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we decided to split my salary into two every month while she get 40k each month. all of a sudden yesterday she said this month's salary I'll have to give her 70k out of the salary n after I refused bluntly she stopped replying my messages, she won't even pick my calls since morning. Nairalanders I really need ur advice cuz this is choking me already

She needs spiritual attention ooo.

Kandeed:
we decided to split my salary into two every month while she get 25k every month. all of a sudden yesterday she said this month's salary I'll have to give her 45k after I refused bluntly she stopped replying my messages, she won't even pick my calls since morning. Nairalanders I really need ur advice cuz this is choking me already

Who's she to you? Is she your wife?

Kandeed:
we decided to split my salary into two every month while she get 40k every month. all of a sudden yesterday she said this month's salary I'll have to give her 70k after I refused bluntly she stopped replying my messages, she won't even pick my calls since morning. Nairalanders I really need ur advice cuz this is choking me already

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You need advise? Guys should we tell him...?

Lessonteacher:
Who's she to you? Is she your wife?

No sir, we met just bout 4months ago

FirstCounsel:
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You need advise? Guys should we tell him...?

Tell me bro, I can't imagine removing 70k outta 80 for her. like how does she expect I live on just 10k monthly besides dip don blood everywhere

Lol

Kandeed:
we decided to split my salary into two every month while she get 40k each month. all of a sudden yesterday she said this month's salary I'll have to give her 70k out of the salary n after I refused bluntly she stopped replying my messages, she won't even pick my calls since morning. Nairalanders I really need ur advice cuz this is choking me already

op must be a philanthropist.. To be giving half of ur salary to a woman who is no even ur wife or ur mother.... If this story is true then she needs to hurry up to go get another battery for the remote she's using for u.. Cos the battery inside don die.. If she no change am u wont cooperate

Lessonteacher:

Who's she to you? Is she your wife?

And did she put juju for mouth?

Kandeed:


No sir, we met just bout 4months ago

Seriously?

Your salary may be 80k a month, but you must now be giving her 180k a month from now on. You hear?

And send me 20k a month for advising you!

Bro u no try at all....

We suppose check some of ur upstair faculties.

40k from 80k

Wait...


U no dey transport?
Feeding and bills no dey?
No personal savings incase??

Just 4months ago?


Guy I dey vex

U no need advise at all...


Pls make it 75k for her....

[quote author=Kandeed post=101861395]

No sir, we met just bout 4months ago[/quotoe]

You should be giving her all your salary
Mumu *10

haywayboi:
Bro u no try at all....

We suppose check some of ur upstair faculties.

40k from 80k

Wait...


U no dey transport?
Feeding and bills no dey?
No personal savings incase??

Just 4months ago?


Guy I dey vex

U no need advise at all...


Pls make it 75k for her....

Actually she doesn't have a responsible Dad so I'm helping her with her fees and up keep

My candid advise is for you to visit the Emergency Department / Ward of a very functional Psychiatric Hospital for an intense mental health evaluation. You are indeed a sorry mental case. Women should pay for sex not men idi0t.

budaatum:


Seriously?

Your salary may be 80k a month, but you must now be giving her 180k a month from now on. You hear?

And send me 20k a month for advising you!

That's serious.... what's the way out for me

These are the type people that voted for Buhari.



No sense.

Lessonteacher:

Who's she to you? Is she your wife?

It doesn't matter who she is to him, her request is insane.


Even God doesn't take more than 10%

Kandeed:
we decided to split my salary into two every month while she get 40k each month. all of a sudden yesterday she said this month's salary I'll have to give her 70k out of the salary n after I refused bluntly she stopped replying my messages, she won't even pick my calls since morning. Nairalanders I really need ur advice cuz this is choking me already

Help? Kindly let her be so you have your peace.. is it so difficult?

Someone will just wake up and write nonsense on NL just to annoy some of us...

Don't mind those haters above you're doing well bro,


They don't know what they call true love

You fit hand over your papa will to her this show how you love her, yunno girls must be treated specially.......

Kandeed:
we decided to split my salary into two every month while she get 40k each month. all of a sudden yesterday she said this month's salary I'll have to give her 70k out of the salary n after I refused bluntly she stopped replying my messages, she won't even pick my calls since morning. Nairalanders I really need ur advice cuz this is choking me already

Na by force to get am as girlfriend? If you love your life ,you better flee from that relationship before she start demanding for your life.

