihe ntakiri, "I can't take this" "I can't stand him" "I can't stand her"
They don't care about the children involved. How they feel.

Hahaha..During chilhood, I told my mom to eatwell so she can poo another baby..
Ihuru ndi mma eeh...And she assured me she will..

I wonder how she had the discussion with your dad
Maybe she was like "bia enyia, munzy si ya choro nwanne o...ngwa ka anyi bido oru"

True....Romance di important o...very very...

It is an integral part of the car called relationship.

Both partners need to be o...before ya di ka ofu onye o na border the other partner with too much romance...

Of course.
But the thing is what you might consider romantic might not be perceived so by your partner. It might not be deep enough for him/her.
So sometimes, if need be, one need to teach their partner how they want to be loved.
Yeah. When one takes the lead, the other follows, otherwise, the relationship becomes a bore.

ceede2:
simple question, you are not even a man, you here telling a story.

If this is how you behave, you need caution Asap.

I'm surprised!
Such person must gossip alot

Klass99:


If you see the way I smiled at this story ehn! E sweet my belle die, some mothers need to stop being meddlesome

As in eh! When he had his first child's dedication, the mum went to the church but from church, she only breezed in and out of the house and went to stay in the second son's house. The second son that married from an "opposite" tribe that she kicked against o.

When I got there and asked him about his mum, he just gave me the "you know nau" look. The wife doesn't take nonsense and his mum too. Meanwhile, the guy is a no stress, peace loving type.

I just feel for him because it has been like that for about 10yrs now.

mariahAngel:


Ehen na!
Gi lee ya in a different angle, ihunanya ha kajara akaja.
A love that stood the test of time, assured and gave security to their children.
Owuhu ihe anyi huga ugbu a...emetu ihe ntakiri, ha si ka ha divorce without considering how it'll affect the children.
If you ask people these days if they'd like to have the kind of relationship their parents had, funny enough, many would say never!

Apart from the abusive ones, parents back then knew how to resolve their issues.
They knew what was at stake.
It was like divorce was almost totally out of the question. If they had issues, they resolved. Period!
But nowadays, most people think marriage is all lovey dovey and a bed of roses. Emetu ihe ntakiri, "I can't take this" "I can't stand him" "I can't stand her"
They don't care about the children involved. How they feel.



I wonder how she had the discussion with your dad
Maybe she was like "bia enyia, munzy si ya choro nwanne o...ngwa ka anyi bido oru"




Of course.
But the thing is what you might consider romantic might not be perceived so by your partner. It might not be deep enough for him/her.
So sometimes, if need be, one need to teach their partner how they want to be loved.
Yeah. When one takes the lead, the other follows, otherwise, the relationship becomes a bore.

Hehehehehe...owu eziokwu.

You know, those days when our parents married, they really believed in for better for worse...But ugbu a , ndi feminist and woke sisters a choghi i ji nti anu for worse.. And they are made up of major percentage that drive opinion on Internet.

A lot of young guys and ladies who actually value relationship and family...Easily get their brain washed by these set of woke people..And it is fast becoming a normal...The more it becomes normal, the more break ups and divorce.

I ones saw some ladies doing divorce party or so...I wondered how we got here..It Will get to a time when both genders may no longer have a thing to do with each other o..Ma anyi were aka..


Even normal relationship cannever be all lovey-dovey ma ya fodukwa marriage....Ones in a while misunderstanding and quarrel go deh, but ability to remain calm and avoid saying regrettable things during the storm is priceless...It helps revolve issues fastest.

Hahahaha, hapu mma m, o ma cha ihe ndi ahu...Normally mpa m anaghi ezo onu o...Even oya kuziri anyi mmeko education...
Mma m wu onye ihere...Mana i ma ndi ihere kacha amara umu ihe ndi a... Ezigbote bido oru...

Ndi mma na mpa mgbe ahu di m ka ha nwere time ha ji ata onwe ha...chai boring sex life.....O wu hu ugbua enwere ike taa ebe o bula...


Yes thats true..mana ufodu partner na awa isi o...

Kriss216:

Glad you know we have few good girls here.

Where is Denique ?

99thEnemy:


Where is Denique ?

You know I should be asking you that..after hypnotizing her with onions.

Klass99:


Now, you had me lol . But does wifey relate with him well? I like women (both married & single) who don't take nonsense, because when you take it, once or twice there's a tendency for it to continue.

I know a married woman whose mother in law & sister in law, used to stress and harass her unnecessarily. So much so that, her mother in law pushed her head one day, the way you would use a finger to push a child's head for mischief or stubbornness. She said that was the day she had it and reacted in a manner they didn't expect, since then her in-laws dey arrange themselves around her. They don't try any of the shit they used to dish out prior to that head pushing incident.

Another lady, jacked her sister in law by the neck and pinned her to the wall, squeezing the life out of her it took the intervention of people present for her to let go. Her sister in law, was in the habit of disrespecting her and hubby, because she was the hubby's elder sister and this wife was a younger woman. She would do things that were not right like barge into their bedroom without knocking, talking over wifey and inserting herself into private conversations between man & wife, amongst other things.

I can't recall the incident that broke the carmel's back that day, but sister in law has since stopped all the nonsense she used to do. In my book of life, standing up for yourself and letting people know their mumu don do you, makes a difference in how they treat you .

They relate well. In fact for her last birthday, he planned a surprise party for her.

True, some inlaws need to be reminded that the wife is a human being that deserves respect. And sometimes, the wife needs to take the bull by the horn and defend herself.

