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This question is for the honest and sincere minded people.
Can you marry a woman like your mother?

Let me start with myself.
"My mother is really a nice and caring woman, (mostly to us her children) but to her husband (my dad) the relationship there is really not cool. To some extent, I can't because she dose allot of things that really annoys me as her child not to talk of her husband".

So what about you?

Most people will tell you yes, but ask their father, he’ll say No.

The relationship between a mother and her children is different from the relationship between a mother and her husband.

For me NO, my mom is a great woman, but there some traits I want in my woman which she don't have.

Solsix:
For me NO, my mom is a great woman, but there some traits I want in my woman which she don't have.

God bless u bro

medropoly:
This question is for the honest and sincere minded people.
Can you marry a woman like your mother?

Let me start with myself.
"My mother is really a nice and caring woman, (mostly to us her children) but to her husband (my dad) the relationship there is really not cool. To some extent, I can't because she dose allot of things that really annoys me as her child not to talk of her husband".

So what about you?

NO

No cos her character does not compliment mine.

100% YES!!! She trained 2 PhD, Msc and 1 BEd by herself. She loving, caring, she forgives easily, she loves her privacy, she taught me giving is good no matter how rich or poor you are, she can greet from her house to only when she is tired. I hate her first but when I was growing up, I will continue to appreciate her whenever I all the lessons she taught us. She is just a good role model to me!

I can't ohhhhhh, bcs my mother is too kind for my liking. A woman that can give a stranger her last kobo to feed.
I can't bcs my mum is too religious.

brownemmanuel43:
I can't ohhhhhh, bcs my mother is too kind for my liking. A woman that can give a stranger her last kobo to feed.
I can't bcs my mum is too religious.

same here,if a woman no fit think herself and take decisions until their gods of men approve of it then I can't date but could Bleep em though.

Yes.

Never... She was a lazy arse

Oh yes ohh!

Yes,my greatest prayer is to marry a man like my mom.

Nah , too expensive to maintain, one might surprise her with a gift and turns it down, probably it was cheap(in her own standard) or wasn’t classy enough, I canor come and kill myself.


Other aspects yeah

Bola146:
100% YES!!! She trained 2 PhD, Msc and 1 BEd by herself. She loving, caring, she forgives easily, she loves her privacy, she taught me giving is good no matter how rich or poor you are, she can greet from her house to only when she is tired. I hate her first but when I was growing up, I will continue to appreciate her whenever I all the lessons she taught us. She is just a good role model to me!

What of her relationship with your father. That is supposed to be the basis for your answer. Because, her relationship with you, her child is different from her relationship with her man.

jeff1607:
Nah , too expensive to maintain, one might surprise her with a gift and turns it down, probably it was cheap(in her own standard) or wasn’t classy enough, I canor come and kill myself.


Other aspects yeah

For real?

mariahAngel:


For real?

I am shocked at the comments here o. I thought all NL guy's mothers were the perfect role model wife material.

mariahAngel:


For real?

Yeah


But she can give for Africa, if anyone has any problem be it for hunger ,monetary or kind of assistance, stranger or not she is ready to assist as if it’s her own problem.

ImaIma1:


I am shocked at the comments here o. I thought all NL guy's mothers were the perfect role model wife material.

No woman or mother out there is perfect,the only good thing is letting the good things or character overshadow the negative side.

jeff1607:



Yeah

Well, some men like them like that. Very much.

ImaIma1:


I am shocked at the comments here o. I thought all NL guy's mothers were the perfect role model wife material.

So I've read too.

mariahAngel:


Well, some men like them like that. Very much.

But if any hookup or small fall in finance funding such lifestyle to meet up with the jones is gonna tell later on

I can't Ooo!!!
Marry fire kwa??

She get easily provoked and so hot tempered.......

She's very stubborn and hardly listen to OR follow our opinions

Just too religious.........infact she fought everyone close-by/neighbour/family/friends/youths/strangers who wouldnt readily absorb her preaching(BIGGEST TURN OFF).......