You and that your girlfriend are mad

For you to even be giving her 40k out of the 80k you were earning in the first place clearly shows that you have no future, you have no goals, your dream in life is that moist hole underneath a lady's skirt and you won't mind selling yourself into slavery in order to access it.

If you had opened another and kept transferring 40k from your salary into it for 12 months, at the end of the year, you'll be 480k richer, but you preferred to invest it on an ungrateful liability who doesn't even care what you go through to make that money. And rather than being sober on your waste you're even considering increasing it to over 90% of your earnings, you deserve some beating.

Kandeed:
we decided to split my salary into two every month while she get 40k each month. all of a sudden yesterday she said this month's salary I'll have to give her 70k out of the salary n after I refused bluntly she stopped replying my messages, she won't even pick my calls since morning. Nairalanders I really need ur advice cuz this is choking me already

Go to her house, kneel down to beg her, make her understand that u really need this month's money (that is ur own share of 40k) for something very important, promise her that by next month u will start giving her 70k, while u keep 10k, I am very sure u make more than 80k (from other office runs) in a month. U are such a caring guy, u will make a good husband, this is the true definition of true love.

Kandeed:
we decided to split my salary into two every month while she get 40k each month. all of a sudden yesterday she said this month's salary I'll have to give her 70k out of the salary n after I refused bluntly she stopped replying my messages, she won't even pick my calls since morning. Nairalanders I really need ur advice cuz this is choking me already

My candid advise is for you to visit the Emergency Department / Ward of a very functional Psychiatric Hospital for an intense mental health evaluation. You are indeed a sorry mental case. Women should pay for sex not men idi0t.

Nazgul:
For you to even be giving her 40k out of the 80k you were earning in the first place clearly shows that you have no future, you have no goals, your dream in life is that moist hole underneath a lady's skirt and you won't mind selling yourself into slavery in order to access it.

If you had opened another and kept transferring 40k from your salary into it for 12 months, at the end of the year, you'll be 480k richer, but you preferred to invest it on an ungrateful liability who doesn't even care what you go through to make that money. And rather than being sober on your waste you're even considering increasing it to over 90% of your earnings, you deserve some beating.

Eishh that was really to harsh but I'll consider the opening of another . I just felt she been spelling me all these while

Juliusmalema2:

Go to her house, kneel down to beg her, make her understand that u really need this month's money (that is ur own share of 40k) for something very important, promise her that by next month u will start giving her 70k, while u keep 10k. U are such a caring guy, u will make a good husband.

I don't think I can kneel only weak men kneel for ladies

Maga don pay!

Cadamlk:
Na by force to get am as girlfriend? If you love your life ,you better flee from that relationship before she start demanding for your life.

Thanks I'm also thinking of that to.... if she doesn't pick till 12am tomorrow I'll just forget her for good

Kandeed:


I don't think I can kneel only weak men kneel for ladies

That means u don't love her, if truly u love her, u should be able to do anything for her just to make her happy.

@Op... as per what? Do you run a Non-governmental Org? You better sit-up & think straight

Kandeed:
we decided to split my salary into two every month while she get 40k each month. all of a sudden yesterday she said this month's salary I'll have to give her 70k out of the salary n after I refused bluntly she stopped replying my messages, she won't even pick my calls since morning. Nairalanders I really need ur advice cuz this is choking me already

Are you normal (in Mr Macaronis voice)


Is she your wife

Even if shes s your wife i mean NO SENSIBLE WIFE will say such rubbish


Dont tell me its your girlfriend


She must be SICK in the HEAD

For you to come here and even ask us this question

You yourself must be *SICKER*

Kandeed:
we decided to split my salary into two every month while she get 40k each month. all of a sudden yesterday she said this month's salary I'll have to give her 70k out of the salary n after I refused bluntly she stopped replying my messages, she won't even pick my calls since morning. Nairalanders I really need ur advice cuz this is choking me already

buh.. arent u d owner of ya hard earned money? is she nt working? since ya d owner of ya money.. decide yaself... hun