For me, I am an unassuming person. I would just keep quiet but you don't know what's on my mind. But sometimes my facial expression gives me away . So they don't know how to act most times...lol. I drink water and mind my business. But they know I am not one to bully.

Everyone should give themselves respect and have peace.

Hmmm

Munzy14:

Hehehehehe...owu eziokwu.

You know, those days when our parents married, they really believed in for better for worse...But ugbu a , ndi feminist and woke sisters a choghi i ji nti anu for worse.. And they are made up of major percentage that drive opinion on Internet.

A lot of young guys and ladies who actually value relationship and family...Easily get their brain washed by these set of woke people..And it is fast becoming a normal...The more it becomes normal, the more break ups and divorce.

Ndi bekee ga si you hit the nail on the head
I was telling my sister almost the same thing the other day.

I ones saw some ladies doing divorce party or so...I wondered how we got here..It Will get to a time when both genders may no longer have a thing to do with each other o..Ma anyi were aka..

A ga kpo ya celebration of failure k'owu liberation?
Inukwa divorce party

Even normal relationship cannever be all lovey-dovey ma ya fodukwa marriage....Ones in a while misunderstanding and quarrel go deh, but ability to remain calm and avoid saying regrettable things during the storm is priceless...It helps revolve issues fastest.

Exactly!
There are lines that should never be crossed.

Hahahaha, hapu mma m, o ma cha ihe ndi ahu...Normally mpa m anaghi ezo onu o...Even oya kuziri anyi mmeko education...
Mma m wu onye ihere...Mana i ma ndi ihere kacha amara umu ihe ndi a... Ezigbote bido oru...

Mpa gi wu eshigbote guyman o

Ndi mma na mpa mgbe ahu di m ka ha nwere time ha ji ata onwe ha...chai boring sex life.....O wu hu ugbua enwere ike taa ebe o bula...


Yes thats true..mana ufodu partner na awa isi o...

They were probably very principled about life na
Ihe obula nwere oge ya mgbe ahu...unlike this spontaneous generation na taa nga obula o jidere ha! Chai!

Some people are just not romantically compatible.

Kriss216:

You know I should be asking you that..after hypnotizing her with onions.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

99thenemy, so you go about hypnotizing people with your Benue white onions okwaya?

mariahAngel:


Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

99thenemy, so you go about hypnotizing people with your Benue white onions okwaya?

You dey mind that guy

Chim ga ekpe ya ikpe.






Wait.. Seems he tried to sweet talk you with same white onions.

Kriss216:

You dey mind that guy

Chim ga ekpe ya ikpe.






Wait.. Seems he tried to sweet talk you with same white onions.

I swear, I like only red onions!

mariahAngel:


I swear, I like only red onions!

Better. Red is life.

mariahAngel:


Ndi bekee ga si you hit the nail on the head
I was telling my sister almost the same thing the other day.



A ga kpo ya celebration of failure k'owu liberation?
Inukwa divorce party




Exactly!
There are lines that should never be crossed.



Mpa gi wu eshigbote guyman o




They were probably very principled about life na
Ihe obula nwere oge ya mgbe ahu...unlike this spontaneous generation na taa nga obula o jidere ha! Chai!

Some people are just not romantically compatible.

For you I manu whats up....Gwa wa kwa nwanne gi nwaanyi o...deception ndi woke kariri...most times I see it as people who felt they lost to life, therefore everyone must get a fair share of their mistakes in life and forced opinion.

Ebere m na emere umu obere nwaanyi ndi woke a na-ara fu.

For ndi redpill, As a man I don't take them seriously...Ihe ha nidiri wu ofu nwa oma, i ji de ha na oru...


Si gi a huru m ihe nke ahu, ike a gwu m...divorce party...


Mpa wu guy man na...Guy man mutara guy men...

Mba o, i taa diri di na nwunye enweghi oge o...Ebe o bula o guru ha, ha tawa o...

Ihe time ahu na egbu di vibe.

Yes, compatibility is important o...If not oguh na mgba...That's y I don't believe in these see today, marry nextweek....I don't understand how they do it...

I feel...partners should know themselves very well for enough time before next level...

Munzy14:

For you I manu whats up....Gwa wa kwa nwanne gi nwaanyi o...deception ndi woke kariri... most times I see it as people who felt they lost to life, therefore everyone must get a fair share of their mistakes in life and forced opinion.

I think so too.
Most times, when I read some comments on this platform, I just wonder...most views here come from a place of resentment.

Ebere m na emere umu obere nwaanyi ndi woke a na-ara fu.

For ndi redpill, As a man I don't take them seriously...Ihe ha nidiri wu ofu nwa oma, i ji de ha na oru...


Si gi a huru m ihe nke ahu, ike a gwu m...divorce party...

Gini ka Redpill miniri?
I've never taken the term seriously...but I've seen it being used almost all the time and it makes no sense to me.

At some point, I decided not to understand everything I read...to avoid mes my mind
Especially on nairaland

Mpa wu guy man na...Guy man mutara guy men...

Was he strict or related freely with you guys growing up?

Mba o, i taa diri di na nwunye enweghi oge o...Ebe o bula o guru ha, ha tawa o...

Ihe time ahu na egbu di vibe.

Errrrrrmmmmmmm....maybe at the early part of the marriage/relationship
They can't get enough of each other at that stage, mana later, with the arrival of children, things will change.

Yes, compatibility is important o...If not oguh na mgba...That's y I don't believe in these see today, marry nextweek....I don't understand how they do it...

I feel...partners should know themselves very well for enough time before next level...

As in...

Of course.