She's hyperactive too........hardly sit her ass down on a spot to rest.......if she's isn't doing this then definitely she's up doing that...... even the unnecessary things and wud lament if u failed to her........

Mind:Those r her weakness anyways

GOOD SIDE:

SHE SINGLE HANDEDLY SPONSORED OUR EDUCATION FROM PRE NURSERY TO BEEN A GRADUATE........

SUCH A YOUNG PRETTY HER GOT HERSELF MARRIED TO ONE IDIOT DURING HER PRIME...........INFACT SHE STRUGGLED SPONSORING HIS EDUCATION TO UNIVERSITY LEVEL EVEN WHEN HER FAMILY WERE VEHEMENTLY AGAINST..........

.........BUT THE IDIOT BECAME DOCTOR AND NEVER CAME BACK TO HER/US........JUX THE ONLY PERSON I WILL NEVER FORGIVE EVN ON MY DYING BED.........

SHE SPONSORED HER HALF BROTHERS AND SISTERS TOO.......SOME GRATEFUL WHILE SOME R INGRATES.......

jeff1607:


No woman or mother out there is perfect,the only good thing is letting the good things or character overshadow the negative side.

If the knowledge of their imperfection is known, why do the sons take everything they say hook line and sinker especially as regards their choices of life partners, especially when it is apparent that are not perfect and are not beyond making mistakes.

ImaIma1:


If the knowledge of their imperfection is known, why do the sons take everything they say hook line and sinker especially as regards their choices of life partners, especially when it is apparent that are not perfect and are not beyond making mistakes.

That is them , I wasn’t raised that way,our differences makes each human unique.

If everyone had the same personality what will make chidinma different from yetunde aside race ?

ImaIma1:


What of her relationship with your father. That is supposed to be the basis for your answer. Because, her relationship with you, her child is different from her relationship with her man.

Ask Google or map of Nigeria or any of your parents to tell me that

Bola146:


Ask Google or map of Nigeria or any of your parents to tell me that

You can ask them yourself.

But it's ok, you only highlighted the features of your mum that appeals to you as a child. You don't have to say the aspects you are unaware of or don't want to discuss.

ImaIma1:


You can ask them yourself.

But it's ok, you only highlighted the features of your mum that appeals to you as a child. You don't have to say the aspects you are unaware of or don't want to discuss.

Please pardon Bola146.... she's usually not like that.
Some mean guys came so hard on her the other day because of her comment without knowing her story.

@Bola, Ima means well o... she's one of the very few good ones on this damn platform.

mariahAngel:


Please pardon Bola146.... she's usually not like that.
Some mean guys came so hard on her the other day because of her comment without knowing her story.

@Bola, Ima means well o... she's one of the very few good ones on this damn platform.

@ mariahAngel, God bless you real good , ima or whatever he/her name should use her/his senses well before commenting, you can't just be writing rubbish

ImaIma1:


You can ask them yourself.

But it's ok, you only highlighted the features of your mum that appeals to you as a child. You don't have to say the aspects you are unaware of or don't want to discuss.

Small kid, don't tell me what you don't know please I'm not a small child, you be witch oooo maybe you ed them together and still monitoring them Discuss your own parents, let people learn from it abi!!!!!

Bola146:


Small kid, don't tell me what you don't know please I'm not a small child, you be witch oooo maybe you ed them together and still monitoring them Discuss your own parents, let people learn from it abi!!!!!

You can't help sounding like a child and you are calling me one

My parents were not the discussion here. You were the one who listed sterling qualities about your mum. However, none of the qualities matched the topic about being a wife. So read to understand, rather than to attack.

Bola146:


@ mariahAngel, God bless you real good , ima or whatever he/her name should use her/his senses well before commenting, you can't just be writing rubbish

Apparently, you are still a child, because you don't even know how to communicate without exposing your immaturity. If you had any sense that is of any worth, would you type this rubbish you just did? NO.

MariahAngel please don't mention me with this disrespectful girl again abeg. I don't have time for people who lack home training.